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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much "

Is it your baby? She doesn't want you to babysit does she?

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much

Is it your baby? She doesn't want you to babysit does she?"

No not mine and no she will be alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much "

I know you asked the women on this site but I thought I would offer mine if you don't mind...

If she letting you sleep over can I assume that the father of the baby isn't living with her?

Maybe because she knows you well and realises that you are a decent guy she justs want some company and help with a new baby. Just play it cool, don't expect anything and above all be a gentleman. That will go along way if you want her back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much

Is it your baby? She doesn't want you to babysit does she?

No not mine and no she will be alone "

Maybe she wants a shag and feels you'll be a sure thing

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

She split with the father a while back

I won't try it on but I told her I still like her

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much

Is it your baby? She doesn't want you to babysit does she?

No not mine and no she will be alone

Maybe she wants a shag and feels you'll be a sure thing "

She knows I would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much

Is it your baby? She doesn't want you to babysit does she?

No not mine and no she will be alone

Maybe she wants a shag and feels you'll be a sure thing

She knows I would lol"

There's your answer then

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why are you going there in the first place?

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Why are you going there in the first place?"

Coz she asked me to

I did ask her last week she never replied then just asked me to earlier

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why are you going there in the first place?

Coz she asked me to

I did ask her last week she never replied then just asked me to earlier"

Do you meet up regularly?

You really need to talk to her, none of us can know her motives. Just keep a sensible head on you.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much

I know you asked the women on this site but I thought I would offer mine if you don't mind...

If she letting you sleep over can I assume that the father of the baby isn't living with her?

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Go and enjoy evening and see what develops! If it's sex u both want then why not? You both adults! And looking at ya size cock you can't blame her!!

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By *eedsbig9in OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Go and enjoy evening and see what develops! If it's sex u both want then why not? You both adults! And looking at ya size cock you can't blame her!!"

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Go and enjoy evening and see what develops! If it's sex u both want then why not? You both adults! And looking at ya size cock you can't blame her!!

:Yup lol

I'd call you over for a fuck if i was your ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's realising how hard it is on her own with a baby and revisiting her past to see if anyone 'will do'. She's using you mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's just looking for a substitute dad, run away quickly

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Your gonna get your heart broken OP ....

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

it does sound like she is after another father figure for her baby or as your letting her know how you feel she may think your gonna be easy also. But if it is only sex then dont let your feelings think its anymore, as she is an ex and not just another meet. hope that makes sense

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Look at why you split up. The chances are that things have not changed since then. One of ypu will get hurt potentially. 10 weeks after birth of a baby she is probably feeling vulnerable. ..etc... both beware. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but this has Jeremy Kyle written all over it!

She had someone else's baby 10 weeks ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a simp and get monkey branched back. She is not with anyone, the reality of taking care of a baby is hitting home and she knows it will be trying on her own.

You represent security in this time. If she comes onto which she probably will given the situation, try to get you hooked and then through that you will be more willing to care for her and her new burden.

It's not for kid or is she your problem anymore. If you do go, just use her for sex and leave afterwards.

I have had friends that have fallen for this same scenario and now they are attached to a mother who bore a child that is not theirs and now feel as they need to be the towering pillar in their lives and they are unhappy.

Just use her for sex and nothing more.

Don't get attached and never meet the kid. The child deserves it's father and mother. You're just the guy that comes to fuck the mother.

To get over her, see woman of better quality above your ex and have more of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a baby is 10 weeks old it's the most fucked up your head will be.....it's past the visitor stage and the hard part when you don't get any sleep.....it's when reality kicks in and you start having to get on with your life.....I think she's just wanting a bit of company and a bit of familiarity and she knows you well enuf to confide in you....be an ear and a shoulder to cry on if need be but I would keep your feelings to yourself unless that's what you really want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still like her and she knows I do

I don't know what she wants but she is letting me sleep over tomorrow night

She has just had a baby ( 10 week ago)

Do you women think she is interested

She really is not saying much "

Maybe she just wants some company

I'm guess the dads not about if shes inviting you to sleep over?

She's just had a baby and alone, don't read to much into it, maybe her emotion are high at the moment

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Baby Is 10 week old you say

She wants you to come over to do the night feeds while she sleeps

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Well if you play make sure it's safe as you are extra fertile after having a baby!! Took me 3 years to conceive my son, then 1fuck to conceive again.....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Well if you play make sure it's safe as you are extra fertile after having a baby!! Took me 3 years to conceive my son, then 1fuck to conceive again.....

Yes extremely fertile for anywhere up to first 12 weeks so unless she's already on contraceptive you won't be able to bareback without considerably risk of pregnancy OP and from your previous threads you only do bareback. Not telling you how to play of course just to be mindful

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I've heard new mothers can be extremely horny. Don't know if its true or not as I've never had a baby.

Sounds like she's only after 1 thing and if that suits you then go for it. There is a chance you'll get your feelings hurt tho so bare that in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard new mothers can be extremely horny. Don't know if its true or not as I've never had a baby.

Sounds like she's only after 1 thing and if that suits you then go for it. There is a chance you'll get your feelings hurt tho so bare that in mind."

Lol 10 week old baby who will not let you sleep or rest or even have a shower in peace ...sex is usually the last thing on your mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go and enjoy evening and see what develops! If it's sex u both want then why not? You both adults! And looking at ya size cock you can't blame her!!

:Yup lol

I'd call you over for a fuck if i was your ex "

I agree - blimey, in a shot

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"Look at why you split up. The chances are that things have not changed since then. One of ypu will get hurt potentially. 10 weeks after birth of a baby she is probably feeling vulnerable. ..etc... both beware. X"

This is sensible. Hormones raging and she's possibly needing a hug from someone she can trust/knows well.

Just be there, but try to keep hold of your heart

and good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent advice on this thread. Will you let us know how it goes OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's realising how hard it is on her own with a baby and revisiting her past to see if anyone 'will do'. She's using you mate. "

I agree sorry Hun, sometimes you need to just cut all ties xx

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Go and enjoy evening and see what develops! If it's sex u both want then why not? You both adults! And looking at ya size cock you can't blame her!!

:Yup lol

I'd call you over for a fuck if i was your ex

I agree - blimey, in a shot

Having said what I said earlier, I do agree with the thoughtful comments - she MAY just want company/sex from someone familiar (my line of thinking) but may also be looking to "rope" a replacement father/spouse (definitely NOT my line of thinking). Of course I don't have kids to know how vulnerable or desperate she may be feeling as a single mother so full disclaimer!

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

If she's just had a baby (10 weeks) then it'll take that big cock of yours to fill the gap

on a serious note remember why you broke up in the first place!!

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Let us all know what happened please OP

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

She isnt interested in whats in your trousers.....

She is interested in what is in your wallet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if you play make sure it's safe as you are extra fertile after having a baby!! Took me 3 years to conceive my son, then 1fuck to conceive again.....

I was just going to say this! Make sure you take precautions if you do sleep with her.

Same thing happened to a woman I worked with, plus the maternity nurses when I had my youngest went around the maternity ward making sure that us ladies were OK for precaution methods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really enough information to make a conclusion I'm afraid to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont do it dude it will fuck your head up big style

Been there

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