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Passing the 40 age bracket

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one door closes, another opens.

Glass half full n all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wait til your pushing 60, so many cut off's at 55!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As one door closes, another opens.

Glass half full n all that. "

This is true I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People change their age limits i'm now chattibg to a sexy lady who did just that not so long ago who i blocked because of her cut off at 40. It's not the end of the world besides life begins at 50 these days apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started on here in my mid 40's don't think I would have lasted as long if I was in my 30's, way too much attention & drama from what I can tell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I started on here in my mid 40's don't think I would have lasted as long if I was in my 30's, way too much attention & drama from what I can tell."

Very true nice profile and pics too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People change their age limits i'm now chattibg to a sexy lady who did just that not so long ago who i blocked because of her cut off at 40. It's not the end of the world besides life begins at 50 these days apparently "

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

FFS be brave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so bad the 40s are pretty good fun!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love being in my 40's

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You've still got lovely legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you "

Well if it's any consolation op - I think you're cute and I've just Fabbed your face pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in your 40's on here seems to be a good thing tbh

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I started on here in my mid 40's don't think I would have lasted as long if I was in my 30's, way too much attention & drama from what I can tell."

I didn't get much drama and attention when I joined in my thirties. Still no drama but the attention has reduced to pretty much zero now I'm in my forties. Oh well, at least I had a nice time in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my birthday tomorrow but I ain't turnin' 40!

Giggity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started on here in my mid 40's don't think I would have lasted as long if I was in my 30's, way too much attention & drama from what I can tell.

I didn't get much drama and attention when I joined in my thirties. Still no drama but the attention has reduced to pretty much zero now I'm in my forties. Oh well, at least I had a nice time in the process."

You've got my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm suffering from being cut off at 50 . ??.But a few let their barriers down now and then . I read the forums when I don't have any messages to read lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you

Well if it's any consolation op - I think you're cute and I've just Fabbed your face pic! "

Why thank you I've returned the compliment great pics and profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's my birthday tomorrow but I ain't turnin' 40!

Giggity"

Happy birthday for tomorrow you young whippersnapper you!

40's are great OP...think the last time I had this much fun I was 27...(which is actually my real age ....i just pretend I'm 43!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you "

just look at it this way OP...you are still under my lower age limit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started on here in my mid 40's don't think I would have lasted as long if I was in my 30's, way too much attention & drama from what I can tell.

I didn't get much drama and attention when I joined in my thirties. Still no drama but the attention has reduced to pretty much zero now I'm in my forties. Oh well, at least I had a nice time in the process."

Really? I think you're stunning I would have assumed you'd be overrun with attention!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

there are cut off all through the age brackets you only notice them now because you are outside of one of them. There are loads set at 45, just as many at 50 etc is the way of fab.

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Well I turned 40 2 yrs ago,and I did the life begins type of thing during my birthday week and spent 3 days in a row,first time ever walked into a swingers club, I had to kick my butt literally to go in as being a single female on own and was filled with nerves hehe.

I'm 42 on the 18th and well I hope I'm still wanted hehe

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Amazing but I am swamped with attention in my 50s, can't believe my luck on here lol. Leigia is stunning,you must get lots of messages too

.O.p think just go for it whatever age you are you will be someone's cuppa tea! Best thing about fabs really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only sauntered across the crazy paving of Fab Land in my forties and it's frankly awesome. This is the very best mid life crisis ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you

Well if it's any consolation op - I think you're cute and I've just Fabbed your face pic!

Why thank you I've returned the compliment great pics and profile x"

Aw - thanks lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started on here in my mid 40's don't think I would have lasted as long if I was in my 30's, way too much attention & drama from what I can tell.

I didn't get much drama and attention when I joined in my thirties. Still no drama but the attention has reduced to pretty much zero now I'm in my forties. Oh well, at least I had a nice time in the process."

I'm just musing, most of the comings & goings of late have been mainly women in their 30's, all seems to be a drama, whether it's of their making or (more often ) not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 in a few days. I'll be eligible for that huge section of gorgeous ladies who prefer 45-99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you "

I'm 43 and having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"45 in a few days. I'll be eligible for that huge section of gorgeous ladies who prefer 45-99 "

Fabbed your pick before you get too old! nice body! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys over 40 are better meets than 30's they know how to treat a lady. Sorry guys just from experience before I get shot down lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"45 in a few days. I'll be eligible for that huge section of gorgeous ladies who prefer 45-99

Fabbed your pick before you get too old! nice body! X"

Fabbed you back X

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By *kem manMan
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

Am 42 am too old lol for this site I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am 42 am too old lol for this site I think"

My upper age limit is 45 Hun! But tbh I wouldn't even open a message from a guy who's avatar is a picture of his dick - especially with no other public pictures!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I passed 40 and just kept on running

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By *urvacious_40Woman
over a year ago

Pontypool, South Wales, UK


"45 in a few days. I'll be eligible for that huge section of gorgeous ladies who prefer 45-99 "
Cracking physique for 45

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I passed 40 and just kept on running "

You'll not be able to catch me.

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By *urvacious_40Woman
over a year ago

Pontypool, South Wales, UK

I turned 41 in March, don't feel a a day over 25 though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 41 in March, don't feel a a day over 25 though "

Looking good Hun!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I passed 40 and just kept on running

You'll not be able to catch me. "

well the last I heard you were walking down here anyway.

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By *urvacious_40Woman
over a year ago

Pontypool, South Wales, UK


"I turned 41 in March, don't feel a a day over 25 though

Looking good Hun! "
Why thank you... Likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"45 in a few days. I'll be eligible for that huge section of gorgeous ladies who prefer 45-99 Cracking physique for 45 "

Thank you x

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By *kem manMan
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

Got pics but private would send you them if you would like

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By *kem manMan
over a year ago

Skelmersdale


"Am 42 am too old lol for this site I think

My upper age limit is 45 Hun! But tbh I wouldn't even open a message from a guy who's avatar is a picture of his dick - especially with no other public pictures! "

Got pics but private would send if you would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you search make sure you tick the box that says you are the age they are looking for. It's a big help

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

47....it's just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about my age...take it or leave it

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Forties are the best you will ever be.

Be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so lie ..everyone else does

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think


"I don't care about my age...take it or leave it "

Oooh can I take it please!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You wait til your pushing 60, so many cut off's at 55!!! "

Wait till you're pushing 70 so many cut off at 60!!!

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Gets better when you hit 40, xxxx

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think


"Gets better when you hit 40, xxxx"

Certainly looks like it from what I've seen of you!! x

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Bless you x

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

What's with the 40 thing? We have set ourselves 50 as our lower limit as we would feel uncomfortable having sex with anyone, the same generation as our children.

At our age we are far more relaxed and confident than we were in our 30's and 40's. We know what we like and can deliver what we promise.

Its what is between the ears that matters, not what's between the legs.

G&A

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Welcome to the best time of your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if the forties are that good,roll on January then!!!

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By *ilver_medallistMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I loved my forties, had some great times, just got to see what the fifties bring now

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

One of the reasons we play in clubs is that age is no barrier. We have had a great time their with many people from fab who have a cut offs on their profile which are far younger than us - and at their instigation too.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

I'm loving my forties so far, although I did notice I became outside the age range of a lot of profiles when I turned 46 a few months ago. 45 seems to be a big cutoff criteria on here - both maximum and minimum!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"What's with the 40 thing? We have set ourselves 50 as our lower limit as we would feel uncomfortable having sex with anyone, the same generation as our children.

G&A"

I didn't have my first kid till I was 44 so I don't have a problem with twenty something's, especially ones that are bold enough to make first contact.. Helps that H is only 36 mind..

S

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We've decided to limit our play a little bit once we turn 80 lol, enjoy yourself & enjoy life x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being in your forties

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you

Well if it's any consolation op - I think you're cute and I've just Fabbed your face pic! "

Aww that's a lovely pic - you should use it as your avatar op!

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you "

After checking out your pics and profile I'd say it's their loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you

After checking out your pics and profile I'd say it's their loss "

Arhhh thank you you have got some awesome classy pics too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I turned 41 recently and I must admit what a pain in the ass it's been on here

I've lost count now that I see someone and think like the look of them to then see the age cut off is 40

Dam you

Well if it's any consolation op - I think you're cute and I've just Fabbed your face pic!

Thank you xxx

Aww that's a lovely pic - you should use it as your avatar op!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with being in your forties "

Oh I love being in my forties don't worry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till u hit the big 50 if you think 40 is bad

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Welcome to my world op. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit.. I'm loving my naughty forties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still feel like i'm in my 20s but the mirror reminds me i'm not but never mind tis what it tis

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't feel middle aged. It's like time stopped 15 years ago, I'm just more grey than I was.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

We are in the process of crossing the 60's stage and are having the best fun ever. Our last meet turned into a three day marathon ffs! And we plan on repeating it this next weekend with the same wonderful couple. So stuff the forties and realise it is what you think you are and can do that matters, and every day is a new experience.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40s is a great age to be if your female and like young guys, I've never had so many guys mid 20s and younger mail me as I've had since I hit 40

Shame I'm not after young guys

I find guys around my own age have less interest in me now they all seem to be after younger women, which is a shame because that what I am after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't seem to fit anybody's age range. I am 83. Most people make a mistake because the forgot change 18-99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40s is a great age to be if your female and like young guys, I've never had so many guys mid 20s and younger mail me as I've had since I hit 40

Shame I'm not after young guys

I find guys around my own age have less interest in me now they all seem to be after younger women, which is a shame because that what I am after "

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Good on ya luv

There is someone for everyone eventually on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 and having more fun now than I ever had in 40's.. I met a man who told me he was 49 even though my limit was 59. He felt he wasn't going to have any luck saying he was 54.. Anyway we are now very close friends and meet regularly.. what will be will be..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people's perceptions of age cut off etc are stup I'd really I'm 42 now yea people have age limit's I have brother,s ghat say they hope they look as good as me at my age nobody belive my age good genes I guess I'm told I look about early 30s and younger I get attention off girls 10 to 20 years younger than me which is good lol !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be 50 on Tuesday (5fth) and have been noticing the lack of opportunities. One couple who look just right for me and live close to where I work have a cut off of 40.

But there are plenty more fish in fab's sea!

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

That's worth knowing LL xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't seem to fit anybody's age range. I am 83. Most people make a mistake because the forgot change 18-99

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You sir are a legend for being on here

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