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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anybody else started off having fun with someone off here and fell madly in Love with them even though you are both married?

Is it so wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the question is, have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - not a case of falling in love with anyone.

But I've met people who I've thought "if we were both single then she's definitely the sort of person I would ask out on a vanilla date."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - not a case of falling in love with anyone.

But I've met people who I've thought "if we were both single then she's definitely the sort of person I would ask out on a vanilla date.""

Same for me

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We didn't meet in here but we did meet for NSA fun. Had a great social, fell in love and got married!!!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"No - not a case of falling in love with anyone.

But I've met people who I've thought "if we were both single then she's definitely the sort of person I would ask out on a vanilla date."

Same for me "

And me

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

This is for lust not for love

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Has anybody else started off having fun with someone off here and fell madly in Love with them even though you are both married?

Is it so wrong? "

Question is, what next? Are you both going to ditch your respective partners and ride off into the sunset to live happily ever after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - not a case of falling in love with anyone.

But I've met people who I've thought "if we were both single then she's definitely the sort of person I would ask out on a vanilla date.""

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is never wrong.

Unfortunately if you go about it this way, as in cheating and lying to someone else about loving them, then you have gone about it in the wrong way and are probably going to hurt the person you lied to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have in the past and ended up being the one that got hurt.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, with a left handed lady

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's never wrong to fall in love, what could be wrong is the action you choose to take because of it.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"It's never wrong to fall in love, what could be wrong is the action you choose to take because of it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had strong feelings for someone that was on here he felt the same, we met a couple of times a month and if there wasn't a lot of miles between us we would of gone a step further. I get scared of love though I'd rather just be single and heartless lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's never wrong to fall in love, what could be wrong is the action you choose to take because of it."

Well in all seriousness if you fall in love with someone you shouldn't do , because as an example you're both married , then not going for it is always gonna be going against the true feelings you have isn't it ?

And your partner won't get all your attention as you love someone else ....

Oh , and no , neither of us have had this happen .

It's just sex , and lust for us .

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Has anybody else started off having fun with someone off here and fell madly in Love with them even though you are both married?

Is it so wrong? "

Fall in love with whomever you want to, it's not like it's a choice. However, acting upon it, is.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's never wrong to fall in love, what could be wrong is the action you choose to take because of it.

Well in all seriousness if you fall in love with someone you shouldn't do , because as an example you're both married , then not going for it is always gonna be going against the true feelings you have isn't it ?

And your partner won't get all your attention as you love someone else ....

Oh , and no , neither of us have had this happen .

It's just sex , and lust for us ."

Yep, that's why I said could and didn't specify the action. It's a tricky business this love stuff

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We did !

Been together a year now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We did !

Been together a year now x "

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"We did !

Been together a year now x "

Good on yer. And beautiful pics.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I suppose the question is, have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?"

That's going round and round my head now

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose the question is, have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?

That's going round and round my head now "

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"We did !

Been together a year now x

Good on yer. And beautiful pics."

Thank you X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update - It's all over was good whilst it lasted she will always have a place in my heart but wasn't meant to be. Onwards and Upwards

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We did and been together almost two years. Have been living together most of that time too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I know that you are in an awful dilemma right now and it's a really hard situation to cope with especially when you have to be secretive about it at home etc...

The clarity given people here is great but easy when not emotionally involved. There are sometimes blurred lines for a lot of people between being intimate and falling in love. It is also a luxury to fantasise about a situation that you can not change. I am guessing that the latter is the case as you didn't give details about where the other person is at or indicate any intention of doing anything about it.Best case scenario here is to think about the trail of destruction and stop meeting this person anymore. I hope that you get through this ok. NSA is hard to maintain sometimes when you meet someone that you really click with but try to remember that all the excitement of secret meetings and hot sex can add to the fantasy.

Finally...to answer your question...yes, I met someone here and am in a relationship with them but we were both single and have continued to party together and it is great but it was not a light step to that point. I wish you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update - It's all over was good whilst it lasted she will always have a place in my heart but wasn't meant to be. Onwards and Upwards "
. It's the only way babes you know how I feel . No one gets hurt this way just us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always falling in love .its a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just lusthat and sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else started off having fun with someone off here and fell madly in Love with them even though you are both married?

Is it so wrong?

Fall in love with whomever you want to, it's not like it's a choice. However, acting upon it, is. "

It is a choice. You don't just walk up to strangers on the street and fall in love with them. You fall in love with people because you chose to spend time with them and include them in your life. The solution is very simple, stop spending time with them and including them in your life and your feelings will go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else started off having fun with someone off here and fell madly in Love with them even though you are both married?

Is it so wrong? "

That's the danger with playing away with a regular partner, you can kid yourself that theres suddenly an escape route from a less happy relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell in love with someone I had sex with in the first 20mins of ever.meeting him

We were together for 20 years and had three kids together

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Update - It's all over was good whilst it lasted she will always have a place in my heart but wasn't meant to be. Onwards and Upwards "

Ouch - that was fast OP.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Update - It's all over was good whilst it lasted she will always have a place in my heart but wasn't meant to be. Onwards and Upwards

Ouch - that was fast OP."

Blimey - next...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update - We have decided to remain friends and take every day as it comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xx

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I don't think there's a right and wrong place to find love. Most of the time it just creeps up on you.

Love isn't wrong either however I do know a thing or two about it being difficult or complicated. It hurts a lot. And sometimes it's worth the pain. Sometimes its hopeless. Be honest with yourself on that one.

One of my favorite quotes is "There are too many mediocre things in life, love should not be one of them."

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - not a case of falling in love with anyone.

But I've met people who I've thought "if we were both single then she's definitely the sort of person I would ask out on a vanilla date."

Same for me

And me "

and me though i am single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great song

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Meny years ago I met a young married women in a sauna club,I fell head over heels in love with her,she was always glad to see me we used to hold hands when we're together, but it never went anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was swinging as a single i learnt the hard way to toughen up and not let feelings get in the way. Its just sex at the end of the day and you know that it could never go any further than sex cuz thats what the idea of it in the first place. Nothing quite like heartless nsa sex and then tell them to leave when your done lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babes we made it through the hard times and I think we are stronger than ever xx

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