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Sex: 121 or 3+...?

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By *ed wine OP   Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Have sex 1 to 1 is getting me less interested. Every time I meet FFM, MMF or more, I find it more pleasant, longer and funny. Then, passion takes control and boundaries disappear...

What do you prefer?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I know what you mean,but a perfect 1:1 would be great right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont meet off here 121 as its not what its about for me.. 3sums or moresums.. 121 and that intimacy is something I am only comfortable with when its someone I have a connection with.. x

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By *ed wine OP   Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name


"I know what you mean,but a perfect 1:1 would be great right now "

Yes, you're right. In this cases, even 1... could be an alternative

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We like various scenarios but the boundaries never disappear.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Depends on my mood tbh. Usually threesomes are preferable but occasionally a 1 on 1 sessions is greatly welcomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex?

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Well

As 1-1 is our normal and wonderful sex life, swinging for us will always be a 3sum or moresum.

However boundaries lost? Oh hell no. Those we have, are set in stone for that meet. If wolf an I decide to change those boundaries we would do so during a discussion after the current play date is over and with mutual consent. The idea that someone would assume that our limits are not to be respected worries me and would put me off ever meeting them.

Red

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Depends on the type of play....

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By *ed wine OP   Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name


"Well

As 1-1 is our normal and wonderful sex life, swinging for us will always be a 3sum or moresum.

However boundaries lost? Oh hell no. Those we have, are set in stone for that meet. If wolf an I decide to change those boundaries we would do so during a discussion after the current play date is over and with mutual consent. The idea that someone would assume that our limits are not to be respected worries me and would put me off ever meeting them.

Red "

Of course, respect is always there. Before a meet, I always ask for the dont's and there, limits are always respected.

But between our do's and dont's, sometimes there are desires inhibited. This inhibition is what disolves when passion takes control

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By *rchie_pMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

121 all day for me... 3+ is good but the best sessions i have had have been 121

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take anything!!

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I've never experienced anything other than one to one so unfortunately I can't comment on that one yet.

I'm hoping to remedy that with some fab ffm fun though if anyone's interested?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Well

As 1-1 is our normal and wonderful sex life, swinging for us will always be a 3sum or moresum.

However boundaries lost? Oh hell no. Those we have, are set in stone for that meet. If wolf an I decide to change those boundaries we would do so during a discussion after the current play date is over and with mutual consent. The idea that someone would assume that our limits are not to be respected worries me and would put me off ever meeting them.

Red

Of course, respect is always there. Before a meet, I always ask for the dont's and there, limits are always respected.

But between our do's and dont's, sometimes there are desires inhibited. This inhibition is what disolves when passion takes control"

If your passion takes control and you are no longer inhibited by predetermined boundaries then we would stay well away from you.

In answer to your question, when swinging we always go for moresomes - and our boundaries (and those of our playmates) are always respected.

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By *ed wine OP   Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

You are already well away from me actually...

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

It's nice to have an intimate 1:1 but 3somes and moresomes are fun too.

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London


"Have sex 1 to 1 is getting me less interested. Every time I meet FFM, MMF or more, I find it more pleasant, longer and funny. Then, passion takes control and boundaries disappear...

What do you prefer?"

Easy though it may sound, all of the above from 1-2-1, to sixsomes, especially when the individuals involved know each other. For the me, the best would be to have a group of friends who can all play together, even if they tend to meet in different combinations. Not easy to get the cast right, but I am working on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it all ways. Often find myself playing solo though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a good 1-1 meet. But group play in whatever format is exciting in a totally different way

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We play as a couple so 3,4,5,6.... have all been great.

But it certainly hasn't diminished 1:1 sex together.

MrB

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We'd never, or rather I couldn't and he wouldn't, do a 121 meet. For us it's always 3 or more.

X

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Two men is better than one. Unless it's just me and hubby obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caring is sharing. Cant beat a good mff

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"Have sex 1 to 1 is getting me less interested. Every time I meet FFM, MMF or more, I find it more pleasant, longer and funny. Then, passion takes control and boundaries disappear...

What do you prefer?"
you only got one veri ??? I dont understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only 1 to 1's for us would be the Mrs finding a nice lady to meet all for herself.

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