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verifications - women's perspective

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By *berman OP   Man
over a year ago

The North West

How much importance do women on this site give to verifications when it comes to single guys? Does it play a big role and maybe have you accept a guy who you thought was say just a 6/10? Or would you prefer an 8/10 but less verifications/reliability? I know single guys have a bad rep on here with reliability hence the question...(and also something just happened to me today with it!)

Also I now have 40 verifications but covering several years! Do you think I should delete some of the older ones so I have something like 25 lol? In other words it'll make me look less like a man slut...which I'm not?!! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can see they go back 4 and a bit years so not a problem. My old profile had 240+ (I used to host and attend parties I may add). It rarely caused a "man slut" problem.....or only with one or two lol.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I don't read them.

I scroll down to see if they have any and how recent the last one was. But they all read the same - yummy cock, made me cum loads blah blah.

Just because I enjoy my time with a guy doesn't mean the next woman will, he may actually have been her best fuck ever but does little for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only really into 10/10 guys... and I don't really care that much about verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things in them sometimes put me off more than no verifications does. I'll read them because I'm nosy, but they wouldn't encourage me to meet someone I didn't otherwise want to meet. I've met unverified men and it's been great. So in your example I'd take the unverified 8/10 over the verified 6/10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes they make a difference. You can tell when someone has been really impressed. You can also see faint hearted ones too that tell a story. Overall there's no one rule for me about them. Pinch of salt required I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care at all. I have my own mind. I rely on that.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I doesn't matter to me if he has lots of verifications. But if he has none, then I start thinking that he will probably be UNLOS soon so why bother

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By *ustMe06Woman
over a year ago

...the naughty spot.

The answer to your question is the same to a lot of questions asked on the forums...Some do...Some don't.

Personally I don't take a lot of notice of veri's, the exception being, if they are particularly graphically descriptive...that puts me off. That however, is solely my take on it...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

They make me gibber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they make a difference. You can tell when someone has been really impressed. You can also see faint hearted ones too that tell a story. Overall there's no one rule for me about them. Pinch of salt required I think. "

Pinch of salt right in the japs eye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my first one lauding my blowjob technique, I'm rather pleased with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not overly bothered - we have met unverified before now we were all in that boat at one time or another were we not ? we had a lot of veris over 4 yrs - shut down that profile due to hassles and opened this one within minutes and we now have almost 30 veris in less than 2 months - god we would have been busy but goes to show that numbers mean nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's upto you what you show OP, please yourself, not everyone else.

If I was looking to meet you the ones I notice most are the repeat veri's. If you are looking to scale them down those are the ones I'd think about removing.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Number of veris don't bother me however if there were none and the profile had been on some time I wouldn't be confident that they were genuine

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By *ifestylersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I do like to check out a single guys veris but they are not essential. Good to know you actually turn up and are genuine. Btw we said Hi at Swingfields. The now Peaches n Cream after our chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet a guy with at least two meet verifications which demonstrate that it was more than a social meet. I decline to meet a guy with none. I don't.compromise on this rule. I need to know someone I meet is genuine and not on fab for the wrong reasons... ie.doing research for magazine, timewaster, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pay much attention to them. Only thing that gets me questioning is if they choose to hide some and you can tell they are through the summary they're showing. Makes me wonder what was said for it to not be displayed (normally the more recent one)

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By *berman OP   Man
over a year ago

The North West

Thanks all - I'm now a little wiser...I think?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of veris do determine whether we meet someone as we aren't hardcore swingers and prefer quality over quantity ...we prefer to meet others who like the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I can't say that I take much notice of what they say cos they all say the same thing, great cock, nice tits, tight pussy. Blah blah blah....

But I will try and check recent dates against pix on their profile if they have any. Half a dozen veries and no pix at all doesn't cut the mustard.

I realise everyone has their own personal preference but let's face it, silhouette, no pix, can't accommodate/travel (how the hell that works I'll never know)!

It's not just veries, it's a combination of things.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I use veris as a slight sign that he might be the kind of guy who shows up

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Having said that....

I'm not a woman! Oop's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't care about verification I have met a few guys who have none at all

We all had to start somewhere, just because somebody has no verifications that does not automatically mean they are fake, it may just mean nobody has given them a chance yet

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Got my first one lauding my blowjob technique, I'm rather pleased with myself "

And he has 7 friends, all men, and describes himself as straight lol!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I read them, I take note, and I would rather just see the best 10 or 15.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

They are just to give you an idea about someone especialy the ones they leave other people. I think some people exagerate a bit about how good someone is and they dont mention their bad points only their good points, such as if someone lied about how tall they were they wouldnt mention it. Or some people may just be easily pleased.

I usually prefer to meet someone who has got a couple of verifications also i find that inexperienced men on here are more likely to ask questions about why my husband lets me meet other men, i get the feeling that they disaprove.

Also there are some verifications that are fake as someone asked me to leave him one once even though we hadnt met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look at the veris, look at the people who veried them. Just to get an idea of who they've met.

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