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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people socialise without playing with swinging friends or do they always expect to play ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets are social, very happy with just chatting and have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All our first meets are social but would swingers also meet for a night out without playing or thinking of playing with other swingers..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have met people with no intention of playing. And made friends who will remain just friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to make friends with anyone but they eventually tend to want something sexual so i only make friends with women now (1 to be exact).

I think if i went to clubs often then this might be different but on here just about all guys (except 1 again lol and he did turn out to be trust worthy) have expected sex.

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By *exedUp_GamerNerdsCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Yes we still enjoy social meets with swinger friends and go for meals out once in a while with them. It tends to make us all very comfortable with each other and when we do have play meets everyone is a lot more relaxed.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Sure, with some.of the friends we have made we blur the inevitable between swinging friends and vanilla friends. Not often we find a couple we click with like that but when we do its a pleasure to spend time in their company wether there's sex involved or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and do socialise with fab friends without the expectation of anything happening. Made a couple of good friends from here over the years, some with the mutual attraction and some without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to do both but it depends on the guy. The guys outside my age range will only be social meets atm

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have made life long friends in the swinging scene. Some I haven't played with in over 10 years, others I usually meet to play. Some friends who I met in the scene I have never played with, and likely never will.

It's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've made some great friends and it's now social ....

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I'm happy making new friends and meeting up for socials. If anything follows all good but not essential.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Do people socialise without playing with swinging friends or do they always expect to play ?"

ok I have a couple of lady friends and I meet the socially away from play now and again to just catch up with out the expectation of sex entering the thought process .

yes sometimes such meets end in play at other times they don't .

but they are my friends so they offer me something other than sex genuine caring friendship which is worth a lot to a guy like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what other people's definition of "unpushy" is but for us it means we don't "expect to play" at any meet. Any play that does happen is always a bonus

We find people who push their expectations or come with a sense of entitlement a bit of a turn off. I know this wasn't what the op meant but it seemed an apt moment to bring it up.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We play meets and meets suitable for all the family with a few friends from here.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do people socialise without playing with swinging friends or do they always expect to play ?"

Yes definitely!

We go out have dinner and drinks with no expectation of play. Some of my swing friends went out for dinner on Monday to bond over chicken wings

Going to comic con with a group too. Swing friends are friends too

We do of course still go to parties and clubs together to play

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Off with the wife now to have dinner with another swinging couple and no play will take place. We're great friends.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Sort of,, got a Fwb who has just come round for a cuppa and a chat

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I've socialised with swinger friends, but once they become friends I no longer have sex with them. They are either one thing or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people socialise without playing with swinging friends or do they always expect to play ?"

We love the socisl/party part and, if we get to play, we'll that's always a bonus, but if not then we still have a good time. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have made friends with a lovely lady from here and a couple!

We meet up and quite often there is no play just having a fun night out or meet for lunch etc. We never thought it would work like that but they are great friends of ours now Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met people on here that I class as true friends. We've done various social activities together, been on holidays and weekends away, but i don't play with them. I meet most people at a club and then friendship was formed from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all my meets are play meets. meeting them socially just wouldn't work. doesn't mean we aren't friends though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bff

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