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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies... Is that the wrong question to ask a gal after sex, lol people will say you will know if she cummed. I have experienced that screaming, shaking, grabbing when she cums. But I always want to make sure she is satisfied as well I don't enjoy sex unless I can feel the connection and know she is enjoying it at the time. I had sex recently with this girl probably over a hour session lots of kissing licking biting all over, and sex in different positions, after it I couldn't tell if she had orgasmed. What's tell tail signs a woman has been satisfied? (Granted we've have had sex 4 times from the first experience so must be doing something right but j just can't tell when she cums)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

For some women including me, I don't always cum during fucking. I do enjoy sex and lots of fucking though. I ensure I cum by toys or my hands if I haven't managed it. I hate being asked. I don't consider it a failure on anyone's part if I can't get there by penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not"

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao "
I would lie and say yes but as on a meet I am not there to orgasm... i really probably wont as its giving to much control away. But i never ever say so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao I would lie and say yes but as on a meet I am not there to orgasm... i really probably wont as its giving to much control away. But i never ever say so. "

But lying and saying yes... That doesn't help anyone lol I would rather the person was honest, and tell me what makes them tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao I would lie and say yes but as on a meet I am not there to orgasm... i really probably wont as its giving to much control away. But i never ever say so.

But lying and saying yes... That doesn't help anyone lol I would rather the person was honest, and tell me what makes them tick. "
it isnt about what makes me tick... a guy could be amazing but its doubtful i would orgasm as i will not relinquish that amount of control to a meet. And doesn't mean ive not had a good time... just it seems to make a guy want to keep trying if i say no and that then makes it a chore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest you should be,able to feel when a woman has an orgasim you shouldnt have to ask if shes come

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao I would lie and say yes but as on a meet I am not there to orgasm... i really probably wont as its giving to much control away. But i never ever say so.

But lying and saying yes... That doesn't help anyone lol I would rather the person was honest, and tell me what makes them tick. it isnt about what makes me tick... a guy could be amazing but its doubtful i would orgasm as i will not relinquish that amount of control to a meet. And doesn't mean ive not had a good time... just it seems to make a guy want to keep trying if i say no and that then makes it a chore. "

No not at all, if you tell him you never then you bet your last dollar, he will be doing everything he can to try make you cum lol you tell him yes every time he's going to be walking around thinking he's a pornstar lol as you said your not there to orgasim but for most women is that not the goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao I would lie and say yes but as on a meet I am not there to orgasm... i really probably wont as its giving to much control away. But i never ever say so.

But lying and saying yes... That doesn't help anyone lol I would rather the person was honest, and tell me what makes them tick. it isnt about what makes me tick... a guy could be amazing but its doubtful i would orgasm as i will not relinquish that amount of control to a meet. And doesn't mean ive not had a good time... just it seems to make a guy want to keep trying if i say no and that then makes it a chore.

No not at all, if you tell him you never then you bet your last dollar, he will be doing everything he can to try make you cum lol you tell him yes every time he's going to be walking around thinking he's a pornstar lol as you said your not there to orgasim but for most women is that not the goal "
no there are plenty of women that dont on meets... and it doesnt matter what i explain to him.. its casual one off sex... I wont orgasm and trust me if he is not doing what i like he will get told.. but he cant make me relinquish control as that takes something a meet and to be fair most men for me ... dont have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If that's the case you should be able to feel it every time,,, then my question is, would you not rather have the conversation with the guy to make sure he's doing the things you like, I might be slow and sensual, but you just want your hair pulled and chocked... So if at the end of it I don't think she has cum, what tip can you give to approach that conversation? Cause you can't tell me it's a no area ie the topic of how can I make you climax, when your in a relationship you both tell each other what you like to make this happen so why not in a fling situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that's the case you should be able to feel it every time,,, then my question is, would you not rather have the conversation with the guy to make sure he's doing the things you like, I might be slow and sensual, but you just want your hair pulled and chocked... So if at the end of it I don't think she has cum, what tip can you give to approach that conversation? Cause you can't tell me it's a no area ie the topic of how can I make you climax, when your in a relationship you both tell each other what you like to make this happen so why not in a fling situation "
no because like you they wouldn't listen.... its not about what they are doing but that i wont let them have that much control and it doesnt mean i dont have a good time.. my partner can have me orgasming in minutes... even without touching my pussy.... sex with a meet is just that... and my pleasure comes from the guys pleasure.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not"

Exactly!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao "

Why not just concentrate on the whole experience rather than just one thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If that's the case you should be able to feel it every time,,, then my question is, would you not rather have the conversation with the guy to make sure he's doing the things you like, I might be slow and sensual, but you just want your hair pulled and chocked... So if at the end of it I don't think she has cum, what tip can you give to approach that conversation? Cause you can't tell me it's a no area ie the topic of how can I make you climax, when your in a relationship you both tell each other what you like to make this happen so why not in a fling situation no because like you they wouldn't listen.... its not about what they are doing but that i wont let them have that much control and it doesnt mean i dont have a good time.. my partner can have me orgasming in minutes... even without touching my pussy.... sex with a meet is just that... and my pleasure comes from the guys pleasure.

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You have a specific reason, but my question is how to address the situation of making the girl feel comfortable in telling you what she likes, I'm not asking about you in particularly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao

Why not just concentrate on the whole experience rather than just one thing?"

Because I get pleasure in pleasing,,,,

You can't tell me you are happy when a guy is just out to get his!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that's the case you should be able to feel it every time,,, then my question is, would you not rather have the conversation with the guy to make sure he's doing the things you like, I might be slow and sensual, but you just want your hair pulled and chocked... So if at the end of it I don't think she has cum, what tip can you give to approach that conversation? Cause you can't tell me it's a no area ie the topic of how can I make you climax, when your in a relationship you both tell each other what you like to make this happen so why not in a fling situation no because like you they wouldn't listen.... its not about what they are doing but that i wont let them have that much control and it doesnt mean i dont have a good time.. my partner can have me orgasming in minutes... even without touching my pussy.... sex with a meet is just that... and my pleasure comes from the guys pleasure.

You have a specific reason, but my question is how to address the situation of making the girl feel comfortable in telling you what she likes, I'm not asking about you in particularly"
id hope any woman would... i know im quite happy to tell guys exactly what i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is a screamer. I tend to have lots of little ones and I'm not particularly vocal, so I could imagine a man who is used to someone who announces it to the world not being sure with me.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I want to establish a mobile communications company and call it Orga... then I'll be able to provide Sims and it will be happy smiley faces all over Britain!

Sorry, I'm thinking out loud again aren't I?

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Depends on the lady. I had an FB for a while who would have loads of gentle orgasms throughout the meet. It took me a couple of sessions to recognise them. She just didn't have 'Big Screamers'. When we eventually talked about it she said it was the same even when she pleasured herself.

Where as my Wife has one Massive pant and groan and she's done. She needs a couple of hours break afterwards or she is too sensitive and uncomfortable for her.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Not everyone is a screamer. I tend to have lots of little ones and I'm not particularly vocal, so I could imagine a man who is used to someone who announces it to the world not being sure with me. "

This! See below

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Unless I know the chap quite well and I'm feeling totally relaxed it's unusual for me to orgasm, a reason I prefer repeat 'meets'. It doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed the experience though.

One thing I find off putting is being asked during sex if I'm going to!

I don't think it's wrong to ask though OP if it's important to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understood why a woman faked it. Untill I was told 'to make me feel good' .

After all, wasn't I trying to make here feel good. So in her way 'faking it' was just returning the favour my way. I accepted it as a good thing she did for me.

Op - Accept it, you failed miserably and couldn't make her come if you cast a spell on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would feel the muscles contracting down .there and it would get wetter good luck

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"In my experience, if you have to ask then probably not

I did ask she said "yeah loads of times could you not tell", but I wasn't convinced lol so I made sure we went another 3 rounds, if she ain't cumming by then I'm all out of options lmao

Why not just concentrate on the whole experience rather than just one thing?

Because I get pleasure in pleasing,,,,

You can't tell me you are happy when a guy is just out to get his!"

Your question and subsequent comments are about asking a woman if she has cum and how you can make sure that happens. My response is why not think about the whole process rather than just trying to focus on orsasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly try to go down on a girl after sex. If she's cum during sex it's all good, if she's not cum during sex it's all good

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