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By *rMrsNawty OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

So do u think it's OK to play with best friends. Would you let ur other half have fun with ur best mate? Or u think this is a big no no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the kind of relationship you have and how much you value your friendship vs the chances of something going awry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't be comfortable with that. Most of my friends have been friends since forever and I wouldn't want to risk that for sex.

I don't see why others couldn't do it if they want, though. I'm just talking about myself, here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be comfortable with that's X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have played with my best friend. Allowed my hubby to play with her 2. He is now my ex bit she is still my best friend. I don't think their is much we haven't shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do u think it's OK to play with best friends. Would you let ur other half have fun with ur best mate? Or u think this is a big no no?"

I've done it (him) as the role of the best mate. The problem was that they enjoyed it a lot more than I did and always wanted to recreate 'that night'. I didn't.

There's no inherent reason it can't work though.

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By *rMrsNawty OP   Couple
over a year ago

north west

It's all down to a trust thing wouldn't do it if there was any cracks in the relationship. Think it takes a lot more consideration than normal swapping. And depends on how Close u all are. Definitely one to chat about when ur older lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do u think it's OK to play with best friends. Would you let ur other half have fun with ur best mate? Or u think this is a big no no?"

A deffo no no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no and no ....

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Have before with no problems at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never swapped with best friends but my oh knows I slept with my best friend before we got together and she is happy that we're still friends and trusts her and I alone.

I would only do things like this if your friendship is solid and both understand it's nothing serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a relationship with my best mate......but it is a lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ,bit to close to home and asking for trouble,probaly works in some cases but not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy answer. No!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So do u think it's OK to play with best friends. Would you let ur other half have fun with ur best mate? Or u think this is a big no no?"

For us, it's a big no no.

Plus, I just don't think of them that way.

I don't think it's wrong, if it works for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known few ex gf that slept with there friends I have been invited to also sleep with them but felt it's best left between themselves and respect to friends husbands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have and didn't bother either of us...I quite enjoyed watching my bestie get ruined by my husband

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Personally no, its one thing having your mates from outside this life style play and its another making play friends.

I can see both sides of it, but then its letting two sides of my life merge which i would like to keep seperate

Boo

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