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By *imnHer71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hatfield

Hi All

FWB couple, looking to expand our experiences. Swinging is an obvious avenue to explore.

Looking around the site a while now, thinking about opening messages.

Do people prefer if we:-

a) get right down to the filthy descriptions of things we would like to do

b) keep things nice and polite, friendly, but clean

c) load up the innuendo but stop short of the filth

I know each recipient will have their own personal choice, but just looking for some advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive tried all of them avenues... end result = no thanks or instant block haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only speak for myself, but my preference is B... With a little humour added to make the message interesting. I just find rude messages a bit disrespectful as a first port of call... But again, this is just me. It's different for everyone x

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

If you were to approach someone in a pub which approach would you take?

Sending a first message on fab is the equivalent of walking up to someone in the pub. If you did either a or c you'd probably get a smack around the chops so why would you do that here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C for me. The funnier the innuendo the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer random and funny.....no filth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B moving to A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only speak for myself, but my preference is B... With a little humour added to make the message interesting. I just find rude messages a bit disrespectful as a first port of call... But again, this is just me. It's different for everyone x"

Im B

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I can only speak for myself, but my preference is B... With a little humour added to make the message interesting. I just find rude messages a bit disrespectful as a first port of call... But again, this is just me. It's different for everyone x

Im B"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer random and funny.....no filth x"

This! I like random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B with a careful application of C.

Nuanced innuendo is the domain of the cunning linguist.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think it has to be B for us, as things progress perhaps innuendo can included in later emails as things move forward.

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By *imnHer71 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hatfield

Ok, B with maybe a hint of C it is, just need to remember how to spell "in your end OH!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, B with maybe a hint of C it is, just need to remember how to spell "in your end OH!" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B - i always like getting a reply with some humour in it - frightening how rare humour is on here at times - especially in the zoo they call a chatroom jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again B, maybe with a light touch of C, for us, i (fem) cannot stand filthy messages sent from people unless we know them well. I think it's quite rude and is an instant turn off and a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B definitely

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Either B or C...

Straight to the filth just gets you blocked in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go with a mixture of B and C

I always tend to send a B message at first then slide the innuendos later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like B on a first message. And as the chatting goes forward, a little of C

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Humour and randomness always works for me and gets my attention x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour works for us. Show us your personality and by all means load the inuendos but stop short of filth

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

B for the first few messages. If we can maintain a spark after some back and forth then a dash of C is always welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tends to come from people who don't meet and get off on chatting about what they will do so would stick with B plus include a pic as no point chatting if no attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd chose B - nice and polite, if only to start with

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