FabSwingers.com forum: How long are men supposed to last?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How long does an average male last in sex in one go.

My record was 15 minutes through constant penetration last night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Half an hour up to age 27

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 minutes banging away would bore me stupid, sex is soooo much more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and sorry, forgot to answer your question, some guys can last an hour or two, others a few minutes. Everyone's different but there are ways to tease and play to ensure it lasts as long as I need it to

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

The longest I lasted was about a minute but my ex reckoned it was less than that hence why she found a lover

The most I lasted giving her oral was about 3 hours once as she lay on the sofa chatting on fab

My neck and back ached and my mouth was red for hours

But she did cum as she flirted with a hunk on here

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

I've never been much good for more than a few minutes which is why I focus far more on foreplay. I did have one girlfriend who was fairly insatiable so we were at it several times a day and I ended up being able to go on pretty much as long as needed, certainly 30mins plus. Probably in a catch 22 these days, try and avoid actual fucking so when I do, it's not a marathon. And with that statement, I've probably blown all my future meets out the water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

varies..but rarely do I cum quickly...and I tend to restart after oral...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 seconds is good right?!?!?!?

Ha ha, just kidding, it depends on the sex, i vary from 5 mins to 30 mins, but can repeat.

Although i focus more on oral as i love it so much!

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

When I'm having fun I'm not looking at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 mins to an hour for me

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"15 minutes banging away would bore me stupid, sex is soooo much more than that

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

As long as I tell them to

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

I'd rather not just 'bang away!'

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

My FB fucks me for hours til I'm a quivering lump of jelly with legs like bambi before he cums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can fuck for 2 minutes. I guess if you got someone to practise on more, you can improve the minutes lol

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

How long is a peace of string- half hour is good going.... I find most last longer wutg bjs than penetration.... Most cum fairly quick once they are imersed and fully into the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can last anything from minutes to 15 20 or half hour tho depends how sensitive my cock is and how many times I've cum

Once fucked the whole day literally from 9-5 and cum only twice then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on my mood and who im with, everyones different.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Slut has a regular well hung fuck buddy who can last a couple of hours and cums on demand. She is always satisfied when he leaves

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Sometimes I'm fairly quick, sometimes it's hours. I don't time myself, because how long one lasts isn't the sole or particularly important factor in good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut has a regular well hung fuck buddy who can last a couple of hours and cums on demand. She is always satisfied when he leaves "

Cums on demand wow it's been years since i could do that I had a slutty ex who would suck n swallow me whenever and sometimes make me cum soon as she gave me one lick lol but when I fucked her took ages to cum.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Sometimes I'm fairly quick, sometimes it's hours. I don't time myself, because how long one lasts isn't the sole or particularly important factor in good sex."

This

Although if you cum in 10seconds it kinda fucks play up if you're not a repeater... Happened to me twice now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody's different. I've never been able to last more than a couple of minutes so tend to focus on foreplay and hopefully get a lady to climax through non-penetrative sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one man that only lasted approx 30 seconds XXX

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Most men I've been with last till they came, sometimes I came too

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By *liasMan
over a year ago

London

20 min is my average I guess. With oral before, it's good 45 min session. Usually ideal. But I like to play longer or restart if I'm very horny. Depends on the mood I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends really, I seldom cum from penetration, I tend to have tons of foreplay, then lots of penetration and then back to foreplay, at my ripe old age my hips tend to seize up before I cum so I usually end up being finished off my hand or mouth, or by finishing myself off as the lady gets the feeling back in her legs, do any other girls feel like their legs have popped off by the way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more about the build up for me. Fingers, tongue, lips even a strategically placed thigh all add to the pleasure.

The actual in out shake it all about bit is not as interesting as hearing the moaning and breath get quicker while pressing the right buttons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half an hour of high quality pounding (with oral in between) does me. Then a rest. Then Part 2.

I can't be doing with having oral performed on me for ages. It's a pre-cursor to sex, not the main course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies from partner to partner and it's not something I've ever felt I needed to run a stopwatch against.

Besides actual preventative sex is just a small part of the overall sexual experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most I lasted for one was 3 hours and she loved it, we had had a few bottle of wine

But normally 5 mins for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can last for hours

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I had one man that only lasted approx 30 seconds XXX"

that long bloody hell bet you was well pleased with his Olympic style performance

I hope you thank him afterwards for his herculean effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm wanting it to last I have a few techniques to avoid making him cum, my last time I had sex I had two men and between them they lasted an hour but one of them had to leave early due to the travel back. The man before that came relatively quickly but we went for 2 rounds which I was more than pleased with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman is different. Some like marathon sessions of an hour or so, others like multiple sessions of say 10/15 mins each.

The trick is to learn what makes them tick and adapt your style to their needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like guys who last for ages. Unless they can Cum when I want them too. I find most guys don't actually last that long. I don't really mind once they put effort into the play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like guys who last for ages. Unless they can Cum when I want them too. I find most guys don't actually last that long. I don't really mind once they put effort into the play."

When I started out I found it hard to cum, because I was nervous. It took some time for me to be able to fully relax and let myself orgasm with someone. These days I still last quite a while, but am able to make it happen pretty much whenever I want

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Don't know how long thery are designed to last but about 4-5 minutes is all I need. I've got better things to do with my life after that

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By *ob GobbMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

70 yrs, if the average age is anything to go by, lol.

Had a fantastic Friday night and Saturday morning, about 4 hours in total but it certainly wasn't all penetrative sex. Hands and mouths exploring each others bodies, massage and some penetrative sex all of which is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like questions like this. It's like how big should a womans breasts be? If we are more likely to agree on the meaning of life that agree on the answer.

The answer is of course what you and the person/people you're playing with both enjoy! lol

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By *ansom1Man
over a year ago

Brooklyn

Longest was 3 hrs with ex gf...average about 1 hr to 1.5 hrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one man that only lasted approx 30 seconds XXX"

I had one who ejaculated as soon as he entered me. A memorable experience... Just not for the right reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"15 minutes banging away would bore me stupid, sex is soooo much more than that

Agree so much more to fun than banging away for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My FB fucks me for hours til I'm a quivering lump of jelly with legs like bambi before he cums"

Care to share??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll only cum when I know the woman has no more to give and is wrecked otherwise I feel like I haven't done a proper job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know, for some reason I always forget to start the timer..

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

When your sure the lady you're with is satisfied

Is what I aim for

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

This! Is usual for partners I have had... FB into foreplay big time, then when we have sex its quick ish but amazing! He moves/grinds it into me ... slowly and purposefully

My other half, is not as into foreplay but can last ages... Has me all over in different positions and fucks me hard! Love that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tend to the females needs first and lots of play just incase I get too excited and become a one minute wonder

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By *ymrocruMan
over a year ago

penygroes

I like to have foreplay for at least an hour. Been known to shoot my load after a few minutes, also known to last over 2 hours. Depending on the partner.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It obviously depends on the situation and who you are with. For me I like the guy to make sure I am satisfied before he reaches orgasm. I've not met a selfish man on here yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It obviously depends on the situation and who you are with. For me I like the guy to make sure I am satisfied before he reaches orgasm. I've not met a selfish man on here yet

Tell me where you're looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends, a quickie 10-15 minutes but if your playing and stopping and starting changing from oral to penetration to tactile play then I can last for a good couple of hours before I come.

I've never looked at it as a race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to spend more time pleasuring a woman in all ways rather than worry about how long I am going to last. Question is, how long till you can go agin? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 mins of penatration is more than enough for me, I can go all night with everything else but I like penatration to be a quickish finish off

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i like to spend more time pleasuring a woman in all ways rather than worry about how long I am going to last. Question is, how long till you can go agin? lol

Straight away

Contrary to popular belief your tounge works as soon as you've cum

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

I like men to cum in under 3 mins at the glory hole,after that i get board

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10

"How long does an average male last in sex in one go.

My record was 15 minutes through constant penetration last night. "

As long as it takes for the lady to be fully satisfied i guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like men to cum in under 3 mins at the glory hole,after that i get board "

You must be pretty good at making it happen then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5-7 mins for round one, 15-20 mins for round 2,

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

"I like men to cum in under 3 mins at the glory hole,after that i get board

You must be pretty good at making it happen then

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you bet hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like men to cum in under 3 mins at the glory hole,after that i get board

You must be pretty good at making it happen then

you bet hehe "

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By *romleycouple 400Couple
over a year ago

bromley

Really takes d hours and he puts the effort in to please me makes my legs go to jelly and my fanny tingle and pop for days

Don't like quickeys

Pentration is just a part of sex and shouldn't be rushed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can last between 20 - 30 minutes,I don't like to receive the oral but i like to give

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By *ornyJ30Man
over a year ago

Bath

5-10 mins at most for me but i can repeat

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By *ee wonky willieMan
over a year ago

glasgow

As I've gotten older I'm finding that I last a lot longer. I think it has to do with sensitivity. I've never came while getting a blowjob

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Average expectancy I think is about 74 years

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Average expectancy I think is about 74 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My quickest through constant penetration is about 30 minutes. Longest 2 hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30/90 min first time round second no limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How long does an average male last in sex in one go.

My record was 15 minutes through constant penetration last night. "

4 hours but thats not constant fucking, thats lots of sucking, playing, fucking, teasing and stroking ...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Average expectancy I think is about 74 years"

LOL

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

10mins to 2&half days.

Whatever.

Anything less than an hour and I feel short-changed but people have their limits and I respect those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i tend to go one of 2 ways either i cum in 5-10 mins or so or i cant cum at all and i get to the point where i think im going to and the sensation goes i find that even more frustrating as i then get in my own head thinking is she bored do i carry on, do i stop, will she take it personally etc etc but have to stop otherwise i could be banging away for an hour and never get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a right or wrong answer to this? It depends on the situation if it needs to be quick then it can be and similarly if we have all day/night can pace it accordingly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me i tend to go one of 2 ways either i cum in 5-10 mins or so or i cant cum at all and i get to the point where i think im going to and the sensation goes i find that even more frustrating as i then get in my own head thinking is she bored do i carry on, do i stop, will she take it personally etc etc but have to stop otherwise i could be banging away for an hour and never get there

Mr"
this for me that's why second no limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like questions like this. It's like how big should a womans breasts be? If we are more likely to agree on the meaning of life that agree on the answer.

The answer is of course what you and the person/people you're playing with both enjoy! lol"

Easy DD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a right or wrong answer to this? It depends on the situation if it needs to be quick then it can be and similarly if we have all day/night can pace it accordingly! "

exactly...and everyone and every situation is different, so the answer will always be different too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to try and stop fucking when I feel I'm cumming so I can last a bit longer . I just pull out then proceed to lick pussy which I feel is my speciality as I have a large tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One lady's profile I've read today demands at least 3 hrs from her studs. When I was 17 I'd cum all the time, by the bucket-load!

Now I'm older I can fuck for well over an hour. Depends on the lady, how horny we are, the comfort of the bed or area, the position, the speed at which we're going at it. Obviously, the faster you go the more energy you consume, the sooner you'll lose your stamina.

Remember, it's not so much about the destination so much as the journey. Take care to enjoy the journey. Explore, take time, indulge her and gently, slowly, forget the worries about stamina and energy and focus on enjoying the feeling of her and giving her the time to enjoy feeling you. You'll last tons longer and she'll probably be very grateful for it. Speed isn't everything! Less is more!

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By *ippingrugbyboyMan
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford

"Oh and sorry, forgot to answer your question, some guys can last an hour or two, others a few minutes. Everyone's different but there are ways to tease and play to ensure it lasts as long as I need it to

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By *carletcoupleMan
over a year ago

manchester

Not as long as I used to do as a younger man.

It varies now, so I do like to spend as long as Mrs S likes with oral and foreplay before the actual penetration side of things. At the end of the day its Mrs S's satisfaction that is the ultimate goal for me, however that is achieved. Either on my own or with the help of a friend....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had times where it's 5 minutes and times where I couldn't cum at all. I find generally if I try and delay until my partner cums then if I don't cum right at the point she does then I probably won't cum at all so I can go all night. That's a blessing and a curse at the same time. I've been accused of not finding partners attractive but it's a mental thing whereby I've resisted cumming and then can't let go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well sex is only intended in our natural state as a reproductive act, that is to make a baby.

As cavemen and women we needed our energy for hunting and gathering. Sex takes up too much precious energy.

Therefore in its basic form men are supposed to be quick as a lot of energy is needed.

Just banging away men should only last 5-8 minutes as that's what nature intended (crap sex)

But doing it right and getting your Fab subs paid up then.......

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I like sex marathons, as longer he lasts the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like sex marathons, as longer he lasts the better. "

Me too! Love it!

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

the longest i have lasted is 5 hours

the shortest about a minute

average 2-3 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to pop some bread in the toaster and by jings, he'd better be finished by the time it pops up. I mean, toast is toast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find in a group of 5 or 6 men there are usually cumers after 10 to 15 mins but they recover to fuck again... Others can last 2 hours and then cum. It's all down to control it seems....

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Until my partner in crime legs start shaking.

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