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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford

Right folk...What's the most messages you have had unread at any time on here? Mine is 2

What's your magic number?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't know exactly,over a 1000

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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford

Well that takes you into the lead...by 998 at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know exactly,over a 1000"

Shiiiiiiiit!

That's more than I imagined an attractive lady like yourself getting. What chance have you got of finding the one or two decent guys in that pile??

My number is 2

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You can have my 392 unread one's at the mo if you want

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

5 so far

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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford


"You can have my 392 unread one's at the mo if you want "

Haha yeh I'll take them off your hands...give me a bit of light reading

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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford


"5 so far "

5!!! Show off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7 x usually when i put a new pic up x

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Mine is 2 somewhere in the dark and distant past..

I seem to remember that one of the messages from a woman was even civil.. Now that is a rarity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday I had to bulk delete 1898 messages because nobody can get trough that amount

I currently have 204 so I'm getting through them slowwwwwwly x

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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford

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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford


"Yesterday I had to bulk delete 1898 messages because nobody can get trough that amount

I currently have 204 so I'm getting through them slowwwwwwly x"

That is some sifting you've got through there! Well done

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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford


"Mine is 2 somewhere in the dark and distant past..

I seem to remember that one of the messages from a woman was even civil.. Now that is a rarity "

Haha... if I manage to get one with an x at the end I'm doing cartwheels!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Blimey...and I thought we got a lot....at least there's two us to handle the workload.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have my 392 unread one's at the mo if you want "

Well i was going to message you but you seem like you've got your hands full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I'm guilty of checking out profiles before reading a message but I suppose that's my way of not leading people on

If I open a message I hate being rude and not replying but you just can't reply to everyone

I hate to think of all those sexy men lost in translation somewhere between all the (hi wanna fuck ) messages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is 2 somewhere in the dark and distant past..

I seem to remember that one of the messages from a woman was even civil.. Now that is a rarity Haha... if I manage to get one with an x at the end I'm doing cartwheels! "

Ha a xx is always a nice way to end a message I think xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read messages, and I usually always reply .. but only after I've checked out the profile ...

The only time I had hundreds of unread ones was when I first joined and I didn't know anything about filters and how to set them ... so now it's always manageable

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I like to keep up to date with mine as people usually tease me till I have to go release myself mmmm such fun.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You can have my 392 unread one's at the mo if you want

Well i was going to message you but you seem like you've got your hands full "

I wish!

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By *igerlilycubWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

3700 unread

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

In the hundreds, we tend to not let happen anymore, filters are good.

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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford


"Mine is 2 somewhere in the dark and distant past..

I seem to remember that one of the messages from a woman was even civil.. Now that is a rarity Haha... if I manage to get one with an x at the end I'm doing cartwheels!

Ha a xx is always a nice way to end a message I think xx"

Two x's!!! That's cartwheels and somersaults for days!!!Haha

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I always read messages, and I usually always reply .. but only after I've checked out the profile ...

The only time I had hundreds of unread ones was when I first joined and I didn't know anything about filters and how to set them ... so now it's always manageable "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2.

That's obviously because I'm on here all the time and don't allow them to build up though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We read ours more or less as they come in. But we only get a 2 or 3 a day

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By *ixxxWoman
over a year ago

London

In the hundreds, but funnily enough Fab recently started deleting my unread messages after a short space of time. So now I do it myself, I quickly scan them and bulk delete lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right folk...What's the most messages you have had unread at any time on here? Mine is 2

What's your magic number?"

No idea what others have said - but at the moment I have 448 unread. Before I had any filters in place (age,pictures, newbies, unverified, none site supporters etc) I had several hundred more. Not fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2. I had to sit down for a few minutes!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Just 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually average around 100 unread. 92 at the minute x

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

On a normal day, up to 100

On a new photo, up to 200

On a meet day, i stop counting at 500....purely because 498 of those are blank profiles with a cock on it

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Right folk...What's the most messages you have had unread at any time on here? Mine is 2

What's your magic number?"

Perhaps we should count in & out boxes?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are lucky if we get one a day......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by these numbers there's no point messaging women on fab lol. More chance of waiting for them to message you than getting a reply...Most seem to bulk delete if forums are to go by lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I currently have 1903 unread. This dropped recently as I hid my profile for a week. Most ever was roughly 3300

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

97 at the moment.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i couldnt cope with it so filters are on for everyone..

people said it would slow down..err no it doesnt...open filters for 30 secs and they start..so they are closed, which is a shame but i cant deal with the stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3793 unread this month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody ell, no wonder us guys struggle, I knew you girls got a lot but didn't think it was in the thousands, Jesus. The most I've had unopened is 3 and that was tonight because of a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I currently have 1903 unread. This dropped recently as I hid my profile for a week. Most ever was roughly 3300 "

One of those 1903 is off me, sorry to burden you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I currently have 1903 unread. This dropped recently as I hid my profile for a week. Most ever was roughly 3300

One of those 1903 is off me, sorry to burden you x"

See if I can spot it before it gets lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I currently have 1903 unread. This dropped recently as I hid my profile for a week. Most ever was roughly 3300

One of those 1903 is off me, sorry to burden you x

See if I can spot it before it gets lost "

You're probably not missing much amongst the weight of competition x

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Most at anyone time is probably in the 20s but that's because I do stay on top of my inbox. I dread to think what it would be like if I put any more pics in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally it stands around 30 but we will blitz through them now and again. Currently 22 unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to say how many but what I will say is I cannot possibly dedicate the time to read them all so unfortunately will block delete from time to time.

The messages Are very much appreciated but I have "one body" and "limited time" and can't please everybody.

May be I should go into the Cloning Business...then everybody would be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know, more than 10, less than 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most at anyone time is probably in the 20s but that's because I do stay on top of my inbox. I dread to think what it would be like if I put any more pics in public"

Good point!

Most of us who have hundreds of messages - some thousands - do so because we post pictures pretty regularly (some people daily) so it would be hypocritical of any of us to then complain about the number of messages we get!

All I'd suggest to those interested in the ladies they see on hot photos is to wait a few days before they message them - until after they've dropped off hot photos - so they're more likely to see your message!

If they're posting pics several times a day EVERY day then the chances are that that's their primary reason for being on fab (nothing wrong with that - we all like to see nice photos and most of us enjoy getting fabbed pics!) - as their volume of messages (unless they do the searching themselves) will be consistently so high that they'll never read them!

I'm a part time 'picture tart' - happy to admit I like getting pics fabbed - but I like meeting lovely men even more! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'm a part time 'picture tart' - happy to admit I like getting pics fabbed - but I like meeting lovely men even more! Xx"

How many lovely men are asking this picture tart to 'read the mail I sent you ages ago!'

Me included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm a part time 'picture tart' - happy to admit I like getting pics fabbed - but I like meeting lovely men even more! Xx

How many lovely men are asking this picture tart to 'read the mail I sent you ages ago!'

Me included "

Oooops! Sorry!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am a picture tart but no1 messages me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a picture tart but no1 messages me "

Aw! You have now Hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hardly any, no one loves me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made double digits once.

Before I set my filters to block single guys

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By *cenario-xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Salford


"I made double digits once.

Before I set my filters to block single guys "

Hahaha

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