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By *habs OP   Man
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Sooo... each to their own BUT:

What is it with some people that just don't get that a profile is intended to suggest what you're looking for ie, I'm a straight guy looking for females (single or couples) to play with, but think the offer of a "discreet meet with a bi guy" is on the cards.

Yet when kindly point out that they've failed to read my profile, I get abuse underscored with not being open-minded and hence "naive".

I would have thought my "naivety" in no way measures up to their ignorance/stupidity/desperate chasing after the exact opposite.

I'm just glad he blocked me - Now I've blocked back, he can't unblock-abuse-reblock Let the games continue Hahahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice profile you got though so can see why they'd try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice profile you got though so can see why they'd try!"

I don't understand that at all!

If I read a "nice profile" in which the man is looking for a petit bi sub I wouldn't "try" as I'm a 5ft 7, size 22 Domme!

What a ridiculous statement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just skim profiles, maybe the words bi/tv/ts/cd jumped out at them and they convieniently didnt see the 'do not meet' in front. And to be fair the pics are quite appealing, lots of sexy toned bottom shots and lolling about in chairs naked with a very nice full frontal view. I should know, I've perved enough. Some people have the attitude of if you dont try you dont get and wonder if their body will be the one to turn you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seems to be a sense of entitlement these days about so many people - I don't meet on Fab, I mean in life in general. So it's a case of, I want it, so why shouldn't I have it. It's why many people end up in debt on the one extreme and why people send messages to people who are 600 miles away and looking for women not men etc on the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree, some people will just try it on. I dont get into any conversations now, I delete and forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice profile you got though so can see why they'd try!

I don't understand that at all!

If I read a "nice profile" in which the man is looking for a petit bi sub I wouldn't "try" as I'm a 5ft 7, size 22 Domme!

What a ridiculous statement! "

Ouch !

That was Janet's first ever post in the forums & was meant as a warm & friendly compliment on the OP's profile.

I think she'll be more wary in the future....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i suppose you get people chancing there arm....

but instead of writing back... i look at it as "well if they can't be bothered to read my profile, why should i take the time to write back!".... rather than leave the door open to abuse.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice profile you got though so can see why they'd try!

I don't understand that at all!

If I read a "nice profile" in which the man is looking for a petit bi sub I wouldn't "try" as I'm a 5ft 7, size 22 Domme!

What a ridiculous statement!

Ouch !

That was Janet's first ever post in the forums & was meant as a warm & friendly compliment on the OP's profile.

I think she'll be more wary in the future...."

No Janet should not be more wary, she should carry on in the way she wants to post - never bow down to how people want you to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice profile you got though so can see why they'd try!

I don't understand that at all!

If I read a "nice profile" in which the man is looking for a petit bi sub I wouldn't "try" as I'm a 5ft 7, size 22 Domme!

What a ridiculous statement!

Ouch !

That was Janet's first ever post in the forums & was meant as a warm & friendly compliment on the OP's profile.

I think she'll be more wary in the future....

No Janet should not be more wary, she should carry on in the way she wants to post - never bow down to how people want you to be "

Agree 100%!

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and you'll never get everyone to agree with you. Some people are fluffy wuffy crowd pleasers, some aren't.

If you're going to pick up your toys and go home every time someone doesn't answer in a way you like no one would write on the forums and they'd die!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Nice profile you got though so can see why they'd try!

I don't understand that at all!

If I read a "nice profile" in which the man is looking for a petit bi sub I wouldn't "try" as I'm a 5ft 7, size 22 Domme!

What a ridiculous statement!

Ouch !

That was Janet's first ever post in the forums & was meant as a warm & friendly compliment on the OP's profile.

I think she'll be more wary in the future...."

you guys keep posting just take the rough with the smooth probably the wrong idiom but who cares

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"Nice profile you got though so can see why they'd try!

I don't understand that at all!

If I read a "nice profile" in which the man is looking for a petit bi sub I wouldn't "try" as I'm a 5ft 7, size 22 Domme!

What a ridiculous statement!

Ouch !

That was Janet's first ever post in the forums & was meant as a warm & friendly compliment on the OP's profile.

I think she'll be more wary in the future....

No Janet should not be more wary, she should carry on in the way she wants to post - never bow down to how people want you to be "

well said totally agree

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

i get bi guys and tvs all the time

computer says noooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...this is going nicely i see....

to the op (if the question is still relevant)....there is a mind set that you may not have considered everything and possibly don't know everything or not tried everything...so why not ask, nothing to lose for asking....as long as the sender respects the fact that they may cause offence and may get a slapped wrist for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says that im not interested in the 20's age group yet i had one 22 try it on with the line "i wanted to see if you would get out of your box "

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"My profile says that im not interested in the 20's age group yet i had one 22 try it on with the line "i wanted to see if you would get out of your box ""

Im not geting back in that suitcase...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo... each to their own BUT:

What is it with some people that just don't get that a profile is intended to suggest what you're looking for ie, I'm a straight guy looking for females (single or couples) to play with, but think the offer of a "discreet meet with a bi guy" is on the cards.

Yet when kindly point out that they've failed to read my profile, I get abuse underscored with not being open-minded and hence "naive".

I would have thought my "naivety" in no way measures up to their ignorance/stupidity/desperate chasing after the exact opposite.

I'm just glad he blocked me - Now I've blocked back, he can't unblock-abuse-reblock Let the games continue Hahahaha!"

Unfortunately, a fair proportion of single "straight" guys on the site are liars as far as their sexuality is concerned.

The experiences you've had just shows that those guys judge others by their own standards.

XXXX

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Unfortunately, a fair proportion of single "straight" guys on the site are liars as far as their sexuality is concerned"

That's unfair to label single guys, the % is about equal between single and couples regarding liars about there sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately, a fair proportion of single "straight" guys on the site are liars as far as their sexuality is concerned

That's unfair to label single guys, the % is about equal between single and couples regarding liars about there sexuality "

Not unfair at all, Ahabs isn't the first single straight guy to complain about unwanted male attention.

Also, have a look at some of the TV's verifications and friends lists, see how many single "straight" guys are on them compared to couples.

There have even been posts from TV's complaining about these guys with a "Any holes a goal!" mentality.

So we'd hardly say the numbers were equal.

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