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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have had over 50 meets on fab but my rule is never to disclose my surname or address to a meet. It is amazing how you can then Google a name and Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter details etc come up. Then if it's a peat who becomes needy you can find it a nightmare.

To me privacy is an essential part of swinging so no meets at homes for me.

I have been to a few parties and am always amazed at how trusting folk are! But I think that caution is always wise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oops..typo.. Peat should read pest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't give out any personal details to people i meet on here

i dont meer at home, swap numbers give out my name and i dont use facebook or twitter

I'm single and have three daughets i don't want a guy off here turning up at my front door while my girls are home

some nutters out there

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I do what I feel comfortable with. Touch wood had no issues have given numbers.. had meets at mine etc... but maybe different for women... people with partners etc..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i don't give out any personal details to people i meet on here

i dont meer at home, swap numbers give out my name and i dont use facebook or twitter

I'm single and have three daughets i don't want a guy off here turning up at my front door while my girls are home

some nutters out there "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only give our address to people we meeting there. That's after careful vetting. However saying that, we did have a single guy who stalked Mrs m for ages, he found out where we lived and have no idea how, had to get the police involved in the end.

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By *adysilkCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"i don't give out any personal details to people i meet on here

i dont meer at home, swap numbers give out my name and i dont use facebook or twitter

I'm single and have three daughets i don't want a guy off here turning up at my front door while my girls are home

some nutters out there

Totally agree"
we agree too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one issue to which I just threatened them with calling the police which made them back off other than that I've had no problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met some nice people on here, arranged meets in clubs. Became good friends and only then invited them over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a little nieve last time I was in fab. Was at a party and stupidly gave my full name. The person was then able to goole me and turn up at my house. Can never be to careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have met some nice people on here, arranged meets in clubs. Became good friends and only then invited them over."

This!

We just trust our judgement not to swing with nutters in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was a little nieve last time I was in fab. Was at a party and stupidly gave my full name. The person was then able to goole me and turn up at my house. Can never be to careful."

Exactly

The power of Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't give surnames out at all or address have had a few meets at home but only after careful social and meets at clubs...bit different for single females I would imagine...think most of the nutters would think more than twice though about couples.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I am suprised at how much info some people share on here,ie work placesand ,mobiles and even areas they are in.

It doesnt take much for people to be able to identify you ,especially if you have a face picture on display.

We only use kik,meet publically first etc.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google reverse image search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be more naieve. No longer. Moved house too. These days the most people get is a phone number.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm often surprised at the information people share casually on the internet.

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By *havenrodMan
over a year ago

Reading

Just had my fuck buddy's brother view my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it quite amazing how people can track you down and there's no way of knowing what kinds of people are out there.

I'm always amazed by single women who want to meet me in their own home for the first meet.

Now where's my hacksaw and black bags?

And yes it's me being flippant making a tastless joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I couldn't give a hoot. Loads of my mates on here are on my FB. No biggy to me.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We use a phone purely for play. This helps keep our numbers private.

We also have a few other bits in place to protect ourselves from those who could potentially stalk us.

Proper planning prevents piss poor performance...touch wood we havent had any come backs on it yet, but no system is totally perfect

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Contrary to most, I do meet at mine almost exclusively. I take a long time before I meet and so out a lot of jerks. I almost never do spontaneous "spur of the moment" meets. So far (touch wood) I've had zero problems. I'm a single female but I have no kids at home (if I did, no way would anyone come to my home). As far as people recognizing me I don't really care, I've seen people I know here on Fab and if anyone wants to find out my work place be my guest. I am picky about phone numbers - only give out mine on the day of the meet not before. I never do phone "chats" or KIK or Whatsup or other shite like that. Maybe having a play phone as suggested above is a good idea but I can't be bothered with having 2 numbers

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