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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? " Did you or Louise thank him? | |||
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"The two of you have let him join in with one of the most intimate things a couple will do. He's burped his worm and then strolled off without a thank you? Definitely rude" "Burped his worm" | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? Did you or Louise thank him?" Very good point but he seemed reluctant to engage verbally... And did not want to push him X | |||
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"Did you want a thank you? " Nope not at all just something we were chatting about and gauging views x | |||
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"Of course he should have said thank you. " Why? She got a cock to suck and he fucked her. It was mutual pleasuring wasn't it? They aren't doing him a favour. | |||
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"He's probably the type that doesn't say thanks when you give him right of way in traffic too.... Baaarstards!!!!. " pmsl | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? " Yes no question about it! But at least all of you had fun! Some have all the luck lol.. X | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? Did you or Louise thank him? Very good point but he seemed reluctant to engage verbally... And did not want to push him X " maybe he has a really grating tone. So much so he now learns to keep schtum lest put people off his sausage. | |||
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"Of course he should have said thank you. Why? She got a cock to suck and he fucked her. It was mutual pleasuring wasn't it? They aren't doing him a favour." It's only manners. They should also have said thank you. | |||
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"Nope. I wouldnt expect someone to say thank you. Do you thank everyone you fuck? Pointless" That attitude is one of the things that is wrong with this site! | |||
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"Nope. I wouldnt expect someone to say thank you. Do you thank everyone you fuck? Pointless That attitude is one of the things that is wrong with this site! " step off the angry pedal son | |||
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"I think it called for a high five at the end " He's most likely doing that in the pub over a pint with his mates as he tells the story to them But in all seriousness he should have waved a thank you upon leaving in my opinion . After a play meet I always send a message to my play partner once I'm home saying something like that was a great evening can't wait to do it again . It cost us nothing to be polite and its a positive energy projection which often leads to a positive response back . Leave a positive glow with another and you often get a repeat meet at a later date in my experience so manners do pay off in the long run . | |||
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"Nope. I wouldnt expect someone to say thank you. Do you thank everyone you fuck? Pointless That attitude is one of the things that is wrong with this site! step off the angry pedal son " Ok, sorry mum! | |||
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"Nope. I wouldnt expect someone to say thank you. Do you thank everyone you fuck? Pointless That attitude is one of the things that is wrong with this site! " You seem eternally pissed off with fab, try the UNLOS sequence to improve your experience | |||
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"Nope. I wouldnt expect someone to say thank you. Do you thank everyone you fuck? Pointless That attitude is one of the things that is wrong with this site! You seem eternally pissed off with fab, try the UNLOS No idea what that means thanks anyway! sequence to improve your experience " | |||
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"Nope. I wouldnt expect someone to say thank you. Do you thank everyone you fuck? Pointless That attitude is one of the things that is wrong with this site! You seem eternally pissed off with fab, try the UNLOS No idea what that means thanks anyway! sequence to improve your experience " | |||
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"I do normally say thanks after having sex, I hold score cards up as well " I had a sub who had to thank me for each orgasm or I'd edge her mercilessly not letting her come she had to ask my permission to come to. The only score card we kept was a running count of how many times she would climax on a play meet . So I'm sure you will find a guy with a kink for you rating his performance and yes I do expect to be thanked for mercilessly pushing a play partner over the edge again and again . Its a dominance thing | |||
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"Nope. I wouldnt expect someone to say thank you. Do you thank everyone you fuck? Pointless That attitude is one of the things that is wrong with this site! You seem eternally pissed off with fab, try the UNLOS No idea what that means thanks anyway! sequence to improve your experience " Basically they are telling you that the way to improve your experience on here is to leave the site. | |||
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"Well let's just say, hypothetically speaking that person was me. I would have fucked you and said thank you to the two of you and probably had coffee after lol " | |||
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"We are always grateful of people that join us as enhances our experience but we were just debating if he was shy, disappointed or rude..... Ans I guess we will never know X " It's a mystery which is kind of fun I think. | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? " What?? Thankyou for fucking him? Is it some sort of service you provided? Some people | |||
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"I quite like the fact that it was all done without a word spoken. Maybe he did too and wanted to maintain that atmosphere? " | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? Did you or Louise thank him?" | |||
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"Thank you? No, I don't like it when somebody says thank you to me after sex, just seems a little wierd, I never say thank you for a shag I wouldn't just walk away though, saying good bye or nice to have met you etc seems polite " | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? Did you or Louise thank him?" They arent supposed to thank the man. That would be a bit sad especialy if it was her hubby who said thank you to him. | |||
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"Maybe the OP and partner and the guy should've thanked each each for the mutual preasure, I'm sure that they got something out of it as well." Absolutely we did and in no way unthankful.. Just intrigued x | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? What?? Thankyou for fucking him? Is it some sort of service you provided? Some people " Not at all... Not a service more mutual pleasure.... Just intrigued X | |||
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"Thank you? No, I don't like it when somebody says thank you to me after sex, just seems a little wierd, I never say thank you for a shag I wouldn't just walk away though, saying good bye or nice to have met you etc seems polite " | |||
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"Did you say thank you to him? Sorry if that's been said " We wanted to but he just dashed and seemed reluctant to converse... Not criticising him x | |||
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"Did you say thank you to him? Sorry if that's been said We wanted to but he just dashed and seemed reluctant to converse... Not criticising him x" My opinion is that if sex is a two way thing with everyone enjoying it equally nobody needs to thank anyone really | |||
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"I quite like the fact that it was all done without a word spoken. Maybe he did too and wanted to maintain that atmosphere? " This is what I was thinking. Maybe that was him playing out his fantasy & possibly thought it was your fantasy too. He possibly didn't want to spoil the moment. Imagine if he did & his voice was like Joe Pasqualy's. Getting up, pulling his trousers back up, turning to go as he does up his belt & squeaking a wobbly "thank you" as he walked away. You'd be left in stitches as he drove off. As it was he just left you's to it. Haha Saying that it's nice to be nice & do something to acknowledge you guys & what happened. Maybe leave a card? Haha | |||
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"Ok well, there were two of you and neither of you chose to thank him. So what was your reason for not thanking him, I don't really buy the "He seemed in a rush" line, he wouldn't have had the chance to zip up by the time one, or both of you had said "Cheers fella" . Fair point but really we acknowledged him... Like said previously not knocking him just getting views x No harm no foul anyway " | |||
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"Did you say thank you to him? Sorry if that's been said We wanted to but he just dashed and seemed reluctant to converse... Not criticising him x" He might have felt guilty or dirty and rushed off to scrub himself down with Dettol | |||
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"Did you say thank you to him? Sorry if that's been said We wanted to but he just dashed and seemed reluctant to converse... Not criticising him x He might have felt guilty or dirty and rushed off to scrub himself down with Dettol " Ouch, if you get Dettol on your balls you know about it, also veet too | |||
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"Did you say thank you to him? Sorry if that's been said We wanted to but he just dashed and seemed reluctant to converse... Not criticising him x He might have felt guilty or dirty and rushed off to scrub himself down with Dettol Ouch, if you get Dettol on your balls you know about it, also veet too " Why do you know what getting Dettol on your balls feels like? | |||
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"He should of said thankyou and enjoy the rest of night " A gentleman. | |||
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"He should of said thankyou and enjoy the rest of night " And we would have said... Our pleasure, thank you and have fun x | |||
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"Probably a southerner. Lol I think yes it's manners xx" Haha we're not all that bad, honestly . I agree.. Definitely manners | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? Did you or Louise thank him? Very good point but he seemed reluctant to engage verbally... And did not want to push him X " Maybe he was an illegal migrant and didn't know how to say thank you | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? Did you or Louise thank him? Very good point but he seemed reluctant to engage verbally... And did not want to push him X Maybe he was an illegal migrant and didn't know how to say thank you " | |||
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"So we were playing outdoors last Nt. Nice looking man in car next us who watched us in the car. We got out and he ended joining in the fun, receiving oral and fucking Louise.... Respectful as in kept his distance until invited. However, when he had finished so to speak he got in his car and went. Now we thing it was nice he left us happily to play together but he never spoke... Should he have lifted a hand or said a thank you? " Dumb fuck. | |||
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"At first I thought it was a bit strange of him. Then I remembered the first couple of times I met a couple - I was OK with being outside and all the fun stuff, but found the aftermath way more difficult and almost embarrassing. I'm not usually one who's stuck for words or shy, but I just didn't know what to do or say. I remember thinking "what do I say?" - I think I made a crap comment about shaking hands with them or something! I can kinda understand it therefore. I found it different once you know them a bit and you meet at the house etc." | |||
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"He's probably the type that doesn't say thanks when you give him right of way in traffic too.... Baaarstards!!!!. " BMW driver then? | |||
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"I think it called for a high five at the end He's most likely doing that in the pub over a pint with his mates as he tells the story to them But in all seriousness he should have waved a thank you upon leaving in my opinion . After a play meet I always send a message to my play partner once I'm home saying something like that was a great evening can't wait to do it again . It cost us nothing to be polite and its a positive energy projection which often leads to a positive response back . Leave a positive glow with another and you often get a repeat meet at a later date in my experience so manners do pay off in the long run . " This | |||
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"He's probably the type that doesn't say thanks when you give him right of way in traffic too.... Baaarstards!!!!. BMW driver then?" Dunno I wasn't there unfortunately..... Was he in a bmw OP? | |||
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"He's probably the type that doesn't say thanks when you give him right of way in traffic too.... Baaarstards!!!!. BMW driver then? Dunno I wasn't there unfortunately..... Was he in a bmw OP?" VW | |||
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"He should have done the double pistols in your general direction, blown the imaginary smoke away, tipped his imaginary cowboy hat to the lady, given you both a wink and dived across his bonnet like Starsky (or was it Hutch? It's been so long) before driving away with a squeal of tyres, leaving you only with memories and the smell of burning rubber." Looooooooooool, I love this, to the op, it was a shag, get over it...... . | |||
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"Nope. I wouldnt expect someone to say thank you. Do you thank everyone you fuck? Pointless" Nope; half the time I don't even know what his name is and neither do I care; NEXT | |||
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