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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Okay guys and girls. How many "regulars" is the max you would have.

Met this girl from here and she loved my company and experience. She said she wants us to be regulars. I was like cool. I only found out she has another two regulars. I was taken back abit as she told me i was not like other guys she met here and she wants to go this party as a couple with me. Etc and how she's not looking new meets. So out of respect I stopped putting meets adverts. But she had a meet with one of the regulars last night. So I'm not fussed about it but how much regulars is acceptable or how much would you have.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Just one for me. I only have 1 or 2 nights a week spare. Wouldn't have time for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person I suppose and how much time they have and what they deem as regular. That could be once a week , once a month or even once a year for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was giving someone 'regular' status there wouldn't be anyone else generally

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The most I've ever had was three. Two weekly and one I'd see every 2-3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My free time is limited, so I'm only looking for the one regular meet. Everybody is different though. It also depends on what someone defines as regular, and how often they can see each other. Sometimes it's not enough, and another regular may fill that gap.

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I'm not fussed. But to me I felt I was exclusive. So I turned down a sexual meet for a social which the girl wasn't really happy about. And she now thinks me and my "regular" are dating Lol. It's all confusing

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"I'm not fussed. But to me I felt I was exclusive. So I turned down a sexual meet for a social which the girl wasn't really happy about. And she now thinks me and my "regular" are dating Lol. It's all confusing "

You got me confused now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not fussed. But to me I felt I was exclusive. So I turned down a sexual meet for a social which the girl wasn't really happy about. And she now thinks me and my "regular" are dating Lol. It's all confusing "

If you want exclusive it's best to discuss this at the start. Assuming is never a good thing OP and normally leads to disappointment

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I'm not fussed. But to me I felt I was exclusive. So I turned down a sexual meet for a social which the girl wasn't really happy about. And she now thinks me and my "regular" are dating Lol. It's all confusing "

How could you feel exclusive if she had already told you she was meeting two other regulars?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont do regular.. but most of my friends that do have 2-3 regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had one regular at a time, but would stretch to 2 if the possibility arose (fat chance I know). There's a fine line between having enough fun with lovers and having to let one down in favour of another and hurting feelings.

I used to see a married girl who got upset that I was still trying to meet other girls - she expected me to be exclusive to her. I thought that was a little hypocritical, as she wasn't going to ditch her hubby for me!

Anyway, I think 2 is the maximum I could keep up with personally

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I'm not fussed. But to me I felt I was exclusive. So I turned down a sexual meet for a social which the girl wasn't really happy about. And she now thinks me and my "regular" are dating Lol. It's all confusing

How could you feel exclusive if she had already told you she was meeting two other regulars? "
she said stopped seeing them why she met up with me. But previous comment is true. But my question was really how many regulars would/do you have

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I'm not fussed. But to me I felt I was exclusive. So I turned down a sexual meet for a social which the girl wasn't really happy about. And she now thinks me and my "regular" are dating Lol. It's all confusing

How could you feel exclusive if she had already told you she was meeting two other regulars? she said stopped seeing them why she met up with me. But previous comment is true. But my question was really how many regulars would/do you have"

Ok so she told you one thing and done another? It's best to be upfront with each other I find. I know it's only fab but trust is very important.

To answer your question I meet 2 guys regularly but as someone above said it depends how much time you/they have to meet up etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many regulars as I have time for. I think you need open relationships for this kind of thing.

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