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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" Total generalisation, and quite untrue!! | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. " | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. " Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!! | |||
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"Not quite so.I'm married,yet I'm on here evenings and weekends( when I'm not working). My wife is sitting 6 feet away, intermittently snoring, farting and arguing at crap telly, totally uninterested in anything I say or do. Which is more or less why I'm here lol " Snap | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!!" These observations are fairly frequent so a general tone can detected Merely my observation though | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" OP. If you're specifically looking to be entertained by married gentlemen then I suggest you squeeze that into your profile. No need for all the detective work then, it will be like putting out a net and watching the salmon leap in. | |||
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"Not quite so.I'm married,yet I'm on here evenings and weekends( when I'm not working). My wife is sitting 6 feet away, intermittently snoring, farting and arguing at crap telly, totally uninterested in anything I say or do. Which is more or less why I'm here lol Snap " You've got a flatulent wife too? Who'd have thought! | |||
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"I don't believe in marriage " I'm married. Better believe it! | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!! These observations are fairly frequent so a general tone can detected Merely my observation though " Not at all! I have posted many _iews on a variety of.topics and am not on here to be critical. I get many messages but a large percentage of them state they are married and I happy to chat to them! | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" Yes! I suspect my sexy beast is married! As weekends no show! And he still not online!Will get some sleep myself! Maybe after his wife is in bed ,late at night he will re appears! | |||
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"Not quite so.I'm married,yet I'm on here evenings and weekends( when I'm not working). My wife is sitting 6 feet away, intermittently snoring, farting and arguing at crap telly, totally uninterested in anything I say or do. Which is more or less why I'm here lol " Hahaha | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. " Haha surely you know that some decide to omit that little fun fact from their profiles | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " Maybe the exceptions that prove the rule. Oh and the other married guys that have replied. And me | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. Haha surely you know that some decide to omit that little fun fact from their profiles " I don't bother saying it in my profile but my wedding ring is visible and I mention my lovely wife all the time. | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!! These observations are fairly frequent so a general tone can detected Merely my observation though Not at all! I have posted many _iews on a variety of.topics and am not on here to be critical. I get many messages but a large percentage of them state they are married and I happy to chat to them! " So if your happy to chat to them where is the issue? You simply need to chat when they're online or if that's Inconvience for you tell them that and spend your time chatting elsewhere | |||
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"That must be the same reason why not so many women are online lol." lol im a woman and im still here | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! OP. If you're specifically looking to be entertained by married gentlemen then I suggest you squeeze that into your profile. No need for all the detective work then, it will be like putting out a net and watching the salmon leap in. " Just stating MY own experience.. Obviously not everyone's, which is fair enough! I am definitely not on the lookout for married guys in particular but my preferences are stated on my profile. | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " Married too! Can I chat with the other one who you turn down? Haha | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " Snap | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. Haha surely you know that some decide to omit that little fun fact from their profiles I don't bother saying it in my profile but my wedding ring is visible and I mention my lovely wife all the time. " Looked at your pictures, and I was too distracted by your lovely long legs... I'm not jealous at all... | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!! These observations are fairly frequent so a general tone can detected Merely my observation though Not at all! I have posted many _iews on a variety of.topics and am not on here to be critical. I get many messages but a large percentage of them state they are married and I happy to chat to them! So if your happy to chat to them where is the issue? You simply need to chat when they're online or if that's Inconvience for you tell them that and spend your time chatting elsewhere " That's the point!! There was NEVER an issue!!! It was simply me staring MY experience! Not sure why my post has came over as me being critical of anything to be honest!! | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. " Funny that I have the same on my profile | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" Cant say I have noticed tbh. Lol | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. Married too! Can I chat with the other one who you turn down? Haha" Who says I'm turning one down | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. Snap " Might be the same ones | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. Married too! Can I chat with the other one who you turn down? Haha Who says I'm turning one down " You go girl!! | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!! These observations are fairly frequent so a general tone can detected Merely my observation though Not at all! I have posted many _iews on a variety of.topics and am not on here to be critical. I get many messages but a large percentage of them state they are married and I happy to chat to them! So if your happy to chat to them where is the issue? You simply need to chat when they're online or if that's Inconvience for you tell them that and spend your time chatting elsewhere That's the point!! There was NEVER an issue!!! It was simply me staring MY experience! Not sure why my post has came over as me being critical of anything to be honest!! " Personally the constant use of capitals and explainations points gives and underlying tone of aggression/disapproval | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. Haha surely you know that some decide to omit that little fun fact from their profiles I don't bother saying it in my profile but my wedding ring is visible and I mention my lovely wife all the time. Looked at your pictures, and I was too distracted by your lovely long legs... I'm not jealous at all... " thank you. I'd swap them to have been born female though. | |||
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"I don't believe in marriage I'm married. Better believe it! " Mmm. Whatever works but not for me. | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!! These observations are fairly frequent so a general tone can detected Merely my observation though Not at all! I have posted many _iews on a variety of.topics and am not on here to be critical. I get many messages but a large percentage of them state they are married and I happy to chat to them! So if your happy to chat to them where is the issue? You simply need to chat when they're online or if that's Inconvience for you tell them that and spend your time chatting elsewhere That's the point!! There was NEVER an issue!!! It was simply me staring MY experience! Not sure why my post has came over as me being critical of anything to be honest!! Personally the constant use of capitals and explainations points gives and underlying tone of aggression/disapproval " Er. Don't think so!..I think compared to some of the aggressive and bad language I have observed.on other forum posts I would have to disagree sorry! I am a very chilled person and it was simply a passing comment which seems to have been taken out of context by others. I think we will have to agree to disagree on this one. | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. Haha surely you know that some decide to omit that little fun fact from their profiles I don't bother saying it in my profile but my wedding ring is visible and I mention my lovely wife all the time. Looked at your pictures, and I was too distracted by your lovely long legs... I'm not jealous at all... thank you. I'd swap them to have been born female though. " Or just be greedy, and to have been born a female, with fabulous legs | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. Snap Might be the same ones " Wouldn't be the first time | |||
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"Personally the constant use of capitals and explainations points gives and underlying tone of aggression/disapproval " I didn't notice anything like that | |||
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"I don't believe in marriage " Me neither. My wife says I'm not allowed to | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!! These observations are fairly frequent so a general tone can detected Merely my observation though Not at all! I have posted many _iews on a variety of.topics and am not on here to be critical. I get many messages but a large percentage of them state they are married and I happy to chat to them! So if your happy to chat to them where is the issue? You simply need to chat when they're online or if that's Inconvience for you tell them that and spend your time chatting elsewhere That's the point!! There was NEVER an issue!!! It was simply me staring MY experience! Not sure why my post has came over as me being critical of anything to be honest!! Personally the constant use of capitals and explainations points gives and underlying tone of aggression/disapproval Er. Don't think so!..I think compared to some of the aggressive and bad language I have observed.on other forum posts I would have to disagree sorry! I am a very chilled person and it was simply a passing comment which seems to have been taken out of context by others. I think we will have to agree to disagree on this one. " That's fine by me | |||
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"That must be the same reason why not so many women are online lol." Touché | |||
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"Just out of curiosity Do you Any observation on married women? " I am not on here to meet women and never chat to them so no idea - I have no interest in how many ladies are married on fab sorry. Each to their own. We all have our reasons for being on fab at the end of the day. | |||
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"Personally the constant use of capitals and explainations points gives and underlying tone of aggression/disapproval I didn't notice anything like that " Me neither | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " with a hidden profile you must do this by magic.... | |||
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"I don't believe in marriage I'm married. Better believe it! Mmm. Whatever works but not for me." I'm not asking you to marry me joe.... Well not yet. Fancy a fuck in the meantime | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. with a hidden profile you must do this by magic...." You can still message people when you're profile is hidden | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. with a hidden profile you must do this by magic.... You can still message people when you're profile is hidden" You beat me to it. No magic about it, quite straight forward. | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. with a hidden profile you must do this by magic.... You can still message people when you're profile is hidden You beat me to it. No magic about it, quite straight forward. " Although she can do other tricks | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. Haha surely you know that some decide to omit that little fun fact from their profiles I don't bother saying it in my profile but my wedding ring is visible and I mention my lovely wife all the time. Looked at your pictures, and I was too distracted by your lovely long legs... I'm not jealous at all... thank you. I'd swap them to have been born female though. Or just be greedy, and to have been born a female, with fabulous legs " Now that would have been a dream come true | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. with a hidden profile you must do this by magic.... You can still message people when you're profile is hidden You beat me to it. No magic about it, quite straight forward. Although she can do other tricks " | |||
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"I've found it's the single men who go quiet after work and at weekends. They chat when they are bored af work then turn off the work pc and go home,to do the interesting stuff in their lives. " Well said. As a single man, weekday evenings I am in the gym and when I get back it's eat and sleep. Last thing I want to do is chat cos am tired... On the weekend, I am out and about living and you are unlikely to catch me skyping on a Saturday night. I am out having fun!! | |||
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"I've found it's the single men who go quiet after work and at weekends. They chat when they are bored af work then turn off the work pc and go home,to do the interesting stuff in their lives. Well said. As a single man, weekday evenings I am in the gym and when I get back it's eat and sleep. Last thing I want to do is chat cos am tired... On the weekend, I am out and about living and you are unlikely to catch me skyping on a Saturday night. I am out having fun!! " So I can see | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. Haha surely you know that some decide to omit that little fun fact from their profiles I don't bother saying it in my profile but my wedding ring is visible and I mention my lovely wife all the time. Looked at your pictures, and I was too distracted by your lovely long legs... I'm not jealous at all... " Well, I'm bloody jealous! In one photo there's a leg DRAPED OVER A FIREPLACE!!! A fireplace! I mean... Well...really... WHY DON'T I HAVE LONG LEGS LIKE THAT!!! Flounces off out of the thread in a jealous rage. | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is. | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " Ha ha love it, do you want a third married guy | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is." Overreact much ? | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is." Glad it seems I'm not alone in the tone I detected in the OP | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " About time someone stuck 2 fingers up to wot other people think! Well done... | |||
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"And there was me thinking that having married written in my profile was a dead giveaway. Haha surely you know that some decide to omit that little fun fact from their profiles I don't bother saying it in my profile but my wedding ring is visible and I mention my lovely wife all the time. Looked at your pictures, and I was too distracted by your lovely long legs... I'm not jealous at all... Well, I'm bloody jealous! In one photo there's a leg DRAPED OVER A FIREPLACE!!! A fireplace! I mean... Well...really... WHY DON'T I HAVE LONG LEGS LIKE THAT!!! Flounces off out of the thread in a jealous rage. " Would it help if I said I'm all an illusion? Even my foo foo | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. Ha ha love it, do you want a third married guy " I can usually squeeze another one in | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!!" We agree with you op,we don't seek single guys but we do notice we get inundated with messages through the week until around 6am,very few at the weekend then they start again around 4am Monday morning | |||
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"Personally the constant use of capitals and explainations points gives and underlying tone of aggression/disapproval I didn't notice anything like that " Agree the op is not being remotely aggressive at all | |||
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"Can't say I'd ever be that bothered to notice a trend in when certain groups are online. As we say in Liverpool 'who's arsed' " | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is. Glad it seems I'm not alone in the tone I detected in the OP " But plenty of others haven't detected any tone only the one you choose to think your detecting because you don't agree with the OP's posts.. | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " | |||
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"Can't say I'd ever be that bothered to notice a trend in when certain groups are online. As we say in Liverpool 'who's arsed'" Blimey, you're up early for someone from Liverpool. Mr ddc | |||
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"Can't say I'd ever be that bothered to notice a trend in when certain groups are online. As we say in Liverpool 'who's arsed' Blimey, you're up early for someone from Liverpool. Mr ddc" Gotta cash my giro | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is. Glad it seems I'm not alone in the tone I detected in the OP But plenty of others haven't detected any tone only the one you choose to think your detecting because you don't agree with the OP's posts.." So it's In a similar way that you don't detect it as you agree with the op then isn't it? Last time I checked there wasn't a rule against having an opposing opinion Me and the OP have agreed to disagree on that matter so it's all good | |||
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"Can't say I'd ever be that bothered to notice a trend in when certain groups are online. As we say in Liverpool 'who's arsed' Blimey, you're up early for someone from Liverpool. Mr ddc Gotta cash my giro " | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is. Glad it seems I'm not alone in the tone I detected in the OP But plenty of others haven't detected any tone only the one you choose to think your detecting because you don't agree with the OP's posts.. So it's In a similar way that you don't detect it as you agree with the op then isn't it? Last time I checked there wasn't a rule against having an opposing opinion Me and the OP have agreed to disagree on that matter so it's all good " Opinion on her post yep agree,trying to say she has an aggressive tone when clearly she hasn't maybe not so fine,people can defend there point you know without sounding aggressive maybe it's just being assertive | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is. Glad it seems I'm not alone in the tone I detected in the OP But plenty of others haven't detected any tone only the one you choose to think your detecting because you don't agree with the OP's posts.. So it's In a similar way that you don't detect it as you agree with the op then isn't it? Last time I checked there wasn't a rule against having an opposing opinion Me and the OP have agreed to disagree on that matter so it's all good Opinion on her post yep agree,trying to say she has an aggressive tone when clearly she hasn't maybe not so fine,people can defend there point you know without sounding aggressive maybe it's just being assertive " I didn't think she was being aggressive in her post either. Just voicing her opinion | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is. Glad it seems I'm not alone in the tone I detected in the OP But plenty of others haven't detected any tone only the one you choose to think your detecting because you don't agree with the OP's posts.. So it's In a similar way that you don't detect it as you agree with the op then isn't it? Last time I checked there wasn't a rule against having an opposing opinion Me and the OP have agreed to disagree on that matter so it's all good Opinion on her post yep agree,trying to say she has an aggressive tone when clearly she hasn't maybe not so fine,people can defend there point you know without sounding aggressive maybe it's just being assertive I didn't think she was being aggressive in her post either. Just voicing her opinion " | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" nah. That's not always the case. Depends what shifts some are on lol. I chat to one when he's at work or she's out | |||
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"Some men see there kids over the weekend though I can't meet from Friday till Sunday due to that reason " Yes my ex has our kids alternate weekends so once a fortnight he's with them and fab is the last thing on his mind, it's a shame so many just like to assume the worst of people | |||
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"Some men see there kids over the weekend though I can't meet from Friday till Sunday due to that reason Yes my ex has our kids alternate weekends so once a fortnight he's with them and fab is the last thing on his mind, it's a shame so many just like to assume the worst of people " Is your ex on fab? Is that awkward ? Genuinely curious | |||
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"I've never seen her on here but she us in a relationship so they may have a private profile I wouldn't find awkward it's over between us " I wasn't quoting you ya div | |||
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"Some men see there kids over the weekend though I can't meet from Friday till Sunday due to that reason Yes my ex has our kids alternate weekends so once a fortnight he's with them and fab is the last thing on his mind, it's a shame so many just like to assume the worst of people Is your ex on fab? Is that awkward ? Genuinely curious " Yes he is but it's how me originally met now we block each other to save any awkwardness it seems to work well | |||
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"Some men see there kids over the weekend though I can't meet from Friday till Sunday due to that reason Yes my ex has our kids alternate weekends so once a fortnight he's with them and fab is the last thing on his mind, it's a shame so many just like to assume the worst of people Is your ex on fab? Is that awkward ? Genuinely curious Yes he is but it's how me originally met now we block each other to save any awkwardness it seems to work well " Ahhh I see. I'd be genuinely shocked if I seen my last ex on here he was as vanilla as they come | |||
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"Some men see there kids over the weekend though I can't meet from Friday till Sunday due to that reason Yes my ex has our kids alternate weekends so once a fortnight he's with them and fab is the last thing on his mind, it's a shame so many just like to assume the worst of people Is your ex on fab? Is that awkward ? Genuinely curious Yes he is but it's how me originally met now we block each other to save any awkwardness it seems to work well Ahhh I see. I'd be genuinely shocked if I seen my last ex on here he was as vanilla as they come " My ex hubby was shocked to find me on here apparently if he knew I was into this he'd have never left me for his other woman, I did point out he could have just asked me | |||
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"Some men see there kids over the weekend though I can't meet from Friday till Sunday due to that reason Yes my ex has our kids alternate weekends so once a fortnight he's with them and fab is the last thing on his mind, it's a shame so many just like to assume the worst of people Is your ex on fab? Is that awkward ? Genuinely curious Yes he is but it's how me originally met now we block each other to save any awkwardness it seems to work well Ahhh I see. I'd be genuinely shocked if I seen my last ex on here he was as vanilla as they come " wot? he loved ice cream? | |||
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"I've found it's the single men who go quiet after work and at weekends. They chat when they are bored af work then turn off the work pc and go home,to do the interesting stuff in their lives. " This is my experience too | |||
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"Some men see there kids over the weekend though I can't meet from Friday till Sunday due to that reason Yes my ex has our kids alternate weekends so once a fortnight he's with them and fab is the last thing on his mind, it's a shame so many just like to assume the worst of people Is your ex on fab? Is that awkward ? Genuinely curious Yes he is but it's how me originally met now we block each other to save any awkwardness it seems to work well Ahhh I see. I'd be genuinely shocked if I seen my last ex on here he was as vanilla as they come wot? he loved ice cream? " Only the vanilla variety. No sprinkles or sauce | |||
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"Some men see there kids over the weekend though I can't meet from Friday till Sunday due to that reason Yes my ex has our kids alternate weekends so once a fortnight he's with them and fab is the last thing on his mind, it's a shame so many just like to assume the worst of people Is your ex on fab? Is that awkward ? Genuinely curious Yes he is but it's how me originally met now we block each other to save any awkwardness it seems to work well Ahhh I see. I'd be genuinely shocked if I seen my last ex on here he was as vanilla as they come wot? he loved ice cream? Only the vanilla variety. No sprinkles or sauce " not even a bit of flake now and again?? | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" Many reasons why folk of all genders stop or chat intermittently, to say guys stop chatting after 5:30 or at weekends because they're married is unlikely to be the only reason, I'd put forward they've got a real world life rather than 'they're married" as a more likely reason. | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is. Glad it seems I'm not alone in the tone I detected in the OP But plenty of others haven't detected any tone only the one you choose to think your detecting because you don't agree with the OP's posts.. So it's In a similar way that you don't detect it as you agree with the op then isn't it? Last time I checked there wasn't a rule against having an opposing opinion Me and the OP have agreed to disagree on that matter so it's all good Opinion on her post yep agree,trying to say she has an aggressive tone when clearly she hasn't maybe not so fine,people can defend there point you know without sounding aggressive maybe it's just being assertive " So you interpreted it as assertiveness that's fine if that's your interpretation. I've just managed to assert my opinion without the need for exclamation points and capital letters that always appear in my opinion shouty/ranty | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Why do you have to make such a production of it???? Yes married men do play on Fab (what a surprise) and you don't like married men (noted). So? A lot of us don't care what someone's marital status is. Glad it seems I'm not alone in the tone I detected in the OP But plenty of others haven't detected any tone only the one you choose to think your detecting because you don't agree with the OP's posts.. So it's In a similar way that you don't detect it as you agree with the op then isn't it? Last time I checked there wasn't a rule against having an opposing opinion Me and the OP have agreed to disagree on that matter so it's all good Opinion on her post yep agree,trying to say she has an aggressive tone when clearly she hasn't maybe not so fine,people can defend there point you know without sounding aggressive maybe it's just being assertive So you interpreted it as assertiveness that's fine if that's your interpretation. I've just managed to assert my opinion without the need for exclamation points and capital letters that always appear in my opinion shouty/ranty " | |||
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"Not quite so.I'm married,yet I'm on here evenings and weekends( when I'm not working). My wife is sitting 6 feet away, intermittently snoring, farting and arguing at crap telly, totally uninterested in anything I say or do. Which is more or less why I'm here lol " same here we all have our reasons to be on here you either like it or you don't I'm not really bothered | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Many reasons why folk of all genders stop or chat intermittently, to say guys stop chatting after 5:30 or at weekends because they're married is unlikely to be the only reason, I'd put forward they've got a real world life rather than 'they're married" as a more likely reason. " I'm less chatty after 3pm because I pick children up from school and have life stuff to do for my family. Some weekends I don't get time to scratch my arse,so I'm not going to spend hours chatting about meeting or sex. | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Many reasons why folk of all genders stop or chat intermittently, to say guys stop chatting after 5:30 or at weekends because they're married is unlikely to be the only reason, I'd put forward they've got a real world life rather than 'they're married" as a more likely reason. " | |||
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"The use of ! Makes the tone seem aggressive. " Not to me it doesn't. I often use !! if I find something funny. | |||
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"The use of ! Makes the tone seem aggressive. " I agree. It's make it seem a very abrupt way to state her observation/opinion and ergo I thought aggressive | |||
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"The use of ! Makes the tone seem aggressive. " Really! Or is it used as just highlighting a point, unless someone uses words that are aggressive who are we to say someone is saying something aggressive just by using capitals or exclamation marks,people read things how they want to read things but that doesn't mean it's being said nastily or AGGRESSIVELY | |||
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"The use of ! Makes the tone seem aggressive. Not to me it doesn't. I often use !! if I find something funny." Depends on its context in which its used after all wow!! - Could either denote great surprise, shock or even distain That's hilarious!! - could mean you either find it genuinely humorous or it could also denote sarcasm Used in the context of the OP it's clear some have interpreted aggression whilst others merely assertiveness So as they often say some times it's not what you say but how you say it, or in this case write it | |||
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"The use of ! Makes the tone seem aggressive. Not to me it doesn't. I often use !! if I find something funny. Depends on its context in which its used after all wow!! - Could either denote great surprise, shock or even distain That's hilarious!! - could mean you either find it genuinely humorous or it could also denote sarcasm Used in the context of the OP it's clear some have interpreted aggression whilst others merely assertiveness So as they often say some times it's not what you say but how you say it, or in this case write it " Or how you read it.... | |||
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"The use of ! Makes the tone seem aggressive. Not to me it doesn't. I often use !! if I find something funny. Depends on its context in which its used after all wow!! - Could either denote great surprise, shock or even distain That's hilarious!! - could mean you either find it genuinely humorous or it could also denote sarcasm Used in the context of the OP it's clear some have interpreted aggression whilst others merely assertiveness So as they often say some times it's not what you say but how you say it, or in this case write it Or how you read it...." Of course but isn't that the beauty of diversity where people are concerned | |||
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"After a series of threads We get it OP you don't like cheating married guys, but you know how to spot them so just avoid them. Actually I simply made an observation citing my own experience and at no time have I stated my _iews on married men on fab, whether I approve or not!!! We agree with you op,we don't seek single guys but we do notice we get inundated with messages through the week until around 6am,very few at the weekend then they start again around 4am Monday morning " Married men have to get up 4am Monday morning Remind me never to propose to anyone I like my sleep! | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" Yeah how dare us single guys who are full time parents put our time onto our kids once we home, we must be fake! | |||
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"I've found it's the single men who go quiet after work and at weekends. They chat when they are bored af work then turn off the work pc and go home,to do the interesting stuff in their lives. Well said. As a single man, weekday evenings I am in the gym and when I get back it's eat and sleep. Last thing I want to do is chat cos am tired... On the weekend, I am out and about living and you are unlikely to catch me skyping on a Saturday night. I am out having fun!! " Definitely this. | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" I'm single but I work a lot of evenings so sometimes I'm not on after 6 till 10/11ish | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Yeah how dare us single guys who are full time parents put our time onto our kids once we home, we must be fake! " so youre a guy who is also a single parent then. you see im 55 and in my day you never used to hear about men being single parents so this is quite new to me. | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" I think married men are allowed on the internet at weekends aren't they? | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! I think married men are allowed on the internet at weekends aren't they? " No they are probably too busy. | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! I think married men are allowed on the internet at weekends aren't they? No they are probably too busy." To busy to browse their phone? Surely not Is that what married life's come to now? | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! Yeah how dare us single guys who are full time parents put our time onto our kids once we home, we must be fake! so youre a guy who is also a single parent then. you see im 55 and in my day you never used to hear about men being single parents so this is quite new to me. " Well it isn't 1970 anymore lovely! Women can even lift heavy things | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! I think married men are allowed on the internet at weekends aren't they? No they are probably too busy. To busy to browse their phone? Surely not Is that what married life's come to now? " Yes im afraid it is, they dont go to the pub with their mates like they used to either, they have to look after the kids and stuff. | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" well I'm married and I'm on at all times when not working what's wrong with being married | |||
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"Not quite so.I'm married,yet I'm on here evenings and weekends( when I'm not working). My wife is sitting 6 feet away, intermittently snoring, farting and arguing at crap telly, totally uninterested in anything I say or do. Which is more or less why I'm here lol Snap " thus we are swingers | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?!" You really do like to bang that drum don't you OP? At least most of the married guys on here will admit it - not like on most 'dating' sites - so we can make an informed decision as to whether we meet them or not! Frankly I think the only people who have the right to be 'outraged' are their husbands/wives or partners should they find out! | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! You really do like to bang that drum don't you OP? At least most of the married guys on here will admit it - not like on most 'dating' sites - so we can make an informed decision as to whether we meet them or not! Frankly I think the only people who have the right to be 'outraged' are their husbands/wives or partners should they find out! " She's made it clear she doesn't go on about married men or have an issue with them, apparently | |||
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"They are never around to chat on here after 5.30pm or on weekends! Any others on here notice this?! You really do like to bang that drum don't you OP? At least most of the married guys on here will admit it - not like on most 'dating' sites - so we can make an informed decision as to whether we meet them or not! Frankly I think the only people who have the right to be 'outraged' are their husbands/wives or partners should they find out! She's made it clear she doesn't go on about married men or have an issue with them, apparently " She has? That's good to know! | |||
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"Oh dear it's after half 5 I've got to go " I'm gonna stick around. Women might think I'm single. | |||
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"Oh dear it's after half 5 I've got to go I'm gonna stick around. Women might think I'm single. " I only meet married guys | |||
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"Is it 5.30 yet? It is? Oh hell. " omg my clocks stopped, need to go sorry. Lol. Xx | |||
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"Well it's 8:22pm and I'm exchanging messages with two married men, while being married myself, and looking to set up a weekend meet with one of them soon so, no. " | |||
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"Well I'm here so maybe my clocks stopped oh and I haven't hidden the fact either. No point lying" Your brave with a face pic. | |||
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"Well I'm here so maybe my clocks stopped oh and I haven't hidden the fact either. No point lying Your brave with a face pic. " Ahh she knows. Big difference. That's why you have face pic, sorry | |||
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"Well I'm here so maybe my clocks stopped oh and I haven't hidden the fact either. No point lying Your brave with a face pic. Ahh she knows. Big difference. That's why you have face pic, sorry " Like I said I have nothing to hide | |||
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