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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure if it's just me that gets annoyed with this but interested to know others opinions

If someone sends you an friends invite but never actually makes any attempt to message or talk to you...do you add them?

Just find it...not annoying as such...but why do people do it...if they want to be a friend take the time and effort to show it and talk to me, get to know me, dont send me an invite and say nothing.....

Am I alone in thinking this?

She who must go to bed soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo not, i decline if the person hasnt even messaged me, too right, highly rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no your right if I get a friends invite I ignore it and if I dont get a message then I delete it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wait till there in bed, accept, perv their pics, then delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wait till there in bed, accept, perv their pics, then delete. "

hahaha like that idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"wait till there in bed, accept, perv their pics, then delete. "

do you know....i have actually done that before he he naughty me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wait till there in bed, accept, perv their pics, then delete.

do you know....i have actually done that before he he naughty me x"
i do it eveery day, often found some worth keeping on my friends list too lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you know what I'll be doing with my friends invites now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well you know what I'll be doing with my friends invites now "

good lass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well you know what I'll be doing with my friends invites now "

thinks we should perhaps spread the word and get everyone doing it........then again maybe not ...just keep it too ourselves eh?

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well you know what I'll be doing with my friends invites now

thinks we should perhaps spread the word and get everyone doing it........then again maybe not ...just keep it too ourselves eh?

lol"

yeah shhhh or no one will send invites no more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well you know what I'll be doing with my friends invites now

thinks we should perhaps spread the word and get everyone doing it........then again maybe not ...just keep it too ourselves eh?

lol

yeah shhhh or no one will send invites no more "

yeh suddenly realised that when i was typing lol.......its late and i had a shitty day lol......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely keep it quiet at least till Ive had a few more to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

yeh suddenly realised that when i was typing lol.......its late and i had a shitty day lol......"

Not to bad I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have any pics to perv anyways lol i thought the general feeling was cock shots are not good? what do u guys think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

yeh suddenly realised that when i was typing lol.......its late and i had a shitty day lol......

Not to bad I hope"

depends how bad u think nearly walking out of your job is lol.......anyway noone wants to hear that.....lets get back to devious methods of checking friends invites lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you any other device little ways we should know about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have you any other device little ways we should know about "

not yet....maybe someone else has lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hope so love finding new ways of doing things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hope so love finding new ways of doing things "

always good fun...learning new things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

somethings more than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you any other device little ways we should know about "
lots of devious little ways here hun ...stick around the forums ...youll learn them all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have you any other device little ways we should know about lots of devious little ways here hun ...stick around the forums ...youll learn them all"

oo intrigued do tell....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it's just me that gets annoyed with this but interested to know others opinions

If someone sends you an friends invite but never actually makes any attempt to message or talk to you...do you add them?

Just find it...not annoying as such...but why do people do it...if they want to be a friend take the time and effort to show it and talk to me, get to know me, dont send me an invite and say nothing.....

Am I alone in thinking this?

She who must go to bed soon xx"

drives us to distraction....we also do as puresilk...hee hee....and have a peek before deleting....... but most tend to have NO private pics....so whats the point. One young lady who sent a friend request the other day was very pretty in her profile pic but under our age group (21 year olds dont do it for me)......but as nicky is younger than me and fancied the look of her we sent a nice message to find out a little more about the newbie..........you guessed it......no response....lmao!!! 99.99999% of them are pic collectors we have decided..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it's just me that gets annoyed with this but interested to know others opinions

If someone sends you an friends invite but never actually makes any attempt to message or talk to you...do you add them?

Just find it...not annoying as such...but why do people do it...if they want to be a friend take the time and effort to show it and talk to me, get to know me, dont send me an invite and say nothing.....

Am I alone in thinking this?

She who must go to bed soon xx

drives us to distraction....we also do as puresilk...hee hee....and have a peek before deleting....... but most tend to have NO private pics....so whats the point. One young lady who sent a friend request the other day was very pretty in her profile pic but under our age group (21 year olds dont do it for me)......but as nicky is younger than me and fancied the look of her we sent a nice message to find out a little more about the newbie..........you guessed it......no response....lmao!!! 99.99999% of them are pic collectors we have decided.......... "

that pretty young girl sent me a friend request... i deleted, next day sent again...now me thinks its a guy, why wud a young girl just constantly send friend invites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

englishlassie, you right but i've just done that to someone now i'll correct it and take that onboard thanks for puttin me right x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"englishlassie, you right but i've just done that to someone now i'll correct it and take that onboard thanks for puttin me right x "

bless ya......hope they reply xx

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

i think i must be a tad old fashioned as the only peeps on our friends list are infact friends, meaning people we have met and know...and know well for a number of yrs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think i must be a tad old fashioned as the only peeps on our friends list are infact friends, meaning people we have met and know...and know well for a number of yrs...."

Same here people we have met and played with or have talked to at parties and clubs

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"i think i must be a tad old fashioned as the only peeps on our friends list are infact friends, meaning people we have met and know...and know well for a number of yrs...."

We must be old fashioned as well ...... or just plain old lol

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"i think i must be a tad old fashioned as the only peeps on our friends list are infact friends, meaning people we have met and know...and know well for a number of yrs....

We must be old fashioned as well ...... or just plain old lol"

and guess what in the time it took me to write the last post we got our first friends request of the day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think i must be a tad old fashioned as the only peeps on our friends list are infact friends, meaning people we have met and know...and know well for a number of yrs....

We must be old fashioned as well ...... or just plain old lol

and guess what in the time it took me to write the last post we got our first friends request of the day! "

wasn't me...not guilty

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

and yes its a single male with no pics on the profile 'for professional' reasons. Do they get their kicks from thinking there will be extra saucy pics in private?

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"i think i must be a tad old fashioned as the only peeps on our friends list are infact friends, meaning people we have met and know...and know well for a number of yrs....

We must be old fashioned as well ...... or just plain old lol

and guess what in the time it took me to write the last post we got our first friends request of the day!

wasn't me...not guilty "

Aww Samantha I'm sure we could become friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah We all get it I'd say I get a bloody stupid wink then invite like hello you've not even spoke yet .Then you get ones that type hi ! Thats it LOL nothing stopping a ban from contact for lack of effort though is there LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah We all get it I'd say I get a bloody stupid wink then invite like hello you've not even spoke yet .Then you get ones that type hi ! Thats it LOL nothing stopping a ban from contact for lack of effort though is there LOL "

I have blocked guys who have done that before.....its a half hearted can't really be arsed attempt to contact someone.....waste of my time n they don't get a reply from me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sick of writing long messages only to get no reply so I'll invite you as a friend if you accept perv my pics then I will message you because you'll be interested a little bit at least.

On the flip side when i get friend invites from people who are 200 miles from my location I delete them because we are never gonna meet, unless they convince me that they might be passing by.

I regularly delete friends who make little or no effort with me. I think have a massive friend list proves nothing.

If you only add people you have met how are you ever gonna meet anymore people? The internet is about meeting new people. Ok the majority aren't worth knowing but give us a chance first.... lol.

Cheers

Lee x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have it written in the profile as politely as we can.. and still get at least one or two a day..

Some we ignore and block.. some we reply to lol.. saying a whole load of so sorry we didn't get right back.. its been ages how are you etc etc.. but it was lovely to meet them and we hope we get to play with the other half next time too...

sets them thinking.. then we block lol.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"We have it written in the profile as politely as we can.. and still get at least one or two a day..

Some we ignore and block.. some we reply to lol.. saying a whole load of so sorry we didn't get right back.. its been ages how are you etc etc.. but it was lovely to meet them and we hope we get to play with the other half next time too...

sets them thinking.. then we block lol.

"

Like your style - we say no winks/friends requests but amazing how many people never get that far in to the profile lol supoose it makes me wonder if our profile is to wordy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have it written in the profile as politely as we can.. and still get at least one or two a day..

Some we ignore and block.. some we reply to lol.. saying a whole load of so sorry we didn't get right back.. its been ages how are you etc etc.. but it was lovely to meet them and we hope we get to play with the other half next time too...

sets them thinking.. then we block lol.

Like your style - we say no winks/friends requests but amazing how many people never get that far in to the profile lol supoose it makes me wonder if our profile is to wordy "

Nahh... If they can't read that far and want to meet.. well, lazy lol. Lazy is lazy... We read all if were interested .. always.

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

we the same we ask for a message and still get winks and invites, we use to be nice and message them asking them to writeto us with a bit of detail. still get no reply and then they send the invite wink just use the block button now, i think i have blocked six couples this week alone

oh well at least you can do something about it know

sue

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

i was under the impression that if you received a friends invite it was so you could look into there private gallery so you could see what they looked like and then discover that they have no pics in there but have browsed your so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best ones are the invites from the err couple with no pictures no verifications then only on during the day..... and a string of friends a mile long!

Have these Women nothing better to do than perve our pics all day lol.. I mean come on what were they all thinking ff's lol..

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"The best ones are the invites from the err couple with no pictures no verifications then only on during the day..... and a string of friends a mile long!

Have these Women nothing better to do than perve our pics all day lol.. I mean come on what were they all thinking ff's lol.."

we must attract the same folks lol

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

No 2 for the day, at least this one has a cartoon and a cock shot in his public pics ........ am I tempted ............................................. No I'm not pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tempted to go for 3rd time lucky......lmao!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am sick of writing long messages only to get no reply so I'll invite you as a friend if you accept perv my pics then I will message you because you'll be interested a little bit at least.

On the flip side when i get friend invites from people who are 200 miles from my location I delete them because we are never gonna meet, unless they convince me that they might be passing by.

I regularly delete friends who make little or no effort with me. I think have a massive friend list proves nothing.

If you only add people you have met how are you ever gonna meet anymore people? The internet is about meeting new people. Ok the majority aren't worth knowing but give us a chance first.... lol.

Cheers

Lee x"

hey lee......happily give ppl a chance....if they make the effort...just sending a friends invite isn't an effort as far as I'm concerned .

I see what ur saying bout deleting ppl miles away....sometimes I do that too...n i'll go thru my friends list n delete ppl who haven't bn in touch or replied to messages for ages

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have it written in the profile as politely as we can.. and still get at least one or two a day..

Some we ignore and block.. some we reply to lol.. saying a whole load of so sorry we didn't get right back.. its been ages how are you etc etc.. but it was lovely to meet them and we hope we get to play with the other half next time too...

sets them thinking.. then we block lol.

Like your style - we say no winks/friends requests but amazing how many people never get that far in to the profile lol supoose it makes me wonder if our profile is to wordy

Nahh... If they can't read that far and want to meet.. well, lazy lol. Lazy is lazy... We read all if were interested .. always. "

agree with u there...if they can't be bothered to read a profile ..... well doesn't make me wana reply to them lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Requests with silhuette icons get deleted imediately.

As do the ones with no pics of the male in the Public Gallery.

Others we do the same as Silk,most have no Private pics anyway.

We give notice of this in our profile but still get them.

XXXX

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

we havew no profile pciture, as i can't seem to find one that i would like to put in it. am not overly keen on photos even in private gallery, but can see why people say no photo in profile no message

sue

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we only have a pic of the two of us holding hands under water in our public pics but if we make an approach to anyone we always attach a proper pic of us both together and its one taken very recently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Gosh... Am I doing it wrong ?

I got himself to be my profile pin up to start with.... changed it to me....have some public and some private picts.

Had a few invites, accepted those who wrote a script. and have arrange to meet socially with a view to becoming closer friends......What can I do next??

after all We are new to this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Gosh... Am I doing it wrong ?

I got himself to be my profile pin up to start with.... changed it to me....have some public and some private picts.

Had a few invites, accepted those who wrote a script. and have arrange to meet socially with a view to becoming closer friends......What can I do next??

after all We are new to this.. "

O.K....well you don't have face pics in your Public gallery but thats your choice.

At least you have pics of both of you to give an idea of what your like....which is more than most do.

Assuming you have face pics in your Private gallery, can't see anything your doing wrong.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

10:45 and already got 18 friends invites none of whome have messaged me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10:45 and already got 18 friends invites none of whome have messaged me..... "

Your just boasting now!

XXXX

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By *ickyfittsMan
over a year ago

newbury


"10:45 and already got 18 friends invites none of whome have messaged me..... "

Wow lol! It's funny, as a single guy, you have no idea what it's like to be popular on here.

I only make friends requests to people I've had a bit of communication with...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10:45 and already got 18 friends invites none of whome have messaged me.....

Your just boasting now!

XXXX"

not intentionally lol....just illustrating a point lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the clue is in the title, "Friends"!!

If you haven't spoken to them in any way, then how do they know anything about you, and therefore how can they request to be your friend?

Being the cynic I am, they're obviously 100% plonkers!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol maybe we should buy them a dictionary then?? what ya think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just need a bit of love, and having pretend cyber friends helps them along the way lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people just need a bit of love, and having pretend cyber friends helps them along the way lol"

lol awwww......you talking from experience hun or observation lol

wolves eh? small world lol

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

we got a friends invite from a couple who we hadnt spoke and they hadnt sent a message, i accepted as they looked pretty hot and i thought they were showing an interest, after i accepted i sent a nice message thanking them for the invite and hot they looked and hopefully we can get together sometime for a drink and see where it leads from there............

and yep u guessed the fookers didnt even reply!!!! how rude, so i just pressed the delete button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao yup frustrating LOL like yourself I gave pm across if I hear nothing ban LOL were they new as I find that newbies invite you according to your pro look through your friends list then pm them all LOL easy sorted it's now hidden cheer up njoy what you have not what may come from ignoramuses hehehe x

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

lol!!!!

im very cheerful as i have met lots of nice people and friends and wouldnt let that get me down their loss

ps

dont think they were newbies

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