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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

I'm after some advice on how to spot fake couples profile.

How long do you chat to a couple before exchange of face pics??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, if people are genuine and keen to meet then they'll have no issues sending face pics. Some would rather chat a bit first where as others will be happy to send one straight away. I prefer the latter approach as there may be no attraction after chatting for days/weeks then its been a bit of a waste. If they are cagey and try to avoid sending one then leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send face pic with first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my way but everyone will probably judge it...

Are they verified? If not, dodgy

Anyone can download kik these days , it's anonymous and can share live pics or vids to verify if they're real. If not, dodgy.

Do they speak on the phone? If not, dodgy.

If only guy speaks, dodgy.

Skype or any other cam site, if not, dodgy.

Don't share anything with anyone until most of these are met...

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

If they look like that hardy fella, only send you 2 pics and you get disappointed when for some reason they don't turn up, there's a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my way but everyone will probably judge it...

Are they verified? If not, dodgy

Anyone can download kik these days , it's anonymous and can share live pics or vids to verify if they're real. If not, dodgy.

Do they speak on the phone? If not, dodgy.

If only guy speaks, dodgy.

Skype or any other cam site, if not, dodgy.

Don't share anything with anyone until most of these are met..."

Don't have Kik

Don't have Skype

Never spoke to anyone on the phone

I must be dodgy

x

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

We have one couple and he has been chattingenerated, few messages on here the kik 15-20 messages on there when I asked for pic his reply was we are shy and need to get to know you better. They have no profile pic at all but think they were photo verified but will have another look.

Might just chalk this one to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have one couple and he has been chattingenerated, few messages on here the kik 15-20 messages on there when I asked for pic his reply was we are shy and need to get to know you better. They have no profile pic at all but think they were photo verified but will have another look.

Might just chalk this one to experience "

I'd just say let us know if you're interested and send a face pic when comfortable then leave it at that. If they're not forthcoming then leave them to it.

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"We have one couple and he has been chattingenerated, few messages on here the kik 15-20 messages on there when I asked for pic his reply was we are shy and need to get to know you better. They have no profile pic at all but think they were photo verified but will have another look.

Might just chalk this one to experience "

Sorry I got this wrong they verified on cam twice

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"We have one couple and he has been chattingenerated, few messages on here the kik 15-20 messages on there when I asked for pic his reply was we are shy and need to get to know you better. They have no profile pic at all but think they were photo verified but will have another look.

Might just chalk this one to experience

I'd just say let us know if you're interested and send a face pic when comfortable then leave it at that. If they're not forthcoming then leave them to it. "

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By *ndianswingers.Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Too many on here spoiling what was once a great site x

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"We have one couple and he has been chattingenerated, few messages on here the kik 15-20 messages on there when I asked for pic his reply was we are shy and need to get to know you better. They have no profile pic at all but think they were photo verified but will have another look.

Might just chalk this one to experience

I'd just say let us know if you're interested and send a face pic when comfortable then leave it at that. If they're not forthcoming then leave them to it. "

Trouble is he's not the most chatty unless we are talking about sex. Other conversation is met with 1 word answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my way but everyone will probably judge it...

Are they verified? If not, dodgy

Anyone can download kik these days , it's anonymous and can share live pics or vids to verify if they're real. If not, dodgy.

Do they speak on the phone? If not, dodgy.

If only guy speaks, dodgy.

Skype or any other cam site, if not, dodgy.

Don't share anything with anyone until most of these are met...

Don't have Kik

Don't have Skype

Never spoke to anyone on the phone

I must be dodgy

x"

Like I said...people will judge it.

Just makes me feel safer following my way...in my opinion of course.

I'm sure everyone else has different ways..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get bypassed everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have one couple and he has been chattingenerated, few messages on here the kik 15-20 messages on there when I asked for pic his reply was we are shy and need to get to know you better. They have no profile pic at all but think they were photo verified but will have another look.

Might just chalk this one to experience

I'd just say let us know if you're interested and send a face pic when comfortable then leave it at that. If they're not forthcoming then leave them to it.

Trouble is he's not the most chatty unless we are talking about sex. Other conversation is met with 1 word answers "

I'd be out of there in that case. If its all about sex chat then I'd say they probably don't want to meet. I could be wrong but use your gut instinct, if it seems dodgy then it probably is.

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Thanks for the advice everyone

Mg & Sj

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Have they only just joined but have stunning pics or 'gagging for it' statuses? Probably fake.

As for swapping face pics, it takes us a while before we do that with a new couple who've messaged us. And then it's only if we've chatted for a few days and are planning a social.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

mmm... sounds funny... Shy but performs on cam?

I have heard of people playing videos in the cam rooms and you should now only verify if you have had some two way interaction.

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By *xx1Man
over a year ago

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"I have my way but everyone will probably judge it...

Are they verified? If not, dodgy

Anyone can download kik these days , it's anonymous and can share live pics or vids to verify if they're real. If not, dodgy.

Do they speak on the phone? If not, dodgy.

If only guy speaks, dodgy.

Skype or any other cam site, if not, dodgy.

Don't share anything with anyone until most of these are met...

Don't have Kik

Don't have Skype

Never spoke to anyone on the phone

I must be dodgy

Never mind dodgy.... How's about some doggy?

x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't give out face pic's until meet is definitely arranged (subject to face pic's approval)

Buy we have plenty of verifications to prove we are real not wank bots.

But I have kind of got a sixth sense for fakes now and I know others have.

You just kind of know..

Lot's of pic's of her, no verifications, new profile, keen to want face pic's asap, maybe some holiday snaps that doesn't look like swinging more like sexts.

Go with your gut instinct.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"We have one couple and he has been chattingenerated, few messages on here the kik 15-20 messages on there when I asked for pic his reply was we are shy and need to get to know you better. They have no profile pic at all but think they were photo verified but will have another look.

Might just chalk this one to experience

I'd just say let us know if you're interested and send a face pic when comfortable then leave it at that. If they're not forthcoming then leave them to it.

Trouble is he's not the most chatty unless we are talking about sex. Other conversation is met with 1 word answers

I'd be out of there in that case. If its all about sex chat then I'd say they probably don't want to meet. I could be wrong but use your gut instinct, if it seems dodgy then it probably is. "

Good advice.

Those who only do the sex chat are unlikely to meet, they/he is getting his kick just talking about it. One reason I NEVER do the sex chat thing on here, it is a good filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't send face pics anymore after my whole profile and pics was put on POF from here. If anyone thinks I'm fake I won't lose sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my way but everyone will probably judge it...

Are they verified? If not, dodgy

Anyone can download kik these days , it's anonymous and can share live pics or vids to verify if they're real. If not, dodgy.

Do they speak on the phone? If not, dodgy.

If only guy speaks, dodgy.

Skype or any other cam site, if not, dodgy.

Don't share anything with anyone until most of these are met...

Don't have Kik

Don't have Skype

Never spoke to anyone on the phone

I must be dodgy

x"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my way but everyone will probably judge it...

Are they verified? If not, dodgy

Anyone can download kik these days , it's anonymous and can share live pics or vids to verify if they're real. If not, dodgy.

Do they speak on the phone? If not, dodgy.

If only guy speaks, dodgy.

Skype or any other cam site, if not, dodgy.

Don't share anything with anyone until most of these are met...

Don't have Kik

Don't have Skype

Never spoke to anyone on the phone

I must be dodgy

x

Like I said...people will judge it.

Just makes me feel safer following my way...in my opinion of course.

I'm sure everyone else has different ways.."

Yeah I agree....everyone is different and uses the site how it suits them.....you can't really shoot people down for using it differently. ....stuck to your guns in how you use it if it works for you x

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we chat for a while then arrange meet if it does not happen be cause of whatever the first time [could be genuine].try second one if they back out or no show thats it.but it doesnt matter on fab as you carnt name or shame .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have very long necks, are quite large and have very distinctive black necks and heads with a white bar or patch up the sides of their face...

no....

Wait...

That's canada geese. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have very long necks, are quite large and have very distinctive black necks and heads with a white bar or patch up the sides of their face...

no....

Wait...

That's canada geese. Sorry"

I just choked on my lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my way but everyone will probably judge it...

Are they verified? If not, dodgy

Anyone can download kik these days , it's anonymous and can share live pics or vids to verify if they're real. If not, dodgy.

Do they speak on the phone? If not, dodgy.

If only guy speaks, dodgy.

Skype or any other cam site, if not, dodgy.

Don't share anything with anyone until most of these are met...

Don't have Kik

Don't have Skype

Never spoke to anyone on the phone

I must be dodgy

x

Like I said...people will judge it.

Just makes me feel safer following my way...in my opinion of course.

I'm sure everyone else has different ways..

Yeah I agree....everyone is different and uses the site how it suits them.....you can't really shoot people down for using it differently. ....stuck to your guns in how you use it if it works for you x"

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By *leet-duoCouple
over a year ago

Fleet

Cant do phone/cam/skype or anything where we may be overheard as we have teenagers.

Dont have smart phones so no app messaging.

Stick with veri's and then check the veri of the people they have met.

Cam veri's count for nothing.

Profiles with good veri's and pics with them playing with others are a sure bet.

Fakes are easy to spot

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By *lexer007ukMan
over a year ago

Dewsbury


"I have my way but everyone will probably judge it...

Are they verified? If not, dodgy

Anyone can download kik these days , it's anonymous and can share live pics or vids to verify if they're real. If not, dodgy.

Do they speak on the phone? If not, dodgy.

If only guy speaks, dodgy.

Skype or any other cam site, if not, dodgy.

Don't share anything with anyone until most of these are met...

Don't have Kik

Don't have Skype

Never spoke to anyone on the phone

I must be dodgy

x"

Dodgy as they come!

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"Cant do phone/cam/skype or anything where we may be overheard as we have teenagers.

Dont have smart phones so no app messaging.

Stick with veri's and then check the veri of the people they have met.

Cam veri's count for nothing.

Profiles with good veri's and pics with them playing with others are a sure bet.

Fakes are easy to spot"

Trouble is with that we would probably look fake at the moment. 1 vari by meet 4 public pics and some private. We will exchange pics early on tho and chat on phone when we have time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....i dont know how she does it but my kitty can spot a fake a mile off and is quick on making sure they dont get what they are after.

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.Blow OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"....i dont know how she does it but my kitty can spot a fake a mile off and is quick on making sure they dont get what they are after."

We need some kitty lessons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw a guys profile yesterday, was verified by meeting and photo verified yet the giveaway was the various photos of different men in his profile that were all supposed to be him... he either has the most amazing tattooist, who can change every bit of ink on him to completely different tatts at will (including the same tattoos as one of our friends!)and also change the length of his Dick to anything from very average to ouch!! This is what the report button is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many on here spoiling what was once a great site x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't send face pics anymore after my whole profile and pics was put on POF from here. If anyone thinks I'm fake I won't lose sleep."

We will not upload face pics either.

Men (usually is) pretending to be couples get easy to spot after a while if you use the tips detailed elsewhere on this thread. Best of luck H&E

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