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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does race matter . It all depends on how fast you are in it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity."

We guess the answer goes back to people's choices.

If they decide it matters, then it does.

That is all there is to it in our opinion.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It doesn't matter to me. except that a cultural background that includes poor treatment of women would put me off meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity."

too some yes it will... to others no..

For me i like light hair.. green or blue eyes and characteristics that are quite specific. So for me its sexual attraction.. so it matters to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a certain race I'm not at all attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is important,not race. I can be attracted to a man of any race,not because of his race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to us, if there is a mutual attraction then where someone is from, or their heritage doesn't come into it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter to me. except that a cultural background that includes poor treatment of women would put me off meeting."

Yep if a man can't treat a woman right they are not worthy to touch another.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

People like what they like. If they want a blonde haired blue eyed person they are not going to be from certain cultural backgrounds/races

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a certain race I'm not at all attracted to. "

That's normal as people mentioned physical attraction is necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity."

Good sex is based on attraction,.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc."

So you think that all black guys have big cocks??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nope I'm just outlining the stereotypes I'm more interested to know where that stereotype originated from.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I've never heard the Asian stereotype before

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By *unseakersCouple
over a year ago

Tropical SW & frozen North


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity."

Yes - agree with another poster a certain race wouldn't meet

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I am attracted to dark skin, the features of a blk man and like the way they are brought up, e.g their treatment of women. So race is an issue of sexual attraction for me. They are usually a good size, but not always of course. We all choose what we find attractive,be it racially based or something that we like that is not racially based...good old fabs offers something for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nope I'm just outlining the stereotypes I'm more interested to know where that stereotype originated from.

"

We are conf used.

On one hand you say you don't believe in the stereotypes,on the other hand you ask if they are true.

Is this all about trying to get some attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction is important,not race. I can be attracted to a man of any race,not because of his race. "
totally agree with this

But...a huge turn off is a guy selling himself on his profile because of his colour

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Appears to be another one of those race forums.. started out as a question if race matters to asking about stero typing people because of their race

Choice is choice at end of the day.. to some race will matter, to some no and to some couldnt care less and are race blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nope I'm just outlining the stereotypes I'm more interested to know where that stereotype originated from.

We are conf used.

On one hand you say you don't believe in the stereotypes,on the other hand you ask if they are true.

Is this all about trying to get some attention? "

He's asking for clarification,as far as I can see.

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

For me,I want a particular colour, so makes it easier for me to find target area, for others,of course, colour is not important because their attractions are wider,just all a question of our differing sexual attractions, nobody is right or wrong,just different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for stereotyping,I've met black men with average size cocks,Asian men with above average cocks and white men with huge cocks.

I also know black and white men who treat women deplorably. I'm attracted to whomsoever floats my boat,not the image someone else portrays them as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for stereotyping,I've met black men with average size cocks,Asian men with above average cocks and white men with huge cocks.

I also know black and white men who treat women deplorably. I'm attracted to whomsoever floats my boat,not the image someone else portrays them as. "

Well said. Personally I can be attracted to women of all races, skin colour and stereotypes don't factor into attractiveness in my opinion

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Yes stereotypes are sold by media and rumour...I developed my preference from many years of actual experience and am very happy with my choices,but there's a lot of bad eggs out there sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, all races are equal. It's a persons beliefs that can often turn them into a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, all races are equal. It's a persons beliefs that can often turn them into a cunt."

Agreed.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Race matters to me when it's used against me and makes me into something exotic to be fetishized and ticked off a sexual to do list.

Other than that, nope.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc.

So you think that all black guys have big cocks??"

In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true.

But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

For me personally race does not matter. I'm more interested in the person than the color of their skin.

I've been with several races across 5 continents over my 10 years of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc.

So you think that all black guys have big cocks??

In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true.

But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types. "

Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally race does not matter. I'm more interested in the person than the color of their skin.

I've been with several races across 5 continents over my 10 years of swinging. "

so if it dosnt matter why the username? Not having a pop just interested?

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc.

So you think that all black guys have big cocks??

In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true.

But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types.

Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though."

I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Probably to some...

So does gender and so does age etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc.

So you think that all black guys have big cocks??

In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true.

But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types.

Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though.

I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience. "

Ok that's fine, in my experience black guys are no bigger than whites, perhaps I'm just comparing my own cock to them though.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"For me personally race does not matter. I'm more interested in the person than the color of their skin.

I've been with several races across 5 continents over my 10 years of swinging. so if it dosnt matter why the username? Not having a pop just interested?"

WelI I wasn't trying to portray my race by using that username. I keep changing my username from time to time, so I just use whatever comes to mind at the time without actually thinking hard about it.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc.

So you think that all black guys have big cocks??

In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true.

But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types.

Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though.

I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience.

Ok that's fine, in my experience black guys are no bigger than whites, perhaps I'm just comparing my own cock to them though."

Yes you probably comparing yours to theirs lol. You got a big one though !!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If the values aligned, no problem.

However that is in any race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc.

So you think that all black guys have big cocks??

In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true.

But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types.

Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though.

I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience.

Ok that's fine, in my experience black guys are no bigger than whites, perhaps I'm just comparing my own cock to them though.

Yes you probably comparing yours to theirs lol. You got a big one though !! "

Well, we're all from Africa originally anyway, maybe I just held onto some of those genetics

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"As for stereotyping,I've met black men with average size cocks,Asian men with above average cocks and white men with huge cocks.

I also know black and white men who treat women deplorably. I'm attracted to whomsoever floats my boat,not the image someone else portrays them as.

"

- you got the nail on the head. Every colour ( I refuse to use the word race cos it is a word coined from a time when people were unenlightened and ignorant) has the best and worst (depending on what you think is best or worst) but stereotypes abound and are a poisonous thing.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Race matters to me when it's used against me and makes me into something exotic to be fetishized and ticked off a sexual to do list.

Other than that, nope."

Definitely echo this. I know the feeling all too well..

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

When I have asked guys if they mind being chosen for their colour for instance,they have all said,no, they love it! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it doesnt matter, variety is the spice of life

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc.

So you think that all black guys have big cocks??

In my 10 years experience of swinging , I've found these stereotypes to be true.

But like everything else there are obviously exceptions to these stereo types.

Stereotypes and individual anecdotes do little/nothing to actually establish any facts though.

I wasn't trying to establish any facts, rather I was just responding to the OP's question based on my own personal experience.

Ok that's fine, in my experience black guys are no bigger than whites, perhaps I'm just comparing my own cock to them though.

Yes you probably comparing yours to theirs lol. You got a big one though !!

Well, we're all from Africa originally anyway, maybe I just held onto some of those genetics"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"There's a certain race I'm not at all attracted to. "

Me too! I hate the 1500m....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Truth hurts "

And the truth is...what, exactly?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality.

On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia.

Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Personally, I've shagged a lot of people from a lot of countries and of a lots of different colours.

If anything, I enjoy the aesthetics of it, rather than any supposed taboo or preconceptions about how that person will look or perform.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

However (for what it's worth) the top three DiamonJoe recommendations for nationals who deliver good sex are:

* French

* Americans

* Brazilians

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality.

On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia.

Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'."

Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania).

I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc) "

That's amazing, I knew it, always thought Native Americans had a similar look to those of the Far East

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc)

That's amazing, I knew it, always thought Native Americans had a similar look to those of the Far East "

Siberia was once (in recent history, geographically speaking) joined to the USA, it is thought that is now people first came to North America.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality.

On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia.

Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'.

Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania).

I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology. "

Race is a modern idea. Ancient societies, like the Romans, did not divide people according to physical distinctions, but according to religion, status, class, even language.

A short-and-sweet definition of race is that it is a combination of biology and culture, the idea that your blood carries with it cultural traits, behaviours, rather than just outward appearances.

The 19th cent. sees scholarship focused on this concept to explain differences between human populations, to explain economic, social, and cultural inequality worldwide.

Africa was primitive and backward because they were African; Indians were unable to govern themselves because they were Indian, &c.

This is markedly different than just acknowledging a difference in appearance or skin tone; in race, appearance and skin tone become markings of culture and behaviour.

Ergo, race is a construct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality.

On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia.

Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'.

Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania).

I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology.

Race is a modern idea. Ancient societies, like the Romans, did not divide people according to physical distinctions, but according to religion, status, class, even language.

A short-and-sweet definition of race is that it is a combination of biology and culture, the idea that your blood carries with it cultural traits, behaviours, rather than just outward appearances.

The 19th cent. sees scholarship focused on this concept to explain differences between human populations, to explain economic, social, and cultural inequality worldwide.

Africa was primitive and backward because they were African; Indians were unable to govern themselves because they were Indian, &c.

This is markedly different than just acknowledging a difference in appearance or skin tone; in race, appearance and skin tone become markings of culture and behaviour.

Ergo, race is a construct."

well does me tick the box a pure celt!! ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc)

That's amazing, I knew it, always thought Native Americans had a similar look to those of the Far East

Siberia was once (in recent history, geographically speaking) joined to the USA, it is thought that is now people first came to North America. "

I thought as much, the 'slant' to Far Eastern eyes is a lot more obvious, but you can definitely see something similar in Native Americans, also, there's a uniqueness to the sound of both their voices, it becomes much clearer when they speak English, it seems to come from deeper down in the throat, around the clavicle.

It's also interesting that both races are known for their traditional, naturalistic philosophies and holistic spiritual wisdom, I wonder similar patterns in their brain make up could be observed?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality.

On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia.

Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'.

Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania).

I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology.

Race is a modern idea. Ancient societies, like the Romans, did not divide people according to physical distinctions, but according to religion, status, class, even language.

A short-and-sweet definition of race is that it is a combination of biology and culture, the idea that your blood carries with it cultural traits, behaviours, rather than just outward appearances.

The 19th cent. sees scholarship focused on this concept to explain differences between human populations, to explain economic, social, and cultural inequality worldwide.

Africa was primitive and backward because they were African; Indians were unable to govern themselves because they were Indian, &c.

This is markedly different than just acknowledging a difference in appearance or skin tone; in race, appearance and skin tone become markings of culture and behaviour.

Ergo, race is a construct. well does me tick the box a pure celt!! ?"

What is a Celt and how can you proved that you are descended purely from one?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I find the race questionaries offensive on monitoring forms.

I just write HUMAN.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc."

Yes, it's sad to find a black guy with a little togder. You feel slightly short-changed. But I knew a Pakistani guy with an impressive shlong. Whatever.

And Asian girls - what does that even mean? Everyone from Persians to Indians to Vietnamese to Mongolians to Filipinos?

Their fannies do expand you know.

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By *heManMan
over a year ago

Windsor

To OP's question. I'd say yes it does sadly. To cut to the chase, I think the whole notion of this site is based on objectification - choosing people purely on how they look and determined by preconstructed notions of preference. But that's what we do here. On the one one hand it's inherently depressing (for me), on the other hand people take their clothes off together and this probably breaks down those separations eventually so that's good (in my eyes).

It's a minefield.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"To OP's question. I'd say yes it does sadly. To cut to the chase, I think the whole notion of this site is based on objectification - choosing people purely on how they look and determined by preconstructed notions of preference. But that's what we do here. On the one one hand it's inherently depressing (for me), on the other hand people take their clothes off together and this probably breaks down those separations eventually so that's good (in my eyes).

It's a minefield."

No, it's a red herring, to mix a metaphor

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I challenge the very notion of 'race' - it's a construct, not a reality.

On a purely genetic level, a Zulu from S Africa has more in common, genetically speaking, with someone from northern Europe than they do to someone from Ethiopia.

Turns out skin colour is a bad marker for 'difference'.

Last time I cared to read into it (which was well over a decade ago), Biologists felt that threre were 4 "races" of humans - African (modern, ie black), Asian (Chinese, Mongolian, Native American, Polynesian etc), Caucasian (European, some parts of North Africa, India etc) and Aborigine (Aus, Tazmania).

I couldn't be arsed to persue it academically because I feel that politics would get in the way of sensible biology.

Race is a modern idea. Ancient societies, like the Romans, did not divide people according to physical distinctions, but according to religion, status, class, even language.

A short-and-sweet definition of race is that it is a combination of biology and culture, the idea that your blood carries with it cultural traits, behaviours, rather than just outward appearances.

The 19th cent. sees scholarship focused on this concept to explain differences between human populations, to explain economic, social, and cultural inequality worldwide.

Africa was primitive and backward because they were African; Indians were unable to govern themselves because they were Indian, &c.

This is markedly different than just acknowledging a difference in appearance or skin tone; in race, appearance and skin tone become markings of culture and behaviour.

Ergo, race is a construct."

"Race" in this sense is "biologically distinct populations" (that are still capable of breeding, if they couldin't interbreed then it is a "species" question).

Hence a "celt" is the same "race" as someone from Pakistan.

And this is why I paid no more attention to it. There is no politics to get in the way of me saying that trout from stream (a) are genetically distinct from trout in stream (b)....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx"

Funnily enough, two of my most disappointing encounters have been with Japanese people*.

They both just *lay* there, like life-sized dolls for me to arrange. It was just weird.

The Chinese are goer, tho'.

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* based on a population sample of 2, one man, one woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx

Funnily enough, two of my most disappointing encounters have been with Japanese people*.

They both just *lay* there, like life-sized dolls for me to arrange. It was just weird.

The Chinese are goer, tho'.

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* based on a population sample of 2, one man, one woman "

Celts?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx

Funnily enough, two of my most disappointing encounters have been with Japanese people*.

They both just *lay* there, like life-sized dolls for me to arrange. It was just weird.

The Chinese are goer, tho'.

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* based on a population sample of 2, one man, one woman Celts?"

I have fucked people who might identify as Celtish.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx

Funnily enough, two of my most disappointing encounters have been with Japanese people*.

They both just *lay* there, like life-sized dolls for me to arrange. It was just weird.

The Chinese are goer, tho'.

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* based on a population sample of 2, one man, one woman Celts?"

Celt isn't a race - it is caucasian. The same race as someone from India.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there all so do you meeting with Polish guy them ?? If you have any Chance ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Pussy is a pussy no matter what. A Dick is a dick no matter what. It doesn't matter who what where if fucked properly they will cum regardless.

The matter of race is preferential and attraction.

However the stereotyping shows how ignorant and uneducated some people are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree at last some sense spoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I've got a really good idea .....

Lets all fuck who we find attractive and not have to justify it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a factor for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Pussy is a pussy no matter what. A Dick is a dick no matter what. It doesn't matter who what where if fucked properly they will cum regardless.

The matter of race is preferential and attraction.

However the stereotyping shows how ignorant and uneducated some people are. "

the vagina has to fresh or I ain't goin near it I have standards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for some people it will matter, i do think it's down to their own ignorance and prejudice.

don't really care what people say about preferences, if you think all people of a certain race are unattractive or knobheads to interact with then you are prejudice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own preferences, and it would be wrong to force the individual to change them.

Luckily for me I like most races, so get to enjoy the full range of beautiful features on offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow I wasn't expecting a response like this, it looks like the thread has turned in to the house of frigging parliament.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Wow I wasn't expecting a response like this, it looks like the thread has turned in to the house of frigging parliament."

Sorry about that

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity."

Just like people like tall people, fat people, it is all donlawn to personal preference.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noted an interesting correlation between very particular 'preferences' and very poor spelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not attracted to oriental people and Asian people. because I don't find thier skin colour and eye shape apealing. This is my preference and not at all rasist. I am attracted to white people and black people because I find them my physacily apealing. Xxx

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It absolutely matters. It shouldn't, but it does and that's not unreasonable IMO

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By *ndrew693Man
over a year ago

Barrow. South Cumbria

to me no race does not matter neither does religion we should all be able to enjoy a full sex life

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"It doesn't matter to me. except that a cultural background that includes poor treatment of women would put me off meeting."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Race seems to matter to people who think they fall into some kind of race issue

Case in point

'Black lives matter'

I agree

But then so do

White

Brown

Yellow

If you want them and us

Please continue with this

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We are attracted to individuals, their race or skin colour is not a factor.

Maybe the fact that we both grew up / live / work in a multicultural environment helps.

You soon realise that you get the same range of decent people and arseholes everywhere. Colour, nationality or race doesn't make a person better or worse.

Nita

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan
over a year ago

Colchester

As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity."

I seen the question as who IS better at sex..

I'm a mix..scottish/belizean..and I have no real heritage leanings(maybe aprt from scottishness)

some times am great at sex..sometimes I'm not, even with the same person..

what I engage with, is my mind..and in most cases thats what people actually find pleasurable.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Race seems to matter to people who think they fall into some kind of race issue

Case in point

'Black lives matter'

I agree

But then so do

White

Brown

Yellow

If you want them and us

Please continue with this "

Not sure what point is being made here. However, let's not detract from the real message of Black lives matter by deflecting and saying other lives don't. Black lives matter doesn't imply or mean other lives don't, it means just that. It signifies a very important message to remind people of the societal and systemic injustices that Black people have to fight and go through everyday. The fact that you don't see things through that prism doesn't mean that you have to really see it for it to be true or present. So to dilute that message by implying that they are saying that other lives don't matter is weak and brushing under the carpet what is fact.

And yes there is a race issue whether you choose to see it or not. Something tells me deep down inside you as a human being, you know there is.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity.

I seen the question as who IS better at sex..

I'm a mix..scottish/belizean..and I have no real heritage leanings(maybe aprt from scottishness)

some times am great at sex..sometimes I'm not, even with the same person..

what I engage with, is my mind..and in most cases thats what people actually find pleasurable."

Never a truer word spoken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are common stereotypes regarding race which prompt me to raise the question.

Your hear things like:

Black guys got massive dicks

Asian guys are small

Asian girls are tight etc etc

But are these stereotypes even true. Surely there are black men with small penises etc."

I have never heard the Asian girls are tight thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example. "

I always find the race issue is used by those who feel the need to justify their own failings and inadequacies, in 2016 most people have got over racial prejudices that were handed down from a different era

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we're all related to bananas somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Race matters in that there are a few black guys i find attractive. It's a very niche look i go for and that's the best broad description i have to attempt to whittle it down. That's just me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example.

I always find the race issue is used by those who feel the need to justify their own failings and inadequacies, in 2016 most people have got over racial prejudices that were handed down from a different era"

I know that adults are still handing down prejudices to children. And those children pass those prejudices on to their peers and influence them. We still have a long way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As far as I am concerned there is only one race and that is the human race. Racism is taught by example.

I always find the race issue is used by those who feel the need to justify their own failings and inadequacies, in 2016 most people have got over racial prejudices that were handed down from a different era

I know that adults are still handing down prejudices to children. And those children pass those prejudices on to their peers and influence them. We still have a long way to go. "

We really do....we live in rural Wiltshire and on the doorstep to Army bases....there are a pair of black twins in a predominantly white school where my daughter goes and she heard them say that they weren't going to talk to her because she's white and they weren't allowed to talk to white children. This confused the hell out of her! It still goes on and not always the way you expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity."

To be honest I don't care. If they were nice I'd be in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we're all related to bananas somehow. "

We share half our DNA with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity."

Race doesn't come into it at all on our part .

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity.

Race doesn't come into it at all on our part ."

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does race really matter when it comes to fun. Everyone has the rights to have a preference but would it really make any difference sexually?

Surely good sex is not judged based on a race?

Just a question out of curiosity.

Race doesn't come into it at all on our part .

Snap!"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Nope, race doesn't matter

Neither does height, nor weight nor whether he looks like Quasimodo or even if he is a he or she

I'll fuck with anyone as long as they have a dick or a fanny and not because I am desperate; oh no

[ the above complies with the Equalities Act 2010 ]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, race doesn't matter

Neither does height, nor weight nor whether he looks like Quasimodo or even if he is a he or she

I'll fuck with anyone as long as they have a dick or a fanny and not because I am desperate; oh no

[ the above complies with the Equalities Act 2010 ]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Race is just a colour, age is just a number and dick is just a size, depends on how you look, if the woman is attracted to you or not that what makes the connection and dick there is no point of having a big dick and you can't last its about how you use it to satisfy the woman, someone called BD*** what ever his username is 10 years of swinging experience lol ok, and you found it to be true mate your wrong not every black guy has a big dick and not every black lasts long in bed its the same for all guys don't matter about their colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a certain race I'm not at all attracted to. "

I could empirically deduce from your original post why you hid your profile. You not bold to spill whats on your chest out of fear of being judged on the grounds of race.

What you need to realise is whatever race people are born with they didn't choose to come out that way! Even you OP now look at yourself again and ask...did you choose your race?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Race shouldn't matter when it comes to fun, but in the end it's all based on the level of attraction. If someone is not attracted to someone outside of their race, then they are entitled to their preference, and shouldn't be labelled racist for it. We all have a type after all.... I personally have no problem playing with different races, and have done so in the past. As long as I am attracted to them and get on well with them, then that would be the deciding factor, not the colour of their skin .

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