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By *pices69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

I see a few questions on here about dating and swinging, challeneges with new relations, partners and complications.

I saw a post earlier, and if i may respectfully interpret. They implied they would be hiding part of they are, due to not dating a swinger. It made me think.

So my question is now: could you date someone who wasnt into swinging?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I hope I never have to date again but if I did I would be honest from day one about what I wanted from every aspect of a relationship, I think it would save time.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup I'm not into swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only 35 years old. I'm very happy to say life is fantastic at changing you as you go through it - So I don't have an idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ... its opened our minds and desires to such an extent that neither of us would entertain it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes......it's a very small part of my life x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a few questions on here about dating and swinging, challeneges with new relations, partners and complications.

I saw a post earlier, and if i may respectfully interpret. They implied they would be hiding part of they are, due to not dating a swinger. It made me think.

So my question is now: could you date someone who wasnt into swinging?"

Yes. But the more interesting questions are whether you'd give up (in my case, yes) and whether you'd tell them what you used to do (in my case possibly not or at least I might present it slightly differently)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, no problem at all. Not sure I'd tell them about my dalliances on here, men tend to either get super excited and think that means you'll be up for all sorts, or they think you're a slapper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Honestly no I can't ever imagine being monogamous again

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I hope I never have to date again but if I did I would be honest from day one about what I wanted from every aspect of a relationship, I think it would save time. "

Yup. Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a hypocrite so I'd only date them if they weren't into swinging. Still be friends or swinging partners though.

I'd not be on here if i was dating someone but that's just me

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Only if they were ok with me swinging.

Cuckold relationships can have a situation like that occasionally.

I couldn't date someone who wasn't and wanted me to stop.

I would never say never but it's definitely not what I'm looking for at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Times change, people change....never say never.....but do be open.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

I've always said I'm open minded in certain areas

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I hope I never have to date again but if I did I would be honest from day one about what I wanted from every aspect of a relationship, I think it would save time.

Yup. Me too"

I'm friends with someone who has asked his mum to arrange a marriage for him. She's introduced him to a couple of women and they sit down over the course of a few dates and discuss exactly what they want out of life and a relationship, so far they've decided they aren't compatible. It seems eminently sensible to me and while I dread to think who my parents would come up with for me it's very similar to how I would go about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, no problem at all. Not sure I'd tell them about my dalliances on here, men tend to either get super excited and think that means you'll be up for all sorts, or they think you're a slapper."

I wouldn't tell them about my past. Agree with the above re: men- there doesn't seem to be a middle ground.

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