FabSwingers.com forum: Single male not having any luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here as a single male but actually attached. She not into sharing and does not know. Got to be discrete. Any more single males in my position?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, you aren't a 'single' male really, you are part of a couple.

There are lots in the same situation as you here, some women meet attached guys, some don't.

Horses for courses.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Hundreds are in your position OP

And they're are hundreds that aren't

The single male demographic on fab is the largest so the ladies and couples literally have their pick, this means to stand out you need a great profile that gets people's attention

Also remember to read profiles most of the ladies and couples that don't want attached single men usually state it in their profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good explanations ladies

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and ready to mingle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here as a single male but actually attached. She not into sharing and does not know. Got to be discrete. Any more single males in my position? "

Please tell me you're joking, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not joking buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete overhaul mate, I thought it was intended to be a funny fake profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not joking buddy

Then what are you thinking? You're playing away from your misses and your profile just consists of cock pics and a one line description. If you was a woman,would you meet you?! Actually, don't answer that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Your partner doesnt know your on here therefor you are cheating. Totally unacceptable.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

" Its people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Your partner doesnt know your on here therefor you are cheating. Totally unacceptable."

Why is he giving you a bad name exactly ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Its people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Your partner doesnt know your on here therefor you are cheating. Totally unacceptable.

Why is he giving you a bad name exactly ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont meet cheaters thats not what this site is for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dont meet cheaters thats not what this site is for."

And some do, each to they own, right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dont meet cheaters thats not what this site is for.

And some do, each to they own, right"

Exactly

If you don't want to meet an attached person, that's fine but they still have as much right to be on here as a single person does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really fancied a sausage roll for lunch but I think ill give it a miss now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Its people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Your partner doesnt know your on here therefor you are cheating. Totally unacceptable."

My partner doesn't know I'm on here... It's not only guys that do it

This site is for anyone that wants to use it intact if it wasn't for the "attached" people they'd only have half the amount of members.

Threads like this always differ in opinion pretty sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dont meet cheaters thats not what this site is for.

And some do, each to they own, right

Exactly

If you don't want to meet an attached person, that's fine but they still have as much right to be on here as a single person does."

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe your profile is too wordy and needs more flaccid cock pics ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outraged statements from those that are in the popular sector show no understanding for how it is as a single male on not just this,but any contacts site

At the end of the day, this is mainly for people looking to meet others for adult encounters,not findyoursoulmate.com.

Nobody has the right to judge anyone else's motives,so enough with the moral police act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Its people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Your partner doesnt know your on here therefor you are cheating. Totally unacceptable."

I wish 'cheating' (or a similar word... reaches for thesaurus) was an actual option on here so truly single single males were seperated from those that are just cheating on their wives

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

" Its people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Your partner doesnt know your on here therefor you are cheating. Totally unacceptable."

Yeah yeah..the high horse is that way.. ^^^

folk cheat folk lie it's not specific to any gender or demographic..

Op you've another obstacle to overcome (you're attached ) some won't meet you because of this reason alone, there are many other reasons folk won't meet you as well ..you'll need to figure out what those are .. good luck finding what you seek.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Outraged statements from those that are in the popular sector show no understanding for how it is as a single male on not just this,but any contacts site

At the end of the day, this is mainly for people looking to meet others for adult encounters,not findyoursoulmate.com.

Nobody has the right to judge anyone else's motives,so enough with the moral police act"

What 'outraged' comments? What's the popular sector? He was criticised by a couple and supported by a single female. It has nothing to do with 'sectors' . If people don't like what he is doing they have every right to say so and not meet him, he came on a forum for comments.

Yes, the site is for people to meet others for adult encounters - with who they like and trust.

You might not care what the other person does, others do.

So they can comment just the same as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The popular sector is you, the couples and single ladies, the unpopular sector is us, the single males

Totaly unacceptable..., in my opinion, that's an outraged person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here as a single male but actually attached. She not into sharing and does not know. Got to be discrete. Any more single males in my position? "

It's s mystery that profile pic should have them flocking to you as though you were Zeus himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus, and perhaps more relevant, he didn't come on here for peoples comments or advice, the original post was to ask if anymore were in his situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get off fab go clubbing down the pub ffs it's life become a hunter gatherer

and stop the fk moaning your lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops bad boy days are a bugger

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"The popular sector is you, the couples and single ladies, the unpopular sector is us, the single males

Totaly unacceptable..., in my opinion, that's an outraged person "

He was also supported by a single female, and a couple and critised by a single male.

Nothing to do with 'sectors' . Different people have different opinions.

Lots of single males are popular. I'd suggest the unpopular ones are those who seek out a 'them and us' situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

You actually think some single males seek out a them and us situation?

Tell you what, set yourself up a single mature white male profile and just see how it works out for you

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Really?

You actually think some single males seek out a them and us situation?

Tell you what, set yourself up a single mature white male profile and just see how it works out for you

Well you seem to be. There are lots of great single guys meeting at clubs, chatting on forums with single ladies and couples. All works fine.

They aren't hung up about being white or mature either.

Others , chip on shoulder, ranting about 'popular sectors'.

Anyway, this is off-topic, have the final word if it helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks very much, i will

Ranting, just because it directly contradicts your perception its a rant

Whether the guy is right or wrong, people can choose to meet him or not, their choice. If he wants to do it behind his partner back,his choice and his conscience

And not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The popular sector is you, the couples and single ladies, the unpopular sector is us, the single males

Totaly unacceptable..., in my opinion, that's an outraged person "

So what can be done about couples and single ladies being more popular? Why is it so unacceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really?

You actually think some single males seek out a them and us situation?

Tell you what, set yourself up a single mature white male profile and just see how it works out for you

Well you seem to be. There are lots of great single guys meeting at clubs, chatting on forums with single ladies and couples. All works fine.

They aren't hung up about being white or mature either.

Others , chip on shoulder, ranting about 'popular sectors'.

Anyway, this is off-topic, have the final word if it helps.

I am a single male not attached. I love meeting in clubs and talking in the forums. If a woman or a couple don't wish to meet a attached male then they have all the right to do that. People have certain things they don't agree with like cheating. I have not met any female or couple off this site. I don't really mind. I use clubs and chat and meet them there. Do I get pissed off with the fact I don't get any meets off this site no I just think hey it's just that they can't see me for me on here..... Go to a club chat to some people if I play all the better. I use this and clubs as a social thing not like some on here that think just because I am on a swingers site it's a guarantee to fuck. Please use the site for what it's for and not for what some think it's for. Now play nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on no sorry they are the most popular as more couples want couples and single women. I for one can understand that as some males really don't know how to treat women and couples and think its about them not others involved. Maybe some men need to grow up and grow a pair and just get over the fact that we out number the couples and the ladies on here 10 to 1 (just a guess) so they have all the right to pick and choose who they want to meet.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

" Its people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Your partner doesnt know your on here therefor you are cheating. Totally unacceptable.

I wish 'cheating' (or a similar word... reaches for thesaurus) was an actual option on here so truly single single males were seperated from those that are just cheating on their wives"

They would still be the ones that lie and check the single option though in the same way there's loads of smoking "non-smokers" that frequent the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah like im a single guy and couldn't cheat on anyone. But don't mean i wouldn't meet a cheating woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Outraged statements from those that are in the popular sector show no understanding for how it is as a single male on not just this,but any contacts site

At the end of the day, this is mainly for people looking to meet others for adult encounters,not findyoursoulmate.com.

Nobody has the right to judge anyone else's motives,so enough with the moral police act"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in the same situation lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Outraged statements from those that are in the popular sector show no understanding for how it is as a single male on not just this,but any contacts site

At the end of the day, this is mainly for people looking to meet others for adult encounters,not findyoursoulmate.com.

Nobody has the right to judge anyone else's motives,so enough with the moral police act"

If no one as the right to judge anyone then you really shouldn't have made that statement

But that's the funny thing about judgment it human nature we all do it on some level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Outraged statements from those that are in the popular sector show no understanding for how it is as a single male on not just this,but any contacts site

At the end of the day, this is mainly for people looking to meet others for adult encounters,not findyoursoulmate.com.

Nobody has the right to judge anyone else's motives,so enough with the moral police act

If no one as the right to judge anyone then you really shouldn't have made that statement

But that's the funny thing about judgment it human nature we all do it on some level "

Think above is true - I'm sometimes surprised there is so much indignation about attached people on a swinger site - the site caters for all - I personally don't like meeting people who pee or poo on others for pleasure - but they have every right to be here and find someone who does.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you scan through the thread , there was actually very little judging or indignation towards the OP. One or two did pass moderate disapproving comments, others made comments about it being his own business.

Other posters took the dissaproving comments as being white horsing against single men, which is where it spiralled downwards.

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