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How do you tell if the ladies intrested

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By *iggles and Beardy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Posted this in other thread by mistake and couldn't edit it.

So had a conversation with wiggles and it turned out I'm apparently oblivious to any advances women make towards me.

I know straight away when couples or singles like wiggles, but seem to have no clue if a lady is intrested in me. It used to be easy, listening to how they spoke, but I lost a chunk of me hearing and lost my ability to notice changes in voice.

Wiggles finds this both funny and annoying, as apparently I've missed quite a few chances.

So ladies, short of simply just grabbing a guy, how do you let the male half of a couple know you actually like them and that they arnt just the extra to getting their wife or female half?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say eye contact and body language is a thing to look for xx

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By *iggles and Beardy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think I'm going to have to re learn all this stuff, as for quite awhile I was far to chubby and believed couples only wanted wiggles.

But after hitting gym a lot, understanding myself more and growing some hair to take more pride in my appearance wiggles is demanding I pay more attention lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wet patch on knickers (if wearing) or moist inner thighs.

They are either interested....or took one look at me and pissed themselves laughing. Hard to tell!

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By *VK_RugbyCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Eye contact I think is the key if you're not getting any they are not interested

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Eye contact I think is the key if you're not getting any they are not interested "

Of course this would mean having to raise your gaze and make eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair twiddling

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By *iggles and Beardy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Call me paranoid, but when folk make eye contact I always think they are thinking "why are you looking at me"

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By *iggles and Beardy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Eye contact I think is the key if you're not getting any they are not interested

Of course this would mean having to raise your gaze and make eye contact "

Tbh a lot of the ladies at clubs do make it very difficult to look up, due to their stunning assets.. Luckily I focus a lot on smiles to help avoid distraction. Xx. Plus you kinda have look down to see if you recognise folk from profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like someone I tend to do a lot of subtle arm touches, smiling, and holding eye contact for a little bit longer than needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it's eye contact..smiling..where the bitch has her arms and hands too ...I'm a expert at working this out

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By *iggles and Beardy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If I like someone I tend to do a lot of subtle arm touches, smiling, and holding eye contact for a little bit longer than needed. "

Thanks, this is what wiggles said, when trying to inform me that I was missing said signs.

Life was a lot simpler when I was younger and lived in Wales. The girls simply said it out straight or just jumped on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I like someone I tend to do a lot of subtle arm touches, smiling, and holding eye contact for a little bit longer than needed.

Thanks, this is what wiggles said, when trying to inform me that I was missing said signs.

Life was a lot simpler when I was younger and lived in Wales. The girls simply said it out straight or just jumped on you."

Haha that too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posted this in other thread by mistake and couldn't edit it.

So had a conversation with wiggles and it turned out I'm apparently oblivious to any advances women make towards me.

I know straight away when couples or singles like wiggles, but seem to have no clue if a lady is intrested in me. It used to be easy, listening to how they spoke, but I lost a chunk of me hearing and lost my ability to notice changes in voice.

Wiggles finds this both funny and annoying, as apparently I've missed quite a few chances.

So ladies, short of simply just grabbing a guy, how do you let the male half of a couple know you actually like them and that they arnt just the extra to getting their wife or female half?"

You can tell by her feet.

Imagine sat on stools at a bar. You're chatting, she strokes the back of your calf with the heels of her shoe.

She likes you.

If the heels of her shoes are up by her ears, she really likes you.

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By *iggles and Beardy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

This thread is giving me lots of laughs, thanks all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learning to read eye contact and body language is definitely the thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is giving me lots of laughs, thanks all x"

It's because you're not alone, brothers in oblivion....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Eye dilate, bottom lip swells slightly, standing slightly closer than normal

Oh and if they are taking your clothes off, that's pretty subtle too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I like someone I tend to do a lot of subtle arm touches, smiling, and holding eye contact for a little bit longer than needed.

Thanks, this is what wiggles said, when trying to inform me that I was missing said signs.

Life was a lot simpler when I was younger and lived in Wales. The girls simply said it out straight or just jumped on you.

Haha that too! "

Never had that happen. But it's when they ask if they can touch my hair and keep playing with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on this one OP! I'm shit at reading 'the signs'

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I'm a bit of a consent freak and a right cheeky sod to boot .

So if I think I'm getting the signal for a kiss .

I will just come out with it I.E

Can I have a kiss .

Now I'm like that with every thing so my next line will be .

No groping unless I can grope you first ....and so on and so on.

Like I said I'm a consent freak who loves verbal play so I tend to try and combined the two during a sexually charged moment .

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By *iggles and Beardy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Well I'll take all these tips and likely still be oblivious, hopefully I'll meet some ladies who are blatant or wiggles will just slap some sense into me xx

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