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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm meeting a couple for the first time tonight for fun. Do you think they will mind if I watch at first and just join in slowly with touching and fire play as I am......don't mind admitting quite nervous about full sex with them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant ' fore play ' not going to set them alight ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can't make you do stuff you don't want to so go at your own pace....gage their reaction and see how it goes but don't just stand there like a pleb looking like a nervous school boy....for a couple there is nothing worse x

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I can remember my first meet some years ago.

I was quite apprehensive but they started playing together and after a while invited me to join them and that all worked out fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They can't make you do stuff you don't want to so go at your own pace....gage their reaction and see how it goes but don't just stand there like a pleb looking like a nervous school boy....for a couple there is nothing worse x"

Thank you it's ok I won't just stand there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take your time chat relax be charming smile lots and have fun I'm sure you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can't make you do stuff you don't want to so go at your own pace....gage their reaction and see how it goes but don't just stand there like a pleb looking like a nervous school boy....for a couple there is nothing worse x

Thank you it's ok I won't just stand there "

Good.....hope you have a great night x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They can't make you do stuff you don't want to so go at your own pace....gage their reaction and see how it goes but don't just stand there like a pleb looking like a nervous school boy....for a couple there is nothing worse x

Thank you it's ok I won't just stand there

Good.....hope you have a great night x"

Might hide under the duvet ??

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I'm meeting a couple for the first time tonight for fun. Do you think they will mind if I watch at first and just join in slowly with touching and fire play as I am......don't mind admitting quite nervous about full sex with them?"

Unless this has been discussed previously they will possibly expect you to play with the wife first with the husband joining in as things progress.

At least that is how we normally approach 3somes.

Every couple is different of course but we see it as a chance for the other man to get involved in the play before being part of a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn up on time. Relax but make sure you don't have too much 'Dutch courage'. Make sure you discuss boundaries and any likes/dislikes. If things seem to be a bit quiet and nothing happening then nothing wrong with you standing up to announce you're ready to play. Why not say first that you'd like to watch for a few minutes before being invited to join in?

Most of all just be yourself and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turn up on time. Relax but make sure you don't have too much 'Dutch courage'. Make sure you discuss boundaries and any likes/dislikes. If things seem to be a bit quiet and nothing happening then nothing wrong with you standing up to announce you're ready to play. Why not say first that you'd like to watch for a few minutes before being invited to join in?

Most of all just be yourself and enjoy "

Thanks for the advice hopefully I make it fun for everyone x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I'm meeting a couple for the first time tonight for fun. Do you think they will mind if I watch at first and just join in slowly with touching and fire play as I am......don't mind admitting quite nervous about full sex with them?"

Maybe you should ask them before you go, because this wouldn't be the way we would want to play with a single guy. Never assume, because everyone is different, in how they like to play. Hope you have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with your meet today. Just go and say your a little nervous - It's a great disarmer, and in my experience you'll get points even for showing up in the first place - then you can discuss likes and dislikes.

Have fun!

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