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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you do if someone messages you had been on here for years and was not photo verified or meet verified? Would you bother messaging then back?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

If it is a woman then there is less need for verifications but still need to check authenticity at some early stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I think it is better to start a new profile if no veris after a year. I would be quite dubious of such a profile and I know others would be as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if someone messages you had been on here for years and was not photo verified or meet verified? Would you bother messaging then back?"

Most of that type of person who messages me have not even read my profile to start with so they normally just get the delete & block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it is a woman then there is less need for verifications but still need to check authenticity at some early stage"

depends on the feeling you get from too, does it feel 'right'? Like said above, in these circumstances I'd want some sort of early authenticity validation to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't really help it if no one veifies you but to not to be photo verified I would think they're just not really arsed about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is there less need for verification if it's a woman?

Surely there is more need.

Many female profiles are males pretending to be a woman,have you ever heard of a profile where a woman pretends to be a man?

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

If their profile was interesting and they had obviously read my profile then I would reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it is a woman then there is less need for verifications but still need to check authenticity at some early stage"

I don't tend to msg woman if they have no verifications after being on here for a long time avoids wasting my time, the least anybody who is serious about playing wound get photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there less need for verification if it's a woman?

Surely there is more need.

Many female profiles are males pretending to be a woman,have you ever heard of a profile where a woman pretends to be a man?"

Because their inboxes will still always be full. I think the answer came from the females perspective (ie she doesn't need veris to get meets) rather than the males (it's more important they're verified to ensure they genuinely are a lady), in which case I'd agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not photo verified on here but this is my 3rd profile in 3 year.... long story ... don't ask... lol... but I am real I have a few meets on here....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not photo verified on here but this is my 3rd profile in 3 year.... long story ... don't ask... lol... but I am real I have a few meets on here....

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Your meet verified that's better then photo verified

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I will message them back but only to say 'no interest as uv no verifs in a year'. I try to reply to most messages even if it's just to explain why I'm not interested.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Depends if they are interesting; and if my bullshit detector doesn't go off

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I honestly Could never be arsed to PV myself but when I joined, but I had my first meet within a week, so once meet verified, I definitely don't/didn't see the point of a PV.

The people that want to meet will meet its as simple as that

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I have discovered quite a few on here that have no intention of meeting ..So a verification isn't likely to happen..but I would gently ask them why they have not been verified. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ... just block and keep on moooovin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes there's no verifications because the people you would like to meet aren't interested, and the people who show interest don't float your boat!

Is it better to meet someone you don't particularly want to meet, just to get that so important first verification.

I don't think so!

I'd rather stay unverified and wait for the circumstances to be right.If somebody on here decides to dismiss me as a fake or a timewaster, then so be it.They're probably not the sort of judgemental person I'd like to meet anyway!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

From a man's point of you seeing a verification helps to authenticate and prove that that woman is really a woman.

From a woman's point of view the verification indicates that the man has at least turned up once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some hide verifications ?

Cerebraly will snag us and personally ?

The verbal flirts and suggestions intrigue enough to suggest face pics and when we like a social meet.

No problem with couples who are finding their feet/dipping their toes but, we have a problem with time wasters who don't show for a social meet when prompted is the meet still on and don'the bother to message with a real/phony excuse.

Be honest - you get off on the idea/fantasy and that's good but DON'THE WASTE OTHERS TIME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there less need for verification if it's a woman?

Surely there is more need.

Many female profiles are males pretending to be a woman,have you ever heard of a profile where a woman pretends to be a man?"

a female profile with no verifications after a year, and no photo verification? That's highly unlikely to be legit.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I doubt your inbox is overflowing with messages.

There can be many reasons why a profile has no verifications ,

So respond if the profile and or pictures interests or delete and block if it doesn't ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there less need for verification if it's a woman?

Surely there is more need.

Many female profiles are males pretending to be a woman,have you ever heard of a profile where a woman pretends to be a man?

a female profile with no verifications after a year, and no photo

verification? That's highly unlikely to be legit."

Totally agree, and I could name one within 5 miles of me, who got photos and my kik out of me before blocking me.Won't be so naive again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We blocked non-verifieds so wouldn't get that message in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fella

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope deffo not theres no reason not to be varified after a year i would suspect fantasist/pic collector. We even offer now and again to have a quick social sometimes to unvarified ppl just to give them a foot on the ladder most of them dont turn up or make excuses of why they cant but still ask for the vari which is never going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope I never do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What bothers me is I'm only PV. Reason I'm not meet verified is coz I haven't hooked up with anyone from fab yet.

Which is irritating as f**k coz I'm fully aware of all the fakes and time wasters, here's me 100% genuine, up for anything and messaging ladies and couples yet I can barely get a nibble

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

The most unreliable people I have found on here were in fact couples with photos and meeting verifications but who can barely string a couple of sentences together in their replies and were complete time wasters overall. So there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's true I have found recently some people who are verified give you the run around and waste your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications make me cringe when read..rather do without them..childish nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd message them back at least to see what they wanted.

I do tend to block people who have been on here over a year with no verifications who want to meet and then don't on the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm photo verified and veri'd by cam just not by meet

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