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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've been wondering....

We get loads of ppl looking at our pics and profile and tbh get a fair few msgs from ppl (mainly single guys) but we get some ppl that regularly look at our pics etc but never msg....wondered if that's cuz they are shy or are just on to get off by looking at pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We her that too. I'm sure it's because they get off on looking at the pictures and if they have added you to their hotlist they may peek every time a new pic is added

Kinky

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

They like your pictures, if you like the look of them you could message or if you don't like them looking you could block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We her that too. I'm sure it's because they get off on looking at the pictures and if they have added you to their hotlist they may peek every time a new pic is added

Kinky "

Mmmm...that's kinda hot especially as some of them are hotties themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They like your pictures, if you like the look of them you could message or if you don't like them looking you could block "

Oooh I have absolutely no problem with it...just wondered if it was something about our profile they didn't like but then thought they wouldn't keep looking if that was the case ...suppose trying to ascertain ppls kinks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plusses: Attractive couple

Value intelligence

Reasonable distance from me

Meet weekday daytimes

Minuses: Don't accomodate

Not looking to meet CDs

So on balance, I wouldn't waste your time messaging you for a meet, but there's enough there to make me look a few times whilst considering my options lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"They like your pictures, if you like the look of them you could message or if you don't like them looking you could block

Oooh I have absolutely no problem with it...just wondered if it was something about our profile they didn't like but then thought they wouldn't keep looking if that was the case ...suppose trying to ascertain ppls kinks lol"

I understand. We have a few "regulars" who we've never been in contact with too, we don't have a problem with it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why dont you message them if you like the look of them OP, they maybe just shy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why dont you message them if you like the look of them OP, they maybe just shy "

This is Jaz (f half) - I don't msg anyone if they are shy as I'm totally into assertive guys so someone being too shy to msg me would be a turn off from the outset

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plusses: Attractive couple

Value intelligence

Reasonable distance from me

Meet weekday daytimes

Minuses: Don't accomodate

Not looking to meet CDs

So on balance, I wouldn't waste your time messaging you for a meet, but there's enough there to make me look a few times whilst considering my options lol"

Lol that's fine... please feel free to consider your options as many times as you like

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i look at peoples profiles because i forget i have already looked at them and i am looking at their friends profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i look at peoples profiles because i forget i have already looked at them and i am looking at their friends profiles."

???...looking at their friends profiles...sorry didn't get that?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"i look at peoples profiles because i forget i have already looked at them and i am looking at their friends profiles.

???...looking at their friends profiles...sorry didn't get that? "

their friends list, i look at their friends profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plusses: Attractive couple

Value intelligence

Reasonable distance from me

Meet weekday daytimes

Minuses: Don't accomodate

Not looking to meet CDs

So on balance, I wouldn't waste your time messaging you for a meet, but there's enough there to make me look a few times whilst considering my options lol

Lol that's fine... please feel free to consider your options as many times as you like "

Maybe, on the theory that two minuses make a plus, I should cross-cross-dress as my assertive alter-ego "Hardprick McPussyblaster" and try my luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i look at peoples profiles because i forget i have already looked at them and i am looking at their friends profiles.

???...looking at their friends profiles...sorry didn't get that?

their friends list, i look at their friends profiles."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's sometimes you forget who you click on.... the profiles not for you but still comes up on your search....maybe your just not what they are looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been wondering....

We get loads of ppl looking at our pics and profile and tbh get a fair few msgs from ppl (mainly single guys) but we get some ppl that regularly look at our pics etc but never msg....wondered if that's cuz they are shy or are just on to get off by looking at pics?

"

Maybe it's because they know you won't be interested in meeting them,and in all probability won't reply to their message... We get that alot lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I've been wondering....

We get loads of ppl looking at our pics and profile and tbh get a fair few msgs from ppl (mainly single guys) but we get some ppl that regularly look at our pics etc but never msg....wondered if that's cuz they are shy or are just on to get off by looking at pics?

Maybe it's because they know you won't be interested in meeting them,and in all probability won't reply to their message... We get that alot lol xx"

Possibly but we do reply to all msgs even if it's a quick no thanks ...as it's rude to ignore ppl if they hv msgd we feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection,no how polite still grates after a while

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By *ive it to usCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"So I've been wondering....

We get loads of ppl looking at our pics and profile and tbh get a fair few msgs from ppl (mainly single guys) but we get some ppl that regularly look at our pics etc but never msg....wondered if that's cuz they are shy or are just on to get off by looking at pics?

We find we end up looking at the same pics many times. Usually its because we have forgotten weve looked before! And its often when weve looked at a good post in the forums. We are not shy at all

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