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My type vs sexual compatability

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By *ason_silver OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I will admit - I do have a type (took me a while to realize and admit to)

They tend to be slim (like me), around the same height (at a guess 5,10 - never actually measured), small (but not non-existent) breast and bum.

but here's the kicker - from my experience - they look great in porn - but are so smothered by knowing they look good - they end up being totally unapproachable or utterly lazy in bed.

Whereas the more rounded ladies or the ones with larger breasts and bums – I would never really watch in porn – but feel more comfortable to talk to and have had a DAMN site more fun with in bed.

And I will admit – a part of me feels guilty about this.

I prefer one type to watch – and another to actually be with.

I'm not the only one right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ason_silver OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

and another one bites the dust

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You are for sure

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By *ason_silver OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

ok - now I'm a bit worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you're contradicting yourself somewhat I feel. Can "your type" really actually be your type, if you've enjoyed the opposite much more in practice? I tend to watch slimmer ladies in porn, because, well, it's easier to see what's going on!! but absolutely my "type" is for the curvier, larger lady...I prefer the look and the feel of what I see as soft feminine flesh. And does it really matter? You must have an attraction to those you play with surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this "my type" nonsense ,,lol especially on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get this "my type" nonsense ,,lol especially on a swingers site"

You're my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get this "my type" nonsense ,,lol especially on a swingers site

You're my type "

really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get this "my type" nonsense ,,lol especially on a swingers site

You're my type

really "

Don't sound so surprised, take the compliment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you're not the only one.

Why do you feel guilty though?

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By *ason_silver OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"OP you're not the only one.

Why do you feel guilty though?"

I put that down to christian upbringing - I feel guilty when I put shoes on and am not carrying heavy wooden objects

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By *ason_silver OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"OP, you're contradicting yourself somewhat I feel. Can "your type" really actually be your type, if you've enjoyed the opposite much more in practice? I tend to watch slimmer ladies in porn, because, well, it's easier to see what's going on!! but absolutely my "type" is for the curvier, larger lady...I prefer the look and the feel of what I see as soft feminine flesh. And does it really matter? You must have an attraction to those you play with surely?"

Thank-you

"it's easier to see what's going on!!"

there is that - probably why the karma-sutra was invented.

and yes - I only ever go with women who sexually excite me.

I think I've just been a porn hermit for too long and have lost track of reality vs media "reality"

give me time - I will learn - (why do you think I'm here?)

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By *ason_silver OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I prefer the look and the feel of what I see as soft feminine flesh."

Which makes me wonder - what do women see as feminine?

Is someone who could kick your arse in the Ironman Triathlon still seen as feminine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the look and the feel of what I see as soft feminine flesh.

Which makes me wonder - what do women see as feminine?

Is someone who could kick your arse in the Ironman Triathlon still seen as feminine?

"

Everyone's idea of femininity and masculinity will be completely different, and for me it's not just about looks

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I'm just the same. I find really hot, ripped, muscular guys aesthetically pleasing but i don't particularly find them sexually attractive. I'm more drawn to an average looking man, maybe even a bit on the larger side.

Think of it like artwork. You can appreciate it all but you wouldn't want to hang it on the wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have a good point. The women who I like in bed are mostly the women who I like in porn. It's because when watching porn I'm thinking about playing with them.

If there was a question about playing with versus walking down the street with .....

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