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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the biggest age gap here between 2 people, and is it seen as socialy acceptable amongst the vanilla world as it is amidst the swinging lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ought to ask yourself that :

Is she "direct to jail: or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere between jail time and osteoporosis...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

ltr's youngest i had was 9 years younger than me..oldest was 22 years older than me. they worked for years.

on here, i wont go more than 15 years either side..i think that's a reasonable spectrum..

any lower and they would be in my kids age range more then mine and any older they tend to be stuck in their ways personality wise. there are always temptations to the rule. i don't care whether its socially acceptable or not..its whats acceptable to me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

On here i have a strict age range just because i want one.

In the "vanilla" world my partner is 73 thats 22 years older than me. Weve been together over 10 years non of my family or friends have ever mentioned it, i talk more about on here than i have ever done in real life.

Never ever had any negative comments a few smiles when holding hands and i think about twice people have thought he was my dad and i think its a bit confusing when we are out with my mum as shes 18 months younger than him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest age gap I have with a regular fwb is 28 years my senior. He's 63.

Couldn't give a fuck what society says it's legal and he makes me tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone 22 years older (only the once) and have a man I see who is 19 years younger than me.

Age is just a number, it's the personality that matters most to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've gone 22 years older (only the once) and have a man I see who is 19 years younger than me.

Age is just a number, it's the personality that matters most to me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's 16 years between us and it's never been an issue. It works for us.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there's 13 years between us but you'd never tell as my Mr is so young in his ways

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

9 years between us . Not a problem when she's as fit as she is. As for swinging slut likes 25-50 for me 18 -99 if I'm in one of my naughty moods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say age gaps are more acceptable in the swinging world.

If it's just meeting for sex and friendship I am quite relaxed about age gaps.

If its about finding a partner I'm not that relaxed since I want us to be at the same stages in our lives.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Eighteen years between us & been together since just before H's twenty second birthday.

Only issues were early on when H looked younger than her years, still does but not such an issue with peeps now.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eighteen years between us & been together since just before H's twenty second birthday.

Only issues were early on when H looked younger than her years, still does but not such an issue with peeps now.

S"

Fantastic

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Youngest was 22 years when I was 47

The oldest was 61

Both lovely ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest age has to be legal. The sky is the limit on the upper age !! The bigger the gap the sexier it is. Mr Classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest gap was 45 to 19 (me). I've generally had older lovers, but would like to try a reversed age gap, wouldn't mind how much so long as legal. Of course age is just a number, but the bigger the gap the harder it is socially because of culture and friends. For just sex, it doesn't really matter, but when the 45 yo was my lover I found it awkward going out with her. I shouldn't, but in those days it was very unusual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest age gap for me was her being 22 years old at 58 when I was 36, also the same year had the biggest age gap the other way of a different lady of 10 years younger than me

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Biggest age gaps for me were 28 years older when I was 19

And my last relationship was with a girl 15 years younger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been married to my wife nearly ten years now, have a kid, she already had three of her own, the age gap between us is 20 years, were happier then most couples I no so all is well and good with the age gap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone 16 years older and 13 years younger.

Generally though, my meets are in their 30's and 40's and that's where I'm happiest with my age range.

I make exceptions for people in their late 20's if there's a good connection. Plus the same for women in their 50's.

It's working out just fine at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm 46 and she is 22. Not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone 22 years older ( when I was younger), and 12 years younger than myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've gone 22 years older ( when I was younger), and 12 years younger than myself.

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mm and your lovely!

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By *rinceCorwinMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"ltr's youngest i had was 9 years younger than me..oldest was 22 years older than me. they worked for years.

on here, i wont go more than 15 years either side..i think that's a reasonable spectrum..

any lower and they would be in my kids age range more then mine and any older they tend to be stuck in their ways personality wise. there are always temptations to the rule. i don't care whether its socially acceptable or not..its whats acceptable to me."

Obviously you do what feels right for you and I respect your right to set your personal parameters. However 15 years older than yourself would make your upper age limit 59. Now I am 62 and I can assure you that I am not set in my ways. If anything I am even more open to experience all that life has to offer, including kinky fuckery lol. I know that I have fewer years ahead of me than behind and I'm determined to have a naughty fucking time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ltr's youngest i had was 9 years younger than me..oldest was 22 years older than me. they worked for years.

on here, i wont go more than 15 years either side..i think that's a reasonable spectrum..

any lower and they would be in my kids age range more then mine and any older they tend to be stuck in their ways personality wise. there are always temptations to the rule. i don't care whether its socially acceptable or not..its whats acceptable to me."
very true and totally agree

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

There's 10 years between us which is perfect for us. Swinging wise, as long as there is a connection it doesn't matter what age.

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