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Don't like finger blasting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely not something Jools enjoys, have had to advise guy's in advance not to.

Seems to be the norm now,something else found its way from porn into regular life.

So other women actually enjoy it?

Can I add it's been non of our verifications.

It's mainly in club's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to pneumatic drills. Yes to fingers probing the g-spot in a come here motion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are we defining finger blasting? I don't like excessively rough but a gentle bit of stroking really does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers good (correct technique)

Blasting bad.... Too many guys trying to hard!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How are we defining finger blasting? I don't like excessively rough but a gentle bit of stroking really does nothing for me. "

Like someone is trying to do high speed morse code in your vagina!

Agree regarding gentle massage and the come hither finger movement.

A lady flower should be treated with respect and tenderness.

Not like trying to tenderise a week old steak!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Can't stand it, it fucking hurts and I get no pleasure from it at all. I still get one or two who still try it after I've told them not to, until I tell them AGAIN that it makes me sore and will cut short our playtime if they don't pack it in and no I won't give them a BJ instead. They get the message.....finally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the fingers but not in a forceful manner! Sometimes can become painful! But is all about communication and adjustment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way sex should be is you don't kiss, but you start to moan the second someone touches you. You imediately go down on the other person. You fuck them in every know position taking a break to finger them so hard that they gush by the gallon across the room. You then give them a nice facial. If you cannot make a woman gush on the first try you must not be fingering them hard enough. So just keep on repeating.

..... What this is not how it's done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way sex should be is you don't kiss, but you start to moan the second someone touches you. You imediately go down on the other person. You fuck them in every know position taking a break to finger them so hard that they gush by the gallon across the room. You then give them a nice facial. If you cannot make a woman gush on the first try you must not be fingering them hard enough. So just keep on repeating.

..... What this is not how it's done? "

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way sex should be is you don't kiss, but you start to moan the second someone touches you. You imediately go down on the other person. You fuck them in every know position taking a break to finger them so hard that they gush by the gallon across the room. You then give them a nice facial. If you cannot make a woman gush on the first try you must not be fingering them hard enough. So just keep on repeating.

..... What this is not how it's done? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works for me, provided the fingers are attached to someone who knows what they're doing!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Love fingers but only skilled ones. An over enthusiastic chap ruined my play on Thursday. Was in agony and he asked for a verification

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love fingers. Hate it rough. If done properly its pretty amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not my idea of fun...plus it hurts

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Not a fan of the pneumatic drill finger action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The art of fingering is gone IMO, nice and slow to start, working up a little faster when they are wetter, no need however to get up to the "blasting" stage unless she asks you too, with the right skill and motion she will squirt without blasting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it when you end up so bruised you can't sit down for a week

slow and gentle wins a prize everytime with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't finger blast , the your time and curve your to middle fingers to a c shape. Then gently rock your hand back and forth. She will get wetter with each stroke, its beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with everything there's a time and a place for it, what works for one person doesn't necessarily work for another, I've known people who love it and others that hate it.

As long as there's good communication between everyone, and each party knows what the other likes, or can pick up on it during the meet, then live and let live I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo....it hurts!! And certainly doesn't make me orgasm! Just sore and quite a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gawd no! Lots of years ago I had a ONS with a bloke who absolutely shredded my vagina and cervix with that technique. I bled for a day or so afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers skin is defo too rough for me, don't like (Mrs)

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