FabSwingers.com forum: Cancelled 20mins before meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

On the plus side, at least they let you know.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Disappointing but you made the choice to change your shift for a shag.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

ha ha welcome to fab a weekly event for us [k female has to book time off for day meets ]and people dont turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of a bummer that it's happened.

That been said, why on earth did you change work shifts, which is your livelihood....for a shag?

Earn money vs a meaningless fuck. Surely it's a no brainer.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!"

The couple were gracious enough to let you know, so you then start a thread in a public forum about it.

Perhaps this behavior will put others off meeting you? Problem solved then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No they never let me no after several

Msgs to ask if still coming they msg me.and after saying last night today was only time they cld meet for 3 weeks I decided to change my shift so not losing any money but just pissed off!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!

The couple were gracious enough to let you know, so you then start a thread in a public forum about it.

Perhaps this behavior will put others off meeting you? Problem solved then.

#whiteknight

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By *rinceCorwinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"ha ha welcome to fab a weekly event for us [k female has to book time off for day meets ]and people dont turn up "

Must be idiots not to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was one thing I learnt very quickly on here - it's to not rearrange plans to suit others. If both our plans suit then fine. Sadly many men will do anything for a fuck, and then complain when they are let down by total strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're lucky you even got a message.

Despite being under the weather, I had someone wanting to meet me at a club last night after they seen me giving out wand demos the week before and wanted to try it.

I explained I wasn't feeling too well, but when we looked at next available free time, it would have been 6 weeks away which she didn't want to do. So after begging and pleading, I agreed.

Waited outside for an hour, nothing. No message, no show. The beauty of arranging club meets though was I bumped into a special lady who I play with so as she was let down too, we went off and played together!

No idea what has happened to the other person though, haven't blocked them yet in case there's a genuinely good reason for no comm's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the main thing to be taken from this thread is that all the people making nasty, snide, sarcastic comments about the OP think that it's ok to let someone down at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!"

Oh well, one chap from here told me he was driving over and then never turned up. Never messaged.

You win some, you lose some. Happens to all of us. No need to take to the forums about it.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"So the main thing to be taken from this thread is that all the people making nasty, snide, sarcastic comments about the OP think that it's ok to let someone down at the last minute."

No, it must be disappointing. I said that.

Nothing more, it was a shag not a cancellation for a replacement kidney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the main thing to be taken from this thread is that all the people making nasty, snide, sarcastic comments about the OP think that it's ok to let someone down at the last minute."

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know. "

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!

Oh well, one chap from here told me he was driving over and then never turned up. Never messaged.

You win some, you lose some. Happens to all of us. No need to take to the forums about it. "

I agree. Not nice but it happens on here now and then. Really a little indescreet to post a thread about it on a public forum.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

13 hours ago it was hard to get a meeting!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's disappointing when things like that happen but unfortunately is sometimes the reality of fab

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It happens, sometimes for good reason sometimes for no reason.

It's Fab and this should be fun and not get you so wound up you start a thread to complain.

Being angry, negative or generally complaining on here doesn't do you any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP. "

Why is it easy for me to say being a woman? I have been let down last minute, it happens. I myself have cancelled last minute due to life getting in the way. It happens however, I didn't start a thread about it on a public forum. Its not nice if the subject was you and you read about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 mins is very late notice..

I understand you are new to fab, I'd say its a good idea to checjk out who you are meeting beforehand. With couples I dont know well..I demand a conversation with the female half..as I've had mails throughout the years from the obvious fantasist, or unknowledgeable wife.

if I dont get the shag ..so be it.

This thread would be entirely different if a couple or single woman had posted it..you will need to learn this happens a lot on the forums.

good luck on future meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No they never let me no after several

Msgs to ask if still coming they msg me.and after saying last night today was only time they cld meet for 3 weeks I decided to change my shift so not losing any money but just pissed off!!!!!!"

Did they have verifications by meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people are saying "at east they let you know"

yeah..if I wasn't getting texts back I'd begin to wonder..

as anyone would.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You have a 10 inch cock, that will attract some so be the driver, not the driven.

It will also attract some fools.

Good luck and if it's too good to be true, probably is

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down. "

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet if I started a thread saying a bloke just cancelled my meet 30 minutes beforehand, I'd get a very different response! The fact that OP is a single male shouldn't change anything, he's been let down last minute possibly by a total fake, and has the right to be pissed off about it.

OP unfortunately it does happen quite often. And sometimes a couples profile will actually just be a single guy playing games. Learn what you can from today and maybe stick a meet request up, the day isn't over yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!"

At least you're having meets arranged!

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it."

And what's the problem with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet if I started a thread saying a bloke just cancelled my meet 30 minutes beforehand, I'd get a very different response! The fact that OP is a single male shouldn't change anything, he's been let down last minute possibly by a total fake, and has the right to be pissed off about it.

I have deliberately not got myself ready for meets that I have an indication that they are either fantasists/fakes..I give anyone a chance...but I wont put work/sex life on hold for a potential let downs.

If a meet starts really giving no responses..before the upcoming meet..they usually are ready to waste your time..its pretty simple.

As the OP has stressed, he maintained the contact and the others did not, but then gave notice at a time that anyone should really say isn't suitable. I hope they apologized too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?"

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have done nothing yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have a 10 inch cock, that will attract some so be the driver, not the driven.

It will also attract some fools.

Good luck and if it's too good to be true, probably is

Cheers mate

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling? "

Everyone on Fabs gives us their own side of the story - so nothing new here.

Besides you don't even know whether this couple were real or fake, neither do you know whether their reason for cancellation was genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No they never let me no after several

Msgs to ask if still coming they msg me.and after saying last night today was only time they cld meet for 3 weeks I decided to change my shift so not losing any money but just pissed off!!!!!!

Did they have verifications by meet? "

Yea they had 7 verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"13 hours ago it was hard to get a meeting!

Yea then one popped up and went tits up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!"

Not unusual. The same happened to me with one particular couple on many occasions! The female openly admitted she liked the controlling aspect of letting me down at the last minute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling?

Everyone on Fabs gives us their own side of the story - so nothing new here.

Besides you don't even know whether this couple were real or fake, neither do you know whether their reason for cancellation was genuine. "

Which is why it was better just to accept it and move on rather than publish it on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling?

Everyone on Fabs gives us their own side of the story - so nothing new here.

Besides you don't even know whether this couple were real or fake, neither do you know whether their reason for cancellation was genuine.

Which is why it was better just to accept it and move on rather than publish it on here. "

I'm only checking if this is a regular thing on here I'm still pritty new to this stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people's jobs are more important than sex. Some people have to cancel because of other things and some people have no intentions of meeting in the first place.

Meeting strangers for sex carries all kinds of risks,we have to accept that and expect the unexpected.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling?

Everyone on Fabs gives us their own side of the story - so nothing new here.

Besides you don't even know whether this couple were real or fake, neither do you know whether their reason for cancellation was genuine.

Which is why it was better just to accept it and move on rather than publish it on here. "

Nothing wrong with him publishing it on here if he chooses to do so.

No forum rules were broken in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling?

Everyone on Fabs gives us their own side of the story - so nothing new here.

Besides you don't even know whether this couple were real or fake, neither do you know whether their reason for cancellation was genuine.

Which is why it was better just to accept it and move on rather than publish it on here.

I'm only checking if this is a regular thing on here I'm still pritty new to this stuff"

Sadly hun it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling?

Everyone on Fabs gives us their own side of the story - so nothing new here.

Besides you don't even know whether this couple were real or fake, neither do you know whether their reason for cancellation was genuine.

Which is why it was better just to accept it and move on rather than publish it on here.

I'm only checking if this is a regular thing on here I'm still pritty new to this stuff

Sadly hun it is. "

Nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling?

Everyone on Fabs gives us their own side of the story - so nothing new here.

Besides you don't even know whether this couple were real or fake, neither do you know whether their reason for cancellation was genuine.

Which is why it was better just to accept it and move on rather than publish it on here.

I'm only checking if this is a regular thing on here I'm still pritty new to this stuff"

You don't have to justify why you started the thread;unless you're naming someone it's a place to discuss the site,your experiences and anything else you desire,that isn't against site rules. People complain about men on here all the time and get told it's the men's loss. Think of it as your couple have lost out

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I'd be very disappointed, but loads of people have jobs where they are called into work at short notice. Me included.

I would probably be questioning of it, but I think I'd have to believe what they said, assuming there was no way of proving otherwise.

I think I'd probably leave it, as I wouldn't want to wrongly accuse others of anything, even if I was frustrated and had some doubts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

And what's the problem with that?

The OP only gives us his side of the story. Why should they have to see this and feel the need to defend themselves if they had a genuine reason for cancelling?

Everyone on Fabs gives us their own side of the story - so nothing new here.

Besides you don't even know whether this couple were real or fake, neither do you know whether their reason for cancellation was genuine.

Which is why it was better just to accept it and move on rather than publish it on here.

Nothing wrong with him publishing it on here if he chooses to do so.

No forum rules were broken in the process. "

Indeed they weren't. Personally I'd have just asked if cancellations last minute were usual and left it at that but the OP is new so is obviously finding his feet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!

Oh well, one chap from here told me he was driving over and then never turned up. Never messaged.

You win some, you lose some. Happens to all of us. No need to take to the forums about it. "

He is as entitled to vent his frustration as much as you're entitled to post your _iew of his post

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

"Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it."

Maybe if they do read about it then they may reflect on how shittily they treated the OP. There are sometimes reasons for last minute cancellations but I would think the vast majority of times it happens the cancellers were just dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it."

Has he been derogatory about them? Or has he merely let fab world know of his disappointment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No they never let me no after several

Msgs to ask if still coming they msg me.and after saying last night today was only time they cld meet for 3 weeks I decided to change my shift so not losing any money but just pissed off!!!!!!

Did they have verifications by meet?

Yea they had 7 verified "

That does give more credibility to their story though. But they should set expectations in advance by warning you that there's a possibility it could happen.

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over a year ago

"I'd never change my life, work etc to fit in with a meet. I fit fab around my life, not the other way around. Sorry this happened OP but as others have said, at least they let you know.

Yes you wouldn't change your life to fit a meet. Easy for you to say so being a woman on Fabs.

Some men here find meets so difficult to come by, that they sometimes have to make adjustments so as not to miss out when an opportunity to meet presents itself.

Though I would not change my shift for a meet, I do sympathise with the OP.

Nothing wrong about the OP talking about his disappointment in a public forum. And also he never mentioned the name of the couple that let him down.

He didn't but the people he is talking about would know who they were straight away if they read it.

Has he been derogatory about them? Or has he merely let fab world know of his disappointment?"

This

He wasn't offensive in his opening post at all.

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over a year ago

"Was meant to meet a couple at 10.30 then at 10.10 it's cancelled male has been called into work.i changed my shift in work today nightmare!!!!!!

Oh well, one chap from here told me he was driving over and then never turned up. Never messaged.

You win some, you lose some. Happens to all of us. No need to take to the forums about it. "

I had the same happen to me

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