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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx" Why do people have sex with randoms? We're on a site where people will have differing sexual preferences. If something is suggested I don't like I simply move on to someone I'm compatible with. There's no need to "shame" people because their "deviancy" differs from my own. | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx" Don't know. I've never had a random ask me for bareback. | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx" It's their personal preferences to do bareback if they want to, you make it sound unnatural, taboo, dirty, wrong. It's not wrong for othe s to do bareback if that's what they to do. You just move on to the next person if it's not for you It's not illegal. Maybe you should mention that you want to use condoms in your profile so blokes know before messaging that bareback is not acceptable to yourselves. XXX | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx Why do people have sex with randoms? We're on a site where people will have differing sexual preferences. If something is suggested I don't like I simply move on to someone I'm compatible with. There's no need to "shame" people because their "deviancy" differs from my own." Good point,well made. It's a shame that not everyone shares your point of view. There has been some very good well ballanced comments, so far. Wonder how long before the usual bash-a-backer brigade cips in though. | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx It's their personal preferences to do bareback if they want to, you make it sound unnatural, taboo, dirty, wrong. It's not wrong for othe s to do bareback if that's what they to do. You just move on to the next person if it's not for you It's not illegal. Maybe you should mention that you want to use condoms in your profile so blokes know before messaging that bareback is not acceptable to yourselves. XXX " Sensible comment. It's a choice. Some of us prefer it and it's a choice we make. If someone doesn't like my choices I appreciate that and they can move on. On a more important note, I think honesty is important, i.e., you say what you do or like so that others can make informed choices. Because of the "bareback bashing" on this site, many people hide the fact that the like it, then secretly reveal it to those who openly state they enjoy natural sex. Fine with me, but because they don't openly say so, others are being deceived which is NOT nice. perhaps 20 years ago bisexual women would have done the same and certainly bisexual men are forced to hide their "tendencies" because of the bashing they get. xxoo | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not..." Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not... Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! " While I don't prefer using condoms, I have no problem using them as it makes the whole scenario seem naughty, in an "I'm about to have sex with someone who isn't a long term partner, this is hot!" kind of way. Also makes cleanup easier if you want to orgasm inside her  | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not... Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! While I don't prefer using condoms, I have no problem using them as it makes the whole scenario seem naughty, in an "I'm about to have sex with someone who isn't a long term partner, this is hot!" kind of way. Also makes cleanup easier if you want to orgasm inside her "That's good for you, I get the "hmm I can no longer feel shit" dullness in my dick. I'll use them with strangers but if we lived in a world without incurable STDs I bloody wouldn't. | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not... Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! While I don't prefer using condoms, I have no problem using them as it makes the whole scenario seem naughty, in an "I'm about to have sex with someone who isn't a long term partner, this is hot!" kind of way. Also makes cleanup easier if you want to orgasm inside her
That's good for you, I get the "hmm I can no longer feel shit" dullness in my dick.
I'll use them with strangers but if we lived in a world without incurable STDs I bloody wouldn't."try elite skyns.. very good and guys have told me they feel like there is nothing there... in fact some kept stopping to check it was still on | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not... Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! While I don't prefer using condoms, I have no problem using them as it makes the whole scenario seem naughty, in an "I'm about to have sex with someone who isn't a long term partner, this is hot!" kind of way. Also makes cleanup easier if you want to orgasm inside her
That's good for you, I get the "hmm I can no longer feel shit" dullness in my dick.
I'll use them with strangers but if we lived in a world without incurable STDs I bloody wouldn't. try elite skyns.. very good and guys have told me they feel like there is nothing there... in fact some kept stopping to check it was still on"I agree, I've used durex fetherlite and they are good, but these skyns sound even better. It's important to find ones that work for you, otherwise you won't feel shit  | |||
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"I do prefer bareback" No doubt it feels better. Wouldn't risk it with a stranger though | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with." Last check this week and clear as expected,I wish my blood's came back that quick! | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not... Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! While I don't prefer using condoms, I have no problem using them as it makes the whole scenario seem naughty, in an "I'm about to have sex with someone who isn't a long term partner, this is hot!" kind of way. Also makes cleanup easier if you want to orgasm inside her
That's good for you, I get the "hmm I can no longer feel shit" dullness in my dick.
I'll use them with strangers but if we lived in a world without incurable STDs I bloody wouldn't. try elite skyns.. very good and guys have told me they feel like there is nothing there... in fact some kept stopping to check it was still on"I'll give them a try, thanks, can't be any worse than normal ones. Feels like a fecking washing up glove is on it. | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not... Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! While I don't prefer using condoms, I have no problem using them as it makes the whole scenario seem naughty, in an "I'm about to have sex with someone who isn't a long term partner, this is hot!" kind of way. Also makes cleanup easier if you want to orgasm inside her
That's good for you, I get the "hmm I can no longer feel shit" dullness in my dick.
I'll use them with strangers but if we lived in a world without incurable STDs I bloody wouldn't. try elite skyns.. very good and guys have told me they feel like there is nothing there... in fact some kept stopping to check it was still on"They are better than anything else out there but those who say it's the same are still talking shite. It's still nothing close to the feeling without and never will be but it's a must on here unless you know the individual enough to trust them. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with." It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with." If you're having regular bareback sex it's recommended you get tested every 6 weeks | |||
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"Well according to one vicious women I do. And I've got quite a collection of std's so I thought why not. Let's work my way thru fab and see how many std's I can collect...share the love! Disclaimer : the above was meant to be ironic. I am squeaky clean " Ironic that you look so dirty in your pics... In a good way of course | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx It's their personal preferences to do bareback if they want to, you make it sound unnatural, taboo, dirty, wrong. It's not wrong for othe s to do bareback if that's what they to do. You just move on to the next person if it's not for you It's not illegal. Maybe you should mention that you want to use condoms in your profile so blokes know before messaging that bareback is not acceptable to yourselves. XXX " Exactly this - we state safe sex in our profile and very rarely get people asking for bareback sex - totally agree it feels better but prefer not to take the risk - each to their own | |||
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"Obviously in a perfect world everyone would do it. There's no comparison to sex with, and sex without a condom. It's an unnatural feeling. It's certainly not sexy stopping to apply one, check it's on right, then having to keep checking it's still on whilst having sex, this alone takes your focus off enjoying the moment, as well as the lack of feeling using one gives. But, I'd rather take that, than a weeping, itchy, stinging sensation when I piss, then suffer the humiliation of attending a gum clinic because I caught a dose from a stranger "There's no humiliation in attending a gum clinic. It's what sensible people who have multiple partners do, whether they use condoms or not. | |||
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"Obviously in a perfect world everyone would do it. There's no comparison to sex with, and sex without a condom. It's an unnatural feeling. It's certainly not sexy stopping to apply one, check it's on right, then having to keep checking it's still on whilst having sex, this alone takes your focus off enjoying the moment, as well as the lack of feeling using one gives. But, I'd rather take that, than a weeping, itchy, stinging sensation when I piss, then suffer the humiliation of attending a gum clinic because I caught a dose from a stranger "Do you not visit the gum clinic then until you've caught something? I'd say any responsible fabber whose active on here should be getting checked around every 3 months depending on frequency and type of activities. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. If you're having regular bareback sex it's recommended you get tested every 6 weeks "Id have to disagree, if you went 6 weeks and say had bare back 6 times with 6 different people? How would you know which person gave it you? Then, what happens if you were a carrier and symptoms didn't show in you, but you spread it to others. It's a tricky call, I get that its probably unrealistic to visit the gum clinic every time you have unprotected sex. It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist | |||
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"Obviously in a perfect world everyone would do it. There's no comparison to sex with, and sex without a condom. It's an unnatural feeling. It's certainly not sexy stopping to apply one, check it's on right, then having to keep checking it's still on whilst having sex, this alone takes your focus off enjoying the moment, as well as the lack of feeling using one gives. But, I'd rather take that, than a weeping, itchy, stinging sensation when I piss, then suffer the humiliation of attending a gum clinic because I caught a dose from a stranger
Do you not visit the gum clinic then until you've caught something? I'd say any responsible fabber whose active on here should be getting checked around every 3 months depending on frequency and type of activities."Yeah condoms aren't some magic bullet to STD, medically if you have a number of partners they recommend you get yourself checked out whether you always use condoms or not because the chance of contracting is still there | |||
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"Obviously in a perfect world everyone would do it. There's no comparison to sex with, and sex without a condom. It's an unnatural feeling. It's certainly not sexy stopping to apply one, check it's on right, then having to keep checking it's still on whilst having sex, this alone takes your focus off enjoying the moment, as well as the lack of feeling using one gives. But, I'd rather take that, than a weeping, itchy, stinging sensation when I piss, then suffer the humiliation of attending a gum clinic because I caught a dose from a stranger "This | |||
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"Obviously in a perfect world everyone would do it. There's no comparison to sex with, and sex without a condom. It's an unnatural feeling. It's certainly not sexy stopping to apply one, check it's on right, then having to keep checking it's still on whilst having sex, this alone takes your focus off enjoying the moment, as well as the lack of feeling using one gives. But, I'd rather take that, than a weeping, itchy, stinging sensation when I piss, then suffer the humiliation of attending a gum clinic because I caught a dose from a stranger
Do you not visit the gum clinic then until you've caught something? I'd say any responsible fabber whose active on here should be getting checked around every 3 months depending on frequency and type of activities."I've never caught anything as I use condoms which my post clearly points out. As for attending GUM clinic? Every 4-6 weeks, unless a condom tears, then I go a week after the event. Then my 4-6 week cycle starts again. | |||
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"Obviously in a perfect world everyone would do it. There's no comparison to sex with, and sex without a condom. It's an unnatural feeling. It's certainly not sexy stopping to apply one, check it's on right, then having to keep checking it's still on whilst having sex, this alone takes your focus off enjoying the moment, as well as the lack of feeling using one gives. But, I'd rather take that, than a weeping, itchy, stinging sensation when I piss, then suffer the humiliation of attending a gum clinic because I caught a dose from a stranger
Do you not visit the gum clinic then until you've caught something? I'd say any responsible fabber whose active on here should be getting checked around every 3 months depending on frequency and type of activities.
Yeah condoms aren't some magic bullet to STD, medically if you have a number of partners they recommend you get yourself checked out whether you always use condoms or not because the chance of contracting is still there"Should be tested regularly too even from oral transmittion. So many forget that giving/ recieving a bj makes you vulnerable too. | |||
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" Yeah condoms aren't some magic bullet to STD, medically if you have a number of partners they recommend you get yourself checked out whether you always use condoms or not because the chance of contracting is still there" This is true, also, I will admit that for oral I don't use a dental dam which is why I'm tested regardless. Although the chances of contracting an sti orally is significantly more difficult, it's not impossible. | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist "Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment"Because they're stocked in chemist?  | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment"I think it might lead to people treating themselves as a precaution rather than because they had symptoms. | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist? "wrong use, overuse and misuse of antimicrobials leads to resistance developing in the bacteria. | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist? "I think what he means is individuals wouldn't have the professional knowledge required to identify the specific treatment required and what would happen is a bit like antibiotics. ..generic broad usage and then STIs build resistance. | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist?
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist?
wrong use, overuse and misuse of antimicrobials leads to resistance developing in the bacteria. "Scientists called it the 'clap trap' - you treat it, but it comes back stronger | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist?
wrong use, overuse and misuse of antimicrobials leads to resistance developing in the bacteria. "Surely that's like any other off the shelf treatment you can buy? Hayfever tablets etc, motion sickness? | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist?
wrong use, overuse and misuse of antimicrobials leads to resistance developing in the bacteria.
Surely that's like any other off the shelf treatment you can buy?
Hayfever tablets etc, motion sickness? "Not really, no... | |||
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"Well according to one vicious women I do. And I've got quite a collection of std's so I thought why not. Let's work my way thru fab and see how many std's I can collect...share the love! Disclaimer : the above was meant to be ironic. I am squeaky clean Ironic that you look so dirty in your pics... In a good way of course "An illusion and a fantasy, dirty on the outside clean on then inside | |||
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"In the 6 years I've been here and meeting in clubs I have never been asked for BB sex. Let others live their life how they choose and just look after yourself. Ignore those who don't fit your requirements, you will be much happier that way." your very lucky.. i get asked on a weekly basis both on site and on clubs and as a couple its at least once a month that a woman tries to sit on my partner or drag him in bare and these are just random meets in clubs... its quite prolific | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist?
wrong use, overuse and misuse of antimicrobials leads to resistance developing in the bacteria.
Surely that's like any other off the shelf treatment you can buy?
Hayfever tablets etc, motion sickness? "Not sure you're understanding the reasoning......motion sickness doesn't mutate nor does hayfever....but with hayfever the body can and so you'll find many of the treatments do not work for different people. Not everyone responds to the same hayfever treatment so different ones are needed. | |||
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"Well according to one vicious women I do. And I've got quite a collection of std's so I thought why not. Let's work my way thru fab and see how many std's I can collect...share the love! Disclaimer : the above was meant to be ironic. I am squeaky clean Ironic that you look so dirty in your pics... In a good way of course
An illusion and a fantasy, dirty on the outside clean on then inside "Sounds like the perfect combo... as long as your mind is dirty too of course | |||
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"In the 6 years I've been here and meeting in clubs I have never been asked for BB sex. Let others live their life how they choose and just look after yourself. Ignore those who don't fit your requirements, you will be much happier that way. your very lucky.. i get asked on a weekly basis both on site and on clubs and as a couple its at least once a month that a woman tries to sit on my partner or drag him in bare and these are just random meets in clubs... its quite prolific " I had a woman try and sit on my bare cock on a first meet fumble in the back of her car. When I stopped her she said "well done, you passed the test". Yeah right!! | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? " I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed." Very naive! | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive!" It's generally seen as naive by those who lack trust both in themselves and others. I think you'll find those who also think its naive tend to be more broadly and widely active....as he clearly stated he's very selective and therefore it's easier to be trusting and to manage the risk. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! It's generally seen as naive by those who lack trust both in themselves and others. I think you'll find those who also think its naive tend to be more broadly and widely active....as he clearly stated he's very selective and therefore it's easier to be trusting and to manage the risk." Rubbish! | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed." Fair enough. We must all play the way we want to and use the checks that we're happy with. The main thing is honesty about the way you play I think, if people aren't happy they have the opportunity to move on. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive!" Better than not asking at all. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! Better than not asking at all. " Of course,but seriously he said he expects a truthful reply from people,how naive is that to think he's going to get one,come on! | |||
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"I still have faith in humanity to not knowingly want to harm someone else. I have sex with jonnies too. I think the key to my success is I don't sleep with a lot of people and those I meet and shag we meet lots of times so the trust builds up and given my ripe ol age I would say I've done well to not have contracted an STI ever in my life time." You've just been lucky that's all! | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! It's generally seen as naive by those who lack trust both in themselves and others. I think you'll find those who also think its naive tend to be more broadly and widely active....as he clearly stated he's very selective and therefore it's easier to be trusting and to manage the risk. Rubbish!" You're entitled to your view but have noticed on similar posts you don't like it that others hold different views to yourself. Kinda makes it difficult to have any form of constructive debate without passive bullying. All it does is cause any subject matter to be avoided by genuine people because of fear of attack and the passive bullying continues. It's a shame really as we should all be able to accept others have different views and not feel threatened because of it. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! It's generally seen as naive by those who lack trust both in themselves and others. I think you'll find those who also think its naive tend to be more broadly and widely active....as he clearly stated he's very selective and therefore it's easier to be trusting and to manage the risk. Rubbish! You're entitled to your view but have noticed on similar posts you don't like it that others hold different views to yourself. Kinda makes it difficult to have any form of constructive debate without passive bullying. All it does is cause any subject matter to be avoided by genuine people because of fear of attack and the passive bullying continues. It's a shame really as we should all be able to accept others have different views and not feel threatened because of it. " ...and this is why I just "entertain" her comments | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! Better than not asking at all. Of course,but seriously he said he expects a truthful reply from people,how naive is that to think he's going to get one,come on!" Mistrust breeds mistrust. | |||
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"Going to a gum clinic more often than every 6 weeks would not be overly useful. I think the 6 week window is because it can take 6 weeks to detect some sti's. So going a week after sex and getting the all clear only means you are clear for up to the 6 weeks before. Even if you had no sex after that you could still be carrying and it may only become detectable in another 5 weeks."
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! It's generally seen as naive by those who lack trust both in themselves and others. I think you'll find those who also think its naive tend to be more broadly and widely active....as he clearly stated he's very selective and therefore it's easier to be trusting and to manage the risk. Rubbish! You're entitled to your view but have noticed on similar posts you don't like it that others hold different views to yourself. Kinda makes it difficult to have any form of constructive debate without passive bullying. All it does is cause any subject matter to be avoided by genuine people because of fear of attack and the passive bullying continues. It's a shame really as we should all be able to accept others have different views and not feel threatened because of it. ...and this is why I just "entertain" her comments Please! You two should get a room,love it out,yeah!" Think your confirming things. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! It's generally seen as naive by those who lack trust both in themselves and others. I think you'll find those who also think its naive tend to be more broadly and widely active....as he clearly stated he's very selective and therefore it's easier to be trusting and to manage the risk. Rubbish! You're entitled to your view but have noticed on similar posts you don't like it that others hold different views to yourself. Kinda makes it difficult to have any form of constructive debate without passive bullying. All it does is cause any subject matter to be avoided by genuine people because of fear of attack and the passive bullying continues. It's a shame really as we should all be able to accept others have different views and not feel threatened because of it. ...and this is why I just "entertain" her comments" So yes then entertain my comments and tell us how the heck you managed to get the all clear from a sexual health check within a few day's? Please do tell... | |||
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"In the 6 years I've been here and meeting in clubs I have never been asked for BB sex. Let others live their life how they choose and just look after yourself. Ignore those who don't fit your requirements, you will be much happier that way. your very lucky.. i get asked on a weekly basis both on site and on clubs and as a couple its at least once a month that a woman tries to sit on my partner or drag him in bare and these are just random meets in clubs... its quite prolific I had a woman try and sit on my bare cock on a first meet fumble in the back of her car. When I stopped her she said "well done, you passed the test". Yeah right!! " one bloke tried to pull Condom off last week in chams and luckily the person I went with saw and went mental and threw him.out. he was behind me so I didn't see. Some sneaky fuckers about | |||
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"I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed." When you know people well then it's a calculated risk, as with any risk in life. Different people are comfortable with different levels of risk. As adults we set our own standards as to what we consider too risky, and the only true safe practice is having one partner only. | |||
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"In the 6 years I've been here and meeting in clubs I have never been asked for BB sex. Let others live their life how they choose and just look after yourself. Ignore those who don't fit your requirements, you will be much happier that way. your very lucky.. i get asked on a weekly basis both on site and on clubs and as a couple its at least once a month that a woman tries to sit on my partner or drag him in bare and these are just random meets in clubs... its quite prolific " I've not been going to clubs much this last year, I used to be out 3 weekends a month, but no I have never been asked if I go bare. And only 1 bloke had to be reminded to glove up when he tried to fuck me without. Could be because I ask if he has condoms before I go to the play area, even though I always have a collection in my bag, maybe that lets them know that I won't consider BB. | |||
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" There's no humiliation in attending a gum clinic. It's what sensible people who have multiple partners do, whether they use condoms or not. " Agreed. I get checked every month. GUM clinic nurses know me by first name and actually appreciate the fact that I'm forthright about my sexual habits and get tested. Initially I'd have an issue with having to meet a new person every time now the staff know me and just give me a nod and ask "the same as usual?" and then off we go for the tests. Done in 15 minutes mostly. | |||
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" There's no humiliation in attending a gum clinic. It's what sensible people who have multiple partners do, whether they use condoms or not. Agreed. I get checked every month. GUM clinic nurses know me by first name and actually appreciate the fact that I'm forthright about my sexual habits and get tested. Initially I'd have an issue with having to meet a new person every time now the staff know me and just give me a nod and ask "the same as usual?" and then off we go for the tests. Done in 15 minutes mostly." I've been to gum clinics all over the country as we've moved around. Always found the staff to be ultra professional and non-judgemental. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! It's generally seen as naive by those who lack trust both in themselves and others. I think you'll find those who also think its naive tend to be more broadly and widely active....as he clearly stated he's very selective and therefore it's easier to be trusting and to manage the risk. Rubbish! You're entitled to your view but have noticed on similar posts you don't like it that others hold different views to yourself. Kinda makes it difficult to have any form of constructive debate without passive bullying. All it does is cause any subject matter to be avoided by genuine people because of fear of attack and the passive bullying continues. It's a shame really as we should all be able to accept others have different views and not feel threatened because of it. ...and this is why I just "entertain" her comments So yes then entertain my comments and tell us how the heck you managed to get the all clear from a sexual health check within a few day's? Please do tell..." Not getting involved in any disagreements,but it is possible in some places to get all your results within 6 hours if they have their own labs, and if not certainly within a couple of days. We do appreciate though that a lot of places can take up to two weeks. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! Better than not asking at all. Of course,but seriously he said he expects a truthful reply from people,how naive is that to think he's going to get one,come on! Mistrust breeds mistrust. " I'm all for each to their own and not demonising those who play differently to me. However, I would consider it extremely foolish and naive to put my sexual health in the hands of others and believe implicitly anything told to me by someone with a raging horn! | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! Better than not asking at all. Of course,but seriously he said he expects a truthful reply from people,how naive is that to think he's going to get one,come on! Mistrust breeds mistrust. I'm all for each to their own and not demonising those who play differently to me. However, I would consider it extremely foolish and naive to put my sexual health in the hands of others and believe implicitly anything told to me by someone with a raging horn!" ... you'd be right there. I'd say the trust and communication would have developed well and probably a good few meets would have already happened...If not then yes rather foolish. | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! Better than not asking at all. Of course,but seriously he said he expects a truthful reply from people,how naive is that to think he's going to get one,come on! Mistrust breeds mistrust. I'm all for each to their own and not demonising those who play differently to me. However, I would consider it extremely foolish and naive to put my sexual health in the hands of others and believe implicitly anything told to me by someone with a raging horn! ... you'd be right there. I'd say the trust and communication would have developed well and probably a good few meets would have already happened...If not then yes rather foolish."Again, not demonising others, but I wouldn't consider unprotected sex with those meeting others for no strings sex under any circumstances. | |||
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So if bareback isn't your thing, don't get upset by people asking if you partake. Treat it like any other kink or fetish. You're either into it or you aren't. | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx Why do people have sex with randoms? We're on a site where people will have differing sexual preferences. If something is suggested I don't like I simply move on to someone I'm compatible with. There's no need to "shame" people because their "deviancy" differs from my own." Well said. Why do those who don't want natural sex have to comment adversely on it? | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx Why do people have sex with randoms? We're on a site where people will have differing sexual preferences. If something is suggested I don't like I simply move on to someone I'm compatible with. There's no need to "shame" people because their "deviancy" differs from my own." Shaming people may save people's lives in this case so the end justifies the means. Two words super gonorrhoea | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx Why do people have sex with randoms? We're on a site where people will have differing sexual preferences. If something is suggested I don't like I simply move on to someone I'm compatible with. There's no need to "shame" people because their "deviancy" differs from my own. Shaming people may save people's lives in this case so the end justifies the means. Two words super gonorrhoea " Will it fuck! If anyone doesn't know the risks of bareback then they are too stupid to be saved. Therefore, you should assume they know the risks and are adult enough to make their own decisions. Leave them to it. | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist?
wrong use, overuse and misuse of antimicrobials leads to resistance developing in the bacteria.
Surely that's like any other off the shelf treatment you can buy?
Hayfever tablets etc, motion sickness? "Those things arent caused by bacteria | |||
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" It would be better if treatments for sti's were more accessible, or even off the shelf items in a big chemist
Not sure about that, it could possibly lead to more and more STIs becoming resistant to treatment
Because they're stocked in chemist?
wrong use, overuse and misuse of antimicrobials leads to resistance developing in the bacteria.
Surely that's like any other off the shelf treatment you can buy?
Hayfever tablets etc, motion sickness?
Those things arent caused by bacteria "TBF neither are most STI's they tend to be viral infections which are are why they're so difficult to get rid of. Those things are obviously entirely different though. | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx Don't know. I've never had a random ask me for bareback." I have.....but that's why the site has a "block" option isn't it? Use it and move on! | |||
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"Each to their own. Personally I love it, no better feeling for the fucker and looks good on camera. I take responsibility for my sexual health too. I check every 3months and always clear. Last check this week and clear as expected. Sometimes it's not about what you do but how many and who you do it with. It's entirely your choice and I wouldn't try and argue otherwise but your last sentence bewildered me a bit. Are you saying that you check your partners out to ensure they're clear? I ask and expect a truthful reply. yes may be naïve of me but so far it's worked out well. I don't sleep with a lot of people as I know what I like and still must be careful so I choose very carefully indeed. Very naive! Better than not asking at all. Of course,but seriously he said he expects a truthful reply from people,how naive is that to think he's going to get one,come on! Mistrust breeds mistrust. I'm all for each to their own and not demonising those who play differently to me. However, I would consider it extremely foolish and naive to put my sexual health in the hands of others and believe implicitly anything told to me by someone with a raging horn! ... you'd be right there. I'd say the trust and communication would have developed well and probably a good few meets would have already happened...If not then yes rather foolish."Indeed, and yet I have talked to a number of people about this and I have a feeling it happens a lot more than people will openly admit, especially when it comes to wet play at clubs or one or two other scenarios. | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not... Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! While I don't prefer using condoms, I have no problem using them as it makes the whole scenario seem naughty, in an "I'm about to have sex with someone who isn't a long term partner, this is hot!" kind of way. Also makes cleanup easier if you want to orgasm inside her
That's good for you, I get the "hmm I can no longer feel shit" dullness in my dick.
I'll use them with strangers but if we lived in a world without incurable STDs I bloody wouldn't. try elite skyns.. very good and guys have told me they feel like there is nothing there... in fact some kept stopping to check it was still on
I agree, I've used durex fetherlite and they are good, but these skyns sound even better. It's important to find ones that work for you, otherwise you won't feel shit "I use Lelo Hex OMG they feel like nothing else. I had to wait months for them. I can't believe just how good they feel. Now just need to use the 50% off lelo toys lol | |||
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"Random meets we don't do..always a social first. And then always safe sex. " Red is lovely ! | |||
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"The safest way of staying safe is playing safe "Sorry you are totally wrong. The safest way of staying safe is not playing! | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx Why do people have sex with randoms? We're on a site where people will have differing sexual preferences. If something is suggested I don't like I simply move on to someone I'm compatible with. There's no need to "shame" people because their "deviancy" differs from my own." yep! this. | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx Why do people have sex with randoms? We're on a site where people will have differing sexual preferences. If something is suggested I don't like I simply move on to someone I'm compatible with. There's no need to "shame" people because their "deviancy" differs from my own. Shaming people may save people's lives in this case so the end justifies the means. Two words super gonorrhoea Will it fuck! If anyone doesn't know the risks of bareback then they are too stupid to be saved. Therefore, you should assume they know the risks and are adult enough to make their own decisions. Leave them to it. " My point exactly! | |||
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"Bareback is hot. I love it. Why does it make people uncomfortable? If you dont like it dont meet them " Well said! | |||
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"Why do randoms want bareback?? Makes me and my boyf very uncomfortable when that's suggested! What does evertone else think? Xx Why do people have sex with randoms? We're on a site where people will have differing sexual preferences. If something is suggested I don't like I simply move on to someone I'm compatible with. There's no need to "shame" people because their "deviancy" differs from my own."
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"Bareback is hot. I love it. Why does it make people uncomfortable? If you dont like it dont meet them " Well said great pics by the way | |||
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"We only bareback with friends we've known for a good while, after we had all agreed. We wouldn't ask new partners to bareback and we wouldn't agree if any new partners suggested forgetting the condoms." Love to come along lick you're pussy clean after | |||
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" It's obvious why... its because it feel 10x better, is more exciting and lets you feel the other person... it's just a question of whether you want to take the risk with the person/people in question or not... Exactly! I think that any man who says he prefers the feeling of sex with a condom is talking shit! While I don't prefer using condoms, I have no problem using them as it makes the whole scenario seem naughty, in an "I'm about to have sex with someone who isn't a long term partner, this is hot!" kind of way. Also makes cleanup easier if you want to orgasm inside her "I think Marigold now do condoms too; after using for sex, they still have enough life left in them to do two loads of dishes | |||
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