FabSwingers.com forum: Text from angry wife!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ouch! Just received a text from this guys wife....said to me he had her approval for being on fab - to say that "we are on holiday and he will no longer be requiring sexual services from myself and colleagues! All pics/telephone numbers copied in case of evidence needed"!

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just message and say you want the fucking address for the CSA

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just message and say you want the fucking address for the CSA

Hey that would be worth doing.... !

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Ouch! Just received a text from this guys wife....said to me he had her approval for being on fab - to say that "we are on holiday and he will no longer be requiring sexual services from myself and colleagues! All pics/telephone numbers copied in case of evidence needed"!

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!"

Block the number - problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just message and say you want the fucking address for the CSA

Or that you hope his test results were clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thank God. It's always been a worry though, you run the risk on a site such as this. Me personally? Definitely ignore, and then black the number, and block the guy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeeeek, had this once before but managed to bluff her that it was just an online and text thing! Told her I lived 400 miles away. Obviously she was still upset but not as bad

felt bad for her as he had told me he was single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, we got a disgruntled message from the real spouse of a 'couple' we'd met. Maybe shouldn't feel guilty as we were non the wiser but still do feel a kind of empathy for the aggrieved party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely ignore, what on earth would be served by responding? Leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did she mean by colleagues, does she think you are a hooker?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!

Block the number - problem solved

Do I need to phone Vodafone to block the number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I always ask to speak to the wife or girlfriend to check they really do have permission as so many are such good liars it's easy to get caught out xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What did she mean by colleagues, does she think you are a hooker?

Yep I found that strange as of course I am not!...he may have pretended to HER he was seeing hookers of course..or it could be she was being snidey and sarcastic about the ladies he has obviously been in touch with!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Definitely ignore, what on earth would be served by responding? Leave them to it. "

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!

Block the number - problem solved

Do I need to phone Vodafone to block the number?"

No you can do it on most phones - iPhones do it - usually there's an info or settings bar on the page of the message from that number where block will be one of the options

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Just message and say you want the fucking address for the CSA

Hey that would be worth doing.... !"

I'm not sure I would want to upset the wife just for the sake of it, not her fault she's married to a lying cheat. I would actually say 'I am sorry I was told he had your permission' and then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think it's him spinning you a line ? If I was a wife that text would have been tame for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just message and say you want the fucking address for the CSA

Brilliant answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never give my number to anyone on fab

Ignore the message

Put it down to experience

And in future just us kik as an option to keep in contact away from fab :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never give my number to anyone on fab

Ignore the message

Put it down to experience

And in future just us kik as an option to keep in contact away from fab :-/"

use not us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a call from a wife of a 'single' guy. I apologised and said I think you need to talk to your husband.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never give my number to anyone on fab

Ignore the message

Put it down to experience

And in future just us kik as an option to keep in contact away from fab :-/"

I won't be giving.my.number out again put it that way! I don't use kik but may do this

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Ignore and block.

He could have told her a story, or she could be fishing for info.

Whichever it is, her opinion of you is made, nothing you can say is going to help the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!"

Is this from one of those who said his wife was like his sister?

Block it would be the best thing to do and deny all knowledge

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Be honest, apologise, it's his problem that he got caught cheating.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

"Be honest, apologise, it's his problem that he got caught cheating."

Why should she apologise. He is the one that lied. And if she replies it invites further contact. I would block and let him deal the the problem that he created himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would you reply?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If it is her any message other than one saying he told you he had permission would be unkind. So either do that or block and move on.

I'm wondering what she would want evidence for

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Be honest, apologise, it's his problem that he got caught cheating.

Why should she apologise. He is the one that lied. And if she replies it invites further contact. I would block and let him deal the the problem that he created himself."

I don't mean apologise for doing anything just like a 'sorry he said you were fine with it'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it is her any message other than one saying he told you he had permission would be unkind. So either do that or block and move on.

I'm wondering what she would want evidence for

Divorce. Proof of adultery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it, it was horrendous. Guy set up a totally double persona... Facebook, Instagram.. And I got a message from an angry mother of his 5 children.. I deleted my profile, email, everything, and have only just set it up again. Good luck OP. And don't reply!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You sure pick them.

Why involve yourself in someone else's drama.

It is that simple.... ignore, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be honest, apologise, it's his problem that he got caught cheating.

Why should she apologise. He is the one that lied. And if she replies it invites further contact. I would block and let him deal the the problem that he created himself."

I agree. The OP has nothing to apologise for. She wasn't aware the guy was cheating on his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its a ploy used by fake profiles when the talking turns to actual meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah its a ploy used by fake profiles when the talking turns to actual meets"

The wife's found out! Run!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Lol ...

Just reply .....oh yes he said he was going on holiday ... the girls have asked him to bring lots of presents back ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mabry it's him pretending to be the wife .now he's had his fun ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!"

Block and ignore don't let yourself be dragged into his problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she was aware of other women but thinks you're an escort.

Maybe use Kik in future, no need to to give your private number out

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By *punkytits50Woman
over a year ago

Reading

I had one a few years back I just ignored it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "aggrieved" other party is looking to lash out and I am afraid you will be in that firing line as he will probably deflect all blame and she will accept that because... well because...

Step away from the firing line.. block.. move on. Don't try to placate; quell or justify... it won't work. Shut down comms. Let him take the flak. He lied it's his problem

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Be honest, apologise, it's his problem that he got caught cheating.

Why should she apologise.."

Because it costs her nothing and the woman is bound to be hurting - you are in effect saying 'I am sorry you have been hurt by this' - is that so hard?

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I never give my number to anyone on fab

Ignore the message

Put it down to experience

And in future just us kik as an option to keep in contact away from fab :-/

use not us"

This. Kik is best, never use WhatsApp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you got a message - wonder what hes getting of her - you can walk away - he has to deal with what he has caused

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!"

Don't reply to her. But I'd want to know why he didn't cover his tracks as she wasn't aware imho.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I had one a few years back I just ignored it "

best thing to do. If a guy has lied to me about his marital status its not me she should be shouting at.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

OP, you felt you had good reason to believe him that he had his wife's permission/blessing to see you. Ergo you haven't really done anything wrong but you can still offer an apology to the wife, for how she feels.

If it were me, with an angry hubby, I would simply say that I was sorry for their hurt, and that the spouse had explicitly told me they had permission to play. Then block.

In future, it might be worth talking to wives in this situation, to be sure for your own peace of mind.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"OP, you felt you had good reason to believe him that he had his wife's permission/blessing to see you. Ergo you haven't really done anything wrong but you can still offer an apology to the wife, for how she feels.

If it were me, with an angry hubby, I would simply say that I was sorry for their hurt, and that the spouse had explicitly told me they had permission to play. Then block.

In future, it might be worth talking to wives in this situation, to be sure for your own peace of mind. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just message and say you want the fucking address for the CSA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had this when we first started swinging, we met a "single" guy, awhile later we had messages from his wife, on here and via emails ( he had forgotten to delete messages ) she threatened all sorts from posting it all over facebook to contacting our employers, she calmed down eventually....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the actual bugger?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there. Just block all contact. Problem solved.

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By *akeyousmile30Man
over a year ago

greenwich

"Just message and say you want the fucking address for the CSA

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once had a call from a wife of a 'single' guy. I apologised and said I think you need to talk to your husband. "

Exactly this! It's his fault not the wife's (oh) she's obviously found out about his infidelity. Not nice to rub her face in it x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This is why I don't like to meet married guys

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I never give my number to anyone on fab

Ignore the message

Put it down to experience

And in future just us kik as an option to keep in contact away from fab :-/

use not us

This. Kik is best, never use WhatsApp "

Exactly.

That's what it's there for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the type of person that would let her beat on me (verbally) if she needed it. I have so much empathy. She prob has a million questions. It's not the person she is mad at its the situation.

Poor girl.

(I know it's a bit weird to put up with all that but nobody deserves to be cheated on!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never give my number to anyone on fab

Ignore the message

Put it down to experience

And in future just us kik as an option to keep in contact away from fab :-/"

My number is for people I personally know and not for people on here, in a fantasy life. I use KIK, as no phone numbers are involved and you can also block on that too, what's the point of safe sex, safe meeting points, if you give out your number to all and sundry?

I also have a note in my profile that says I will not accept anyone's number, and if they still offer it, the mail will be deleted. I'm not here to collect numbers, nor give mine out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone have a 'fab phone'?

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Ask her too tell him you want your knickers back and isn't it cute the way he drools when he sleeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the type of person that would let her beat on me (verbally) if she needed it. I have so much empathy. She prob has a million questions. It's not the person she is mad at its the situation.

Poor girl.

(I know it's a bit weird to put up with all that but nobody deserves to be cheated on!)"

Exactly what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask her too tell him you want your knickers back and isn't it cute the way he drools when he sleeps"

Really?? That's just cruel

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Does anyone have a 'fab phone'?"

I did but I couldn't remember the number most of the time!

So I use kik mostly but do use whatsapp and give my number out to a select few

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Does anyone have a 'fab phone'?"

Yes but we realised today there's no credit on it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I'm the type of person that would let her beat on me (verbally) if she needed it. I have so much empathy. She prob has a million questions. It's not the person she is mad at its the situation.

Poor girl.

(I know it's a bit weird to put up with all that but nobody deserves to be cheated on!)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a woman for mff a little while ago she then started texting my husband .... Every day it got worse till one day it was 200 messages

When I politely asked her to reign it in she accused me of being unstable in my marriage!!! Errrr excuse me love I've just watched you fuck my husband and we are still very much together!!

We use the block button a lot not and never give our phone number out!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the type of person that would let her beat on me (verbally) if she needed it. I have so much empathy. She prob has a million questions. It's not the person she is mad at its the situation.

Poor girl.

(I know it's a bit weird to put up with all that but nobody deserves to be cheated on!)

Exactly!! And to reply back you want your Knickers back is immature and cruel! As I said above to somebody. That's just not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have thought about getting a fab phone but if i did no one would ring me on it anyway! Getting no where on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i received a message on kik from a wife calling me a dirty slut and whore and she had my address and was coming over. I thought he was single and i am still newish. i said i was sorry but if she came to mine to cause trouble i would call the police. she sent me a threatening message which upset me so i told her, that her husband was on a sex site which is where i met him. I know i should have handled it better and not responded.

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

"This is why I always ask to speak to the wife or girlfriend to check they really do have permission as so many are such good liars it's easy to get caught out xxx"

How do you know it's his wife or girlfriend your speaking to. Could be a female friend of his, one of his Feb, the list is endless. Talking to the female proves jack shit I am afraid. It could be anybody

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Does anyone have a 'fab phone'?"

I did on my single profile but it was a lot of hassle keeping two phones on the go.

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By *arkaCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!

Is this from one of those who said his wife was like his sister?

Block it would be the best thing to do and deny all knowledge

My FWB always says her and her hubby are like brother and sister!

Do you think she may be lying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i received a message on kik from a wife calling me a dirty slut and whore and she had my address and was coming over. I thought he was single and i am still newish. i said i was sorry but if she came to mine to cause trouble i would call the police. she sent me a threatening message which upset me so i told her, that her husband was on a sex site which is where i met him. I know i should have handled it better and not responded. "

You weren't in the wrong there. You were telling her the truth Hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thank God. It's always been a worry though, you run the risk on a site such as this. Me personally? Definitely ignore, and then black the number, and block the guy on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met a woman for mff a little while ago she then started texting my husband .... Every day it got worse till one day it was 200 messages

When I politely asked her to reign it in she accused me of being unstable in my marriage!!! Errrr excuse me love I've just watched you fuck my husband and we are still very much together!!

We use the block button a lot not and never give our phone number out!!!"

Why didn't your husband tell her to leave him alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be a bit concerned about the threat of "evidence ".

She may be hurting but that's not your fault. I'm afraid that I would have to retort with an equally threatening message!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP get a fuck phone or use kik to avoid the same issue in the future. Tell him to sort her out- she's his problem not yours.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!"

Given the use of the word holiday, she (if it was the wife / partner/ girlfriend) might mean they're taking a break ?

Either way why get involved any further . Block move on

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!

Is this from one of those who said his wife was like his sister?

Block it would be the best thing to do and deny all knowledge

My FWB always says her and her hubby are like brother and sister!

Do you think she may be lying?"

Might be, might not be. It's a chance we all take when meeting people, all of us can tell anyone anything we want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore the message and block the number.

Ive never had this before because I, Feebs, never give my mobile no out. Mr Iconic gives his number on the odd occasion for directions, confirmation of meet, etc. We don't get involved in texting people on here socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually have thought about this and I am now wondering if it was he himself who sent the text!! Reason for saying this is that I didn't want to meet up with him again as I didn't think we gelled and I had not responded to a few texts and an online message from him prior to this text.

I seldom ever ignore folk but I felt that it would have prolonged the contact with him even more!

Just a thought.

Anyway I won't be giving phone numbers or email addresses out ever again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP get a fuck phone or use kik to avoid the same issue in the future. Tell him to sort her out- she's his problem not yours."

It does amaze me how many people can't invest £15 in a fuck phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP get a fuck phone or use kik to avoid the same issue in the future. Tell him to sort her out- she's his problem not yours.

It does amaze me how many people can't invest £15 in a fuck phone "

I just chipped my old phone when l upgraded hey presto play phone!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"This is why I always ask to speak to the wife or girlfriend to check they really do have permission as so many are such good liars it's easy to get caught out xxx"

This definately

Miss

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

This is why we use a seperate phone for this site. It gives us some privacy in normal life ...if we are not playing we turn it off.

I personally would have a conversation and find out the truth in it all. Hes been caught cheating and its not your fault.....remember evidence goes both ways abd you have it of him saying his wife knew and was ok with it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!"

To be honest most married or attached people are playing without permission, if you believed him you have been naive. He has obviously been careless and indescreet to have got caught, some men like the risk.

Do not reply to his wife, she is likely to be very distressed and is within her rights to have messaged you as she has.

It would be unkind to further distress her and at the end of the day you and him are to blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP get a fuck phone or use kik to avoid the same issue in the future. Tell him to sort her out- she's his problem not yours.

It does amaze me how many people can't invest £15 in a fuck phone "

Well my sons would think it was pretty funny if I suddenly got an extra phone, US I don't want the added expense of 2 phones. People can Kik me or I will fk someone else.

It never ceases to amaze me how members love to tell other members what to do.

I don't WANT a second phone, my choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!

Do not reply to his wife, she is likely to be very distressed and is within her rights to have messaged you as she has.

It would be unkind to further distress her and at the end of the day you and him are to blame.

No I won't be getting back to her! However I have two female friends, one who is disabled and another who has lost interest in hubby and both have told their hubbies to play if they wish....not with me however!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP get a fuck phone or use kik to avoid the same issue in the future. Tell him to sort her out- she's his problem not yours.

It does amaze me how many people can't invest £15 in a fuck phone

Well my sons would think it was pretty funny if I suddenly got an extra phone, US I don't want the added expense of 2 phones. People can Kik me or I will fk someone else.

It never ceases to amaze me how members love to tell other members what to do.

I don't WANT a second phone, my choice."

I didn't tell you what to do, I don't give a rats ass what you do. I simply commented on my own lack of ability to predict the behaviour of people like you.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"sexual services from myself and colleagues!"

does she think your some kind of escorts service?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"OP get a fuck phone or use kik to avoid the same issue in the future. Tell him to sort her out- she's his problem not yours.

It does amaze me how many people can't invest £15 in a fuck phone "

You can't get a decent smartphone for £15, and who wants to carry two phones round all day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!

Block the number - problem solved

Do I need to phone Vodafone to block the number?"

Most handsets have a block option on them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"sexual services from myself and colleagues!

does she think your some kind of escorts service?"

Yeah I found that odd! However if it was her texting me he could have told her he used an agency..who knows. I've blocked him now and blocked number so won't hear again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just message and say you want the fucking address for the CSA

"
pmsl do it go on I dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would you reply?

Guilty

Drama queen

Revenge

Likes fucking yapping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would you reply?

Guilty

Drama queen

Revenge

Likes fucking yapping

Take yer pick ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its simple. Hes fucked you and now on hols he will make love to hes wife.

Its called nsa. Move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly the good thing about us genuine single guys, we have no wives or girlfrinds lurking in the background, we can do whatever or whoever we choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is exactly the good thing about us genuine single guys, we have no wives or girlfrinds lurking in the background, we can do whatever or whoever we choose."

But some women love drama

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"This is exactly the good thing about us genuine single guys, we have no wives or girlfrinds lurking in the background, we can do whatever or whoever we choose.

But some women love drama

As do some men and some couples

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"sexual services from myself and colleagues!

does she think your some kind of escorts service?

Yeah I found that odd! However if it was her texting me he could have told her he used an agency..who knows. I've blocked him now and blocked number so won't hear again!"

Its seems that way. Good that you've blocked it all. Stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is exactly the good thing about us genuine single guys, we have no wives or girlfrinds lurking in the background, we can do whatever or whoever we choose.

But some women love drama

Nail on the head!!

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Anyone else had this kind of message before?

Phew...should I reply or ignore?!"

Ignore. His fault for lying. Let him deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be rather tempted to do play the victim yourself! You could soon figure if it's him or his wife bu texting back that you're so shocked and disappointed to find out he's already got a wife as you got engaged to him last week. He had said he would cancel the holiday as the ring had been so expensive. Either the wife then then sympathises with you as a fellow victim and rounds on hubby or hubby admits it's him and brzenly accuses you of lying! It makes things much clearer and gets you off the hook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't say " Crumbs you poor thing! He's been shagging me for years! I'd kill him if I were you!" If she acts on your advice you might end up in the case!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"Do you think it's him spinning you a line ? If I was a wife that text would have been tame for me. "

my thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why we do all our dealings via the site no emails or kik or phone numbers never have never will ..it just opens you up to trouble at some point

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