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Why don't men read profiles?

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By *hil_SW19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Raynes Park

I expect this is worse for couples and single women, but why don't men read profiles?

Each month I get at least two guys trying to convince me to meet them and no where on my profile do I mention bi or gay.

If men took the time to read profiles, it would make swinging so much easier and perhaps couples would reply 'no thanks' as they'd have less messages to delete.

Phil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is an option you can block the unwanted mail from them.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Not fair to single out the guys again as it's not just men that don't read them, single females and couples don't either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, delete... forget about it.

We find a lot of men do read our profile.... the ones that don't get the advice I'm giving you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of people on here dont read profiles, not just single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fair to single out the guys again as it's not just men that don't read them, single females and couples don't either"

You have writing on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are guys who don't bother to read profiles but there are also a lot of couples who do not either

The first line off our profile asks people not to send a friend invite but we still get at least 10 a day

One guy did admit to us that all he does is send out mass winks, friend invites and copy and paste messages all day ( he said 100's )

We don't really bother us anymore we just mass delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy bashing single guys: new twist!

It's not just single guys that don't read profiles, and if this is meant to be an "endearing" yourself to women and couples, well, I think you've missed the mark!

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By *hil_SW19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Raynes Park

Endearing no. Frustrated yes.

As for blocking guys, I do gb's and most are organised my males running groups.

Let's just hope putting not bi in my profile helps

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

i always read profile just now and then we all mess up sent message today to some one and it said under 40 i did not see that. most people look at the pics se in profile women fk man and thats all they see

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By *ocksoff3Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

One guy did admit to us that all he does is send out mass winks, friend invites and copy and paste messages all day ( he said 100's )

We also belong to another site and their answer to the problem is to limit the number of winks (max 3 per day) and friends invites can only be sent once email messages have been exchanged. You can also choose not to receive any winks at all. Stops a lot of the crap that happens on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't aware there was writing on profiles

Is this a new feature?? xx

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By *oe the greekMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Cause they are trying it on block single guys and tvs, I have and I get no problems if they did message me I'd just delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the lack of sympathy to the OP's plight is a bit harsh. I mean come on those 2 messages a month must be a real bind...

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By *oe the greekMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I can't see why we moan anyway,we moan when we don't get messages, we moan when we do, can't win. Having be on swinging sites for years this will always happen just ignore it and move on or just take it as a compliment that these people wanna meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always read a....oh piccies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of people don't not just blokes - until I blocked them when the filters changed, I regularly got mail from single women and couples asking to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always read profile just now and then we all mess up sent message today to some one and it said under 40 i did not see that. most people look at the pics se in profile women fk man and thats all they see"

Absolutely, hence i get messages from people the other side of the country and those way way out of my age preference

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

90% of mail I get are from people that dont read my profile. Most of those men with me being a single female that meet men,but also couples dont read it too. More of the couples that mail me do read my profile but very few men actually read it.

But as I want to meet men and couples there is no point anyone suggesting that I change my filters as happy how they are set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect this is worse for couples and single women, but why don't men read profiles?

Each month I get at least two guys trying to convince me to meet them and no where on my profile do I mention bi or gay.

If men took the time to read profiles, it would make swinging so much easier and perhaps couples would reply 'no thanks' as they'd have less messages to delete.

Phil"

Maybe you just look gay to a gay guy.

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

SIMPLE-----MEN THINK WITH THEIR COCK, not their brain. So they scan straight to the pictures, see what they like and then send a message.

Very few in our experience actually read a profile first. Most prefer to think that the people they are contacting will be so taken by him, that they ignore their own profile info!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"SIMPLE-----MEN THINK WITH THEIR COCK, not their brain. So they scan straight to the pictures, see what they like and then send a message.

Very few in our experience actually read a profile first. Most prefer to think that the people they are contacting will be so taken by him, that they ignore their own profile info!"

Does that include the male half of couples too then?

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Of course, even includes myself there! I won't pretend I haven't considered a profile on pics alone, its when Katee reads the profile to say they don't fit us or we don't fit their criteria I come unstuck.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I tend to think that the men who send me a copy and paste email and clearly havent read my profile are not wanting to have se with me in particilar as that is the same email they are sending to the other 25 single fems online at that time, so all they are wanting is just a shag regardless of the face or personality.

hence why emailing them back to remind them that they havent read my profile. other times I just delete and block them.

I dont bother about them now really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to think that the men who send me a copy and paste email and clearly havent read my profile are not wanting to have se with me in particilar as that is the same email they are sending to the other 25 single fems online at that time, so all they are wanting is just a shag regardless of the face or personality.

hence why emailing them back to remind them that they havent read my profile. other times I just delete and block them.

I dont bother about them now really"

surely a women like you _ruit they would make a bit of an effort?

im staggered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked eight people this morning for sending friend requests... they obviously did not read the profile and there was not even a email to say hi how are you etc and to be honest it was not just males... best thing to do is either ignore or block

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Not fair to single out the guys again as it's not just men that don't read them, single females and couples don't either

You have writing on your profile? "

What's a profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to think that the men who send me a copy and paste email and clearly havent read my profile are not wanting to have se with me in particilar as that is the same email they are sending to the other 25 single fems online at that time, so all they are wanting is just a shag regardless of the face or personality.

hence why emailing them back to remind them that they havent read my profile. other times I just delete and block them.

I dont bother about them now really

surely a women like you _ruit they would make a bit of an effort?

im staggered "

Oh please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fair to single out the guys again as it's not just men that don't read them, single females and couples don't either"

I dont know why its only couples n single women who people think deserve to have their profile read, I normally perv,oops read everybodies lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"no where on my profile do I mention bi or gay"

Your friends list is hidden, however, you have verified and have a verification from someone who has several TV / TS on their friends list, maybe you should be a bit more selective in what you want publicised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no where on my profile do I mention bi or gay

Your friends list is hidden, however, you have verified and have a verification from someone who has several TV / TS on their friends list, maybe you should be a bit more selective in what you want publicised "

I have verifies and friends from men and TV's and its not from having sexual sessions with them,because u have a friend or verify from someone on ur list it does not automacically mean uve shagged or want to shag them, some of us swingers happen to be nice people that u meet in parties/clubs or u have just simply liked them in an online platonic basis.Try not jumping to conclusions at what u think a friends list or a verify means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no where on my profile do I mention bi or gay

Your friends list is hidden, however, you have verified and have a verification from someone who has several TV / TS on their friends list, maybe you should be a bit more selective in what you want publicised

I have verifies and friends from men and TV's and its not from having sexual sessions with them,because u have a friend or verify from someone on ur list it does not automacically mean uve shagged or want to shag them, some of us swingers happen to be nice people that u meet in parties/clubs or u have just simply liked them in an online platonic basis.Try not jumping to conclusions at what u think a friends list or a verify means."

I also have a verification from a TV doesnt mean to say that they interest me, though he was a very nice man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always read profiles...if i like the pics

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol


"I expect this is worse for couples and single women, but why don't men read profiles?

Each month I get at least two guys trying to convince me to meet them and no where on my profile do I mention bi or gay.

If men took the time to read profiles, it would make swinging so much easier and perhaps couples would reply 'no thanks' as they'd have less messages to delete.

Phil"

Gosh, 2 EVERY month...what a bore for you.

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