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"I've been on this site for a while now, and not managed to arrange a meet yet. I just wondered if girls are put off by guys with a slim build, like myself? Are you more into muscly, stocky guys? Are my pics ok, or would you recommend trying something different? Before anyone says it, yes I do tailor each message to the recipient, and I always send a face pic too. Personally, I feel like I'm in good shape, and I don't think I'm a fugly chud, so I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong! I used to be on another adult dating site and did alright there, but so far little luck here, despite the people seeming to be genuine. Any tips would be appreciated "I wouldn't think you would be doing anything wrong, it's more than likely just the individual preferences of the women on here. I'm still living in the hope that a lady is going to give a 5ft 5in short-arse like me a chance!!!  | |||
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"I've been on this site for a while now, and not managed to arrange a meet yet. I just wondered if girls are put off by guys with a slim build, like myself? Are you more into muscly, stocky guys? Are my pics ok, or would you recommend trying something different? Before anyone says it, yes I do tailor each message to the recipient, and I always send a face pic too. Personally, I feel like I'm in good shape, and I don't think I'm a fugly chud, so I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong! I used to be on another adult dating site and did alright there, but so far little luck here, despite the people seeming to be genuine. Any tips would be appreciated "I was stocky built muscular now I've gone lean muscular I've noticed more attention  | |||
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"I do t see anything wrong with your profile but at the same time nothing jumps out at me. Personally I prefer the stockier build but your body shape/frame wouldn't put me off " Ok, maybe I'll try and spice up the profile. I think I strted doubting when I was chatting to a girl here for a while, and all was going well until I suggested a meet. She said she usually goes for more built guys and started ignoring me. Very confusing - why had she sent me pics and vids of her playing with herself if she didn't fancy me at all?? | |||
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"Get yourself to a club squire; they're a great place to meet people and get your veri-balls rolling. Your profile looks okay to me." I would love to, just haven't taken the plunge yet! Would be a lot easier if I had a female/couple to escort me  | |||
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"Get yourself to a club squire; they're a great place to meet people and get your veri-balls rolling. Your profile looks okay to me. I would love to, just haven't taken the plunge yet! Would be a lot easier if I had a female/couple to escort me "The hardest part is walking through the door after that it's just like hanging out down the pub, you engage in friendly chat, you flirt, you mingle, you remain respectful and you might just get laid if not you may make great contacts on the scene which could lead to further meets | |||
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"I've been on this site for a while now, and not managed to arrange a meet yet. I just wondered if girls are put off by guys with a slim build, like myself? Are you more into muscly, stocky guys? Are my pics ok, or would you recommend trying something different? Before anyone says it, yes I do tailor each message to the recipient, and I always send a face pic too. Personally, I feel like I'm in good shape, and I don't think I'm a fugly chud, so I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong! I used to be on another adult dating site and did alright there, but so far little luck here, despite the people seeming to be genuine. Any tips would be appreciated "I can't comment on your particular build mate other than to say I would imagine you appeal (build wise) to a reasonable section of this community, however one piece of advice I would say is dump the uniform pic,or make private and send to those you chat with,I see it's part of your profile but I'd consider persec above trying to get meets,besides I'm not sure your CO would be best pleased if this aspect of your life came out in the open. | |||
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"Try changing your profile name to something a bit more manly " .... Says the Dirty boy to the Paper boy.... Lol | |||
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"Get yourself to a club squire; they're a great place to meet people and get your veri-balls rolling. Your profile looks okay to me. I would love to, just haven't taken the plunge yet! Would be a lot easier if I had a female/couple to escort me
The hardest part is walking through the door after that it's just like hanging out down the pub, you engage in friendly chat, you flirt, you mingle, you remain respectful and you might just get laid if not you may make great contacts on the scene which could lead to further meets "Thanks for the reply... I think you're right - I just need to nut up and do it! | |||
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"I prefer guys with your type of physique OP but it's the guys personality that really is the deciding factor in wether or not to meet. Just because it's NSA fun doesn't mean a lady doesn't want a friendly connection, in my opinion it makes for better sex that way " I agree entirely - I don't see the point in sex without any connection... may as well just masturbate! I like the excitement of meeting someone new, finding out what makes them tick etc. | |||
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"I've been on this site for a while now, and not managed to arrange a meet yet. I just wondered if girls are put off by guys with a slim build, like myself? Are you more into muscly, stocky guys? Are my pics ok, or would you recommend trying something different? Before anyone says it, yes I do tailor each message to the recipient, and I always send a face pic too. Personally, I feel like I'm in good shape, and I don't think I'm a fugly chud, so I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong! I used to be on another adult dating site and did alright there, but so far little luck here, despite the people seeming to be genuine. Any tips would be appreciated
I can't comment on your particular build mate other than to say I would imagine you appeal (build wise) to a reasonable section of this community, however one piece of advice I would say is dump the uniform pic,or make private and send to those you chat with,I see it's part of your profile but I'd consider persec above trying to get meets,besides I'm not sure your CO would be best pleased if this aspect of your life came out in the open. "Fair point, I've not had any issues with it in the past, but yeah it doesn't seem to be much of a selling point anyway on here so I'll make it less public | |||
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"I've been on this site for a while now, and not managed to arrange a meet yet. I just wondered if girls are put off by guys with a slim build, like myself? Are you more into muscly, stocky guys? Are my pics ok, or would you recommend trying something different? Before anyone says it, yes I do tailor each message to the recipient, and I always send a face pic too. Personally, I feel like I'm in good shape, and I don't think I'm a fugly chud, so I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong! I used to be on another adult dating site and did alright there, but so far little luck here, despite the people seeming to be genuine. Any tips would be appreciated "There is nothing wrong with you profile or pics (just fabbed one) but maybe the clue can be found in your statement "I used to be on another adult dating site...). Fab is swingers' site not an adult dating site. The two things are quite different. Get yourself to a club, meet a few swingers face to face for some nsa fun and you will soon build up a circle of swinging friends/playmates. Good luck! | |||
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"Get yourself to a club squire; they're a great place to meet people and get your veri-balls rolling. Your profile looks okay to me. I would love to, just haven't taken the plunge yet! Would be a lot easier if I had a female/couple to escort me "fucking hell...man up , who wants a bloke who needs his hand held  | |||
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"I've been on this site for a while now, and not managed to arrange a meet yet. I just wondered if girls are put off by guys with a slim build, like myself? Are you more into muscly, stocky guys? Are my pics ok, or would you recommend trying something different? Before anyone says it, yes I do tailor each message to the recipient, and I always send a face pic too. Personally, I feel like I'm in good shape, and I don't think I'm a fugly chud, so I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong! I used to be on another adult dating site and did alright there, but so far little luck here, despite the people seeming to be genuine. Any tips would be appreciated
There is nothing wrong with you profile or pics (just fabbed one) but maybe the clue can be found in your statement "I used to be on another adult dating site...). Fab is swingers' site not an adult dating site. The two things are quite different. Get yourself to a club, meet a few swingers face to face for some nsa fun and you will soon build up a circle of swinging friends/playmates. Good luck!"Sorry for typos. Can't see phone properly in the bright canarian sun! | |||
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"I think you look and sound fab." Cheers I know you're not chatting to me ??  | |||
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"I think you look and sound fab." Thanks! The feeling is mutual  | |||
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"I've been on this site for a while now, and not managed to arrange a meet yet. I just wondered if girls are put off by guys with a slim build, like myself? Are you more into muscly, stocky guys? Are my pics ok, or would you recommend trying something different? Before anyone says it, yes I do tailor each message to the recipient, and I always send a face pic too. Personally, I feel like I'm in good shape, and I don't think I'm a fugly chud, so I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong! I used to be on another adult dating site and did alright there, but so far little luck here, despite the people seeming to be genuine. Any tips would be appreciated
There is nothing wrong with you profile or pics (just fabbed one) but maybe the clue can be found in your statement "I used to be on another adult dating site...). Fab is swingers' site not an adult dating site. The two things are quite different. Get yourself to a club, meet a few swingers face to face for some nsa fun and you will soon build up a circle of swinging friends/playmates. Good luck!"Thanks for the input! It definitely seems like I need to try a club sometime! | |||
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"Get yourself to a club squire; they're a great place to meet people and get your veri-balls rolling. Your profile looks okay to me. I would love to, just haven't taken the plunge yet! Would be a lot easier if I had a female/couple to escort me fucking hell...man up , who wants a bloke who needs his hand held "Excuse me for being tentative about something quite daunting for a newbie, I'll try to live up to your standards of manliness from now on  | |||
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"Get yourself to a club squire; they're a great place to meet people and get your veri-balls rolling. Your profile looks okay to me. I would love to, just haven't taken the plunge yet! Would be a lot easier if I had a female/couple to escort me fucking hell...man up , who wants a bloke who needs his hand held
Excuse me for being tentative about something quite daunting for a newbie, I'll try to live up to your standards of manliness from now on " | |||
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"It's a very good profile OP. The profile text is informative and respectful. You have a variety of good pictures in your public photo gallery. Sometimes a little time, patience and perseverance is all that's needed. Visiting clubs is also a good idea (as another posted further up the thread ). "Thanks for the feedback! I like to make a bit of effort with the pics... Never sure how much cock to include though - some people hate it, others love it... Can't please everyone I guess! So it seems I need to visit a club then! | |||
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"As others have said....profile seems fine etc. The one thing I picked up on in your OP was they you "previously did well on another dating site". FAB is not really a "dating site"...... Could it be something in the tone of your messages? Reflecting your attitude to the site? Obviously I've not seen your messages....just asking." Yes someone else mentioned this too, so maybe I'm not coming across as swinging material or something
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"Get yourself to a club squire; they're a great place to meet people and get your veri-balls rolling. Your profile looks okay to me. I would love to, just haven't taken the plunge yet! Would be a lot easier if I had a female/couple to escort me fucking hell...man up , who wants a bloke who needs his hand held
Excuse me for being tentative about something quite daunting for a newbie, I'll try to live up to your standards of manliness from now on "Ignore that comment buddy, I've been going to clubs for nearly 3 years and guess what? I still get that nervous excitedness as I walk through the door! It's part of the anticipation of what could happen? That won't ever pass, but it does get a lot easier the more you go, the more you go, the more people you get to know | |||
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"Get yourself to a club squire; they're a great place to meet people and get your veri-balls rolling. Your profile looks okay to me. I would love to, just haven't taken the plunge yet! Would be a lot easier if I had a female/couple to escort me fucking hell...man up , who wants a bloke who needs his hand held
Excuse me for being tentative about something quite daunting for a newbie, I'll try to live up to your standards of manliness from now on
Ignore that comment buddy, I've been going to clubs for nearly 3 years and guess what? I still get that nervous excitedness as I walk through the door! It's part of the anticipation of what could happen?
That won't ever pass, but it does get a lot easier the more you go, the more you go, the more people you get to know "Thanks for posting mate, it's good to hear stuff like this. I'm excited to go to a club, and your post has definitely helped me decide to take the plunge! | |||
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