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By *aralewis OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

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By *lk GuyMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Maybe guys feel that blow jobs are safe or not read your profile before messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree

Safe sex for me means condom with penetrative sex and blow jobs

I won't compromise on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

"

What profile should they be reading??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

"

Your profile doesn't mention safe sex? I'm confused.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

It's a fair point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

Your profile doesn't mention safe sex? I'm confused."

Me too because unless my eyesight is totally gone I never noticed anywhere on the profile mentioning safe sex not even in the interests

Jane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

"

Maybe they do read your profile?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Maybe they don't like the fact that they may have to be 'lucky enough' to fuck you.....?

We are all picky on here in our own ways but that makes you sound a little up your own posterior.

Or maybe they just prefer Skyns to Durex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they don't like the fact that they may have to be 'lucky enough' to fuck you.....?

We are all picky on here in our own ways but that makes you sound a little up your own posterior.

Or maybe they just prefer Skyns to Durex "

Yes. The "lucky enough to ..." would stop us reading further.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Maybe they don't like the fact that they may have to be 'lucky enough' to fuck you.....?

We are all picky on here in our own ways but that makes you sound a little up your own posterior.

Or maybe they just prefer Skyns to Durex

Yes. The "lucky enough to ..." would stop us reading further. "

I was thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole profile confuses me

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

The whole thread confuses me!!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Maybe they don't like the fact that they may have to be 'lucky enough' to fuck you.....?

We are all picky on here in our own ways but that makes you sound a little up your own posterior.

Or maybe they just prefer Skyns to Durex

Yes. The "lucky enough to ..." would stop us reading further. "

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Maybe they don't like the fact that they may have to be 'lucky enough' to fuck you.....?

We are all picky on here in our own ways but that makes you sound a little up your own posterior.

Or maybe they just prefer Skyns to Durex "

Actualy if you read one of their verifications it says they are very down to earth. I think she sounds like someone who likes herself and doesnt suffer from low self esteem, which is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

"

Personally. Saying " if you're lucky to get a meet" is arrogant in my book, therefore I was a bloke is avoid you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

"

It means you're not suitable for each other because they want different things to you, they contact you hoping that you either don't really mean it or because as you say they haven't read your profile.

One way round this is to make your conditions clear in an early message. I know it can be annoying but it's how it is.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

If she gets messages from men she doesnt want to meet maybe its good if some think shes arrogant, saves time for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for safe sex but no way I'd receive a blowjob with a condom on, absolutely pointless. I've done it before and it's was awful. I'd pass the starter and go straight for the main course

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

"

Do women object to the use of dental dams, or not so much?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

some men ignore bits of your profile they dont like or forget things. i have never insisted on men wearing condoms for oral sex, i know you are supposed to, i dont think many men would like it. Part of oral sex for me is the taste. If they dont want to use condoms for intercourse then they should meet women who dont mind them not using them as there are plenty of them on here.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

Do women object to the use of dental dams, or not so much?"

In my many years of swinging I have never asked or been asked to use one in all honesty!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

Do women object to the use of dental dams, or not so much?

In my many years of swinging I have never asked or been asked to use one in all honesty! "

No nor have we and we've never seen one in use either but I'm guessing from the opening post that they would be required .

I say play as safe as you're comfortable with and don't compromise.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Why are people put off if we say durex must be worn at all times if their lucky enough to get a meet..when we say safe sex that what it means

Sex blow jobs anything

Why don't people read profile

Do women object to the use of dental dams, or not so much?

In my many years of swinging I have never asked or been asked to use one in all honesty!

No nor have we and we've never seen one in use either but I'm guessing from the opening post that they would be required .

I say play as safe as you're comfortable with and don't compromise."

I think that's a pretty fair statement and I'm in full agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lucky enough to fuck me made part me lol

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Well now that you have rewritten your profile to add safe sex and condoms those lucky enough will be better informed and won't be put off when you let them know.

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

I'm not sure "lucky enough" is the right choice of words after looking at some of the op's photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand peoples confusion. To most people safe sex means safe penetrative sex, but uncovered oral.

I see someone who takes precautions regarding their health and as a consequence BJ's are always covered as well.

So although I'd rather uncovered oral, I don't complain since it's still a great sensation with a condom on.

So I agree with the OP - If the boundaries are made clear to people on the profile they really should not complain. But they should not complain anyway - since it's up to them to ask the OP how they play before meeting them.

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