FabSwingers.com forum: Vanilla life boring?

By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Maybe it's just me but I don't get a buzz about going out to pubs or clubs any more seems pointless going in to over priced clubs full of dick heads and girls who just tease and get you to pay for their drinks all night then just leave ( not that any girl you buy a drink for should let you have sex with her but when they hint things and then leave you high and dry)then have to deal with then some times even worse male to female ratio then in swingers clubs only to have to be ripped off by a taxi and feel like shit in the morning

When you can go to a nice swingers club yes paying to get in but the drinks are never that much over priced every one is very nice and well behaved ok some times there are a lot of guys but for having a relaxing sit with a beer some music and there is always a lovely lady dressed up or even better dressed down to have a look at even if you don't play always good to have a little purv

Maybe I am just board of the clubs and can only get my buzz from swingers clubs

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

I don,t think night clubs were ever the In places for vanilla dateing loud music where you could,nt hear yourself talk flashing lights, and alcohol consumption over the top many times, thou when younger it was something new but soon got boreing its reassureing that you feel comfortable and have found a niche in your local swingers club where you find the benefits of it.

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"I don,t think night clubs were ever the In places for vanilla dateing loud music where you could,nt hear yourself talk flashing lights, and alcohol consumption over the top many times, thou when younger it was something new but soon got boreing its reassureing that you feel comfortable and have found a niche in your local swingers club where you find the benefits of it."

I did really enjoy them and yes every soo offen I do enjoy a good night in a club but it's not bit of once you have seen 1 you have seen them all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I don't find my vanilla life boring at all- I have lots of friends and I have such a good time on a night out with them and a good dance around with really not giving a shit what anyone thinks.

I think it's nice to have both lives, what gets boring is when you exclusively stick to one or the other

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

I never used to enjoy vanilla nights out, as has been said... the music is too loud to hear what each other are saying, many people drink far too much and have fights.. and we would just spend a stupid fortune...

At least with swinger clubs yes they are expensive but the overall cost is lower. People drink a bit less and never had a problem with people wanting fights etc. Not to mention the obvious perks when you play. In all, its just a better night out.

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"See I don't find my vanilla life boring at all- I have lots of friends and I have such a good time on a night out with them and a good dance around with really not giving a shit what anyone thinks.

I think it's nice to have both lives, what gets boring is when you exclusively stick to one or the other "

True I do enjoy doing other things going places with my mates and having a pint I just think for me clubs seem to bore me unless it's a new place or going out for some thing I am just speaking from some one who used to go out thur Fri and sat clubbing and well just don't get a buzz from it any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bored of going out full stop. Give me a night drinking a bottle of fizz at my friends any night of the week

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"I never used to enjoy vanilla nights out, as has been said... the music is too loud to hear what each other are saying, many people drink far too much and have fights.. and we would just spend a stupid fortune...

That's how I feel like yes going clubs and pubs is nice every so offen but also comes with a huge price tag and a lot of agro just find swingers clubs more chilled and enjoyable

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"I'm bored of going out full stop. Give me a night drinking a bottle of fizz at my friends any night of the week

Lol have to say I do love a pizza watching a film and eating ice cream but if I stay in too long I go a bit crazy so clubs are good let me meet new people as well as seeing what lovely ladies are out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love going to my local pub to meet up with good friends and have a few drinks maybe something to eat.

Million times better than the awful 2 clubs I have attended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very much enjoy my vanilla life, in fact it's not always that vanilla!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For picking up for pulling women I am sick to my back teeth of vanilla places!!!!!! I went through a bad patch in my mid 20's where I was hitting vanilla places to pick women up - very very expensive to do things this way.

So I don't go to these places to meet women, I go to pubs to chill with friends, and nightclubs to go dancing in. I have started to refer to nightclubs as dance clubs (where as before I just refered to them just as clubs), and swingers clubs as just clubs now.

I get the go out to vanilla places and enjoy them now, because now I can have all the fun I need from swingers clubs

Best of both worlds

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We enjoy both sides of our life, swinging for us was about mixing it up every now and then. Suspect that if we stuck just to swinging then it would quickly become boring and then what would we do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a swingers club down south and it totally lacked atmosphere to be honest. Far too many single guys who looked as if they were so desperate they would shag Hettie hoover! Very off-putting when I'm sipping a glass of red and a pushy guy asks out of the blue if you fancy going to an organ recital! I think people can try too hard in swingers clubs. When my friend and I went to a private room to play we were followed by a pack of six guys who them proceeded to keep trying the door handle! So my opinion is mixed about meeting ladies in swingers clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I don't find my vanilla life boring at all- I have lots of friends and I have such a good time on a night out with them and a good dance around with really not giving a shit what anyone thinks.

I think it's nice to have both lives, what gets boring is when you exclusively stick to one or the other "

Totally agree...I think it's quite sad that people can't go out and enjoy themselves unless it's in some sort of swinging atmosphere....give me my pals and a good boozer anyday x

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"Love going to my local pub to meet up with good friends and have a few drinks maybe something to eat.

Million times better than the awful 2 clubs I have attended."

Very true do enjoy going to the pub and having some food or going shopping with my mates or watching a film I think the post is more about night clubs but then again as with all things it is hit and miss

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"I very much enjoy my vanilla life, in fact it's not always that vanilla! "

Lucky for some lol I mostly have days off in the week so I don't really do much as friends are at work or with partners so I end up doing the shopping or washing or just waiting til iam off for the weekend lol

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"For picking up for pulling women I am sick to my back teeth of vanilla places!!!!!! I went through a bad patch in my mid 20's where I was hitting vanilla places to pick women up - very very expensive to do things this way.

I get the go out to vanilla places and enjoy them now, because now I can have all the fun I need from swingers clubs

Best of both worlds

With you 100% clubs are good if you go with the plan of not getting any just going out for a good time and having a laugh with your mates just costs to much and a taxi is always a rip off

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"We enjoy both sides of our life, swinging for us was about mixing it up every now and then. Suspect that if we stuck just to swinging then it would quickly become boring and then what would we do?"

I think it maybe diffrent for a single guy if I had a partner I would enjoy doing more then just clubs eg going for meals going places walks films in bed cuddles making meals even doing the weekly shop would be more fun but I know what you mean from the nice going for a meal and glass of wine to a dirty night in a club always good to mix it up

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By *reakShow90 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"I was at a swingers club down south and it totally lacked atmosphere to be honest. Far too many single guys who looked as if they were so desperate they would shag Hettie hoover! Very off-putting when I'm sipping a glass of red and a pushy guy asks out of the blue if you fancy going to an organ recital! I think people can try too hard in swingers clubs. When my friend and I went to a private room to play we were followed by a pack of six guys who them proceeded to keep trying the door handle! So my opinion is mixed about meeting ladies in swingers clubs."

Now this is what pisses me off really gets under my skin how some guys behave and yes as you said like a pack of animals following and opening doors just makes the rest of us look bad but on the other hand the guys who are not like that just look better

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