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What is the nicest way to tell a couple you don't wish to meet?

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By *VK_Rugby OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Has anyone got any sensitive declines?

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol


"Has anyone got any sensitive declines?"

Interested to read the replies.

A simple "You're not for us" would do us but there's some sensitive people out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks but not for me/us... but in clubs face to face its a bit harder and private meets where you go to them.. harder still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think a simple "I/we are looking for something different but thanks" would be enough. But I know it doesn't work like that. Too many sensitive people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to think a simple "I/we are looking for something different but thanks" would be enough. But I know it doesn't work like that. Too many sensitive people on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks but you're not what we're looking for" if anyone has a problem with that, then that's what it is - their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone got any sensitive declines?"
We just say thankyou for the interest but we dont think it would work.

It usually works and we do get a polite reply back

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By *randnew23sumsCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Just be honest. We always say thanks but not for us. We aren't offended when people decline us! You could always do the old deleting messages and blocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say thanks but not for me. You can always then block so there's no comeback and if you're not interested in them it'll save them coming up in future searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just grow a big pair...delete the message and block like any normal couple would do ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person it is much harder.. even more so when as a couple one thinks yay.. the other thinks nooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends what the reason is but usually I will say 'sorry you aren't my type but thanks for the interest'

I say that to couples and singles and usually get a 'thanks for the reply' back..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I say thank you, but no thanks.

Never turned down a couple in person but it would be a variation on the above.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We say,' thanks for the message, but you aren't for us. Happy swinging.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the message. We read your profile but sadly we don't feel we're a compatible couple. Best wishes x" is our default line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just grow a big pair...delete the message and block like any normal couple would do .. "

I think they said sensitive declines....

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By *VK_Rugby OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"Just grow a big pair...delete the message and block like any normal couple would do .. "

Ruthless lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just grow a big pair...delete the message and block like any normal couple would do .. "

Ahahaha, yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple " in your dreams" works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

I always say..well good luck with your search on fab..have fun.

I think it's polite but makes it obvious you are not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to think a simple "I/we are looking for something different but thanks" would be enough. But I know it doesn't work like that. Too many sensitive people on here. "

Tell me about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just grow a big pair...delete the message and block like any normal couple would do ..

I think they said sensitive declines...."

Say sorry as you're clicking the block button then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just say something like youre not for us and have fun

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I say; thanks for the message but you're not my type x happy fabbing thou

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By *eliaknightCouple
over a year ago

St Austell

A polite thanks for taking the time to message but no as too far/looking for different things/not looking for single guys...(insert any other reason!) happy fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone got any sensitive declines?"

Sod it.....how does fuck off we ain't interested you Monstas sound ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Thanks but you're not what we're looking for" if anyone has a problem with that, then that's what it is - their problem."

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

We simply put.....it's a polite no thank you. It seems to do the trick

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