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How break news to your gf that u like to dress as a women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya any of you guys ever told your partner you like to dress as a women if so how did they take it

Just a thought as ive met some recently

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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Been with my wife for 12 years and told her a couple of months ago i liked wearing womens lingerie. She went mad at first, not about the dressing up but because i had kept it hidden for so long.

Now she actively encourages it and a great weight has been lifted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im thinking shed run a mile like thats all was thinking about getting d*unk and bringing fanasys up and things see where that leads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im thinking shed run a mile like thats all was thinking about getting d*unk and bringing fanasys up and things see where that leads"

I'm not sure that a good solution to a problem ever starts with "getting d*unk". Why not leave a copy of 'cross dresser weekly' on the kitchen table and see how she reacts to it. If bad, then just make up some story about how it got there.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hiya any of you guys ever told your partner you like to dress as a women if so how did they take it

Just a thought as ive met some recently"

If it's a fairly new relationship, tell her quickly. It will be much harder the longer you wait... and if she doesn't like it, the break-up will be worse too.

Cal

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Try when your having an intimate moment to jokingly try on her stockings.

See how she reacts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having dressed since i was 12 i married when i was 21 thinking all that sex my cross dressing desires would disappear. Of course rhey didnt. After 6 months of marriage during an intimate moment I told her how much I enjoyed rubbing my hard cock against her waist slip before intercourse and could I try it on while we fucked. We both loved it and I gently introduced her to my world. That was 48 years ago and I still sleep in a nightdress most nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife found out the hard way, she felt hurt and betrayed more by the fact I couldn't trust her enough to share how I felt, she said she can handle anything if she knows the truth, I'm glad it's all out now and we're stronger for it, it's always being about the feel of stockings and tights against my skin than fully dressing. Be honest with her but be more honest with your self, if your relationship is strong enough you'll work through it. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sujested I try her knickers on during sex she loved it then txt me next day and said I'm going to dress u fully including stockings, knighty dog Colar and lead. We did it and now she loves me dressing and oftern instruct me to go get dressed for our sex and even arranges meets with bi guys. Has me dress for our 3sums etc

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

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Just been through this myself!

It was made easier for me as my gf had asked me to wear her thong a time or two for the giggle lol

she liked that so one day about a month ago whilst wearing it I jokingly said how about I try your stockings and sussies too... which I obviously found a massive turn on and we had the best sex in ages!

She was very accepting of it and whilst we were sat together afterwards (see pics lol) I said for a giggle I should try heels next time too, get the full experience...

So bought myself a nice new pair and wore them with her last week! Another great sex session, she loved it and even said she loves how I can express myself sexually in that way.

We're now looking at going to a club and dressing together in front of others!

I guess I'm lucky she accepted it so well. I kind of engineered it from the thong suggestion and worked the rest in bit by bit

Good luck to you hun! XxX

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

The only thing I can say is gently.....

(I have been there)

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to mention the first time I came wearing heels introduced me to the world of knee tremblers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would bring it up whilst discussing fantasies with each other. If she accepts it then fantastic for you, if she doesn't then obviously not the positive outcome you desired but you have to be true to yourself either way. Good luck and hope you get the outcome you require

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start slowly.

(I've been there too)

I hope it all goes ok Op.

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Plan a nice night in relax her dim the lights, nip in the bathroom to get dressed and play the rocky horror album on your ipod! Put a leg through the door and give her a good lap dance to sweet transvestite

Judge her reactions if she enjoys and is comfortable if not you can atleast escape with saying it was in fun

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By *ulia BellTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Always a difficult one as there is no way of predicting the reaction and once out there is no way to put the genie back in the bottle. For many women it is a deal breaker so if you do choose to fess up you need to be prepared for all possible outcomes.

My late wife found out but luckily my cross dressing was something she tolerated as long as I was discreet and she didn't have to see me in girl mode. So I was lucky I guess.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Start slowly.

(I've been there too)

I hope it all goes ok Op. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never easy to admit to a partner that you are a little different to what she might expect. I didn't really have much of a choice but to be completely honest with Ginger about a lot of things such as swinging or that I on occasion like to cross dress. She knows it's a part of who I am although not 1 that we've fully shared yet

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I agree with many above, very gently and slowly as i almost lost my partner when she caught me....

She tolerates it now but isn't into it much at all hence I play here as chrissy with her consent.

Best she knows as soon as you start so you can figure it out and where you want to go with it together xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lotts of goof advive think i will just go with a slow subtle aproch i think

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