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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do people feel about kissing during play? I mean proper passionate kissing, not just closed mouth, lip on lip (if you get my drift).

I love kissing and I wouldn't really want to have sex with a woman I didn't want to kiss (I think anyway). Similarly if I had sex with a woman and there was no kissing, I'm not sure I'd really be that turned on (maybe). It's a big thing for me. When a woman puts her tongue in my mouth I find it electrifying.

Some women I know/have talked to don't really want to kiss during sex. They think it is too intimate. That would be disappointing to me.

What do others think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I get to cum? I still get to cum right?

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Kissing is a major turn on for me and I think you can tell a lot by how someone kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with you, for me it doesn't work without kisses x

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

It's a totally essential part. Open mouth tongue sensual kissing. It's just not sex if that's not part of it . Just my opinion. Oh and hubby's. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a damn fine kisser, though I do say so myself...

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I love kissing. It's an absolute must

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Do I get to cum? I still get to cum right? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is paramount and leads to very good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and I always make sure the person I meet does too if they don't then they're not for me.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No kissing = No meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont do it during sex with anyone on here... not because i find it to intimate but because i genuinely find it turns me off more than on..

The funny thing is I can kiss my partner for ages and love it... but I find it invades my personal space and I cant let just anyone do that.. It stems from a very traumatic experience on my first ever sexual experience.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I love a good kissing session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely yes to kissing, it's a wonderful horny start to a hopefully good session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing tells a story you can't have a meet without it

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By *assie400Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

Kissing - absolutely every time

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By *unbbw101Woman
over a year ago

Billericay

I think i have been unlucky with guys i have met from fab and other sites...the majority cant kiss and i just get so turned off that now id rather not kiss. One guy just opened his mouth and stuck his tongue out....eewwwwwww!

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Compulsory.....opens the flood gates so to speak

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Love kissing, slow sensual with a bit of tongue to start with them the passion builds. Sex without kissing just isn't the same.

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Nice sensual kissing really turns me on. It's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lot are sooooo easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing = No meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do I get to cum? I still get to cum right? "

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By *artletWoman
over a year ago

Kerry

Its essential for me. That moment just before you kiss can be electric with the right person.

Had a meet once, where there was no kissing involved, never again. I just couldnt get into it!

Outside of Fab, was on a date and at the end of it, we had a kiss.... the worst kisser I have ever encountered, and I couldnt have a 2nd date with him over it, pity as he was a great guy

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By *ittletonCplCouple
over a year ago

cannock

Love it here. Essential ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no meet, simple.

Love a good frenchie

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

A kiss can be a wonderful thing.

That first kiss tells me everything I need to know... my current fb's first kiss was amazing, he just leant in and delivered the softest kiss I've ever had and then he pulled me in and grabbed the back of my neck and tbh that was all I needed to let me know we were going to have a fabulous adventure together.

We have soft sensual kisses and really hot passionate kisses, and simply couldn't play without a good snog

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

sometimes i realy enjoy it other times not so much or not bothered if i do or not. On some meets where the man likes to kiss i keep wanting to kiss them. maybe it depends how much you like them.

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By *r SelectiveMan
over a year ago

newcastle

It's a must ..a deep long sensual wet kiss ..n lots of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sexiest part of any encounter is the kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex comes with all the trimmings. Sex without kissing is like roast beef without the Yorkshire pudding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's not kissing then I'm not opening my legs. He would have to be content with a strap on fuck and some post orgasm torture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not even consider meeting anyone if kissing was off the table. It's entirely engrossing and compulsory for me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No kissing no meet, simple.

Love a good frenchie "

This has been noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mwah Mwah Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to have kissing on a meet

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I love kissing and I always make sure the person I meet does too if they don't then they're not for me."

This or it doesn't happen. For us it's so important we'd rather go without.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

I love kissing but there are some guys who just don't know how to kiss

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By *entreofattentionCouple
over a year ago

teeside

Got to kiss its a big turn on for everyone involved xx

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By *entreofattentionCouple
over a year ago

teeside


"Got to kiss its a big turn on for everyone involved xx"

All over by the way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out with no kissing on meets that was my choice but now I have been kissing meets I won't look back definitely adds to the experience and makes it real for the Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep passionate kissing is a major part of the erection process for me. It's a huge mental signal that both of you are getting responsive to each other and enjoying each other.

I love it.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Got to kiss its a big turn on for everyone involved xx

All over by the way lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow. Either this is a self selecting sample or I've just been unlucky. Or maybe I need to move haha. Perhaps geordie girls are different...I'd like to think I'm good at kissing but I guess you'd need to ask the recipients. At least I'm enthusiastic...and yes, all over is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES. thats all that needs to be said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing totally does it for me! I wouldn't want to fuck someone without kissing them...it's what leads me ultimately to fucking them really...my last meet was an amazing kisser....I didn't want him to stop...I may just kidnap him next time...I may need a bigger house to keep all my favourites in....I may need to shush now before the police come looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. Either this is a self selecting sample or I've just been unlucky. Or maybe I need to move haha. Perhaps geordie girls are different...I'd like to think I'm good at kissing but I guess you'd need to ask the recipients. At least I'm enthusiastic...and yes, all over is fine "

Certainly not my experience of our northern female friends. Infant I'd say the opposite is true!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow. Either this is a self selecting sample or I've just been unlucky. Or maybe I need to move haha. Perhaps geordie girls are different...I'd like to think I'm good at kissing but I guess you'd need to ask the recipients. At least I'm enthusiastic...and yes, all over is fine

Certainly not my experience of our northern female friends. Infant I'd say the opposite is true! "

Ok, that's good to hear...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Kissing is 100% part of our play meets, don't think we could do anything without it as it is all part of the turn on for us. We have found if the other person can't kiss well then things tend not to go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thinking about the way certain meets have kissed me gets me going! Soft and sensual to full on passionate..oh my!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing no meet, simple.

Love a good frenchie

This has been noted "

Kissing is the appetiser to any fine sexual experience , we just hope there's some honey left for dessert

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No kissing no meet, simple.

Love a good frenchie

This has been noted

Kissing is the appetiser to any fine sexual experience , we just hope there's some honey left for dessert "

There is always honey for you

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Wot no kissing...

Kissing has got to be the best part of being with someone..

The tension has been ratcheted up leading upto meeting that person.. The sexy pics going back and forth, the messages that get you aroused reading them..then that first kiss when you finally meet..

Passionate, frantic, discovering each other for the first time..

The kiss is where the passion lives, sex is just sex without the passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont do it during sex with anyone on here... not because i find it to intimate but because i genuinely find it turns me off more than on..

The funny thing is I can kiss my partner for ages and love it... but I find it invades my personal space and I cant let just anyone do that.. It stems from a very traumatic experience on my first ever sexual experience."

I am not keen on kissing during a meet either. I have met some men that are really not compatable with my taste of kissing.

So I would rather just have the fun without the kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a major turn on for me and I think you can tell a lot by how someone kisses "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't play without kissing. I find kissing a huge turn on and it would feel like something was missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love to kiss... have to kiss on a meet to get the 'spark'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we have on our profile that we keep passionate kissing for ourselves. Our view on it is that we accept that some people find kissing necessary and we acknowledge that we aren't compatible,

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Sex without kissing, is just sex, and a little empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing but no-one has ever been able to reciprocate my kisses better than Mark - it's electrifying - so magical that when I'm not with him I crave kissing him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is an absolute must with us.

Sets the fires going so to speak and as long as the kissing is amazing so will the sex be

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Kissing is an absolute must with us.

Sets the fires going so to speak and as long as the kissing is amazing so will the sex be "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing, might as well be a prostitute, and get some money out of it, ffs. Kissing and the human connection is very important to me.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I adore kissing if people can do it properly!

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By *inkswithpanCouple
over a year ago

lough

We love kissing during a meet, makes it so much more sensual and really gets us into the mood.

Think if we had the option of meeting a non kissing couple we would turn it down. That's just our two peneth

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Got to kiss its a big turn on for everyone involved xx

All over by the way lol"

Defo all over. Love Australian kissing, it's the same as French kissing but down under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do people feel about kissing during play? I mean proper passionate kissing, not just closed mouth"

Does anyone kiss closed mouth apart from kids doing school plays?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing it's essential to me, if there is mutual attraction on a

Social meet I love a deep kiss at the end of the social- if it's crap that's where we say good bye, if it's good we will meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing it's essential to me, if there is mutual attraction on a

Social meet I love a deep kiss at the end of the social- if it's crap that's where we say good bye, if it's good we will meet again. "

Will remember that

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

An essential part of desire... There is a neural link between lips on face directly to lips between legs somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing it's essential to me, if there is mutual attraction on a

Social meet I love a deep kiss at the end of the social- if it's crap that's where we say good bye, if it's good we will meet again.

Will remember that "

You naughty pair you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing it's essential to me, if there is mutual attraction on a

Social meet I love a deep kiss at the end of the social- if it's crap that's where we say good bye, if it's good we will meet again.

Will remember that

You naughty pair you "

And.............

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Snogging. All the snogging. Could happily snog someone for hours

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

As the song says its in his kiss

And there's more than one kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing gets everyone in the mood. If there's no kissing then I'd sooner have a wank.

MrJ X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kiss, no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing, one of my biggest turn ons. Essential for a good connection during a night of fucking and sucking.....

Any one fancy just meeting for a good kising session?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fan of kissing and prefer to meet with those who like to snog!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing is like fish without chips unimaginable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried sex without kissing once because the guy had a cold sore. Just felt weird!!

You can tell so much from a good kiss and it turns me on.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I need kissing. Coincidentally had a chat about this tonight with a Fab chum.

And then had a lovely kissing session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The eye connection ...

The touch of the hand....

The leaning in....

The feeling of my heart racing

....watching his lips.....

The tingles from his touch ....

My lips swelling .....

And then the KISS

.... Soft... Full.... Wet... Ripe..... Juicy....

And the exploration begins.... Oh a kiss X

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"The eye connection ...

The touch of the hand....

The leaning in....

The feeling of my heart racing

....watching his lips.....

The tingles from his touch ....

My lips swelling .....

And then the KISS

.... Soft... Full.... Wet... Ripe..... Juicy....

And the exploration begins.... Oh a kiss X "

Yep, that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I played with a female at a club with her boyfriend there. He was very pussy for me to fuck her. The thing was he set the rules no sucking and no kissing. I was so turned off by this. I understand that some have rules but no kissing kills it for me. I just don't get turned on if I can't kiss. I love it too much. I have been told I am a very good kisser. I wouldn't know can't kiss myself lol

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By *ichie72Sarah75Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

Loving kissing. The more passionate the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone who didn't like kissing. It is one of my favourite things to do. Love the passion of it, and the connection in the moment.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Good sex comes with all the trimmings. Sex without kissing is like roast beef without the Yorkshire pudding"

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

kissing is an absolute must for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex without kissing is like fish without chips unimaginable "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most def a must for me...I would not get turned on without it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes better then sex if you're lucky enough to meet someone who can do it properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had sex without kissing... I'd think I was married again!

I LOVE kissing, it's a huge turn on

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By *upofteaMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

Kissing frenchies snogging

Neckline kissing shoulder kissing

Boob n cleavage kissing

Oh you know what I'm saying... Kissing all over

Mmmm

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a huge part of our swinging, Nicky loves real passionate sex, lots of kissing and caressing. Sex with no kissing seems very clinical.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Kissing is pretty much essential to get me going...long, passionate kisses....tangled tongues...two or more people into each other...

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

Kissing is an absolute must!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would like to point out that sex with us isn't like having sex with prostitutes or clinical or not worth doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to point out that sex with us isn't like having sex with prostitutes or clinical or not worth doing. "
id like to add that no one has found that with me either and while the forums have mostly those that cant seem to understand fucking without..clubs are full of people that dont try to kiss x

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I find kissing in a club to be very erotic, and a great way to begin...getting everyone's juices flowing and building up excitement before moving to a play area. Where the kissing can continue....

No kissing = no meet for me too.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

For me sex with no kissing is just a bit, "meh", a bit boring, it just doesn't feel the same.

Kissing to me is part of foreplay, it gets me going, it gets me excited. Without kissing I'm definitely having to get my lube out because he is obviously enjoying himself but I'm just luke warm to be honest.

I agree with the prostitute comparison, it just feels so, not clinical, but there's no sexual spark. He's going to be finished before I'm halfway there so it's a shame I'm not being paid or else I would have got something out of this.

Thankfully I've not come across a really bad kisser but even the nothing special kissers have got my body going.

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon


"What do people feel about kissing during play? I mean proper passionate kissing, not just closed mouth, lip on lip (if you get my drift).

I love kissing and I wouldn't really want to have sex with a woman I didn't want to kiss (I think anyway). Similarly if I had sex with a woman and there was no kissing, I'm not sure I'd really be that turned on (maybe). It's a big thing for me. When a woman puts her tongue in my mouth I find it electrifying.

Some women I know/have talked to don't really want to kiss during sex. They think it is too intimate. That would be disappointing to me.

What do others think?"

Totally agree, a decent kiss starts the whole scene for me....

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I love kisses to build....

To start at a simple touching of the lips..... Before getting more urgent, more passionate.

I like to tease and pull away before being pulled back in.... Slight touches with the tongue, little lick of the lips.... Back in for more as the tension builds

That said, we have to be compatible. I would prefer to have no kisses than bad ones where a tongue comes at me like a friggin washing machine from the first moment

I know in my ten years on fab who my favourite kisser has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good sex comes with all the trimmings. Sex without kissing is like roast beef without the Yorkshire pudding"

What about the gravy?

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Kissing can be intensely intimate.

In a relationship or marriage it's usually the first sign that there is a problem, if one or other partner stops kissing each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any meet I would have I have to kiss the woman it's a must you need some passionate kissing makes it better

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over a year ago

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon


"We started out with no kissing on meets that was my choice but now I have been kissing meets I won't look back definitely adds to the experience and makes it real for the Mr "

We were the same initially, said no kissing but that soon went as we both enjoy it and adds to the experience. Hubby loves to see me have a nice soft kiss when we meet in clubs in the bar, not just during the meet if you know what k mean, that's with both the men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I want a kiss.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Now I want a kiss."

Mwah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I want a kiss.

Mwah! "

A real one! If I'm not tasting warm, slippery saliva, the rough rub of tastebuds on mine, the occasional iron tingle of beneath their tongue...then it's just not a kiss x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Now I want a kiss.

Mwah!

A real one! If I'm not tasting warm, slippery saliva, the rough rub of tastebuds on mine, the occasional iron tingle of beneath their tongue...then it's just not a kiss x"

Well you are a bit piggin far for that and I'm not allowed to drive again yet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I want a kiss.

Mwah!

A real one! If I'm not tasting warm, slippery saliva, the rough rub of tastebuds on mine, the occasional iron tingle of beneath their tongue...then it's just not a kiss x

Well you are a bit piggin far for that and I'm not allowed to drive again yet!! "

Fine, then I'll just sit here and practice on my thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing but no-one has ever been able to reciprocate my kisses better than Mark - it's electrifying - so magical that when I'm not with him I crave kissing him "

Love this

Candy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a kisser here.. love a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a kisser here.. love a good kiss "

Cute eyes and would like to kiss u

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't get the non kissers, its a massive part of play for me and I love to kiss.

Its such a soft, sensual exciting thing to do- couldn't have a play partner that didn't want to kiss- I would dislike them very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As another poster said , clubs are full of people who aren't bothered about kissing . But it can be cold and clinical , and we've never had a one on one meet where there was no kissing . Group sessions yes , but not a swap or wife with a guy .

We actually stopped going to clubs partly because they don't float our boat in the sense that we love the passionate and erotic encounters so much more . And that's not gonna happen with no kissing . ' But you guys like dogging ' , I hear you say . Well that doesn't stop the build up , the kissing , the touching etc... We play it our way , and kissing is integral to a good meet .

Guys who just want their cock sucked or fuck and go aren't for us .

The more passionate and real a meet is , the better it is . So much so we now prefer to go out to more public places where there are more vanillas about . My wife will flirt and cop off with a guy , kissing , caressing and so on with me not too far away . This is more horny than going to a dogging spot to just suck and fuck .

She tells them she is married and has permission , and that I am about to keep her safe ( a friend of her husband ) . So there's no illusion or false hope for the guy . I never get too close .

After the build up which often involves so much flirting , caressing , kissing ( both gentle and passionate ) they find a quiet and secluded spot and go further . So hot and horny !

We love this and it certainly wouldn't work with no kissing . Clinical and cold sex for the sake of it isn't for us , and no matter how we try to see it any other way , there's no depth , passion or reality without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alexa loves kissing...on her arsehole

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As another poster said , clubs are full of people who aren't bothered about kissing . But it can be cold and clinical , and we've never had a one on one meet where there was no kissing . Group sessions yes , but not a swap or wife with a guy .

We actually stopped going to clubs partly because they don't float our boat in the sense that we love the passionate and erotic encounters so much more . And that's not gonna happen with no kissing "

That's interesting. I'm planning to go a 'Club' (Club F) for the firm time on Saturday. Whilst I wasn't necessarily planning to get involved in anything too advanced (although you never know) the possibility that there may be little enthusiasm for kissing is kind of disappointing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do people feel about kissing during play? I mean proper passionate kissing, not just closed mouth, lip on lip (if you get my drift).

I love kissing and I wouldn't really want to have sex with a woman I didn't want to kiss (I think anyway). Similarly if I had sex with a woman and there was no kissing, I'm not sure I'd really be that turned on (maybe). It's a big thing for me. When a woman puts her tongue in my mouth I find it electrifying.

Some women I know/have talked to don't really want to kiss during sex. They think it is too intimate. That would be disappointing to me.

What do others think?"

I have to be really attracted to someone to want to really passionately kiss, and have sex with them. Kissing for me is a majorly sexy foreplay session.

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By *orny and KinkyCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester


"we have on our profile that we keep passionate kissing for ourselves. Our view on it is that we accept that some people find kissing necessary and we acknowledge that we aren't compatible, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah kissing is a big thing for me

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Love slow kissing,which can be the best thing going,running fingertips up and down also..its that extra closeness that makes for a lovely time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alexa loves kissing...on her arsehole "

I can do that, but she'll get an equally passionate french kiss afterwards

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol

Essential part of the build up for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Kissing is a must for us, just watching Lou passionately kiss someone else is as good as watching her getting fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, for me kissing is part of what winds the machine up. If you can't be intimate with mouths and tongues, how can you fuck properly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol


"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready "

Very very very very if there's two?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must for us, just watching Lou passionately kiss someone else is as good as watching her getting fucked!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready

Very very very very if there's two? "

Oh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing and is a huge part of play. Hubby would prefer me not as he feels its too intimate but its part of what makes things fun. Makes me feel that the guys really wants me and not just to dump his load x

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

A good kiss gets the right physical reaction….

No kissing - No meet

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

IT is essential for me, before during and after!

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol


"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready

Very very very very if there's two?

Oh yes! "

Can't promise we would stop kissing at your lips though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love passionate kissing..

I'll start of by kissing first slowly and then more passionately. If were near the wall I'll put the lady against it and whilst kissing her I'll hold her hands above her head with one hand and slide the other hand down her arm on to her face. Then slide my hand down her neck on to her juicy breast and feel/grab/squeeze and pull the nipple a little.. We do this for a for a bit then take that hand lower into her nickers and feel and play with her pussy all whilst kissing her and holding her hands above her head.. Xx

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over a year ago


"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready

Very very very very if there's two?

Oh yes!

Can't promise we would stop kissing at your lips though "

Only if you let me pull off your underwear with my teeth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine 'no kissing' - in any case, I'd forget - it's a natural part of sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just adore it......as long as he is not the washing machine kisser......or so much saliva kisser I am drowning, or the bad breather kisser, or the childish poke poke poke kisser.....

The exploring kisser, the little bite kisser, the eyes peeking kisser, the gentle touch on the face kisser, the fingers around my mouth kisser, the build up kisser, the full on passionate kisser.....

YUMMY

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol


"Proper good kissing makes me ready ..... Very, very ready

Very very very very if there's two?

Oh yes!

Can't promise we would stop kissing at your lips though

Only if you let me pull off your underwear with my teeth? "

As long as you can do that X2 and you're prepared for what you unleash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing equals no sex for me.

Rubbish kissing equals no sex for me.

I absolutely love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must for us, just watching Lou passionately kiss someone else is as good as watching her getting fucked!"

Exactly this

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

Without kissing sex would be mechanical and no fun at all.

I think it's the most intimate sexual act and without it there's absolutely no way of synchronizing to get that spark.

Open mouthed, deep, suffocating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't have lips like mine and not kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

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Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other

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over a year ago


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other "
it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x"

I won't for you if it's not you're thing.

But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x

I won't for you if it's not you're thing.

But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do "
yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We both love kissing it really turns us on. We dont meet couples who dont kiss. Just our preference. Jack.

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x

I won't for you if it's not you're thing.

But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x"

I guess that's down to what you're looking for.

Our meets have always involved it but that's the sort of thing we're looking for and go off profiles and socials.

I suppose the types of people you like just aren't into it either which works out great for you

I'm not sure where we're going with this other we're into different things lol

You don't like kissing on meets we do. We all like posting on forums.

Happy days x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?"

Definately. I have feelings for all my lovers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x

I won't for you if it's not you're thing.

But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x

I guess that's down to what you're looking for.

Our meets have always involved it but that's the sort of thing we're looking for and go off profiles and socials.

I suppose the types of people you like just aren't into it either which works out great for you

I'm not sure where we're going with this other we're into different things lol

You don't like kissing on meets we do. We all like posting on forums.

Happy days x"
im not arguing that some like it some dont. My partner needs kissing on a meet... i love to kiss him.. but what im saying is that even though till recently i never said no kissing.. in actual play situations it just never happened.. that while on the forums you have the vast majority saying its a must... im arguing that in clubs it isn't something that seems to happen and more often than not my partner will lean in to kiss a lady and will get told sorry we don't kiss..

Where as on the forum its very pro kissing. I dont mind if people need it.... i just make it clear its unlikely to be with me. Besides as i tend to go straight for sucking cock in a play situation its hard to be kissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?

Definately. I have feelings for all my lovers. "

How do you stop them from being too strong?

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Just give me the chance...............!!!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Depends if he is any good at it.

I hate the washing machine kiss, the wet sloppy kiss where he thrusts his tongue in my mouth and swirls it around.....urgh nasty

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over a year ago


"A kiss can be a wonderful thing.

That first kiss tells me everything I need to know... my current fb's first kiss was amazing, he just leant in and delivered the softest kiss I've ever had and then he pulled me in and grabbed the back of my neck and tbh that was all I needed to let me know we were going to have a fabulous adventure together.

We have soft sensual kisses and really hot passionate kisses, and simply couldn't play without a good snog "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?

Definately. I have feelings for all my lovers.

How do you stop them from being too strong?"

I don't really worry about it. It would be different if I were single I suppose. I'd have to be more careful then. I suppose my marriage prevents it getting too strong. And the fact that I have several partners so emotion is divided. If someone doesn't want to continue with me, it's upsetting at the time, but it doesn't matter.

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over a year ago


"Depends if he is any good at it.

I hate the washing machine kiss, the wet sloppy kiss where he thrusts his tongue in my mouth and swirls it around.....urgh nasty "
to be honest when i first started out as a couple on here as id loved my partners first kisses i was eager to kiss too.. seeing how much he enjoyed watching it too.. but guy after guy was how you just described and my original dislike and uncomfortable feelings came back.. with the exception of the one man i knows kisses match me perfectly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone think passionate kissing with someone you click with could cause feelings to form?

Definately. I have feelings for all my lovers.

How do you stop them from being too strong?

I don't really worry about it. It would be different if I were single I suppose. I'd have to be more careful then. I suppose my marriage prevents it getting too strong. And the fact that I have several partners so emotion is divided. If someone doesn't want to continue with me, it's upsetting at the time, but it doesn't matter."

You sound nice x

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By *heCuriousCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Costa Del Sol


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x

I won't for you if it's not you're thing.

But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x

I guess that's down to what you're looking for.

Our meets have always involved it but that's the sort of thing we're looking for and go off profiles and socials.

I suppose the types of people you like just aren't into it either which works out great for you

I'm not sure where we're going with this other we're into different things lol

You don't like kissing on meets we do. We all like posting on forums.

Happy days xim not arguing that some like it some dont. My partner needs kissing on a meet... i love to kiss him.. but what im saying is that even though till recently i never said no kissing.. in actual play situations it just never happened.. that while on the forums you have the vast majority saying its a must... im arguing that in clubs it isn't something that seems to happen and more often than not my partner will lean in to kiss a lady and will get told sorry we don't kiss..

Where as on the forum its very pro kissing. I dont mind if people need it.... i just make it clear its unlikely to be with me. Besides as i tend to go straight for sucking cock in a play situation its hard to be kissed "

Ahh thanks for clearing that up.

We can't speak for the club scene because we've not been yet

There's a lot of people the same. There was a thread here the other day exactly the opposite to this full of people saying it's not needed or a step too far.

I imagine thoughts of kissing go out of the window once you've started lol

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Depends if he is any good at it.

I hate the washing machine kiss, the wet sloppy kiss where he thrusts his tongue in my mouth and swirls it around.....urgh nasty to be honest when i first started out as a couple on here as id loved my partners first kisses i was eager to kiss too.. seeing how much he enjoyed watching it too.. but guy after guy was how you just described and my original dislike and uncomfortable feelings came back.. with the exception of the one man i knows kisses match me perfectly...

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One of the good things about club meets is that blokes rarely kiss, so I don't have to worry about the slobber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x

I won't for you if it's not you're thing.

But we also live in the real world and thank god there are others like us that do yes but what im saying is in 17 year's of this lifestyle. I can count on my fingers how many guys have tried to kiss me during a meet x

I guess that's down to what you're looking for.

Our meets have always involved it but that's the sort of thing we're looking for and go off profiles and socials.

I suppose the types of people you like just aren't into it either which works out great for you

I'm not sure where we're going with this other we're into different things lol

You don't like kissing on meets we do. We all like posting on forums.

Happy days xim not arguing that some like it some dont. My partner needs kissing on a meet... i love to kiss him.. but what im saying is that even though till recently i never said no kissing.. in actual play situations it just never happened.. that while on the forums you have the vast majority saying its a must... im arguing that in clubs it isn't something that seems to happen and more often than not my partner will lean in to kiss a lady and will get told sorry we don't kiss..

Where as on the forum its very pro kissing. I dont mind if people need it.... i just make it clear its unlikely to be with me. Besides as i tend to go straight for sucking cock in a play situation its hard to be kissed "

I find there is less kissing in orgy and group situations. I'm less likely to kiss if it's relatively anonymous. And there's a place for that. But I think there is also a place for intimacy. We enjoy all that the swing scene offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on my must have list right at the top!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love a good kiss. Kissing is one of my favorite parts of sex, in general. I love the different connection you get with different people and how much more it brings to my own experience. And when I find someone who is particularly good at kissing it just makes me melt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Argh clearly in the minority here. In a relationship, kissing, yes yes yes! For no strings encounters I don't think it's for me. Saturday will be interesting Benditoy!

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

I couldn't meet without knowing in advance that the lady enjoyed passionate kissing. Absolutely essential for me x

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

time for kissing with partner .deeply madly .is part of our private love making .we play the fab game for fun and and thrill seeking .none committal enjoy ment.kissing not just for the act of sex .can be any time show of affection.[just our view point]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing no meet, simple.

Love a good frenchie "

Frenchie haven't heard that in about 30 years lol

People do love it and the minute they see my Traintracks braces top and bottom I'm toast. Sucks but it isn't for ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well after this thread you would think that everyone likes kissing.. thank god in the real world plenty of people dont need it to get jiggy.

Wouldn't say don't need to get jiggy, just that one compliments the other it turns me off with meets.... so why would it enhance my sex with meets x"

I respect that you prefer to not kiss during a meet, even though kissing is integral to me, I know it's not for everyone, and people's preferences need to be respected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very underrated act of intimacy,

Eyes open, eyes closed two very different sensations

X

Get kissing you lot who aren't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Argh clearly in the minority here. In a relationship, kissing, yes yes yes! For no strings encounters I don't think it's for me. Saturday will be interesting Benditoy! "

Don't worry L, I'll protect you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be dissapointing to me and make it harder to get aroused if a lady did not kiss.

Each to their own I guess.

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