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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally find it quite sickening that a mature lady

In this specific instance of 46 is looking to fuck 18 to 20 year olds

Personal choice and all that yeah yeah

But surely that's wrong

And no

If a 20 year old wanted me

I wouldn't

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"I personally find it quite sickening that a mature lady

In this specific instance of 46 is looking to fuck 18 to 20 year olds

Personal choice and all that yeah yeah

But surely that's wrong

And no

If a 20 year old wanted me

I wouldn't

"

Horses for courses my dear boy.. Some do some don't.. When I was 18 I had a 40 year old, great experience, and vice versa when i was 40 I had a 21 year old..

Now I'm older I would love to find an 18 - 20 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't much like 18-20 year olds when I WAS 18-20, I'm not about to start now.

However, much as its not my brew of choice (bored of saying not my cup of tea today), I don't actually see anything at all wrong with it at all or vice versa on the gender scale for that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the type of 18-20 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own at the end of the day - we all have our preferences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about the other way around, an older guy looking for a younger woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally there's nothing wrong with a older lady wanting a younger guy I wish u had a older lady instead of younger at times

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Bitter? Jealous? Who cares this could be fun to watch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bitter? Jealous? Who cares this could be fun to watch. "

Neither

Just an opinion in a forum

Sorry to spoil your fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought much of this site and lifestyle is about fulfilling fantasies.

Who are you to knock someone else's fantasy?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses. Wouldn't do for us all to be the same and like the same stuff.

I had the pleasure of entertaining an older lady when I was in my 30's and she in her early 60's.

Was excellent fun, age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own...

its not for me but I don't knock those it is for...

although I think it helps to be openminded

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By *punkytits50Woman
over a year ago

Reading


"I thought much of this site and lifestyle is about fulfilling fantasies.

Who are you to knock someone else's fantasy?. "

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By *punkytits50Woman
over a year ago

Reading


"I personally find it quite sickening that a mature lady

In this specific instance of 46 is looking to fuck 18 to 20 year olds

Personal choice and all that yeah yeah

But surely that's wrong

And no

If a 20 year old wanted me

I wouldn't

"

Tbh I've found that a lot of younger guys can be a lot more respectful than a lot of older guys. And as everyone else says it all down to personal preference , life would be very boring if we al liked exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with a cougar who is 57 that wants an 18 year old

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Sickened? Really? Personally the age difference would be a problem if they didn't know who Captain Pugwash was.

Simply wouldn't have anything to talk about and I don't do Instagram , Snapchat et al.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Bitter? Jealous? Who cares this could be fun to watch.

Neither

Just an opinion in a forum

Sorry to spoil your fun "

Sadly for you I was proven right, this will be fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 20 might be pushing it but 21 however

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By *punkytits50Woman
over a year ago

Reading


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

"

I've asked hime twice but not got an answer, was just curious as in society in general, it seems more accepted the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

"

Read the post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

I've asked hime twice but not got an answer, was just curious as in society in general, it seems more accepted the other way around."

Instead of asking

Read my original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

I've asked hime twice but not got an answer, was just curious as in society in general, it seems more accepted the other way around.

Instead of asking

Read my original post

"

I have my lovely, it says you wouldn't but doesn't say how you feel about it, as in does it sicken you as much as an older woman with a younger man? That's why I ask, for clarification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

I've asked hime twice but not got an answer, was just curious as in society in general, it seems more accepted the other way around.

Instead of asking

Read my original post

I have my lovely, it says you wouldn't but doesn't say how you feel about it, as in does it sicken you as much as an older woman with a younger man? That's why I ask, for clarification. "

Well if I wouldn't then I would have assumed I wouldn't be into it

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By *punkytits50Woman
over a year ago

Reading


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

I've asked hime twice but not got an answer, was just curious as in society in general, it seems more accepted the other way around.

Instead of asking

Read my original post

I have my lovely, it says you wouldn't but doesn't say how you feel about it, as in does it sicken you as much as an older woman with a younger man? That's why I ask, for clarification. "

Was about to say the same thing its says your personal preference but doesn't say if in general you feel the same about older men and younger women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

I've asked hime twice but not got an answer, was just curious as in society in general, it seems more accepted the other way around.

Instead of asking

Read my original post

I have my lovely, it says you wouldn't but doesn't say how you feel about it, as in does it sicken you as much as an older woman with a younger man? That's why I ask, for clarification.

Well if I wouldn't then I would have assumed I wouldn't be into it

"

Yes but how do you feel about it? Not being into something doesn't necessarily mean it sickens you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

I've asked hime twice but not got an answer, was just curious as in society in general, it seems more accepted the other way around.

Instead of asking

Read my original post

I have my lovely, it says you wouldn't but doesn't say how you feel about it, as in does it sicken you as much as an older woman with a younger man? That's why I ask, for clarification.

Well if I wouldn't then I would have assumed I wouldn't be into it

Yes but how do you feel about it? Not being into something doesn't necessarily mean it sickens you. "

The same other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't much like 18-20 year olds when I WAS 18-20, I'm not about to start now.

However, much as its not my brew of choice (bored of saying not my cup of tea today), I don't actually see anything at all wrong with it at all or vice versa on the gender scale for that matter. "

Will a nice 36 year old do HH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, do you feel the same with older guys, younger women?

I've asked hime twice but not got an answer, was just curious as in society in general, it seems more accepted the other way around.

Instead of asking

Read my original post

I have my lovely, it says you wouldn't but doesn't say how you feel about it, as in does it sicken you as much as an older woman with a younger man? That's why I ask, for clarification.

Well if I wouldn't then I would have assumed I wouldn't be into it

Yes but how do you feel about it? Not being into something doesn't necessarily mean it sickens you.

The same other way round "

Well persoanlly I'm pleased some people are open minded to it as if they weren't, I wouldn't be here. My dad was 40 when he married my mum who was 20

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

A 20 year old might have been living alone for 4 years, university for 2 years. Might have been in armed combat for 2 years etc etc.

Personally, if that is the woman's preference I do not find anything about it sickening.

Mr B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 40 I had a 20 year old Girlfriend. Did either of us care about others opinions - absolutely not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I personally find it quite sickening that a mature lady

In this specific instance of 46 is looking to fuck 18 to 20 year olds

Personal choice and all that yeah yeah

But surely that's wrong

And no

If a 20 year old wanted me

I wouldn't

"

I think sickening is a strong word to describe consensual sexual activity. One thing that can concern me with big age gaps is the possibility of undue influence or manipulation but I think that can work both ways and can happen with a small age gap.

When it comes right down to it, it's only sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally find it quite sickening that a mature lady

In this specific instance of 46 is looking to fuck 18 to 20 year olds

Personal choice and all that yeah yeah

But surely that's wrong

And no

If a 20 year old wanted me

I wouldn't

I think sickening is a strong word to describe consensual sexual activity. One thing that can concern me with big age gaps is the possibility of undue influence or manipulation but I think that can work both ways and can happen with a small age gap.

When it comes right down to it, it's only sex."

I'll take that on board

Maybe sickening was strong

Apologies

Still don't like the thought though

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

For me it's not about age it's about people. The youngest I met was a strapping great 6 foot artisan who engaged me in conversation, and was consistent and persistent about meeting me in particular, so I chose to meet him rather than someone twice his age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't meet an 18-20 year old as I see them as still boys and would feel like I'm corrupting them in some way! However - I do meet guys much younger than me on here that I wouldn't have a relationship with in the real world! However - this is a swinging site and not a dating site - so if an 18 year old who dreams of sex with a 50 year old can find a 50 year old who dreams of sex with an 18 year old - then who are they really hurting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the OP for expressing how he feels about a subject. I would defend his right to express how he feels, but nobody should go about telling other people what to do.

Personally I hooked up with a lady in her early 40's whilst at a night club. I was in my early 20's at the time.

We had a few months together - one of the best experiences of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure how it's any of your business what other people choose to do ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it illegal? No.

Is it consenting? Yes.

Who the fuck should care then? Nobody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it illegal? No.

Is it consenting? Yes.

Who the fuck should care then? Nobody."

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love cougars something about them turns me on so much when I was 18 I was sleeping with a 44 year old woman who had a son older than me she loved it I loved it no problems whatsoever

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

From the ages of 18 to about 25/26

I only ever used to be interested in older women. If a woman was under 28 I was very rarely interested.

When I was 20 is was seeing a 48 year old.

There's nothing wrong with that

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By *ockyjohnMan
over a year ago

North West

I'd love a cougar but at my age she would be in her 70s to qualify I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the simple answer would be if you don't like it, then don't comment on it...

better still, don't start a thread about how disgusting it is and then get all exasperated when people tell you 'each to their own' and 'horses for courses' ...

yes, you have your opinion and we have ours ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me though each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are things I don't like or am not into, watersports and BDSM to name just a couple but I wouldn't describe them as sickening and I wouldn't look at someone who liked them any differently to someone who didn't. Their life, their choice. I'm sure some people don't like some of the things I'm into. I really don't mind, what I do doesn't bother those people the same as what they do doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The youngest I have had (Mrs L) is 21 and I enjoyed both of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every young guy needs an older woman at some point

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"Every young guy needs an older woman at some point "

I totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure how it's any of your business what other people choose to do ? "

Exactly. I meet much younger guys and every one has left with his mind blown. It's the fantasy of most young men to have sex with an older woman, and I couldn't give a toss if the OP is offended by it. Sounds like a case of sour grapes

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By *andare69Man
over a year ago

worcestershire

I just depends on the individual I suppose, I've been with a 60yr old when I was 23 and an 18yr old when I was 37 and that relationship lasted nearly 5 years. Both were fantastic for different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every young guy needs an older woman at some point "

+1

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Sickening? Seriously? Some people just moan about the most boring things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came out of my first real relationship at 22, after a couple of 18/19 year old women I hooked up with a 40 year old and it was one of my best choices ever. 3 month casual relationship with her taught me a hell of a lot

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

If the attraction is mutual then I don't see a problem. Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought one of the benefits of this site was the chance for like minded people to indulge in a few fantasies?

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