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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

going out with a bang us something we all think about, but it's something I will be doing.

I've been diagnosed with terminal cancer. I've left my job and I'm going to everything I've always wanted to do! Please don't feel sorry I'm not looking for sympathy at all, just people to help me do incredible things.

I will be deleting my profile fairly soon as I don't want people to know my strange past time.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

That's a real shitter and my heart goes out to you and your family.

If you have a pension you may be able to cash it all in and blow it on doing all the things you want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a real shitter and my heart goes out to you and your family.

If you have a pension you may be able to cash it all in and blow it on doing all the things you want to.

"

I already have, I don't have a family so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My words are massively insufficient, but I truly hope that you do all that intend to and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear that - I hope you are able to fulfill as many of your dreams as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not a something you see everyday on here. Bloody hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you made the bucket list? There are some incredible 1 offs out there to try and some insain things. Google will be a big friend to you on this subject. We have a few thing we want to do before the end

Hope you manage all you set out to do and fill all remaining time to the max

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"

That's not a something you see everyday on here. Bloody hell. "

Quite.

What's the prognosis, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steven Sutton achieved a big chunk of his bucket list before he passed away, and raised over £4M for the Teenage Cancer Trust whilst doing it. It depends how publicly you want to go and how much of a difference you'd like to make?

But good luck and enjoy every second to the max x

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

we all never know our fate and every day matters. OP i hope you enjoy every incredible moment and have the biggest grin for ever x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *otterabzMan
over a year ago

Ellon

There are no words. But I sincerely hope that you manage to do all that you wish, and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you have the ride of your life. I like the positive attitude. I wish you the best of everything.

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Mate that's shit news..... hope you do get to go out on your own terms whatever they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you get to do all that you want to.

Lots of love to you OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with everything you do op. Don't regret anything now is your time live it to the max. Be positive with all you achieve and most of all love life and love yourself.

Big cwtches

Lots of love prettytiedup xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your spirit OP. Hope you achieve lots of amazing things

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Thank you"

You're still very young and terminal cancer at your age is quite rare.

Just be careful not to spend everything and left with nothing.

Wishing you the best of luck OP.

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

This happened to a friend of mine she lived the last 6 months of her life to the full we held a fundraiser and sent them to Disney land something her kids will always have treasured memories of so mate do your worst and enjoy each day as its your last good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My words are massively insufficient, but I truly hope that you do all that intend to and more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unattached

with no roots

with no barrier.

Free as a bird i want to be.

Despite the fears of freedom

depite the vuneralbility

of the unattached.

despite the unfamiliarity of the unknown.

Free as a bird i want to be.

Woven into the warmth of the evening wind

swaying on the willow tree branches

carried by the stars

Free as a bird i want to be.

From here to there

never missed and never expected

never recognized and never attatched

Free as a bird i want to be

to go and do whatever i wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear such terrible news OP. May I ask what type of cancer you have as I lost someone young recently to cancer, wondered if it was the same type?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Enjoy every last moment you possibly can and know we are all cheering you on silently xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that but admire your positivity.

Make a bucket list if you haven't done so and do experience the things you've always wanted to.

All the best to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your spirit and joie de vivre is truly inspirational.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just lost two friends in the space of a week, one of whom was taken by cancer. To see a post of this nature serves as a reminder to us all just how fragile and cruel life can be sometimes.

OP, I hope your remaining time is filled with happiness and that you manage to do everything that you want to do within that time.

Maybe the people who constantly complain about not getting meets should be directed to this thread, then maybe they'll realise that some things are far more important.

Very best wishes to you OP, and much respect for being so brave by telling us all about your situation on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to you mate. Enjoy the time you have left and have a feckin ball

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all, just want to go crazy and meet ashby people and do as much as I can

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

What kind of thing's are you hoping to do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What kind of thing's are you hoping to do?"

Ive booked a round the world holiday a sky dive and that's it so far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP's post makes us all realise why our time here is very valuable. No matter how long you have - use it well.

Best wishes to the OP.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West


"What kind of thing's are you hoping to do?

Ive booked a round the world holiday a sky dive and that's it so far..."

If you don't mind me asking, how did you manage to get travel insurance to cover medical issues while you're away?

We recently tried to sort something for a relative and once we declared medical conditions, everything outside Europe became a non starter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Indeed, don't worry about getting the meets just enjoy life the chase every second!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus fucking christ, at 26.

Our condolences to you, i hope you get everything you desire in the time that remains you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would like to meet as many as possible and just live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like to meet as many as possible and just live"

Meets on here you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of thing's are you hoping to do?

Ive booked a round the world holiday a sky dive and that's it so far..."

That's good for starters, prioritising what you really really want to do is important now.

I wish you all the very best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like to meet as many as possible and just live"

From trying to arrange dogging meets six days ago to this OP quitting your job and round the world bucket lists.

I hope it works out whatever happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would like to meet as many as possible and just live

From trying to arrange dogging meets six days ago to this OP quitting your job and round the world bucket lists.

I hope it works out whatever happens. "

Haven't been well for a while

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Fair play for taking the news so well OP. Get out there and do all the things you can do make everyone else jealous. You only live once, no regrets!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fair play for taking the news so well OP. Get out there and do all the things you can do make everyone else jealous. You only live once, no regrets!"

If you have any idea or advice get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate hearing things like this, I'm sorry to hear that even tho I don't know you, it makes you thankful for what you've got. Why don't you start by publishing your bucket list on here, you never know, you might get a bit of help ticking a couple off the list. I hope a miracle happens for you mate. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would like to meet as many as possible and just live"

How are you going to do that if, as you say in your original op, you're going to delete your profile ? Best of luck anyway bud.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"Would like to meet as many as possible and just live"
i ask you for a glory hole meet two fridays ago u never showed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate hearing things like this, I'm sorry to hear that even tho I don't know you, it makes you thankful for what you've got. Why don't you start by publishing your bucket list on here, you never know, you might get a bit of help ticking a couple off the list. I hope a miracle happens for you mate. Good luck. "

Good shout. List a few things and people might want to help tick em off or tag along etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you"

Dude, who have you got for support? Don't be on your own x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your posts

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't. "

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West


"I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't. "

I don't know if you were referring to me there but I'm genuinely interested as the US was somewhere my relative wanted to visit however we've had to abandon that plan and we've tried all the specialist places for insurance with no joy. If there is anywhere that someone knows of that plan could be back on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive respect op!

Inspirational outlook, you can't change the cards you're dealt so make the most of the ones you get.

Hope you do everything you want and have a fucking awesome time doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't.

I don't know if you were referring to me there but I'm genuinely interested as the US was somewhere my relative wanted to visit however we've had to abandon that plan and we've tried all the specialist places for insurance with no joy. If there is anywhere that someone knows of that plan could be back on."

No I wasn't referring to you, nobody specific, just a few posts had a hint of doubt in them that's all, none of my business really, people can say and think what they like, I just think the op has got enough on his plate that's all. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect a few of you doubt the OP is really sick judging by a few comments. Give the guy a break, I'm sure he's going thru hell and putting a brave face on. Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't.

I don't know if you were referring to me there but I'm genuinely interested as the US was somewhere my relative wanted to visit however we've had to abandon that plan and we've tried all the specialist places for insurance with no joy. If there is anywhere that someone knows of that plan could be back on."

Agreed would be pretty sick if this isn't true very much so and I'm sure the op wouldn't do that,however have noticed a couple people asking for some advise but for some reason ignored.....oh well guess the op has his reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did he mean by saying he would be deleting his profile as he didnt want people to know his strange pastime..Cant ask the poor chap now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did he mean by saying he would be deleting his profile as he didnt want people to know his strange pastime..Cant ask the poor chap now "

I think he meant that he didn't want his fab profile being discovered after he snuffs it, that's what I took it to mean anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did he mean by saying he would be deleting his profile as he didnt want people to know his strange pastime..Cant ask the poor chap now

I think he meant that he didn't want his fab profile being discovered after he snuffs it, that's what I took it to mean anyway. "
..oh ok thankyou.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West


"What did he mean by saying he would be deleting his profile as he didnt want people to know his strange pastime..Cant ask the poor chap now

I think he meant that he didn't want his fab profile being discovered after he snuffs it, that's what I took it to mean anyway. "

Either that or he had a stranger pastime than fab and didn't want anyone here finding out.

Not sure how anyone would mind you.

I guess we will never know.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Ive read his other threads and tbh i got a feeling his full ov s**t. We even messaged about a glory hole meet and other things,just seemed full ov BS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive read his other threads and tbh i got a feeling his full ov s**t. We even messaged about a glory hole meet and other things,just seemed full ov BS "

Gotta say I agree. This thread was started pretty much the same time as another poster said his pics were maybe not his, and they disappeared from his profile, on another of his threads. He seemed desperate for attention. If he is terminally ill then I wish him all the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who was it?"

Can't rember his name but he kept banging on about his 10 inch cock all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a world we live in. People can't even take another person's word any longer.

Where's the proof that he's full of shit?

What a bunch of hooha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive read his other threads and tbh i got a feeling his full ov s**t. We even messaged about a glory hole meet and other things,just seemed full ov BS "

He will be back in a week or so. Just a different name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I had proof that someone was lying about something like that, I'd never suggest it or even hint at it. What a horrendous thing to suggest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats it the problem we shall never know if he was being honest or dishonest,but i am willing to give him the benefit of the doubt,if he has lied then his mind must be troubled to invent sonething like that,to many people suffer and die because of it,if he is telling the truth then i hope he lives what time he has left to the full.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

It was just a bit strange how he didn't answer anyone's questions,I may be wrong though I haven't read the whole thread.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"Ive read his other threads and tbh i got a feeling his full ov s**t. We even messaged about a glory hole meet and other things,just seemed full ov BS

He will be back in a week or so. Just a different name "
this time with a 12" cock hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a load of shite too.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Surely nobody would be so sick to say they were terminal if they weren't. "

Are you new to the internet?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

PS I am not suggesting the OP was making his illness up, I didn't know him so wouldn't know the truth

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Belive it or not you get the odd fake, pic hunter and bulls*****r on here also time wasters,

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Enjoy every second you have

Feel the sun on your face, the leaves as they blow down in the wind and then watch the snow fall in the moonlight

Then, you can be at peace

My thoughts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was just a bit strange how he didn't answer anyone's questions,I may be wrong though I haven't read the whole thread. "

I have read the whole thread. He didn't reply to any of the questions but as someone said, perhaps he wasn't in the frame of mind to reply..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not read the thread, no idea who but I can spare a minute to wish someone well.

If he is ill, it's a kind thought.

If he isn't, he still may need some help and a kind thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not read the thread, no idea who but I can spare a minute to wish someone well.

If he is ill, it's a kind thought.

If he isn't, he still may need some help and a kind thought. "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always amazes me how somebody can share something so personal to complete strangers.

If it's true ( don't judge my cynicism, a lot of people like attention on here ), I hope he goes and does some cool stuff. I always remember The chef who ate is favourite meal the night before he passed.

I think k would go out with a bang

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