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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you recognise someone should you make yourself known ?

Just recognised a kind of neighbour !

Is it creepy to see Her on here and not be honest ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you recognise someone should you make yourself known ?

Just recognised a kind of neighbour !

Is it creepy to see Her on here and not be honest ?

No go for it, im guessing your both mature enough to have a conversation

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

If she lives quite close I'm guessing that she's most likely already seen you on here...maybe she doesn't want to speak? Or doesn't want to speak up first...

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I had a ex partner message me on here, havent seen her for maybe 20 years and she said Hi, she veri'd me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised a few times, and gotten messages off men I know. It was a stomach dip moment, but then we were laughing and sharing experiences. You are both on the same site, so I'd say go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you recognise someone should you make yourself known ?

Just recognised a kind of neighbour !

Is it creepy to see Her on here and not be honest ?

No go for it, im guessing your both mature enough to have a conversation

She lives around the corner from me on the same estate . Im sure she's attached though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recognised someone before and just blocked them so we could both carry on enjoying the site without knowing someone we 'know' could be looking.... kind of respecting their privacy I guess.

I've also bumped into someone in a club before, which was entirely different, and we had a great night! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recognised someone that I know and just blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you recognise someone should you make yourself known ?

Just recognised a kind of neighbour !

Is it creepy to see Her on here and not be honest ?

I would just block them and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha

I had 2 trains of thought about this and it seems the forum members are split too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a block from me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what you feel is right OP. Forum members always have different opinions haha. Both sides equally valid, but perhaps not helpful in your case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just do what you feel is right OP. Forum members always have different opinions haha. Both sides equally valid, but perhaps not helpful in your case. "

^^^^ what this lovely lady said, just do what feels right, she might end up been really keen

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By *carlettxCouple
over a year ago

Essex

I've had this a fair bit ... Most recent was my brother !!

That was an awkward 'guess you know my secret' text lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had this a fair bit ... Most recent was my brother !!

That was an awkward 'guess you know my secret' text lmfao

Brother???

Ouch

I suppose u do have a unique look .xx

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancashire

If she is married and a secret swinger then best to leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and don't say anything

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If that happened to me I would block and leave well alone.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawley Down

Send her a message on here, then she can block you if she is not interested.

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By *carlettxCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"I've had this a fair bit ... Most recent was my brother !!

That was an awkward 'guess you know my secret' text lmfao

Brother???

Ouch

I suppose u do have a unique look .xx"

Was a bit awkward especially with pics etc X

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If I recognised someone local, I would certainly not say anything to her in public unless she approached me.

However, if there seemed to be some mutual recognition and even attraction in our chance meeting....I would later write a considered message. If not....well...if they're local you may well bump into them again so exercise some patience.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

Would run a mile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I recognised someone from here, I'd just politely ignore and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you recognise someone should you make yourself known ?

Just recognised a kind of neighbour !

Is it creepy to see Her on here and not be honest ?

Why is it creepy?

By not saying anything, how are you being dishonest exactly? Just simply carry on your fab journey that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would leave the woman alone and dont unnecessarily contact someone just because shes local. Respect her privacy and don't go announcing you recognise her etc.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"When you recognise someone should you make yourself known ?

Just recognised a kind of neighbour !

Is it creepy to see Her on here and not be honest ?

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I respect peoples privacy and would never let anyone know that I have noticed them on here as it is none of my businness.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

My next door but one neighbour messaged me a while ago and it freaked me a little as I would never have recognised him - you can probably guess why he spied me..... We ended up chatting a lot though.

The guy at the end of my road found me ages months ago too - we since met and played cause he's so 'handy'! Haha Again we have become friends too so it's not uncomfortable now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol,

I least they are good pics, and you ain't showing your bits!

N x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found the couple directly opposite on here, with separate profiles stating they were in an open relationship and verifying each other.

I think the female is hot and am in a similar 2 minds situation to OP.

I have played with the couple I bought my house off when they recognised a distinctive feature of the house in one of my photos and have played with a lass I knew from school.

It is tricky and so so easy to get wrong, I have blocked other women and couples I know as I don't want to play with them etc.

Good luck OP!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worst is someone recognised me , and she started playing games ... You know me from school this n that , your brothers names this , etc etc ... I did say tell me who you are but she chose to hide it , which is fair enough , but I felt invaded .. But fuck it ... I'm on the site to have fun , if u WANa , cool , if ya don't ... That's cool too , just piss off like ...

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