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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fat blokes or bbm ... hey now its your turn ladies .... what do you think of big blokes .. a bit larger than usual.. are they sexy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fat blokes or bbm ... hey now its your turn ladies .... what do you think of big blokes .. a bit larger than usual.. are they sexy??"

hmmm good question... I do like a larger guy (hey who don't....lol) I mean hunky/butch/masculine to me sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind either.

personality is what i go for. if someone pisses me off then i wipe my shoe with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh but what about over weight and not gym fit? but great personality and smile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh but what about over weight and not gym fit? but great personality and smile??"

if i get along with someone they could be overweight or thin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think am avg but got called fat before so duno but hope pl like me for bein me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I said ladies to reply lol ... I want a ladies opinion on fat guys... or bbm big beautiful men ... do they do it for you ladies or do you like fit guys???

I aint fit btw and quite fat ... so ladies do fat guys rock yer boat??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no from me! I don't find big men physically attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I work full time have two kids and a husband to deal with... I find time to work out and look after myself so for me a no - if you are not happy with yourself change it! if you are then great!!! does not matter what anyone thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest I work full time have two kids and a husband to deal with... I find time to work out and look after myself so for me a no - if you are not happy with yourself change it! if you are then great!!! does not matter what anyone thinks

I find posts like these annoying and when I answered a similar one on the other thread someone got hold of the wrong end of the stick and didn't understand my response!

Perhaps he'll come on here and respond to this...but I doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find posts like these annoying and when I answered a similar one on the other thread someone got hold of the wrong end of the stick and didn't understand my response!

Perhaps he'll come on here and respond to this...but I doubt it!

Fully agree with you - after reading your posts on quite a few occasions it must be quite an achievement to get hold of the wrong end of the stick with your comments - you are very methodical and honest in your approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once went out with a man whose belly walked into a room before him, put me right off; dont mind a bit of padding but not interested in massively overweight

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

For casual play....no, not interested....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a no from me! I don't find big men physically attractive. "

I would have to agree.. I have met some really nice characters on here.. but I have not played because to play with someone I dont find sexually attactive would not be a good thing.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

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ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

Why be so insulting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

I most definately look after myself.. I go to the gym 5 times a week..and am fitter than over half the size 10s that go to my gym.. now yes I am losing weight but thats for me.. and just because YOU dont like bigger people, does not mean that others dont.. Infact I have had a few people ask me why I am losing weight...

Way to insult people...

I personally like men taller than me, that are average weight... Yes Master does keep himself very fit.. but that certainly wasnt what attracted me to him. :D

Katie. x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Ahh but what about over weight and not gym fit? but great personality and smile??"

see this is where you have to be very careful....

would you call a rugby player overweight... because technically they are.... and gym fit is one of these thing where you tend to assume...

bet ya wouldn't call them fat to there face though........

I play(ed) rugby up to county standard....play(ed )basketball at county level I play(ed) american football up to national and nfl europe level....

the problem with "assumptions" is that they tend to make asses of people.... be that people with six packs who think they are fitter because they have them... or people who think they are just generally "better"

i've shown up more than one person in that category... and sure won't be the last......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

Why be so insulting?"
i well said no one has a right to be rude bbw aint dirty people just everyone cant be the same build .....much sooner go for personality that is sexier than a perfect shape that can fit up thier own rectums

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I prefer the nice and toned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" .....much sooner go for personality that is sexier than a perfect shape that can fit up thier own rectums

That is so true. I wouldn't shag a lean bloke or woman with a vile personality... A fuller figure coupled with an attractive mind is far more appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

oh dear, here you go again with your over used ego,s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

Why be so insulting?"

Oh don't rise to it! If people are unable to put an opinion across without being insulting they are only showing themselves up.

Leave them to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

Way to insult people...

I personally like men taller than me, that are average weight... Yes Master does keep himself very fit.. but that certainly wasnt what attracted me to him. :D

Katie. x"

Why do you feel the need to justify your existance to these people?!! You're a smart lady, don't feed the trolls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

Why be so insulting?

Oh don't rise to it! If people are unable to put an opinion across without being insulting they are only showing themselves up.

Leave them to it!"

I am ashamed Sassy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love tall guys and yes something to get hold of not into skinny guys think I may break them but also two fatties dont go together and sometimes you need to find the willy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are all attracted to different things...or there would be no need for pics!

There will always be those who seek to denigrate others for how they look...be they too large or too small....

(that can mean body size, weight, length or cup size)

Personally I like a well built man and i can be attracted to men that are over weight too.

I am not attracted to men of a very athletic build (generally) simply my preference. Does not mean that others wont like them or that i feel the need to be rude or offensive.

Body shape aside there is NOTHING uglier than someone who insults other for their own amusement or that their IQ is so low they dont see that difference, choice and diversity exist because we are all different.

My biggest turn off is someone who has the iq of a toaster....sadly unlike body shape..that is not always evident initially!!

Vol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

No i dont think so, BBW is used to describe ALL larger ladies not just those that dont look after themselves. The issue is the difference in dress; some ladies know how to dress themselves and I've met a few from here that i would definitely class as hot sexy BBW's even though its not my preference.

And personally i much prefer, as ive said before, a little padding, gives me something to hold onto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deffo big x toned etc is a turnoff 4 me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very very big is a turn off for me. I quite like men like my own guy (and like me to be honest), men with tummies, very sexy. But I wouldnt swing with a guy who was extremely overweight, tummy hanging down lower than his genitals.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

"Very very big is a turn off for me. I quite like men like my own guy (and like me to be honest), men with tummies, very sexy. But I wouldnt swing with a guy who was extremely overweight, tummy hanging down lower than his genitals.

same as me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of meat on a guy its sexy but if its s tgirl i don't. Strange i can't explain it but there you go we all like different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, i like a bit of meat on the bones - like rugby player sized. I would never go for a skinny guy. I am not a skinny woman, so i wouldnt want a man i would be afraid i might break. Needs to be bigger taller and stronger than me. But not obese.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

Way to insult people...

I personally like men taller than me, that are average weight... Yes Master does keep himself very fit.. but that certainly wasnt what attracted me to him. :D

Katie. x

Why do you feel the need to justify your existance to these people?!! You're a smart lady, don't feed the trolls! "

Sorry I blame my pmt. Lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have a penchant for well built tall guys but i have been with all sorts. Went with a very large guy once that isnt usually my natural preference, it kind of suited him and he had a lovely face, one of the best shags ive ever had. Saw him a few times only distance stopped it continuing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A solidly built rugby player, yes.

No to wobbly beer guts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For casual play....no, not interested....

ya see in a scene dominated by women fat lasses can demand younger leaner guys, bbw is a term used for lasses that just dont look after themselves.

its not just men with beer bellies that are a turn off,women with double rolls of fat hanging off thier midrift really cannot be a turn on for anyone

Well I wouldnt say anyone, there are people who like fuller figured girls. In my opinion the larger majority of men like a woman to be shapely. Women who are very skinny and have no shape whatsoever, you know the straight up and down, figures like 12 year old boys types, catwalk models etc, are very androgynous and this might look for size 0 clothes, but its not sexy - thats just my own opinion.

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

Like fit athletic guys, not skinny but toned either slimish or rugby build. They ALSO have to have a great personality, one or the other is not enough. Chemistry is important and hard to predict until meeting but there are a lot of guys on here and you have to select somehow so, if im not attracted to their pictures Im probably just going to waste their time. Pointless. Each to their own. Shouldnt need to apologise for liking fitties, afterall this is all about fantasy for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou for being honest, everyone seems shy to like fit people but bigger people seem to expect everyone to love them ... beyond me ... so thanks for being honest.

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

"Like fit athletic guys, not skinny but toned either slimish or rugby build. They ALSO have to have a great personality, one or the other is not enough. Chemistry is important and hard to predict until meeting but there are a lot of guys on here and you have to select somehow so, if im not attracted to their pictures Im probably just going to waste their time. Pointless. Each to their own. Shouldnt need to apologise for liking fitties, afterall this is all about fantasy for me.

Thankyou for being honest, everyone seems shy to like fit people but bigger people seem to expect everyone to love them ... beyond me ... so thanks for being honest.

How nice to be appreciated, always honest but not always appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankyou for being honest, everyone seems shy to like fit people but bigger people seem to expect everyone to love them ... beyond me ... so thanks for being honest.

you do talk absolute bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am guessing you are large??? why bollocks when someone likes a change?

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

"I am guessing you are large??? why bollocks when someone likes a change?"

spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am guessing you are large??? why bollocks when someone likes a change?

spot on

spot on what?

my "size" is irrelevant. my opinion is that the op talks bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shame your wrong eh?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

ok play nice people.

Also, if you try and get around mail blocks on the forums you might find yourself banned from posting at all.

Please don't put people on the spot if they are using filters/blocking you.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"Ahh but what about over weight and not gym fit? but great personality and smile??

see this is where you have to be very careful....

would you call a rugby player overweight... because technically they are.... and gym fit is one of these thing where you tend to assume..."

I'm with Fabio on this one. The word "fit" has as many interpretations as there are people here. You can have an ironing board stomach and be out of breath after running for the bus. Is that "fit"? And there are guys with above average BMI's who completed the London Marathon last week. Some people would define them as "not" fit

In my younger days I did the officer training course at Sandhurst. You couldn't complete that without being "fit". But fitness comes in different shapes and sizes. Part of the course was the mandatory "Basic Fitness Test" - a 3 mile run which you had to do in a set time frame. Some managed it in about 15 minutes. My time was about 21 minutes. Later in the course we did a night navigation exercise (orienteering by moonlight - basically), and I finished half an hour before some of the whippersnappers that did the 3-mile run in 15 minutes. We were all fit on that course, but you can be fit in different ways.

So make of that what you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the Op has tried to be specific and is not discussing physical fitness or what's inside a person. He's simply asking if women are attracted to the purely visual of a man with a beer belly type of body as opposed to slender or body builder. The women who have answered his question appear to have understood it. It's irrelevant whether or not you can run 10 miles!

If someone gets to know you well enough to know you are physically fit, then chances are they got past the initial attraction issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men of all shapes and sizes really apart from the two extremes of super slim and super large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shame your wrong eh?"

wrong about what?

all ive presented so far is that in my opinion your sweeping generalisations in this and other threads along with your condescending and insulting comments, are bollocks - which isnt a matter of right or wrong but a matter of opinion.

to the original question - having been with women of all shapes and sizes my preference is for the larger woman - i find "fat lasses" sexy to look at and to feel. however, in terms of men, my overall preference to look at and feel is for slim/athletic.

this doesnt mean that i would insult or make assumptions about slim women or big men at all. its a sexual preferecne not a social one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my opinion is that the op talks bollocks."

*agrees*

....and I am a slim lady before the OP makes assumptions (again).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im getting confused now by which sizeist thread ive posted on and what is relevant for each thread - so my comments on both threads are applicable to both threads. Im getting that I cant remember who's posted what on which thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im getting confused now by which sizeist thread ive posted on and what is relevant for each thread - so my comments on both threads are applicable to both threads. Im getting that I cant remember who's posted what on which thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankyou for being honest, everyone seems shy to like fit people but bigger people seem to expect everyone to love them ... beyond me ... so thanks for being honest.

lol this is way way off base and well fine you know it!!

EVERYONE has the right to be accepted for who they are..and EVERYONE has the right to hope that people will like them...regardless of size..be they big or small, tall or short etc..

But by posting that you are deliberately being contentious.. as well fine you know..and if the concept as you put it 'is beyond you'....then i would respectfully suggest you rethink your outlook.

Sweeping generalisations are never a good thing. Attraction preference is one thing..a blatant dislike and lack of respect is something different...as is implying that you somehow need to apologise for your preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm sorry but i find this constant need to discuss body size and shape incredibly boring

we are all different with differnt tastes so why not get over it and get on with having fun????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the constant need to justify one's preferences a tad boring too.

Each to their own at the end of the day, and the world would be a much lesser place if we all act like clones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the constant need to justify one's preferences a tad boring too.

Each to their own at the end of the day, and the world would be a much lesser place if we all act like clones!

*Nods in agreement!*

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By *hropscouple27Couple
over a year ago

Sth Staffs

What is rugby player build? I play rugby and the variation in size is massive.

We have a winger and a scrum half in our team that are under 11 stone and a forward who is 6'9 and 22 stone.

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By *aulasteCouple
over a year ago

halton.....in a room under the stairs!!!

Im a 14 but losing weight so slightly wobbly i excercise (not all the time) as i lose motivation easy,

To be honest i think posting stuff on here is just an excuse to have an arguement, we all like different things and if we didnt it would be boring...put it this way if you where all in a big dark room and having the shag of your life came out and realised it was not what you where after it would be a different story...

Wobbles off back in my little corner x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"What is rugby player build? I play rugby and the variation in size is massive.

We have a winger and a scrum half in our team that are under 11 stone and a forward who is 6'9 and 22 stone.

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il take the latter fankoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is rugby player build? I play rugby and the variation in size is massive.

We have a winger and a scrum half in our team that are under 11 stone and a forward who is 6'9 and 22 stone.

Solidly chunky and fit, that's how I would describe it!

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"...We have a winger and a scrum half in our team that are under 11 stone and a forward who is 6'9 and 22 stone.

Good job the 6'9 forward is 22 stone...if he was only 11 stone like the other guy he's be positively anorexic! There is such a thing as too thin as well...but have you ever seen anyone complain about under-weight or obscenely thin people on here? The discussion is always about what is too large.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm sorry but i find this constant need to discuss body size and shape incredibly boring

we are all different with differnt tastes so why not get over it and get on with having fun????????"

Couldnt have put it better myself, what a bunch of shallow sods you all are, who really cares, you all just sound like a bunch of bloody whingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a bloody borin old life if we all liked the same xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"What is rugby player build? I play rugby and the variation in size is massive.

We have a winger and a scrum half in our team that are under 11 stone and a forward who is 6'9 and 22 stone.

see this is the point I was making... if someone saw me coming down the street, they would probably think I was a back row forward because of the size... but being blessed with speed i played Inside Centre and Wing in Union.... Or Centre, Wing or Full Back in League.....

the problem is that a lot of people will confuse being either slim or having the "mythical" six pack for being fit....

anaestically pleasing.. sure....

huge assumption.. absolutely....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you got a really lovely big man and had a 10/11 cock on offer I sure loads would love it. In the passed i have come across one or two very big men tall with big hands big all over ...... One was 6ft8 22 stone hands as big a plates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the problem is that a lot of people will confuse being either slim or having the "mythical" six pack for being fit....

Went to watch the London Marathon last week. At the back, around the 5 1/2-6 hour mark were a hell of a lot of people with great gym bodies. Clearly carrying little excess weight but aerobically very unfit.

As a cyclist and runner I am lean, erring towards skinny, some of the muscle guys in my gym hate that I can squat as much as them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i think size doesnt matter slim chubby or overweight if they have a gr8 personality who cares its the person who u like not the size of them, i have slim friends and overweight friends who to me are just them no matter the size, having sex with slim or overweight guys doenst matter either as long as they can use their tool who cares there should be a bbm section just likes theres a bbw section

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

It's a no from me, as I don't find them physically attractive. My ex was 21.5 stone, been there, done it, bought the T-shirt, could write a book and prefer to be able to breathe during sex.

Personal experiences have coloured my judgement, and if that makes me a bad person, so be it. There are other factors that I take into account before I agree to play with someone, but at the end of the day it's my choice - just like everyone else has a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a no from me, as I don't find them physically attractive. My ex was 21.5 stone, been there, done it, bought the T-shirt, could write a book and prefer to be able to breathe during sex.

My ex was similar so i totally agree there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a no from me, as I don't find them physically attractive. My ex was 21.5 stone, been there, done it, bought the T-shirt, could write a book and prefer to be able to breathe during sex.

something in what you say.

must be attraction.

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over a year ago

"personally i think size doesnt matter slim chubby or overweight if they have a gr8 personality who cares its the person who u like not the size of them, i have slim friends and overweight friends who to me are just them no matter the size, having sex with slim or overweight guys doenst matter either as long as they can use their tool who cares there should be a bbm section just likes theres a bbw section "

Size doesn't matter when it comes to my friends any more than the colour of their eyes or their gender. But I don't find women or large men sexually attractive, regardless of how great their personality is. I'd question the honesty of anyone who claimed to find everyone sexually attractive as long as they had a great personality!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

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" I'd question the honesty of anyone who claimed to find everyone sexually attractive as long as they had a great personality!"
There must be something wrong here, i agree with what you said lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"It's a no from me, as I don't find them physically attractive. My ex was 21.5 stone, been there, done it, bought the T-shirt, could write a book and prefer to be able to breathe during sex.

something in what you say.

must be attraction."

there is also another thing that I find interesting...

even knowing all that... there must of been a time being that the person is an ex that all that didn't matter... either that or you saw thru it all and judged that person as an individual....

see... i think you'll find that is all that people ask, rather than using a "stereotype"......

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over a year ago

there is also another thing that I find interesting...

even knowing all that... there must of been a time being that the person is an ex that all that didn't matter... either that or you saw thru it all and judged that person as an individual....

see... i think you'll find that is all that people ask, rather than using a "stereotype"......"

I'm not sure the word 'stereotype' is valid in this context, I don't believe it's correct to class body type as a characteristic and so I think your being unfair by suggesting others are using a stereotype in their decision process for their choice in body type.

Maybe it's unreasonable to ask other people to compromise on any level, especially in an environment based around 'fantasy' and 'no strings' sex. If it doesn't suit someones initial attraction preferences why should they bother to go deeper does it matter to them if they 'judged that person as an individual' beyond the physical attraction?

I think that would be nice in an ideal world, but most people live in the real world.

...........actually, in an ideal world everyone would respect without question each individuals right to excercise their personal choice with regard to who they have sex with. I think we should be ashamed if we ever question a persons personal attraction preferences or try to impose ours.

......oh dear, I'm on the red wine again!

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over a year ago

"It's a no from me, as I don't find them physically attractive. My ex was 21.5 stone, been there, done it, bought the T-shirt, could write a book and prefer to be able to breathe during sex.

something in what you say.

must be attraction.

there is also another thing that I find interesting...

even knowing all that... there must of been a time being that the person is an ex that all that didn't matter... either that or you saw thru it all and judged that person as an individual....

see... i think you'll find that is all that people ask, rather than using a "stereotype"......"

In my case Fabio, lonliness played a huge part in dating an unfit 20st man, yes he wasnt bad looking, yes he was a nice man just incredibly immature and i eventually realised that i just didnt want to go out with him anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there is also another thing that I find interesting...

even knowing all that... there must of been a time being that the person is an ex that all that didn't matter... either that or you saw thru it all and judged that person as an individual....

see... i think you'll find that is all that people ask, rather than using a "stereotype"......"

I was wearing rose-tinted glasses!

Actually, make that blacked out ones!

Joking aside, the fact remains I gave it a go, despite my initial reservation with regard to aesthetics.

In the end, other factors, some more significant that just look and build, came into play, and it fell apart.

Once there is a crack, even if it is a tiny one, it does not take much to break!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I'd question the honesty of anyone who claimed to find everyone sexually attractive as long as they had a great personality!There must be something wrong here, i agree with what you said lol

It had to happen at some point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is also another thing that I find interesting...

even knowing all that... there must of been a time being that the person is an ex that all that didn't matter... either that or you saw thru it all and judged that person as an individual....

see... i think you'll find that is all that people ask, rather than using a "stereotype"......

I think that would be nice in an ideal world, but most people live in the real world.

......oh dear, I'm on the red wine again! "

Red wine works for you: well said...again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be a heavily debated subject, for some because they have a genuine opinion, others as a way to insult the overweight!

We all have a personal preferance, the freedom to choose and have an opinion. great ! It makes us individuals and much more interesting. But to say that women with rolls cant surely be attractive to others is rubbish ! To say they arnt attractive to YOU is fine, your opinion, but you cant speak for others.

Also the inability to grasp the concept that a lady or gent of larger proportion , can not only be attractive but sexy, alluring and a damn good fuck speaks volumes about your mindset.

I would hate to think that a woman or man on here would fuck me just because single fems are thin on the ground. Im not that nieve to realise it happens, but would like to think that the same person would find me attractive in the 'real world'.

So heres a new concept, let the bbw's enjoy the attention of the chasers...the addonisis be adored and everyone inbetween carry on having a damn good time with whoever the hell they share a mutual attraction with.

My mantra, enjoy the bits of me you like and ignore the parts you dont, but ffs dont even dream of asking me to apologise for being me !

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