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who would be up for a page called total time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how many of us have been messed about with idiots that chat away and are wanting to meet then the next thing you know .. they are no longer on the site ?? or single guys pretending to be a couple then when it comes to the meet surprise surprise the wife cant make it ?? we dont have a problem meeting a single guy but why tell lies ? .then you get chatting to someone that does not have a face picture and all is going well . then the face picture comes through and you get back to them saying sorry but you are not our type !! omg then its world war three . you are called the biggest whore on the site .. this could be a great site apart from the weirdos that just want a quick fuck ... rant over

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Report whatever needs reporting and just get on with it. Unfortunately a page of time wasters would be completely up to interpretation and missuse.

If someone is bothering you report and block them.

It will help the site and help you move on from it when you are no longer in contact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are just curious to see how many other normal couples /singles have the same issues.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have similar issues, I think many do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd only need to read the umpty-thousand threads about this subject to realise that it happens often enough and for a 'Name/Shame Page' - Get uses to the idea that it's never gonna happen. Open to abuse and too messy to monitor.

Report anyone who does a No-Show on you - there's a button for that when you report a profile.

Block anyone who messes you about.

Play with the lovely feckers who don't mess about.

Simples.

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By *edsguyMan
over a year ago

south of Bedford

Site has a lot of genuine fabbers

But the time wasters and false profiles can be a bit of a drain!!!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"how many of us have been messed about with idiots that chat away and are wanting to meet then the next thing you know .. they are no longer on the site ?? or single guys pretending to be a couple then when it comes to the meet surprise surprise the wife cant make it ?? we dont have a problem meeting a single guy but why tell lies ? .then you get chatting to someone that does not have a face picture and all is going well . then the face picture comes through and you get back to them saying sorry but you are not our type !! omg then its world war three . you are called the biggest whore on the site .. this could be a great site apart from the weirdos that just want a quick fuck ... rant over"
There is no need to worry about so called time waisters. If you concentrate on good well written profiles of at least fifteen lines , you are unlikely to go wrong.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Seems like you have had loads of timewasters as I see you haven't had a verification since 2014. SallyS

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Seems like you have had loads of timewasters as I see you haven't had a verification since 2014. SallyS"

How would you know when they received their last veri?

The last veri posted is 2014 but that doesn't mean they haven't had any since then, They aren't showing their summary so you really don't know do you.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"how many of us have been messed about with idiots that chat away and are wanting to meet then the next thing you know .. they are no longer on the site ?? or single guys pretending to be a couple then when it comes to the meet surprise surprise the wife cant make it ?? we dont have a problem meeting a single guy but why tell lies ? .then you get chatting to someone that does not have a face picture and all is going well . then the face picture comes through and you get back to them saying sorry but you are not our type !! omg then its world war three . you are called the biggest whore on the site .. this could be a great site apart from the weirdos that just want a quick fuck ... rant over"

Nope sorry..never been in that situation. I choose my victims,I mean meets very carefully lol

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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We've had that problem loads when first joined

So what we do now is If we out on a night we arrange a last minute meet

Seems to work for us..we use to have meets arranged then last minute when asking for details or address off line or no profile so now we get number and less of the yo yo messages

Name and shame would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame would be a mess, and completely pointless. If a message stream isn't looking like it's headed for a meet, and that is your objective then stop messaging or report yourselves for wasting your time. Fakes kind of stand out pretty quickly to my view, when we were meeting from here I am pretty sure we never got past message 3 before spotting them. and abuse can be stopped by simply blocking, if the abuse is reportable then report and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of us have been messed about with idiots that chat away and are wanting to meet then the next thing you know .. they are no longer on the site ?? or single guys pretending to be a couple then when it comes to the meet surprise surprise the wife cant make it ?? we dont have a problem meeting a single guy but why tell lies ? .then you get chatting to someone that does not have a face picture and all is going well . then the face picture comes through and you get back to them saying sorry but you are not our type !! omg then its world war three . you are called the biggest whore on the site .. this could be a great site apart from the weirdos that just want a quick fuck ... rant over"

1) don't message people without face photos if looks are important to you. People are bound to be upset if they send you a photo and you go " yuek no" that's because people have feelings.

2) if you decide you don't want to meet after chatting a bit, people might think you are fake and your just a man

3) block, report, move on..if you get abusive messages....

4) why are people who want a quick fuck weirdos?? Surely that's a big part of the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, there should not be a page for time wasters, that would be wide open to abuse. Define a time waster anyway! X

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"how many of us have been messed about with idiots that chat away and are wanting to meet then the next thing you know .. they are no longer on the site ?? or single guys pretending to be a couple then when it comes to the meet surprise surprise the wife cant make it ?? we dont have a problem meeting a single guy but why tell lies ? .then you get chatting to someone that does not have a face picture and all is going well . then the face picture comes through and you get back to them saying sorry but you are not our type !! omg then its world war three . you are called the biggest whore on the site .. this could be a great site apart from the weirdos that just want a quick fuck ... rant over

1) don't message people without face photos if looks are important to you. People are bound to be upset if they send you a photo and you go " yuek no" that's because people have feelings.

2) if you decide you don't want to meet after chatting a bit, people might think you are fake and your just a man

3) block, report, move on..if you get abusive messages....

4) why are people who want a quick fuck weirdos?? Surely that's a big part of the site?"

up for the common sense talk .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I get my 5 a day,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so you report a no show ...what on hell do you expect admin or mods to do ?? they are not miracle workers after all the site gives you the TOOLS to meet nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of us have been messed about with idiots that chat away and are wanting to meet then the next thing you know .. they are no longer on the site ?? or single guys pretending to be a couple then when it comes to the meet surprise surprise the wife cant make it ?? we dont have a problem meeting a single guy but why tell lies ? .then you get chatting to someone that does not have a face picture and all is going well . then the face picture comes through and you get back to them saying sorry but you are not our type !! omg then its world war three . you are called the biggest whore on the site .. this could be a great site apart from the weirdos that just want a quick fuck ... rant over

1) don't message people without face photos if looks are important to you. People are bound to be upset if they send you a photo and you go " yuek no" that's because people have feelings.

2) if you decide you don't want to meet after chatting a bit, people might think you are fake and your just a man

3) block, report, move on..if you get abusive messages....

4) why are people who want a quick fuck weirdos?? Surely that's a big part of the site?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many bullshitters on here and hypocrites!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Too many bullshitters on here and hypocrites!"

sorry to see you thinking that way there really are some lovely people here in my experience I've even met a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many bullshitters on here and hypocrites!"

Absolutely right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of us have been messed about with idiots that chat away and are wanting to meet then the next thing you know .. they are no longer on the site ?? or single guys pretending to be a couple then when it comes to the meet surprise surprise the wife cant make it ?? we dont have a problem meeting a single guy but why tell lies ? .then you get chatting to someone that does not have a face picture and all is going well . then the face picture comes through and you get back to them saying sorry but you are not our type !! omg then its world war three . you are called the biggest whore on the site .. this could be a great site apart from the weirdos that just want a quick fuck ... rant over"

Glad you recognise you might be having a rant. It certainly comes across to me as if its a rant. It's good to let some steam off and express what's on your mind though. And yes I do agree it's fucking frustering on here sometimes. I was chatting to a couple on here quite nicely then decided they could not meet me because I don't drive..... Err, did they not hear about taxi's! Frusterating!

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