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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello,

I've posted a few meets and never had any responses or interest. I have one up for tomorrow night and I am deadly serious about doing it, however it seems like people just assumed guys who post meets are "at it". Is this the case? Is it basically pointless me posting a meet?

Also, if anyone in London is interested, I absolutely want that meet to happen, so please get in touch if it interests you.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Your profile is the key to getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would would seem your not alone in this responses we get are only for others with little or no respect lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is the key to getting meets "

I totally get that, although it does seem like males in general just find it impossible to get any kind of response on this site. All I can say is that my profile is as accurate as I can make it, if that doesn't work well then I'm out of luck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes people meet, including single makes. However women will of course be able to be more fussy about whom they decide to meet with.

They do this by looking at profiles and deciding whether they find them attractive or not, just the same as when you message someone first time, if it's not attractive to them they will not answer a meet now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes people meet, including single makes. However women will of course be able to be more fussy about whom they decide to meet with.

They do this by looking at profiles and deciding whether they find them attractive or not, just the same as when you message someone first time, if it's not attractive to them they will not answer a meet now

"

Haha as far as I can tell, it's polar opposites!! Men get almost nothing while women get absolutely inundated. Crazy lol!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Your profile is the key to getting meets "

You made me look

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes people meet, including single makes. However women will of course be able to be more fussy about whom they decide to meet with.

They do this by looking at profiles and deciding whether they find them attractive or not, just the same as when you message someone first time, if it's not attractive to them they will not answer a meet now

Haha as far as I can tell, it's polar opposites!! Men get almost nothing while women get absolutely inundated. Crazy lol! "

You mean you get nothing, there are plenty of women on fab who do the searching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes people meet, including single makes. However women will of course be able to be more fussy about whom they decide to meet with.

They do this by looking at profiles and deciding whether they find them attractive or not, just the same as when you message someone first time, if it's not attractive to them they will not answer a meet now

Haha as far as I can tell, it's polar opposites!! Men get almost nothing while women get absolutely inundated. Crazy lol!

You mean you get nothing, there are plenty of women on fab who do the searching."

I guess so, I wasn't trying to step on anyone's toes!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Sorry but your pic would put me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but your pic would put me off "

Good to know, thanks for the feedback. Someone else said the same thing, so I'll make it a friend pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but your pic would put me off "

Yeh me too

Get some sexy, well shot, black and white photos in, you don't have to show your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but your pic would put me off

Yeh me too

Get some sexy, well shot, black and white photos in, you don't have to show your face"

I'll try to do this soon, thank you for the feedback, I appreaciate it! The offending pic has been made friends only lol.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Sorry but your pic would put me off

Yeh me too

Get some sexy, well shot, black and white photos in, you don't have to show your face"

Agree with this

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Sorry but your pic would put me off

Yeh me too

Get some sexy, well shot, black and white photos in, you don't have to show your face

I'll try to do this soon, thank you for the feedback, I appreaciate it! The offending pic has been made friends only lol. "

Well done you for taking advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but your pic would put me off

Yeh me too

Get some sexy, well shot, black and white photos in, you don't have to show your face

I'll try to do this soon, thank you for the feedback, I appreaciate it! The offending pic has been made friends only lol.

Well done you for taking advice "

Haha, is that not a common occurence or something?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Sorry but your pic would put me off

Yeh me too

Get some sexy, well shot, black and white photos in, you don't have to show your face

I'll try to do this soon, thank you for the feedback, I appreaciate it! The offending pic has been made friends only lol.

Well done you for taking advice

Haha, is that not a common occurence or something? "

Not on here it isn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes people meet, including single makes. However women will of course be able to be more fussy about whom they decide to meet with.

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Woman are not able to be more fussy. They are just fussy. As are men.

If women had the natural instinct to 'hunt' (sorry) then men's in boxes would be full, and they would then bevable to cherry pick. They wouldn't then be 'more fussy' than they already are. Am I getting across what I'm trying to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

I've posted a few meets and never had any responses or interest. I have one up for tomorrow night and I am deadly serious about doing it, however it seems like people just assumed guys who post meets are "at it". Is this the case? Is it basically pointless me posting a meet?

Also, if anyone in London is interested, I absolutely want that meet to happen, so please get in touch if it interests you."

Congratulations for the honesty in your profile. What you are looking for is pretty niche on a swingers site so your chances are slimmer - but I am sure someone out there will be interested.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

To be honest if there were two meets advertised one from a Virgin and one from a guy with more experience I'd choose the guy with more experience, as its not much fun having to teach someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest if there were two meets advertised one from a Virgin and one from a guy with more experience I'd choose the guy with more experience, as its not much fun having to teach someone "

Fair enough; I totally understand that. Who knows though? Maybe someone out there is turned on by the thought of being a first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found slightly more people view my profile when I have meets up. I've had one or two offers from couples in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest if ....

Fair enough; I totally understand that. Who knows though? Maybe someone out there is turned on by the thought of being a first "

If an 21 yr old girl posted this, this would have been (closed thread too many posts).

It's also very easy to say your a virgin, single/vwe etc. None of these statements will get you a meet.

But don't listen to a word I say. Be yourself, you'll soon get laid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest if ....

Fair enough; I totally understand that. Who knows though? Maybe someone out there is turned on by the thought of being a first

If an 21 yr old girl posted this, this would have been (closed thread too many posts).

It's also very easy to say your a virgin, single/vwe etc. None of these statements will get you a meet.

But don't listen to a word I say. Be yourself, you'll soon get laid. "

Hahaha yeah I think if that was the case; it woul be the most popular thread on the site!!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"To be honest if ....

Fair enough; I totally understand that. Who knows though? Maybe someone out there is turned on by the thought of being a first

If an 21 yr old girl posted this, this would have been (closed thread too many posts).

It's also very easy to say your a virgin, single/vwe etc. None of these statements will get you a meet.

But don't listen to a word I say. Be yourself, you'll soon get laid. "

Yea but a virginal woman would still have a nice wet hole to make use of and to some guys that's all that would matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest if ....

Fair enough; I totally understand that. Who knows though? Maybe someone out there is turned on by the thought of being a first

If an 21 yr old girl posted this, this would have been (closed thread too many posts).

It's also very easy to say your a virgin, single/vwe etc. None of these statements will get you a meet.

But don't listen to a word I say. Be yourself, you'll soon get laid.

Yea but a virginal woman would still have a nice wet hole to make use of and to some guys that's all that would matter "

I honestly think some guys on here don't even care who they're meeting. They'll fuck anyone and anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak for yourself, I am incredibly fussy.

Your current avatar is not going to attract much interest women need some clues to looks, and an enticing profile as well.

Virginity is a difficult selling point, may suit you better on a religious dating site here it's more of a mill stone.

But good luck, persistence is the key in life. I think on here men over 30 are probably more in demand, and you are heading towards that category, so it's all improving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a single bloke so that's a difficult starting point then add your virginity into the mix and the number of people looking for you is down to around zero that doesn't mean you won't get a meet off here it just means it's on you to make it happen, put yourself out there and keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve got a meet request up for Thursday morning, afternoon or evening, only 1 response so far. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,'ve got a meet request up for Thursday morning, afternoon or evening, only 1 response so far. X"

That's surprising

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

Loads of sound advice on here, and I would echo the "get some more diverse and tastefully filtered pictures" comments. It's so easy to do.

J

PS I would add I think you have spelt where you live and your username wrong - Edgware not Edgeware. Think of it like the British Cycling Team with lots of small marginal gains you might win. It might just be your luck that the gorgeous woman looking to bag herself a virgin in central London is a stickler for spelling.

PPS This is not a bashing poor spelling and grammar post, just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to manage expectations, I would be amazed if there is a woman on Fab who would be interested in having sex with a virgin. I think there are probably easier ways of getting sexual experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, just out of curiosity, why did you choose to sign up to a swingers site?

Wouldnt it be easier to meet a lady out in the real world?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"To be honest if there were two meets advertised one from a Virgin and one from a guy with more experience I'd choose the guy with more experience, as its not much fun having to teach someone

Fair enough; I totally understand that. Who knows though? Maybe someone out there is turned on by the thought of being a first "

Why do you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest if there were two meets advertised one from a Virgin and one from a guy with more experience I'd choose the guy with more experience, as its not much fun having to teach someone

Fair enough; I totally understand that. Who knows though? Maybe someone out there is turned on by the thought of being a first

Why do you think that?"

I have had the pleasure of taking a guy's anal virginity on a number of occasions and I found that an added excitement........

However I dont think OP is looking for that, lol

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I'm all for being inclusive, so by all means stay and enjoy.

However swingers tend to be sexually active people. They want new experiences. Teaching someone about sex does not sound like a huge amount of fun.

Just my opinion though.

As always it's a numbers game. It gets said time and time again but single men are the most populous set of profiles on here whilst being one of the least sought set of profiles.

That also means a huge Supply and demand unbalanced.

If single men were oil the price would have dropped to $1 per barrel.

So it's always going to be a tough market to crack. Although I'm not sure if tinder or plenty of fish have any better odds.

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By *ive it to usCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Why don't you try a club to get you started.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks very much for all the great advice, there's too many posts to quote individually lol! Thank you for taking the time to respond

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