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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im seeing a lady and her husband is happy for her to see me, we have had sex in the house whilst he is downstairs an sometimes listens to us fucking, they have a good sex life but im just curious is he a cuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but don't assume that means he like humiliation. Cuckolds are split roughly 50:50 between those who like humiliation and those who enjoy a 'hot wife' scenario

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry i dont understand the hot wife scenario thing....im pretty new to all this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry i dont understand the hot wife scenario thing....im pretty new to all this "

In the hot wife scenario, the man is primarily enjoying the fact that other people desire his wife.

This is not really any different to a feeling of pride when people compliment you on a nice car etc. The husband may even feel that sharing the wife gives him a sense of power over the other male since the other male cannot repeat the pleasurable experience without his consent.

The cuckold derives his pleasure from the relaxation experienced whilst being dominated by someone who has power over them. They might be someone with a very high pressured lifestyle who gets a lot of pleasure from not needing to think whilst their free will is restricted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play in the 'Hotwife' scenario. My other half loves watching and joining in whilst another guy plays with me and films so he can watch later. He also likes me to have one on ones and call him whilst it happens and film for him to watch later . It turns him on to see another guy desire /want me and to know that he gets me all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhhh i understand

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Fab explanation, been trying to put it into words how our swinging lifestyle is! The hot wife description is perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry i dont understand the hot wife scenario thing....im pretty new to all this

In the hot wife scenario, the man is primarily enjoying the fact that other people desire his wife.

This is not really any different to a feeling of pride when people compliment you on a nice car etc. The husband may even feel that sharing the wife gives him a sense of power over the other male since the other male cannot repeat the pleasurable experience without his consent.

The cuckold derives his pleasure from the relaxation experienced whilst being dominated by someone who has power over them. They might be someone with a very high pressured lifestyle who gets a lot of pleasure from not needing to think whilst their free will is restricted. "

That is so perfectly put!

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By *antasticMrsFoxMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Very well put for the hot wifing we are doing this tomorrow can't bloody wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very well put for the hot wifing we are doing this tomorrow can't bloody wait "

And what a hot, hot wife she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very well put for the hot wifing we are doing this tomorrow can't bloody wait

And what a hot, hot wife she is"

Touché, but one could say the same about your hot wife too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im seeing a lady and her husband is happy for her to see me, we have had sex in the house whilst he is downstairs an sometimes listens to us fucking, they have a good sex life but im just curious is he a cuck? "

I have this same relationship with my hubby and lovers. I don't consider him to be a cuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say hes a cuck. My partner would love me to do something like that but is most definitely not cuck...

Some people just like to do different things..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab explanation, been trying to put it into words how our swinging lifestyle is! The hot wife description is perfect!"

And your wife is extremely hot! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LittlemisCal I'd willingly oblige for your man! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubby likes this too.........we consider it voyueristic he`s certainly not cuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LittlemisCal I'd willingly oblige for your man! Xx"
i said he would love it. Not that i want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im the only lover she has besides her husband, shes been with him since teenagers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my hubby likes this too.........we consider it voyueristic he`s certainly not cuck"

She doesnt like it when he watches....

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


"my hubby likes this too.........we consider it voyueristic he`s certainly not cuck"

I think people assume being a cuck is a sign of weakness, but I've been with several cuckold couples and the man has never been a weak character. As you say, watching your wife with another man is live porn in your bedroom/kitchen/car and a turn on for these lovely couples. Thank god...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sharing Mrs m but no way am I a cuck. I get pleasure knowing she's having fun and tells me all about it after

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By *avid and juneCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We have been cuckolding for a long time, and it has evolved more into the humiliation side. We both enjoy it very much. Just a game, not to be taken too seriously.

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By *iiich3TV/TS
over a year ago

swansea


"We have been cuckolding for a long time, and it has evolved more into the humiliation side. We both enjoy it very much. Just a game, not to be taken too seriously."
Perfect explanation...just adult playtime using your imagination and mind first!!!!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

This is not really any different to a feeling of pride when people compliment you on a nice car etc. The husband may even feel that sharing the wife gives him a sense of power over the other male since the other male cannot repeat the pleasurable experience without his consent.

this is oh so true with some and something that some choose to ignore or do not realise about some who enjoy the hot wife dynamic .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not really any different to a feeling of pride when people compliment you on a nice car etc. The husband may even feel that sharing the wife gives him a sense of power over the other male since the other male cannot repeat the pleasurable experience without his consent.

this is oh so true with some and something that some choose to ignore or do not realise about some who enjoy the hot wife dynamic ."

Not sure many women like being compared to a car lol

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"This is not really any different to a feeling of pride when people compliment you on a nice car etc. The husband may even feel that sharing the wife gives him a sense of power over the other male since the other male cannot repeat the pleasurable experience without his consent.

this is oh so true with some and something that some choose to ignore or do not realise about some who enjoy the hot wife dynamic .

Not sure many women like being compared to a car lol"

don't be silly the original OP was not comparing women or a hot wife to a car in the literal sense . they were comparing the feeling of having something others desire and want using a dream car as a example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not really any different to a feeling of pride when people compliment you on a nice car etc. The husband may even feel that sharing the wife gives him a sense of power over the other male since the other male cannot repeat the pleasurable experience without his consent.

this is oh so true with some and something that some choose to ignore or do not realise about some who enjoy the hot wife dynamic .

Not sure many women like being compared to a car lol

don't be silly the original OP was not comparing women or a hot wife to a car in the literal sense . they were comparing the feeling of having something others desire and want using a dream car as a example. "
i never mentioned op, you made the comparison lol

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By *anm2009Man
over a year ago

Barrow-in-Furness

I have been watching my gf for over 12 months now mainly at Chams in the Midlands and we both derive enormous pleasure out of that but recently I have listened in while I was miles away as she was being fucked and the most exciting was a scene where she was in a hotel room with a guy and they FaceTime ed me as I was a 100 yards away in a downstairs car park before I joined them so I'm def in the "hot wife" camp I think x

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


" the most exciting was a scene where she was in a hotel room with a guy and they FaceTime ed me as I was a 100 yards away in a downstairs car park before I joined them so I'm def in the "hot wife" camp I think x"

Hah - I suggested this to another husband only recently and he loved it too!

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin

Hotwifing suits us a great adventure as and when we decide we need one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love my gf to start the hotwife fantasy. She deserves a good time with some new lovers.

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

We love this sort of fun too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry i dont understand the hot wife scenario thing....im pretty new to all this

In the hot wife scenario, the man is primarily enjoying the fact that other people desire his wife.

This is not really any different to a feeling of pride when people compliment you on a nice car etc. The husband may even feel that sharing the wife gives him a sense of power over the other male since the other male cannot repeat the pleasurable experience without his consent.

The cuckold derives his pleasure from the relaxation experienced whilst being dominated by someone who has power over them. They might be someone with a very high pressured lifestyle who gets a lot of pleasure from not needing to think whilst their free will is restricted. "

Very good description and has certainly made me realise exactly what my role is in the swinging lifestyle.

A rude awakening maybe or reality check?

Or are we doing exactly what we are supposed to be doing?

Been swinging 3 and a half years.

Had quite a few meets.

Number of guy's Jools has played with, errr a few

Definitely into double figures.

Number of women I have actually touched apart from Jools.

Zero!

So the realisation that despite my denial, I am actually a cuck.

Think I have fooled myself that somehow I am in control, actually I am not.

But here is the thing.

I like it, I enjoy watching Jools with other's, and her playing alone.

Hearing all about it.

Some deluded egotistical notion that I am in charge.

Most definitely not.

We do it together, discus everything and we both have to be happy with prospective playmates.

So it's not like she is manipulating me.

Its of our own free will.

I would like however to get more involved and feel that feeling of excitement when with a new person.

But the voyeur inside me is strong and the enjoyment I get from watching Jools getting taken outweighs my desire to be with others.

I love Jools deeply and tbh find her so sexy and beautiful.

Hopefully this makes sense to some?

Please don't worry that I am unhappy as writing this has made me realise that I am probably exactly where I want to be.

The most important thing about swinging with your partner is that you are both happy with the situation and not doing anything that you don't want to do.

We talk everything over.

Yes there is a bit of envy on my side like I said that feeling of excitement.

What I would say is that mostly I don't just sit back and watch. I try when possible to get actively involved and enjoy playing with jools as much as the others do.

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


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Hopefully this makes sense to some? "

That's a really thoughtful and insightful post. I see the interaction from the other side so thanks for helping me understand it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry i dont understand the hot wife scenario thing....im pretty new to all this

In the hot wife scenario, the man is primarily enjoying the fact that other people desire his wife.

This is not really any different to a feeling of pride when people compliment you on a nice car etc. The husband may even feel that sharing the wife gives him a sense of power over the other male since the other male cannot repeat the pleasurable experience without his consent.

The cuckold derives his pleasure from the relaxation experienced whilst being dominated by someone who has power over them. They might be someone with a very high pressured lifestyle who gets a lot of pleasure from not needing to think whilst their free will is restricted.

Very good description and has certainly made me realise exactly what my role is in the swinging lifestyle.

A rude awakening maybe or reality check?

Or are we doing exactly what we are supposed to be doing?

Been swinging 3 and a half years.

Had quite a few meets.

Number of guy's Jools has played with, errr a few

Definitely into double figures.

Number of women I have actually touched apart from Jools.

Zero!

So the realisation that despite my denial, I am actually a cuck.

Think I have fooled myself that somehow I am in control, actually I am not.

But here is the thing.

I like it, I enjoy watching Jools with other's, and her playing alone.

Hearing all about it.

Some deluded egotistical notion that I am in charge.

Most definitely not.

We do it together, discus everything and we both have to be happy with prospective playmates.

So it's not like she is manipulating me.

Its of our own free will.

I would like however to get more involved and feel that feeling of excitement when with a new person.

But the voyeur inside me is strong and the enjoyment I get from watching Jools getting taken outweighs my desire to be with others.

I love Jools deeply and tbh find her so sexy and beautiful.

Hopefully this makes sense to some?

Please don't worry that I am unhappy as writing this has made me realise that I am probably exactly where I want to be.

The most important thing about swinging with your partner is that you are both happy with the situation and not doing anything that you don't want to do.

We talk everything over.

Yes there is a bit of envy on my side like I said that feeling of excitement.

What I would say is that mostly I don't just sit back and watch. I try when possible to get actively involved and enjoy playing with jools as much as the others do. "

Two things, one the average cuckold is above average intelligence. Two, in a study of cuckolds; the half that said they didn't enjoy humiliation often said that their relationship was like having a "personal pornstar" as their wife. Every man that isn't a liar watches porn so it's not so difficult to understand the leap to having a personal, real life performance for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes but don't assume that means he like humiliation. Cuckolds are split roughly 50:50 between those who like humiliation and those who enjoy a 'hot wife' scenario "

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Yes but don't assume that means he like humiliation. Cuckolds are split roughly 50:50 between those who like humiliation and those who enjoy a 'hot wife' scenario

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it rare that in my experience that a hubby likes humilation. Only happened once for me - and in that case - it was the Hotwife doing the talking. But again that's my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are currently trying the hotwife scenarios and the Mr (cuck) is loving being humiliated it's our first proper experience in cuckolding an look forward to pushing him (cuck) more

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I wouldn't say I was a cuck but I would like to see A being fuckedx

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Or he is too scared to get a divorce and is upstairs crying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're considering this...but not sure the humiliation part so much..

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"We're considering this...but not sure the humiliation part so much.. "

It's a very horny thing to do....have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby adores me doing this xx I've got a meet next week but he don't know what the date is ... I'm going to surprise him when I call him up xx

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Over my years on the scene I've never come across one cuck cpl who've wanted 'humiliation'. It's simply the bull/lover/fb and the sexy female with the cuck sometimes right there watching/working a camera etc, in the next room listening or downstairs, if present at all.

For certain I've never met a couple who want the hubby, humiliated, shamed, belittled or whatever fantasist dreams suggest cuckolding is about. The verbal that goes on between the guy and the wife/gf as the hub watches on can vary but it's not really humiliation. It's usually about the virility, ability of the guy she's or what & how she's feeling whilst being taken.

A couple can have many reasons for cuckold but most just want the their required type of guy for the obvious within their wants & rules.

I've always understood cuckold in description to be allowing another male to lay in your nest so to speak. Hence the couple allowing, wanting other males to claim & spoil the female as required be it one of guys or a select regular.

I'm sure some numbers go for humiliation but on the whole it's something I've only ever read about in material put out from fantasy land.

Regardless its quite something to be involved in and a massive buzz when the right guy and right couple get together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or he is too scared to get a divorce and is upstairs crying "

Lol, I think it's all a load of nonsense, people in failing relationship's , trying to make it look sexy. Why would you want to watch someone you love, having sex with someone else, just doesn't make sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or he is too scared to get a divorce and is upstairs crying

Lol, I think it's all a load of nonsense, people in failing relationship's , trying to make it look sexy. Why would you want to watch someone you love, having sex with someone else, just doesn't make sense. "

It's more to do with the fact itshorny me and hubby have more fun now that we ever have lol this is a swinging site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or he is too scared to get a divorce and is upstairs crying

Lol, I think it's all a load of nonsense, people in failing relationship's , trying to make it look sexy. Why would you want to watch someone you love, having sex with someone else, just doesn't make sense. "

It doesn't if you are ignorant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or he is too scared to get a divorce and is upstairs crying

Lol, I think it's all a load of nonsense, people in failing relationship's , trying to make it look sexy. Why would you want to watch someone you love, having sex with someone else, just doesn't make sense.

It's more to do with the fact itshorny me and hubby have more fun now that we ever have lol this is a swinging site x"

Yes I know that, I'm on here as single, so different view points obviously. But just saying the couples I have come across since been on the scene, are not as strong as they make out on the many profiles here.

Perhaps I've met the wrong ones, but if I was in a relationship, it would have to be exclusive for me to truly love that man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or he is too scared to get a divorce and is upstairs crying

Lol, I think it's all a load of nonsense, people in failing relationship's , trying to make it look sexy. Why would you want to watch someone you love, having sex with someone else, just doesn't make sense.

It doesn't if you are ignorant..."

Or visa versa lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or he is too scared to get a divorce and is upstairs crying

Lol, I think it's all a load of nonsense, people in failing relationship's , trying to make it look sexy. Why would you want to watch someone you love, having sex with someone else, just doesn't make sense.

It doesn't if you are ignorant...

Or visa versa lol. "

Whilst it's possible the entire fields of evolutionary psychology, biology and sociology are wrong. The probability is that you just haven't researched them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or he is too scared to get a divorce and is upstairs crying

Lol, I think it's all a load of nonsense, people in failing relationship's , trying to make it look sexy. Why would you want to watch someone you love, having sex with someone else, just doesn't make sense.

It doesn't if you are ignorant...

Or visa versa lol. "

Well let's hope you find the man your after ... Doubt you'll find it on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot wiring and cuckold are quite different things....as well described by the second poster...in their second post. The owner of the hot wife has a sense of power and a sense of pride.

A cuckold has a sense of powerlessness or shame....totally opposite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To respond to _male....there are a good proportion of true cucks out their. Ones that DO seek humiliation of the cuck. Sometimes by the "bull"(horrible word I find) but more often by the wife/partner.

I could describe several scenarios of various humiliating scenes. The thing to really remember tho is that the "bull" is doing a service for the couple. He plays to their rules. The problem is the number of dim doms who think they know what being a bull is....and confuse it with being a Dom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst it's possible the entire fields of evolutionary psychology, biology and sociology are wrong. The probability is that you just haven't researched them. "

I haven't even looked at your pictures, but you are 100% more attractive to me, what a take down.

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