FabSwingers.com forum: Question....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do some people chat then suddenly ignore you?? POF is the same....I thought people on here were a lot friendlier but some just spoil that vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some people chat then suddenly ignore you?? POF is the same....I thought people on here were a lot friendlier but some just spoil that vibe.

Happens to be all the time!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

I have met up with more Women on POF too. I don't understand as on here everyone knows what they are here for.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

I have met up with more Women on POF too. I don't understand as on here everyone knows what they are here for."

What is pof?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

I have met up with more Women on POF too. I don't understand as on here everyone knows what they are here for.

What is pof?"

Plenty Of Fish - Dating Website

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc "

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

I have met up with more Women on POF too. I don't understand as on here everyone knows what they are here for.

Is there a sex part to the site?

What is pof?

Plenty Of Fish - Dating Website "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all the same just pof woman pretend to want relationships pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

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Pictures ? you don't want much op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

I have met up with more Women on POF too. I don't understand as on here everyone knows what they are here for.

Is there a sex part to the site?

What is pof?

Plenty Of Fish - Dating Website "

No, sometimes if women say they want casual dating/no commitment but that doesn't always mean they are looking for sex.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

Fakes, never trust a blank profile, probably men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

Pictures ? you don't want much op

I think it's always nice to see who you are talking to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

Pictures ? you don't want much op

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pictures nah more likely to get a peek in your knicker draw than a picture ffs the cheek of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

Fakes, never trust a blank profile, probably men "

If it is men, why would they do that? I wouldn't ever want anyone to think I was a woman. Why would they want to?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Why do some people chat then suddenly ignore you?? POF is the same....I thought people on here were a lot friendlier but some just spoil that vibe.

I think we have all had conversations that lead nowhere op,it happens on here.Maybe they their mind ,or as someone else said they were put off by something.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do some people chat then suddenly ignore you?? POF is the same....I thought people on here were a lot friendlier but some just spoil that vibe.

I think we have all had conversations that lead nowhere op,it happens on here.Maybe they their mind ,or as someone else said they were put off by something.

Miss"

Thanks Miss. You guys are all so lovely and reassuring

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

Fakes, never trust a blank profile, probably men

If it is men, why would they do that? I wouldn't ever want anyone to think I was a woman. Why would they want to? "

I don't know why they do it but they do, maybe they're closeted and use it as a way to chat to a guy without taking it further

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have noticed on Fabguys that people message the second you're on, it is like their life depends on sex and the need to chat with rubbish 'hi how are you this morning'. That is because many are married and doing their bi meets with limited time and expect you to jump

I think that may be a factor here for some of the females and they find it easier to ignore them.

only maybe and not a pop at married people

just what I have experienced since using Fabguys a month ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

clarification: females may experience messages being sent the second they are on, not sending the messages

before the outrage

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

I have met up with more Women on POF too. I don't understand as on here everyone knows what they are here for."
what am i here for and i resent that former insinuation that 'we use it' whats that supposed to mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

I have met up with more Women on POF too. I don't understand as on here everyone knows what they are here for."

I doubt I'm here for the same as a lot of people... I'm here for something more specific and for that I'm happy to take my time.

Just a thought against your sweeping comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are here to fuck every single guy who sends them a message aren't they? Common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

I have met up with more Women on POF too. I don't understand as on here everyone knows what they are here for.what am i here for and i resent that former insinuation that 'we use it' whats that supposed to mean?"

We are here to swing I think the gentleman means . Nsa fun .

And my quote about " they use it " because some ladies on here do use the fact there a precious commodity.

On other sites where the numbers are equal the ladies actually message the guys .. They have to put a bit of work in too

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Why do some people chat then suddenly ignore you?? POF is the same....I thought people on here were a lot friendlier but some just spoil that vibe.

it takes two to hold a conversation op those who go quite on you have decided the conversation is over from there side.

so with that one should just move on with no malice or ill will in ones heart towards those who no longer wish to chat because by doing what they have done it frees ones time up to chat with those who wish to chat with you .

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

We are here to swing I think the gentleman means . Nsa fun .

And my quote about " they use it " because some ladies on here do use the fact there a precious commodity.

On other sites where the numbers are equal the ladies actually message the guys .. They have to put a bit of work in too"

I never message guys

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

We are here to swing I think the gentleman means . Nsa fun .

And my quote about " they use it " because some ladies on here do use the fact there a precious commodity.

On other sites where the numbers are equal the ladies actually message the guys .. They have to put a bit of work in too"
i am poly i never 'just fuck' so wrong on the we are all here to NSA fuck..its not a sex sex, instashag its a swingers site..and although many people use it for many different things, non monogomous relationships (including the social side of things) is in the majority..

as for the i am a precious commodity, that also pertains to your misunderstanding that we are not all here to open our legs/ mouths or arses to just anyone..yes i am a valuable person not a piece of meat and neither are any of the other women here...some guys get that, and some guys dont..i trust you 'learn' that rather rapidly or you will be classed as 'avoidable'...if that's using my 'upper hand' you created that with your attitude. and i dont mind being classed as having used it on many occasions,if that is the case...maybe you have women issues you just need to deal with...good luck with that.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have noticed on Fabguys that people message the second you're on, it is like their life depends on sex and the need to chat with rubbish 'hi how are you this morning'. That is because many are married and doing their bi meets with limited time and expect you to jump

I think that may be a factor here for some of the females and they find it easier to ignore them.

only maybe and not a pop at married people

just what I have experienced since using Fabguys a month ago"
Leave Keith Vaz out of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found quite the opposite, I've spoke to much more people on here than on pof, and the women on here are much more friendlier

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

Those will be the men pretending to be women

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I've found quite the opposite, I've spoke to much more people on here than on pof, and the women on here are much more friendlier

The men are hotter too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you need to accept people have the right to change their minds it's human nature and you can't change that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it happening after anything specific? I'll stop talking to someone if they are generally being too cocky or doing things I specifically ask them not to etc

No, just chat then after asking if they have any pictures. Blank profiles usually!

Those will be the men pretending to be women

Why though??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found quite the opposite, I've spoke to much more people on here than on pof, and the women on here are much more friendlier

The men are hotter too

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how hot am I lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've found quite the opposite, I've spoke to much more people on here than on pof, and the women on here are much more friendlier

The men are hotter too

how hot am I lol x"

Tepid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found quite the opposite, I've spoke to much more people on here than on pof, and the women on here are much more friendlier

The men are hotter too

Oh the women in here are much hotter than pof too, and the privilege of the X-rated photos is just freakin amaze balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

We are here to swing I think the gentleman means . Nsa fun .

And my quote about " they use it " because some ladies on here do use the fact there a precious commodity.

On other sites where the numbers are equal the ladies actually message the guys .. They have to put a bit of work in tooi am poly i never 'just fuck' so wrong on the we are all here to NSA fuck..its not a sex sex, instashag its a swingers site..and although many people use it for many different things, non monogomous relationships (including the social side of things) is in the majority..

Thank u for your opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stop because they start asking for pics

Or send random cock pics

Or say they are horny

Just all of that pisses me right off

Cock pics are so boring !!! Do you really think we are gonna drop to the floor and start masturbating immediately when we receive one ?

No , we will continue washing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So presumably you've sent an unsolicited message to a person, they've replied out of politeness only, you've then asked for a pic but they ignore you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some people chat then suddenly ignore you?? POF is the same....I thought people on here were a lot friendlier but some just spoil that vibe.

It's life. Remember not everyone's as polite as you may be.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Some people use the message system to arrange a meet rather than chat endlessly.

They don't have the hours in the day to keep replying to endless one line messages.

If that is the case after the limit has been reached they get fed up and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do some people chat then suddenly ignore you?? POF is the same....I thought people on here were a lot friendlier but some just spoil that vibe.

Because they have decided they don't want to meet you. I have chatted to 2 men about meeting recently. They go off track, first went from meeting him to his only interest being watching my pussy get stretched by his mates 10" cock, no thanks.

The 2nd got carried away and was hoping I would move to his town in few years. So I blocked them both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

We are here to swing I think the gentleman means . Nsa fun .

And my quote about " they use it " because some ladies on here do use the fact there a precious commodity.

On other sites where the numbers are equal the ladies actually message the guys .. They have to put a bit of work in too"

I message guys I'm interested in on here, they are few and far between, but that's because I don't want to message a guy and ask for a face pic and then say no thanks; I can't help it that many men on here don't give a hoot about what I look like and just see somewhere to stick their dick. Other sites work well because the majority have face pics, which allows females to make the judgment before they message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find Pof alot friendlier.

I've done well on there .

This ladies on here know they have the upper hand so use it ..

We are here to swing I think the gentleman means . Nsa fun .

And my quote about " they use it " because some ladies on here do use the fact there a precious commodity.

On other sites where the numbers are equal the ladies actually message the guys .. They have to put a bit of work in too

I totally agree with this .

It's the anonymity that creates the problems on here .

Full disclosure would stop all the fakes and Trolls .

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Why do some people chat then suddenly ignore you?? POF is the same....I thought people on here were a lot friendlier but some just spoil that vibe.

Sometimes, conversations just dry up.

Sometimes, people just change their mind for a variety of reasons.

Just because you've exchanged a few messages, it's not a written contract that you have to meet or carry on chatting.

If someone starts ignoring us and not reading or replying to messages. We assume they're no longer interested and move on.

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