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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you having a laugh?!

I'd be as game as scrabble to go to a club with you!

Silly humans! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you make them nervous lol

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By *ustforyou1231Man
over a year ago

canton

I canr even get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

I've come across this alot. Alot of them are fantasists or to put it another way ....Full of crap.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

Where is Le Boudoir and would I be to old for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too old , too far , i either need a time machine to take me back a few years , or to move south lol , but seriously , even if they dont join in at clubs its a great way to meet prospective meets , lifes too short guys , join in the group fun

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Well if we weren't heading North East Friday H could have been a bi friend and I...well I could have like filled in maybe.

Have Fun!!

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I canr even get a reply "

No face photo hun.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there must be a queue for your company surely

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"too old , too far , i either need a time machine to take me back a few years , or to move south lol , but seriously , even if they dont join in at clubs its a great way to meet prospective meets , lifes too short guys , join in the group fun "

"Stop with these negative waves man...." Too old indeed, you're only as old as the woman you last felt is my motto..

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"too old , too far , i either need a time machine to take me back a few years , or to move south lol , but seriously , even if they dont join in at clubs its a great way to meet prospective meets , lifes too short guys , join in the group fun

"Stop with these negative waves man...." Too old indeed, you're only as old as the woman you last felt is my motto..

S"

I'm 38 and like a guy my age or older. But do like the company of a hot cub every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I canr even get a reply "

Guys out here throwing away they chances and I can't even get a read message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel Miss Purple's inbox will be flooded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel Miss Purple's inbox will be flooded "

3047.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found if we suggest meeting for a drink prior to agreeing to play they go all quite lol most guys think it's a window shopping exercise pick message fuck not that easy guys lol

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

I chacked out your profile its hard to read what you truly want its it a chaprone friend with benifits for clubs or a traditional friend with benifits a one to one arrangement .

I think guys maybe approaching you thinking a one to one friends with benifits arrangement then you bring up going to clubs which goes against a one to one arrangement unless its about the exhisbishion play for you in a club .

Just saying what I feel when reading your profile no offence meant but maybe you need to be more clear about what you want in your profile that way it may help with the problem this forum post talks about .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the nerves playing in front of other guys!

Which is a shame, so many hottie's out there not reaching their full potential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

I'm not a member of any club but if I was then I would gladly go to a club with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know

I chacked out your profile its hard to read what you truly want its it a chaprone friend with benifits for clubs or a traditional friend with benifits a one to one arrangement .

I think guys maybe approaching you thinking a one to one friends with benifits arrangement then you bring up going to clubs which goes against a one to one arrangement unless its about the exhisbishion play for you in a club .

Just saying what I feel when reading your profile no offence meant but maybe you need to be more clear about what you want in your profile that way it may help with the problem this forum post talks about ."

Ok maybe. I am after two things.....a long term partner who wants a hot wife and until I find him I am keeping myself occupied going to clubs with my single bi female friends and we like single guys to play with at these events. Maybe I will revamp it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its the difference between the guys here who are real swingers with the right attitude and the guys who think fab will be an easy way to find "some slags to shag" x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its the nerves playing in front of other guys!

Which is a shame, so many hottie's out there not reaching their full potential

"

Talking about my unicorn friends and one appears! See you Friday sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its the difference between the guys here who are real swingers with the right attitude and the guys who think fab will be an easy way to find "some slags to shag" x"

I totally agree. Don't get me wrong I have met and played with some hot genuine single guys but they are not easy to come by. X

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I get this with just offering a coffee social.

They've either got the balls or they haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "
OMG i think you will make me go weak inside the bedroom and that's even before we get down to business lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get this with just offering a coffee social.

They've either got the balls or they haven't "

Ball are required!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Talking about my unicorn friends and one appears! See you Friday sexy xx"

Of course!! There is a huge difference between genuine "swinger" guys and the ones looking just to fuck.. Its normally a good indicator when they say ...

"Oh I wouldn't let my girlfriend do this" or

"Been here before, recently single so just looking for NSA"

YAWN!!!

Just come to the club, make some male friends and give me a good time ffs lolol

PS I'm at leboudoir Friday ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

You are kidding ? The opportunity to attend a club with someone who (please excuse they context) knows the ropes and they passed it by !

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I get this with just offering a coffee social.

They've either got the balls or they haven't

Ball are required!!"

They are, both types

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"You are kidding ? The opportunity to attend a club with someone who (please excuse they context) knows the ropes and they passed it by ! "

Yep, along with the well document fakes and time wasters we also have dreamers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its the difference between the guys here who are real swingers with the right attitude and the guys who think fab will be an easy way to find "some slags to shag" x

I totally agree. Don't get me wrong I have met and played with some hot genuine single guys but they are not easy to come by. X"
It would be an honour to spend the night with you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start "

Suppose knowing would help, never thought to ask, thanks for the lesson

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are kidding ? The opportunity to attend a club with someone who (please excuse they context) knows the ropes and they passed it by !

Yep, along with the well document fakes and time wasters we also have dreamers "

so true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start "

Me and the other girls are looking for group play ideally on Friday. So when guys have messaged I am making this clear. But on other occasions I have said I am happy to lock ourselves away in a room if that makes them more comfortable. All say they want the group sex,multiple females but bottle it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start

Me and the other girls are looking for group play ideally on Friday. So when guys have messaged I am making this clear. But on other occasions I have said I am happy to lock ourselves away in a room if that makes them more comfortable. All say they want the group sex,multiple females but bottle it!"

Hi Miss Purple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start

Me and the other girls are looking for group play ideally on Friday. So when guys have messaged I am making this clear. But on other occasions I have said I am happy to lock ourselves away in a room if that makes them more comfortable. All say they want the group sex,multiple females but bottle it!"

I'm looking to attend the cougarsandcubs event at radletts on the 23rd....you are welcome to put my bottle to the test

Pm me if you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start

Me and the other girls are looking for group play ideally on Friday. So when guys have messaged I am making this clear. But on other occasions I have said I am happy to lock ourselves away in a room if that makes them more comfortable. All say they want the group sex,multiple females but bottle it!

I'm looking to attend the cougarsandcubs event at radletts on the 23rd....you are welcome to put my bottle to the test

Pm me if you want "

Look forward to seeing you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually agree with you ....

They desperate to meet you , when you say ok then , they shit themselves and don't do it lol !!!!

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By *r SelectiveMan
over a year ago

newcastle

In my experience I went to a club twice with the same lady ..and being honest it just wasn't for me ..but I did experience going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start

Me and the other girls are looking for group play ideally on Friday. So when guys have messaged I am making this clear. But on other occasions I have said I am happy to lock ourselves away in a room if that makes them more comfortable. All say they want the group sex,multiple females but bottle it!

I'm looking to attend the cougarsandcubs event at radletts on the 23rd....you are welcome to put my bottle to the test

Pm me if you want

Look forward to seeing you there "

Likewise

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I totally get this.

Now, when I get messages from guys who I suspect are dreamers (most of them lol), I ask them to come and have some fun next time they see me at a club.

Then there's the long conversation of "I'm not a member", "I'm too shy", "can't we meet at my place" and a hundred other excuses.

Shrug. Says on my profile we only meet in clubs at first......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm looking to attend the cougarsandcubs event at radletts on the 23rd....you are welcome to put my bottle to the test

Pm me if you want "

Zing! I like this one!

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

I went to paradise in Bournemouth but as was alone, the doorman put me off. If there had been a horny female accompanying, I'd have gone in.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

It's hard enough getting a reply never mind an invitation to a club, so I just go on my own. Would love someone to go with occasionally xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm looking to attend the cougarsandcubs event at radletts on the 23rd....you are welcome to put my bottle to the test

Pm me if you want

Zing! I like this one!"

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start

Me and the other girls are looking for group play ideally on Friday. So when guys have messaged I am making this clear. But on other occasions I have said I am happy to lock ourselves away in a room if that makes them more comfortable. All say they want the group sex,multiple females but bottle it!"

Oh I wish you were closer lol xx

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

I would love to go to a club, but I won't do it on my own. A bloke who is a bit shy, not quite sure of his body, would tremble at the thought of walking into a club on his own.

Meeting for a social, or even meeting a couple or single lady outside to walk in with, would be a big icebreaker.

And while I'm here, why do so many have an age cut-off at 49? Us fifties fell left out

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london

I was going to try pleasures this Friday, May have to take a trip to Le boudoir... Great club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to meet at the entrance if u all arrive at 10:30pm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member "

So this is basically an advert for the club?

I've read posts where men have described this happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs aren't free .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience I went to a club twice with the same lady ..and being honest it just wasn't for me ..but I did experience going "

Maybe you went with the wrong lady?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

LMFAO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member

So this is basically an advert for the club?

I've read posts where men have described this happening. "

What do you mean an advert?? Me and my friends are genuinely going. We go to a number of different clubs (Pleasures, Boudoir, Radletts, AbFabs and Galores) so not promoting this one if that's what you mean?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I actually agree with you ....

They desperate to meet you , when you say ok then , they shit themselves and don't do it lol !!!! "

Spot on

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Gutted I no longer host Submission Le Boudoir.

All these hot bi women. Enjoy ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gutted I no longer host Submission Le Boudoir.

All these hot bi women. Enjoy ladies "

We will

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually agree with you ....

They desperate to meet you , when you say ok then , they shit themselves and don't do it lol !!!!

Spot on "

They all want to date rather than meet at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member

So this is basically an advert for the club?

I've read posts where men have described this happening.

What do you mean an advert?? Me and my friends are genuinely going. We go to a number of different clubs (Pleasures, Boudoir, Radletts, AbFabs and Galores) so not promoting this one if that's what you mean?"

Ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mingles is where the fun is at on a Friday night

Although heard about the other club mentioned, and was given a good review of their bi nights

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm happy to meet at the entrance if u all arrive at 10:30pm lol "

Good idea! And I have a single guy who obviously has bulls as he has registerd and is looking to book an apartment for the night....after party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm happy to meet at the entrance if u all arrive at 10:30pm lol

Good idea! And I have a single guy who obviously has bulls as he has registerd and is looking to book an apartment for the night....after party "

Bulls! Lol Balls even....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mingles is where the fun is at on a Friday night

Although heard about the other club mentioned, and was given a good review of their bi nights "

Where's Mingles hun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mingles is where the fun is at on a Friday night

Although heard about the other club mentioned, and was given a good review of their bi nights

Where's Mingles hun?"

It's in Colchester, our favorite place to be on a Friday night

Been told about le boudoir being a good night for bi guys on a Wednesday, but after the last bi night at the VA I was a little dissapointed as there was no bi action seen by me or the other 3 guests I went with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mingles is where the fun is at on a Friday night

Although heard about the other club mentioned, and was given a good review of their bi nights

Where's Mingles hun?

It's in Colchester, our favorite place to be on a Friday night

Been told about le boudoir being a good night for bi guys on a Wednesday, but after the last bi night at the VA I was a little dissapointed as there was no bi action seen by me or the other 3 guests I went with.

"

Not been to the bi night at boudoir so cannot really comment. All my nights turn into bi nights lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss purple... I was referring to male bi nights

A friend went last week and gave it a good review, so it could be a club on our 'to do' list soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

Maybe, like myself, they don't like clubs,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know

Maybe, like myself, they don't like clubs, "

It's very likely the case...trust me - getting a solo meet is not a problem but trying to entice them to a club daunts them. But saying that there has always been a good turn out of single guys at the clubs I visit and I manage to get the one I fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are great, Mrs M likes our regular and it's also a good social night out.

This swinging malarkey isn't about paying an entry fee and getting a guaranteed fuck, it's more a sexy club with like minded people in attendance.

When single men get this, then they will find it can be fun to go to clubs, and if they are lucky, they might just enjoy themselves enough and want to attend again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are great, Mrs M likes our regular and it's also a good social night out.

This swinging malarkey isn't about paying an entry fee and getting a guaranteed fuck, it's more a sexy club with like minded people in attendance.

When single men get this, then they will find it can be fun to go to clubs, and if they are lucky, they might just enjoy themselves enough and want to attend again.

"

They can get pretty much the same experience at a pub for free. Why would they want to pay a ton of money to be ignored all night and looked down on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are great, Mrs M likes our regular and it's also a good social night out.

This swinging malarkey isn't about paying an entry fee and getting a guaranteed fuck, it's more a sexy club with like minded people in attendance.

When single men get this, then they will find it can be fun to go to clubs, and if they are lucky, they might just enjoy themselves enough and want to attend again.

They can get pretty much the same experience at a pub for free. Why would they want to pay a ton of money to be ignored all night and looked down on?"

If that's how you see the single men then it's a wonder why they want to go to any sort of club

At Mingles, every single male is looked upon as an equal, there's no discrimination and above all.... it's FUN!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Maybe, like myself, they don't like clubs, "

I don't meet in clubs and the dreamers still bail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are great, Mrs M likes our regular and it's also a good social night out.

This swinging malarkey isn't about paying an entry fee and getting a guaranteed fuck, it's more a sexy club with like minded people in attendance.

When single men get this, then they will find it can be fun to go to clubs, and if they are lucky, they might just enjoy themselves enough and want to attend again.

They can get pretty much the same experience at a pub for free. Why would they want to pay a ton of money to be ignored all night and looked down on?

If that's how you see the single men then it's a wonder why they want to go to any sort of club

At Mingles, every single male is looked upon as an equal, there's no discrimination and above all.... it's FUN!

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I'm not the one that treats single men like that.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Still lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm not the one that treats single men like that. "

I should hope not too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still lmfao "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are great, Mrs M likes our regular and it's also a good social night out.

This swinging malarkey isn't about paying an entry fee and getting a guaranteed fuck, it's more a sexy club with like minded people in attendance.

When single men get this, then they will find it can be fun to go to clubs, and if they are lucky, they might just enjoy themselves enough and want to attend again.

They can get pretty much the same experience at a pub for free. Why would they want to pay a ton of money to be ignored all night and looked down on?

If that's how you see the single men then it's a wonder why they want to go to any sort of club

At Mingles, every single male is looked upon as an equal, there's no discrimination and above all.... it's FUN!

I'm not the one that treats single men like that. "

What do you treat them like then

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

If I wanted to go to a club, I'd just, you know..... go to a club.

If I wanted to meet someone, I'd message them for that.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"If I wanted to go to a club, I'd just, you know..... go to a club.

If I wanted to meet someone, I'd message them for that.

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I'm a pretty confident guy, but clubs usually scare me. There's far too much pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" 3047..... "

OMG!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I'm a pretty confident guy, but clubs usually scare me. There's far too much pressure."

Really? Can't say I've ever felt presured in any way in a club.

Apart from the time I got accosted by two (very) d*unk women demnding a threesome at 3am. I managed to shake them fairly easily though.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Perhaps it's the cost of visiting a club that puts some guys off? I mean ab fabs including membership on a Friday would cost a single guy $70 and the first visit to Le Boudoir I think works out at about $80 Inc membership. Maybe some guys just don't think it's worth it??

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I feel Miss Purple's inbox will be flooded

3047..... "

This would explain why you haven't read (or deleted, lol) my message from a week ago.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I feel Miss Purple's inbox will be flooded

3047.....

This would explain why you haven't read (or deleted, lol) my message from a week ago.

"

Most ladies inboxes are like that as there are about 50 guys to a girl but always nice to try to reply X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs just aren't for me. l like things to be one on one or maybe a bit more.

Clubs seem a bit impersonal to me. Just my opinion.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member

So this is basically an advert for the club?

I've read posts where men have described this happening. "

I think your right it started as sounding like a genuine question but has now change in my opinion .

Honey pot scenario played beautifully I might add if my instincts and opinion is now right .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that clubs tend to fleece single guys more than couples and single men and if you do go you don't want to end up looking like a predator every time u look at someone

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Clubs are great, Mrs M likes our regular and it's also a good social night out.

This swinging malarkey isn't about paying an entry fee and getting a guaranteed fuck, it's more a sexy club with like minded people in attendance.

When single men get this, then they will find it can be fun to go to clubs, and if they are lucky, they might just enjoy themselves enough and want to attend again.

They can get pretty much the same experience at a pub for free. Why would they want to pay a ton of money to be ignored all night and looked down on?

If that's how you see the single men then it's a wonder why they want to go to any sort of club

At Mingles, every single male is looked upon as an equal, there's no discrimination and above all.... it's FUN!

"

Of coarse there's discrimination going on unless payment at the door guarantees play.

For the guys who don't get picked out of the meat market because there meat is less appealing there is no fun to be had .

I find the club dynamic very interesting because I wonder if the rolls in a club were reversed and let's say single guys held the power with in the club dynamic if single ferns would be so willing to attend the meat market where they were the meat.

Just a thought I have attended clubs as a couple as a way of spicing up our dynamic the same reason other couples attend clubs to spice up there dynamic .

The guys in said clubs reminded me of puppies following around there masters tongues hanging out begging for scraps from there masters tables .

Because of my sexuality clubs as a single guy can not and will not work as a way for me to find sexual gratification .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes so many young lads have expressed interest and when you say yes they disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is, us girls don't run the scene, I actually appreciate the single guys paying more because there's more of you, therefore you keep the scene alive for us ladies and couples to enjoy...

And I'm attending the club on Friday, its only right we get as many people attend as possible, I need sex! I go to lots of events, no advertising here, I'm just a happy slut HA HA HA

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member

So this is basically an advert for the club?

I've read posts where men have described this happening.

I think your right it started as sounding like a genuine question but has now change in my opinion .

Honey pot scenario played beautifully I might add if my instincts and opinion is now right .

"

It is genuine and as my friend just said we attend lots of clubs and promote which ever we are going to for our own gain as we want single guys to play with. Would be a full night if no hotties to play with. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member

So this is basically an advert for the club?

I've read posts where men have described this happening.

I think your right it started as sounding like a genuine question but has now change in my opinion .

Honey pot scenario played beautifully I might add if my instincts and opinion is now right .

It is genuine and as my friend just said we attend lots of clubs and promote which ever we are going to for our own gain as we want single guys to play with. Would be a full night if no hotties to play with. X"

I'm a single guy, not shy and more than willing and capable of fuking you along with everyone of your female friends, want to see me on cam first, want a social in spoons first ?

Bring it on as I'm getting rather bored now with all the this and that , shy guy this shy guy that

I can and would Fuk the legs off you and every single one of your friends

Are you shy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you shy ?"

MissPurple??? HELL NO!!!

And your post above.... lol big words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If misspurple and her friends join Mingles, I'm sure you won't find any 'shy' guys there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a shy guy. Id jump at the chance to tag along with a lady. I just dont fancy going alone for the first time. Any offers ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If misspurple and her friends join Mingles, I'm sure you won't find any 'shy' guys there "

Where is mingles? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a shy guy. Id jump at the chance to tag along with a lady. I just dont fancy going alone for the first time. Any offers ??"

Happy to meet at entrance at 10:30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member

So this is basically an advert for the club?

I've read posts where men have described this happening.

I think your right it started as sounding like a genuine question but has now change in my opinion .

Honey pot scenario played beautifully I might add if my instincts and opinion is now right .

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And the op profile now hidden as well

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"It seems that clubs tend to fleece single guys more than couples and single men and if you do go you don't want to end up looking like a predator every time u look at someone"

I agree with you some clubs charge ridiculous prices for single guys ! Most unfair and avoid those clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If misspurple and her friends join Mingles, I'm sure you won't find any 'shy' guys there

Where is mingles? X"

In Colchester hun, it's a private members only club, advertised in the club section on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you meeting the guy outside the club or outside? If im meeting someone I dont expect another 5/10 guys turning up aswell. Unless thats clear from the start

Me and the other girls are looking for group play ideally on Friday. So when guys have messaged I am making this clear. But on other occasions I have said I am happy to lock ourselves away in a room if that makes them more comfortable. All say they want the group sex,multiple females but bottle it!

I'm looking to attend the cougarsandcubs event at radletts on the 23rd....you are welcome to put my bottle to the test

Pm me if you want

Look forward to seeing you there "

Ha! I'm minded to go to that one too! lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a shy guy. Id jump at the chance to tag along with a lady. I just dont fancy going alone for the first time. Any offers ??"

Totally agree with you pal! Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Le Boudoir is in Aldgate. You need to be a member

So this is basically an advert for the club?

I've read posts where men have described this happening.

I think your right it started as sounding like a genuine question but has now change in my opinion .

Honey pot scenario played beautifully I might add if my instincts and opinion is now right .

It is genuine and as my friend just said we attend lots of clubs and promote which ever we are going to for our own gain as we want single guys to play with. Would be a full night if no hotties to play with. X"

I'm not a member of Le Boudoir but if it's a welcoming place for straight single guys I'll be willing to give it a go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm seriously considering going to a club but I think that for the time being I shall just read what is said on here maybe get to know a few woman and men ( I'm straight ) that attend clubs before making any real Decission's, but I really am intrigued and at some point in sure you may see me at a club or clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even just for a night out sex ain't the only thing that's on my mind I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had time and money i'd go myself

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Hmmm lets see ... Where's my list of places I'm attending hahaha

Eureka tomorrow for you 'not so shy' boys with my sexy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm lets see ... Where's my list of places I'm attending hahaha

Eureka tomorrow for you 'not so shy' boys with my sexy girl "

Funny enough I will be here too!

It's the only place to be guys!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm lets see ... Where's my list of places I'm attending hahaha

Eureka tomorrow for you 'not so shy' boys with my sexy girl

Funny enough I will be here too!

It's the only place to be guys!

X "

Guess I'm just gonna have to look this Eureka place up eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm lets see ... Where's my list of places I'm attending hahaha

Eureka tomorrow for you 'not so shy' boys with my sexy girl

Funny enough I will be here too!

It's the only place to be guys!

X

Guess I'm just gonna have to look this Eureka place up eh! "

Yes you must mister and come and join US! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eureka is a bi/gay night

Leboudoir Gang Bang night..

So no matter what ur preference, somewhere caters for something hey girls?? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've also found as soon as you mention a club visit they shit themselves.

Its a shame as I'm always looking for club partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eureka is a bi/gay night

Leboudoir Gang Bang night..

So no matter what ur preference, somewhere caters for something hey girls?? Lol x"

Eureka also host the following events

Bi and gay night

Cougars and Cubs

T girl night

BMFC

BBW

Big Saturday party night every Saturday

Bdsm

R&R

CFNM

Naked Friday

So yes that cater something for everyone X

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I've also found as soon as you mention a club visit they shit themselves.

Its a shame as I'm always looking for club partners "

Really? I only go to clubs in the west mids granted but the guys don't appear too shy to go to chams or xtasia!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also found as soon as you mention a club visit they shit themselves.

Its a shame as I'm always looking for club partners

Really? I only go to clubs in the west mids granted but the guys don't appear too shy to go to chams or xtasia!"

Really want to do the clubs up there.. Heard great things

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I've been reading through this post again and have to say I'm nun to impressed with the kicking and name calling being directed at guys who have a charge of mind for what ever reason.

I know the forums are often open season on single guys but come on since when does charging ones mind become a criminal offence .

you know what I find really funny is the people calling guys who change there minds names were going to the club anyway so how are they miss out on anything as you were attending anyway .

the mind boggles but I guess this forum post is just a case of lets slag guys off for no other reason than they changed there minds even though changing there mind never really effected anyone but them.

by that I mean there the ones missing out on the possibility of club fun not those who were going to attend anyway whether the guys in question turned up or not .

the mind boggles it really does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also found as soon as you mention a club visit they shit themselves.

Its a shame as I'm always looking for club partners

Really? I only go to clubs in the west mids granted but the guys don't appear too shy to go to chams or xtasia!"

I do go to chams and xtasia.

Its getting guys to go with you thats the issue not the guys that are there

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I've also found as soon as you mention a club visit they shit themselves.

Its a shame as I'm always looking for club partners

Really? I only go to clubs in the west mids granted but the guys don't appear too shy to go to chams or xtasia!

Really want to do the clubs up there.. Heard great things"

If you're free one time I'd definitely come up, happy to advise on nights and places to stay etc and maybe even take you in for a tour depending on availability

Chams and Xtasia are both very good and different so there's usually something for everyone

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I've also found as soon as you mention a club visit they shit themselves.

Its a shame as I'm always looking for club partners

Really? I only go to clubs in the west mids granted but the guys don't appear too shy to go to chams or xtasia!

I do go to chams and xtasia.

Its getting guys to go with you thats the issue not the guys that are there "

Fair enough, I've taken ladies plenty of times to chams and Xtasia but haven't tried getting a guy a go so haven't really experienced that!

I'd happily go with you when you're down here one time but I'm sure you already get plenty of offers when you do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been reading through this post again and have to say I'm nun to impressed with the kicking and name calling being directed at guys...

the mind boggles it really does."

I'm nun too impressed with a married guy comparing all our gorgeous single scene guys to puppies and trying to make a point about "us girls" name calling.

As you said previously, the club scene doesn't work for you.. So why are you here??

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Somewhere there's the sound of One hand clapping. Maybe in the woods where nobody can hear you moan.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I've been reading through this post again and have to say I'm nun to impressed with the kicking and name calling being directed at guys...

the mind boggles it really does.

I'm nun too impressed with a married guy comparing all our gorgeous single scene guys to puppies and trying to make a point about "us girls" name calling.

As you said previously, the club scene doesn't work for you.. So why are you here??

"

I'm.talking from experience made the mistake once of going to a club with a exhibitioist fern on a whim on a night where there were quite a few single guys .

And you know what they followed us around in the exact fashion I described or are you going to try and pretend such behavior as following hoping wishing to see something happen does go on .

As for me commenting on this post I have the same right to do so as you

And please if your going to quote my posts use the full post don't hand pick pieces out of context to try and prove a point .

I prefer private parties to clubs and couples nights only if I do decide to use a club with a play partner of mine .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I prefer private parties to clubs and couples nights only.

"

Well why didn't you say that in the first place?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

My thoughts on this...^^^^

If the guys have clubs listed as an interest unless the time / dates clash with other things they need to adjust their Interests,

if they don't have clubs listed you shouldn't be surprised they said no thanks.

I've been to clubs two I've been a member of two paid my membership and entrance fees. when I started on this site it was a way as a single guy to meet folk and make connections. it's not for everyone, some might find them intimidating some may not find what they offer takes ttheir fancy.. however guys.. chances are you'd walk into a strange bar or pub on your own.. clubs are no different, it's a social setting where you can meet folk and with the possibilities of frolic s as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My thoughts on this...^^^^

If the guys have clubs listed as an interest unless the time / dates clash with other things they need to adjust their Interests,

if they don't have clubs listed you shouldn't be surprised they said no thanks.

I've been to clubs two I've been a member of two paid my membership and entrance fees. when I started on this site it was a way as a single guy to meet folk and make connections. it's not for everyone, some might find them intimidating some may not find what they offer takes ttheir fancy.. however guys.. chances are you'd walk into a strange bar or pub on your own.. clubs are no different, it's a social setting where you can meet folk and with the possibilities of frolic s as well.

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Good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not the most outgoing guy in the world, dont judge me on my profile picture.

I have been chatting to a few ladies who advised me to do that to help get abit more attention. Im not exactly hung like a horse but it seems its working opposite.

Any one have any genuine advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a shy guy. Id jump at the chance to tag along with a lady. I just dont fancy going alone for the first time. Any offers ??

Happy to meet at entrance at 10:30 "

I would love to if you didnt live so far away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?"

This is valid and fucking funny lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

This is valid and fucking funny lol x"

no wonder everyone sticks to NSA. the more you get to know most men the more you're put off meeting them.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

the guys i see regularly now are ones i met in clubs on nights where it was singles or single men allowed..

i now play mainly in clubs as a sub and love to go when single guys are there, because the atmosphere and possibilities are better, however if you ain't there, you cant play, its that simple..

i organised socials last year,at a club, specifically for new peeps.either to meet people or experience a club for the first time, i just dont have the time at the moment to do that right now. xx

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?"

I have been to 3 different clubs. Paying on average £40 a time. I also have deiven to a club and spent £5 on petrol as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

I have been to 3 different clubs. Paying on average £40 a time. I also have deiven to a club and spent £5 on petrol as well.

"

that's you though.

most guys would rather not. maybe you even would rather not but are doing for some reason.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

I have been to 3 different clubs. Paying on average £40 a time. I also have deiven to a club and spent £5 on petrol as well.

"
to get to a club for me i travel at least and hour and 45 mins..sometimes its up to 3 1/2 hours..so at least 25 -quid - 50 in petrol then accomodation..plus any entrance..but i still go..

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I'm probably fortunate being in the west mids having clubs nearby without massive drives and with hotels nearby and on site in chams case - i must say this whole thread does surprise me in that I really didn't think there would be an issue with ladies finding men to accompany them to a club

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'm probably fortunate being in the west mids having clubs nearby without massive drives and with hotels nearby and on site in chams case - i must say this whole thread does surprise me in that I really didn't think there would be an issue with ladies finding men to accompany them to a club "
i dont go with ones i havent met before..that would not make sense to me, id rather go on my own and meet there, not promising anything just as a social meet on the night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

I have been to 3 different clubs. Paying on average £40 a time. I also have deiven to a club and spent £5 on petrol as well.

to get to a club for me i travel at least and hour and 45 mins..sometimes its up to 3 1/2 hours..so at least 25 -quid - 50 in petrol then accomodation..plus any entrance..but i still go.."

Ditto that!

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

I have been to 3 different clubs. Paying on average £40 a time. I also have deiven to a club and spent £5 on petrol as well.

that's you though.

most guys would rather not. maybe you even would rather not but are doing for some reason."

Agreed not everyone does it.

It's easier to meet people at a club than on here. Although I still find it hard to go and chat to a couple.

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By *rystal2015guyMan
over a year ago

S E london / Kidderminster

I have no problems in going to a club and would love a nice woman to go with. Nobody seems to be interested thou

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

I have been to 3 different clubs. Paying on average £40 a time. I also have deiven to a club and spent £5 on petrol as well.

to get to a club for me i travel at least and hour and 45 mins..sometimes its up to 3 1/2 hours..so at least 25 -quid - 50 in petrol then accomodation..plus any entrance..but i still go.."

Fairplay. But it's still daunting for a single guy to turn up, and chat to someone. Knowing that they're not the only single guy, said couple or woman has already been chatted up, and is sometimes tired of it.

Even as a single bloke, what I find offputting is it appears single blokes just follow where the action is. I try not to do that, but invariably you do.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

I have been to 3 different clubs. Paying on average £40 a time. I also have deiven to a club and spent £5 on petrol as well.

to get to a club for me i travel at least and hour and 45 mins..sometimes its up to 3 1/2 hours..so at least 25 -quid - 50 in petrol then accomodation..plus any entrance..but i still go..

Fairplay. But it's still daunting for a single guy to turn up, and chat to someone. Knowing that they're not the only single guy, said couple or woman has already been chatted up, and is sometimes tired of it.

Even as a single bloke, what I find offputting is it appears single blokes just follow where the action is. I try not to do that, but invariably you do."
maybe chat to the people who arent getting any action, maybe that whay youd get some for you..look i appreciate its a hard step for guys, but its also hard for a single woman to rock up and declare to someone she wants a good seeing to, we all have our quirky hangups, but that's about a journey of self discovery and growth. people who want to be part of something and be successful at it, keep practicing and every time they feel down, they pick themselves up again and try harder...like all things in life..but moaning about it doesnt help...

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

If you compare present sexual adventures with past ones, you'll never be happy because searching for a previous fix. Be satisfied with what you have now. Or get over it. Or under it.

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over a year ago


"If you compare present sexual adventures with past ones, you'll never be happy because searching for a previous fix. Be satisfied with what you have now. Or get over it. Or under it. "

I choose under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But entrance fee for a single guy is a bit pricey tbf

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"But entrance fee for a single guy is a bit pricey tbf "
to be fair its the price for a night on the lash, or, a footie game or any night out..that's what you treat it as..a night out..

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over a year ago


"But entrance fee for a single guy is a bit pricey tbf to be fair its the price for a night on the lash, or, a footie game or any night out..that's what you treat it as..a night out.."

The entrance fee for a single guy is only the price for a night on tje lash but you also have to biy drinks in the club. Single women pay less. Dont see the difference myself. All there for the same reason

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"But entrance fee for a single guy is a bit pricey tbf to be fair its the price for a night on the lash, or, a footie game or any night out..that's what you treat it as..a night out..

The entrance fee for a single guy is only the price for a night on tje lash but you also have to biy drinks in the club. Single women pay less. Dont see the difference myself. All there for the same reason "

Let me put it this way for you as I feel you looking at it all wrong .

Going to a club is just like going to any paid social event bar one fact you may get laid .

So I'm assuming that you would willing pay to attend a gym or go snooker or pay to fish on a private well stocked lake or go to newmarket on derby day or pay to attend any event you had a interest in .

If that's the case part of the reason you attend any social event is you have a interest in that event .when your at that event I assume you speak to people also attending that event .

A true swinging club is no different its a social event for people who enjoy sex where sex can nd does take place .some people are playing others are chatting socializing.

I don't dislike clubs I struggle to enjoy them as a single male because of how my true sexuality works being dominant means I like my own dynamic and struggle to feel at home in someone else's dynamic .

Your reasons for not going as a single male make no sense to me for the reasons I've listed above . As for single women and couples paying less so what does that change the fact a club is a event you have a interest in kids and the elderly pay less to attend the football than me does that mean I should not attend .

No because by doing so I'd not be able to enjoy watching my beloved team play .

That kind of behavior is called cutting off ones nose to spite ones face where I come from .

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"But entrance fee for a single guy is a bit pricey tbf to be fair its the price for a night on the lash, or, a footie game or any night out..that's what you treat it as..a night out.."

I wouldn't! But then I'm.....frugal.

I do think clubs overcharge a bit. I'd expect any other "venue" charging the kind of prices some swingers clubs to to be the absolute dogs bollocks and not lookingt like it had been thrown together at the last minute.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"But entrance fee for a single guy is a bit pricey tbf to be fair its the price for a night on the lash, or, a footie game or any night out..that's what you treat it as..a night out..

I wouldn't! But then I'm.....frugal.

I do think clubs overcharge a bit. I'd expect any other "venue" charging the kind of prices some swingers clubs to to be the absolute dogs bollocks and not lookingt like it had been thrown together at the last minute. "
fibber ive seen you at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?

This is valid and fucking funny lol x

no wonder everyone sticks to NSA. the more you get to know most men the more you're put off meeting them. "

Thanks a bunch! Charming! We're not all cheapskates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember life is like a penis - simple, easy-going, relaxed and free! It's women who make it hard!

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around


"mu opinion of men now is that most are easy, lazy, and if they don't have to make any effort then that's exactly what they'll do.

and why would they pay for a club meet if they can come round to your for £5 worth of petrol?"

Totally agree with this

As most of the fitter younger guys that a lot of single ladies prefer aren't single either why would they make an effort to do the dance of seduction when all that want is a quick NSA.

However there are always exceptions

Like LA LA ( nickname) who couldn't get a reply from me for 8 months ( crap profile crap pictures) and I don't do random meets .

Stalked me down through the status updates and pulled me fair n square as he says at a club night !!

So guess moral here is definitely minimal effort minimal results !!

Great feed btw Miss P x

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around


"But entrance fee for a single guy is a bit pricey tbf to be fair its the price for a night on the lash, or, a footie game or any night out..that's what you treat it as..a night out..

The entrance fee for a single guy is only the price for a night on tje lash but you also have to biy drinks in the club. Single women pay less. Dont see the difference myself. All there for the same reason

Let me put it this way for you as I feel you looking at it all wrong .

Going to a club is just like going to any paid social event bar one fact you may get laid .

So I'm assuming that you would willing pay to attend a gym or go snooker or pay to fish on a private well stocked lake or go to newmarket on derby day or pay to attend any event you had a interest in .

If that's the case part of the reason you attend any social event is you have a interest in that event .when your at that event I assume you speak to people also attending that event .

A true swinging club is no different its a social event for people who enjoy sex where sex can nd does take place .some people are playing others are chatting socializing.

I don't dislike clubs I struggle to enjoy them as a single male because of how my true sexuality works being dominant means I like my own dynamic and struggle to feel at home in someone else's dynamic .

Your reasons for not going as a single male make no sense to me for the reasons I've listed above . As for single women and couples paying less so what does that change the fact a club is a event you have a interest in kids and the elderly pay less to attend the football than me does that mean I should not attend .

No because by doing so I'd not be able to enjoy watching my beloved team play .

That kind of behavior is called cutting off ones nose to spite ones face where I come from .

"

I think sadly you have jumped all clubs in same bracket here

Not all charge extra for guys be it club or events .. nor charge for drinks as a lot Byob . Every club and event night is very different .you have to look about and try before judging .

But top prices aren't always best as are low prices not a bargain either . You have to find a a balance and you northerners are lucky . Loads of choice and great supported socials too !! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also found as soon as you mention a club visit they shit themselves.

Its a shame as I'm always looking for club partners

Really? I only go to clubs in the west mids granted but the guys don't appear too shy to go to chams or xtasia!

Really want to do the clubs up there.. Heard great things"

Road trip in order... going to diffrent clubs regularly keeps the vibe happy....I really couldn't do with going to the same club every week with the same boring ppl...best to change it up a bit

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Really want to do the clubs up there.. Heard great things

Road trip in order... going to diffrent clubs regularly keeps the vibe happy....I really couldn't do with going to the same club every week with the same boring ppl...best to change it up a bit "

Couldn't agree more babe I'm all about the road trippin'

Let's plan stuffs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Really want to do the clubs up there.. Heard great things

Road trip in order... going to diffrent clubs regularly keeps the vibe happy....I really couldn't do with going to the same club every week with the same boring ppl...best to change it up a bit

Couldn't agree more babe I'm all about the road trippin'

Let's plan stuffs!!! "

It just gets repetitive... and meeting new people across the country is always a plus... let's plans some road trips and see who's up for what...

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"

Really want to do the clubs up there.. Heard great things

Road trip in order... going to diffrent clubs regularly keeps the vibe happy....I really couldn't do with going to the same club every week with the same boring ppl...best to change it up a bit

Couldn't agree more babe I'm all about the road trippin'

Let's plan stuffs!!! "

Come up to the midlands first lol

I'll be in London in December so may be asking advice as to the best places to go then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Really want to do the clubs up there.. Heard great things

Road trip in order... going to diffrent clubs regularly keeps the vibe happy....I really couldn't do with going to the same club every week with the same boring ppl...best to change it up a bit

Couldn't agree more babe I'm all about the road trippin'

Let's plan stuffs!!!

It just gets repetitive... and meeting new people across the country is always a plus... let's plans some road trips and see who's up for what... "

DEAL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

Maybe your not to there preference which is why they don't want to be seen at a club with u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they ones you've met one on one before you invite them to a club? It can be quite daunting to be thrown in an environment like that if they've never met you, and never experienced the club scene. Men like to have all this bravado. Some are just scared puppies underneath it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your not to there preference which is why they don't want to be seen at a club with u

Oh gosh! PMSFL x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they ones you've met one on one before you invite them to a club? It can be quite daunting to be thrown in an environment like that if they've never met you, and never experienced the club scene. Men like to have all this bravado. Some are just scared puppies underneath it all. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know "

Most clubs are well a bit unfair on us single guys up here in Blackpool to sign up n get entry your talking close to a hundred quid n we got 3 clubs here where a lady can sign up n get in for 20 quid lol

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Are they ones you've met one on one before you invite them to a club? It can be quite daunting to be thrown in an environment like that if they've never met you, and never experienced the club scene. Men like to have all this bravado. Some are just scared puppies underneath it all. "

We're not all scared puppies! There's quite a few of us that like clubs and are more than happy to walk in alone!

Although I do enjoy it more when I go with a lady for the social aspect in that you've got someone to chat to all night, Inbetween other activities obviously!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know

Maybe your not to there preference which is why they don't want to be seen at a club with u "

I think you missed the point....they do want to meet with me but on a 1-2-1 basis. And I totally agree - some guys to prefer the 'gezza/butch' bird type so I guess you are inundated with messages from these men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*do

Lack of sleep from wicked night last night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know

Maybe your not to there preference which is why they don't want to be seen at a club with u

I think you missed the point....they do want to meet with me but on a 1-2-1 basis. And I totally agree - some guys to prefer the 'gezza/butch' bird type so I guess you are inundated with messages from these men "

Heart love xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single guys on here sending constant messages, finally give them a break and say come to a club with me and they all run a mile! All want that important one on one....try to explain that club play doesn't have to mean group play but they all loose the nerve. Going to Le Boudoir on Friday so if you are a member and fancy some fun let me know

Maybe your not to there preference which is why they don't want to be seen at a club with u

I think you missed the point....they do want to meet with me but on a 1-2-1 basis. And I totally agree - some guys to prefer the 'gezza/butch' bird type so I guess you are inundated with messages from these men "

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