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Straight Guys and TV's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have seen loads of profiles here with 'straight' guys who will meet with a TV but not a man.

I have quizzed myself mentally as to what the difference is between sleeping with a bloke and sleeping with a bloke in a wig and make up and as much as I try, I'm sorry I just don't see it !

I am not having a dig at TV's here in any way, shape or form and I totally respect everyones life choices.

Neither do I wish to disrespect TS (pre or post op) and understand that it is more than a life choice.

I am more interested in hearing the thoughts of guys who are turned on by TV/TS but not by other men.

I would also like to say that this is not some form of social study just an attempt for me to better understand a situation that to me smacks of contradiction.

Have fun and play safe guys n girls x

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

maybe there is a programme on they are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re simply not straight, there that was easy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They’re simply not straight, there that was easy! "

that is kinda my thinking, but just curious to hear other view points to try and make me better understand

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By *anderer2018Man
over a year ago

Bangkok

I think it has something to do with TS and TV being classed as the same. If you look at TV's on line then you will be presented with a completely different image to what often the reality is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a way of a guy with desires mentally coping with the "I'm straight" in his mind

Speak to any TV or TS and they will tell you a huge proportion of straight guys contact them (and wives on behalf of husbands)

The other one is straight couples wanting TV's?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

How are the tv"s coping with the switch to digital

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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The other one is straight couples wanting TV's?

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Why wouldnt a straight couple want a TV? No different from meeting a single guy...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Im straight....

But if I met a woman on here who looked a very convincing 6' good looking man....Yea, why not??

Id still say I was straight reagardless of

what others thought...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

The so called str8 men who are into tvs are definatley in denial and cant for what ever reason admit they are bi......no matter how you like to dress it up tvs are still men ....post op ts's on the other hand are totaly diffrent .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'.no matter how you like to dress it up tvs are still men ...' pun intended?

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think some guys just prefer the smooth body and nice lingerie etc on a tv. There's a visal aspect to these things I think.

As for being gay, bi or straight etc. It's all just meaningless labels imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'.no matter how you like to dress it up tvs are still men ...' pun intended? "
yes your right .. i think some just dont wish to come out about being bi x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think it isn't such a jump for a curious chappy to go with a smooth well dressed and made up tv than some 6'6, 18 stone hairy monster.

You'd be amazed at the amount of guys with straight profiles who contact cds on here wanting meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not straight.

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not straight

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not straight

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and why are they so bothered about admitting that? seriously? does anyone care that they're not straight?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they dont want to admit it to themselves ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone care that they're not straight?!"

i couldnt care less if they are or arent straight......but loads of posters seem to care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen "straight" guys profiles that have met,bi and gay guys.There cleary not straight,so why have straight profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen "straight" guys profiles that have met,bi and gay guys.There cleary not straight,so why have straight profile ? "

Because they think (hope) nobody has noticed and it will get them more meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen "straight" guys profiles that have met,bi and gay guys.There cleary not straight,so why have straight profile ? "

just to put a twist on this........why do straight guys look at other guys profiles???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen "straight" guys profiles that have met,bi and gay guys.There cleary not straight,so why have straight profile ?

just to put a twist on this........why do straight guys look at other guys profiles???"
because,they've seen them looking at there profile,or they've met couple,that straight guy has been chatting too etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen "straight" guys profiles that have met,bi and gay guys.There cleary not straight,so why have straight profile ?

just to put a twist on this........why do straight guys look at other guys profiles???

because,they've seen them looking at there profile,or they've met couple,that straight guy has been chatting too etc."

loads of analysing of profiles goes on.....who has met who ....they met him....he met her.....he met them....i tend to never let it bother me what others have on their profile. if they aint what im looking for then i move on. couldnt care less what anyone thinks of themselves and what boxes they tick......its what i think that counts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i totally 'get' straight guys being curious about cock - i wrestled it with it myself til being 30 odd

but i never even considered a tranny

'going over the hill' for the first couple of times is fkin scary but imho if you're gonna do summat, then jump in feet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i totally 'get' straight guys being curious about cock - i wrestled it with it myself til being 30 odd

but i never even considered a tranny

'going over the hill' for the first couple of times is fkin scary but imho if you're gonna do summat, then jump in feet first "
And why not if your happy and can handle it theres nothing wronge x I am a bi woman have been that from 15/16 i new i liked both and it felt so right . I see it as no big dael and i find bi men a real turn on too xx wish john was , lol Tv can look super sexie at times .... i hope over years to come i get to meet some. jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we where going to meet a cpl who said bi fem str male on looking through their verifications seen they had ,had a meet n both played with a T.V .

Think its wrong for them to display bi fem str male. whats the answer? if not going to be honest , what chance we got?

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

I am not that active on here particularly with lots of changes going on in my life.

I too am curious about straight guys and couples who contact me. The simple answer is that to list an interest in TV/TS in your profile may limit or reduces your interest to the majority here.

A more complicated answer is that there is that 'straight' is merely a label. We all have both male and female characteristics within us. Everyone at work prefers Clare. They comment that she is more alive, more amusing, more articulate, more human. I am very lucky to be able to be my female self very easily and am accepted as female, like out to dinner in Lincoln last night.

So if I occasionally meet a guy he is relating to my outwardly female persona. He is also enjoying that mix and blend of female and male physical characteristics. I am relating to the guy as a person and not just someone for sex. I do not think of the guy as 'gay' and I like their ability to be a bit different and try new things. It is very important for me that the guy is gentle and considerate.

There is also a belief that TV/TS are 'easy'. Guys seem to think that they can come to my house (or their truck) and have sex with me without any emotional involvement or commitment at all. And I will be grateful! This is often from the world inhabited by the no profile, no picture, one liners.

So there are some thoughts which may help understanding a bit.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Sexuality and sexual identity isn’t a clear cut 3 box tick exercise… as many take comfort in believing. Those who adamantly insist on dictating what another person’s sexual identity must be, based on the most limited of information, only prove how little they understand and how narrow minded their perspective is.

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By *anderer2018Man
over a year ago

Bangkok

I agree with Clare a lot of women out on there profiles that they dont want bisexual men so men will naturally put straight in there profile as there is only a limited number if single ladies on here anyway so why limit your chances!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with Clare a lot of women out on there profiles that they dont want bisexual men so men will naturally put straight in there profile as there is only a limited number if single ladies on here anyway so why limit your chances!"
there's also loads that only want bi guys,so should straight guys put bi on there profile ?

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

Thanks to the original polo for putting into simple words what I have learnt and experienced over the past 10 or so years.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

At the end of day most people want others to be honest and i think most men still live in the dark ages where bi or gay were not accepted and beaten by gay bashers yet women who are lesbian or bi and the best thing since sliced bread come on stand proud if you bi or gay say so .

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Sexuality and sexual identity isn’t a clear cut 3 box tick exercise… as many take comfort in believing. Those who adamantly insist on dictating what another person’s sexual identity must be, based on the most limited of information, only prove how little they understand and how narrow minded their perspective is."

I agree totally.

Sexuality is a broad spectrum and peoples sexuality changes with time and experience as well.

I find people who examine others profiles with minute detail and read things into it that may not even be true incredibly annoying.

It's okay to make your own judgements and decisions on such matters but you shouldn't impose your view on others in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality and sexual identity isn’t a clear cut 3 box tick exercise… as many take comfort in believing. Those who adamantly insist on dictating what another person’s sexual identity must be, based on the most limited of information, only prove how little they understand and how narrow minded their perspective is."

Wise words polo, but telling that to a straight person that has absolutely no inclination to play with someone of the same sex will bring out the said narrow-mindedness, some people just try to over complicate things and try to change the whole definition of straight to suit themselves instead of keeping it simple.

It’s like telling a shoplifter they are not a thief because they only stole a mars bar from the corner shop!

Narrow-minded or not, if someone asked me what straight means I know the answer I’d give, and it wouldn’t include same sex play, even if it only happens 3 Saturdays a year

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Sexuality and sexual identity isn’t a clear cut 3 box tick exercise… as many take comfort in believing. Those who adamantly insist on dictating what another person’s sexual identity must be, based on the most limited of information, only prove how little they understand and how narrow minded their perspective is.

Wise words polo, but telling that to a straight person that has absolutely no inclination to play with someone of the same sex will bring out the said narrow-mindedness, some people just try to over complicate things and try to change the whole definition of straight to suit themselves instead of keeping it simple.

It’s like telling a shoplifter they are not a thief because they only stole a mars bar from the corner shop!

Narrow-minded or not, if someone asked me what straight means I know the answer I’d give, and it wouldn’t include same sex play, even if it only happens 3 Saturdays a year "

True, there is an element of honesty that is required. The only problem is it's almost 'discouraged' by the profile police on the site.

It's the same with people condom spotting in pictures and cross referencing verifications and friends lists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with Clare a lot of women out on there profiles that they dont want bisexual men so men will naturally put straight in there profile as there is only a limited number if single ladies on here anyway so why limit your chances!there's also loads that only want bi guys,so should straight guys put bi on there profile ?"

Indeed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True, there is an element of honesty that is required. The only problem is it's almost 'discouraged' by the profile police on the site.

It's the same with people condom spotting in pictures and cross referencing verifications and friends lists. "

There wouldn’t be “profile police” if people were honest in the first place though, and yes I agree people shouldn’t bring it to the forums, but when there is serious contradictions on a profile you have to wonder why? Seems its just a case of people will just change their profile to suit the people they contact at the time which in itself shows a serious lack of respect to the people they contact.

There’s someone for everyone on here so just cannot fathom out why some people deliberately set out to deceive, and we all know some do exactly that, and most people will always notice the said inconsistencies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True, there is an element of honesty that is required. The only problem is it's almost 'discouraged' by the profile police on the site.

It's the same with people condom spotting in pictures and cross referencing verifications and friends lists.

There wouldn’t be “profile police” if people were honest in the first place though, and yes I agree people shouldn’t bring it to the forums, but when there is serious contradictions on a profile you have to wonder why? Seems its just a case of people will just change their profile to suit the people they contact at the time which in itself shows a serious lack of respect to the people they contact.

There’s someone for everyone on here so just cannot fathom out why some people deliberately set out to deceive, and we all know some do exactly that, and most people will always notice the said inconsistencies.

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*Nods in agreement*

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

There is just one thing missing from this thread so far... an answer to the friggin question

It would seem everyone is assuming that straights guys wanting to meet TV's also want to have sex with them... MAYBE they just want to meet them to ask... "oi, WTF are you wearing girls clothes?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is just one thing missing from this thread so far... an answer to the friggin question

It would seem everyone is assuming that straights guys wanting to meet TV's also want to have sex with them... MAYBE they just want to meet them to ask... "oi, WTF are you wearing girls clothes?" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is just one thing missing from this thread so far... an answer to the friggin question

It would seem everyone is assuming that straights guys wanting to meet TV's also want to have sex with them... MAYBE they just want to meet them to ask... "oi, WTF are you wearing girls clothes?" "

because i look good in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met bi-couples, the male half being bi doesnt bother me, I just make sure they know there wont be any bi-play from me, Ive been verified by men and TVs in the past...thats no indication that i've played with them?-usually its a meeting from a party or a social.And i wouldnt meet any couple no matter how hot I find the wife if they want me playing bi.Its really easy to jump to conclusions about whos met who, maybe people should read carefully before assuming.And of course I'd rather know if the male half is bi before i go...no point in repressing ur sexuality is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen loads of profiles here with 'straight' guys who will meet with a TV but not a man.

I have quizzed myself mentally as to what the difference is between sleeping with a bloke and sleeping with a bloke in a wig and make up and as much as I try, I'm sorry I just don't see it !

I am not having a dig at TV's here in any way, shape or form and I totally respect everyones life choices.

Neither do I wish to disrespect TS (pre or post op) and understand that it is more than a life choice.

I am more interested in hearing the thoughts of guys who are turned on by TV/TS but not by other men.

I would also like to say that this is not some form of social study just an attempt for me to better understand a situation that to me smacks of contradiction.

Have fun and play safe guys n girls x

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Its the $64,000 question i get asked a lot ,I get lots of mail from guys who say there str8t and no mention of tv/ts on there profiles , but want to sleep with me , plus you can look at it another way , i get turned down by gay guys because i look to feminine and not butch enough , so what the fu... go with the flow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some guys just prefer the smooth body and nice lingerie etc on a tv. There's a visal aspect to these things I think.

As for being gay, bi or straight etc. It's all just meaningless labels imo"

Yes sometimes the labels are meaningless! Especially when they have the wrong label!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is just one thing missing from this thread so far... an answer to the friggin question

It would seem everyone is assuming that straights guys wanting to meet TV's also want to have sex with them... MAYBE they just want to meet them to ask... "oi, WTF are you wearing girls clothes?"

because i look good in them "

You certainly do!

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