FabSwingers.com forum: Back in the swing of things......

By *s1981 OP Couple
over a year ago

halifax

We need to get back into swinging after a break/pregnancy and just general can't be bothered-ness!

Anybody been in the same situation and any suggestions?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't force it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we had a break for almost a year as we were saving every penny we had for our wedding but we're back now and looking to get back to it can't wait for our next club visit

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We need to get back into swinging after a break/pregnancy and just general can't be bothered-ness!

Anybody been in the same situation and any suggestions?!"

"Need"?

Set up a social, no pressure and see how you feel, it'll either ignite a spark or quench it

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By *s1981 OP Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Yeah we both want to so not trying to look for something that's not there.

We're not a fan of clubs so meets at home/other people's homes are what we usually do but can't seem to find the motivation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give a social event a whirl - just chat and get a feel of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are just too old

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yeah we both want to so not trying to look for something that's not there.

We're not a fan of clubs so meets at home/other people's homes are what we usually do but can't seem to find the motivation.

What's stopping the motivation? Tiredness, time factors, too busy?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"we are just too old

God help us then

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By *s1981 OP Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Laziness!! Just want it on a plate for us!

We have never done a social, just chatted online, Skype etc and just meet up. Never felt the need to 'socialise' but maybe we need to change our way of thinking.

Too old..... My arse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we are just too old

God help us then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Laziness!! Just want it on a plate for us!

We have never done a social, just chatted online, Skype etc and just meet up. Never felt the need to 'socialise' but maybe we need to change our way of thinking.

Too old..... My arse!!"

we mean out of your age range - never too old for this lark

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By *s1981 OP Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Post a topic in forum..... Cue the random friends requests!!!

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By *s1981 OP Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Didn't know we had set an age range for couples!! Sorry. Just taken it off .

Single guys on the other hand- under 30 only! Fab should allow to set different filters for this!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Post a topic in forum..... Cue the random friends requests!!!"

Well to be fair you are asking how to get back in to it, it's a way of showing interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't know we had set an age range for couples!! Sorry. Just taken it off .

Single guys on the other hand- under 30 only! Fab should allow to set different filters for this!"

thanks

sent msg now

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By *s1981 OP Couple
over a year ago

halifax

A message goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A message goes a long way

so does altering your filters for us

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By *s1981 OP Couple
over a year ago

halifax

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