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verifications, do they help single guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well,I've been on here a couple of years now and had some great meets.always respectful to what the lady/couple are looking for.but do people really read these,obviously some do.but if they did,they would realise who the time wasters are from the one's who aren't.often see status's with,let down again.well start reading before you see a profile which is to true to believe, reason being is it isn't true.sorry about this, but just a little rant and hopefully all the honest guys like myself will agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just seen someone who bullshitted me a fair bit get a veri saying he is genuine so no i don't think veris help except to prove you actually do meet.

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over a year ago

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I do read veris but don't let them influence me. All they do is prove that it is a real person.

You never see a bad verification. That doesn't mean there is no such thing as a bad meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my old profile,i was stood up by a verified man,so i don't really think they mean that much. Also spoke to someone who said his verification was from a woman he had never met,she just agreed to do it to help him

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my old profile,i was stood up by a verified man,so i don't really think they mean that much. Also spoke to someone who said his verification was from a woman he had never met,she just agreed to do it to help him

Miss"

Hope you saved his message and reported her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think veris are very important for single guys. Helps towards reassuring me that hes a genuine person and is who he says he is and looks like his pics. Can also pique my interest when he has veris which are very complimentary. On the other hand they could affect whether I meet him depending on the kind of people hes met. I had somebody messaging the other day and I was quite interested until I figured out that all of his veris were from people into bareback sex. Not for me at all but at least I could make an informed decision

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"On my old profile,i was stood up by a verified man,so i don't really think they mean that much. Also spoke to someone who said his verification was from a woman he had never met,she just agreed to do it to help him

Miss

Hope you saved his message and reported her!"

I did,it annoyed me because ahe put allsorts about him being genuine and give him a try etc

Miss

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Well,I've been on here a couple of years now and had some great meets.always respectful to what the lady/couple are looking for.but do people really read these,obviously some do.but if they did,they would realise who the time wasters are from the one's who aren't.often see status's with,let down again.well start reading before you see a profile which is to true to believe, reason being is it isn't true.sorry about this, but just a little rant and hopefully all the honest guys like myself will agree "

All a verification does is prove you have met somebody or some people.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

You have to try and read between the lines and make your mind up if they are what your looking for ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see verifications as proof that the person has met someone.

But it follows that they might not turn up to an arranged meet with you or mess you about in some other way.

So I _iew verifications as a guide, but not a garentee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cursed verifications!

No veri's - no meet profiles. Well if this was day one on this website, it wouldn't be fun, would it?

After a while, I've read if it's a old profile without a veri, they are time wasters, better to set up a new account.

So single men are completely up against it here, and also time is against them.

Use your common sense and we all should be okay

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think one or two do help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think veris are very important for single guys. Helps towards reassuring me that hes a genuine person and is who he says he is and looks like his pics. Can also pique my interest when he has veris which are very complimentary. On the other hand they could affect whether I meet him depending on the kind of people hes met. I had somebody messaging the other day and I was quite interested until I figured out that all of his veris were from people into bareback sex. Not for me at all but at least I could make an informed decision "

Useful for cross referencing...does he come across the same as on messaging. Are others opinions of him the same as yours? Do they have something interesting to say about him? Is it a cut and paste veri?

*the same applies to females

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Both of our let downs have been by verified men.

You cant really tell if someone is going to blow you out last minute. But wheb they go quiet then its really not a good sign.

Way we see it. We will now insist on a social first. If they are keen then they will do that.... Or arrange to meet at a club.

Its sonething i dont think anyone but the individual tinewaster will understand. If they have an option of getting laid or stay at home and wank well it's their choice.

From our perspective, we do a lot of prep work on our end and that's before boo gets dressed for the occasion....it can get infuriating but because of the idiots we become stricter with our rules, purely to save ourselves time and effort in the long run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do check verifications very carefully. We prefer to play with men who are experienced with the dynamics of MMF play, so we will look to see if they have met MF couples before. Some guys have only met single ladies, so we would question if they can give us what we want. We would also look to see if they are private meets or club meets. Again if they have had private meets with couples, then we are more likely to be in our comfort zone. If we read things like 'met for drinks' then I will know that they are not the 'meet in hotel room, fuck, go' type.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I think veris are very important for single guys. Helps towards reassuring me that hes a genuine person and is who he says he is and looks like his pics. Can also pique my interest when he has veris which are very complimentary. On the other hand they could affect whether I meet him depending on the kind of people hes met. I had somebody messaging the other day and I was quite interested until I figured out that all of his veris were from people into bareback sex. Not for me at all but at least I could make an informed decision

Useful for cross referencing...does he come across the same as on messaging. Are others opinions of him the same as yours? Do they have something interesting to say about him? Is it a cut and paste veri?

*the same applies to females"

I agree.

The consistency of observed characteristics across various verifications can be a useful guide...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

veris prove you exist (mostly) nothing more or less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"veris prove you exist (mostly) nothing more or less"

I disagree..if you read most of mine you will see a pattern forming...but that is how I use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave a verification for people who I have met on a social basis for the first time.

I don't leave further veris with all of the details for the world and his brother to get excited about if I meet again in the future.

When I have met people and been honest about not arranging another meet they have not left a veri for me.

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


"Well,I've been on here a couple of years now and had some great meets.always respectful to what the lady/couple are looking for.but do people really read these,obviously some do.but if they did,they would realise who the time wasters are from the one's who aren't.often see status's with,let down again.well start reading before you see a profile which is to true to believe, reason being is it isn't true.sorry about this, but just a little rant and hopefully all the honest guys like myself will agree "

Being verified to proves they are who they say they are but everyone only puts up good verifications, no one will choose to put a bad one up saying ’this person is nothing like the picture, crap in bed, couldnt satisfy me/us or this person stood us up’ if verifications didnt have to be approved by members they would actually mean more as more truth would be there, but would most prob cause alot of hassle also so saying someone is true and genuine to a particular is literally just that.

xx

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Well,I've been on here a couple of years now and had some great meets.always respectful to what the lady/couple are looking for.but do people really read these,obviously some do.but if they did,they would realise who the time wasters are from the one's who aren't.often see status's with,let down again.well start reading before you see a profile which is to true to believe, reason being is it isn't true.sorry about this, but just a little rant and hopefully all the honest guys like myself will agree

Being verified to proves they are who they say they are but everyone only puts up good verifications, no one will choose to put a bad one up saying ’this person is nothing like the picture, crap in bed, couldnt satisfy me/us or this person stood us up’ if verifications didnt have to be approved by members they would actually mean more as more truth would be there, but would most prob cause alot of hassle also so saying someone is true and genuine to a particular is literally just that.

xx"

That is why we read between the lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think admin would add a 'no show' option to verifications? Mind, I feel the less mature people would misuse it. Nothing's ever idiot proof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's enough single guys who met us as their first meet , got our veri and went on to have an absolute ball on here .

So yes they are

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